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By *use4me OP   Man
over a year ago

bury st edmunds

Ok its my presumptions by present and past lovers that generally women like it hard and fast. For me, hard and fast loses a lot of sensation, yes I can still cum, but it lacks the intensity and I definitely feel I am doing it for the women's pleasure over my own. What feels nicest for me is quite slow deep thrusts. Are us men conceding some of our own pleasure to make sure women get that hard and fast pleasure they seem to prefer? Maybe its just me re slow sensation is more intense, but interested to know others perspective on this both women and men what do you prefer and what feels nicest. thanks.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Do they? News to me. I guess I’m not like other women

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's possible to do both depending on the mood. There's no hard and fast rule

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By *use4me OP   Man
over a year ago

bury st edmunds

no hard or fast rule...love it...lol! Fast for me is more giving than receiving, which i'm fine with of course, but if i want to be selfish then its slow!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I do what the lady enjoys the most and gives her orgasms. Once she’s fully satisfied then I will cum

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"I do what the lady enjoys the most and gives her orgasms. Once she’s fully satisfied then I will cum"

Pretty much this

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

When I was younger I enjoyed hard and fast..Now ? Nice and slow and sensual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Variation is best. But I do like men to go reasonably fast and as hard as they're able xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do what the lady enjoys the most and gives her orgasms. Once she’s fully satisfied then I will cum"

How noble of you

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By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

For me it very much depends on the situation. Both are good

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"For me it very much depends on the situation. Both are good "

Totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it not depend on the mood, moment ?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Does it not depend on the mood, moment ? "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies I have known all preferred the slow and sensual option. That's not to say some frenzied sex doesn't have it's place if the moment is right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how long I can last

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It is a bit of both, the mood, the relationship with the other person all are part of how we have sex.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Variety is the spice of life and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it all as and when suits the person, mood etc

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Horses for courses, as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to pop my cork quickly and move onto the snacks and pillow talk. I know my strengths.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

For me it depends on the situation and what the lady’s needs are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it Start slow passionate with kissing sensual as builds Geting harder and faster till it’s full on rough pounding and spanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Horses for courses, as they say "

I'm definitely looking for a stable relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya I find women want to get it over and done with me as soon as possible too OP

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By *lle82Woman
over a year ago

Ashford


"I like to pop my cork quickly and move onto the snacks and pillow talk. I know my strengths. "

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I enjoy variety.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Depending on the chemistry between both parties for me it's pure lust and passion with a build up of intensely pleasure

If ya know ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to pop my cork quickly and move onto the snacks and pillow talk. I know my strengths. "

What a stud you are Mr Blooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's porn that's made us think hard and fast is how you have sex. I definitely enjoy a mix of both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have both types each session for at least 4 hours before any snack or drink breaks take place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to pop my cork quickly and move onto the snacks and pillow talk. I know my strengths.

What a stud you are Mr Blooms "

Heh, it'll be the best four minutes sex of your life !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either neither both, somewhere in between?

Not a sprint or a marathon, maybe the 800 metres? Slow start and gradually build to a heart pounding surge on the last lap

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

All depends on the moment and what feels right, for both of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to pop my cork quickly and move onto the snacks and pillow talk. I know my strengths.

What a stud you are Mr Blooms

Heh, it'll be the best four minutes sex of your life ! "

Won't even have to break a sweat either.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it not depend on the mood, moment ? "

Definitely

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It's not really an either or question.

Depends on my/their/our mood

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea


"Ok its my presumptions by present and past lovers that generally women like it hard and fast. For me, hard and fast loses a lot of sensation, yes I can still cum, but it lacks the intensity and I definitely feel I am doing it for the women's pleasure over my own. What feels nicest for me is quite slow deep thrusts. Are us men conceding some of our own pleasure to make sure women get that hard and fast pleasure they seem to prefer? Maybe its just me re slow sensation is more intense, but interested to know others perspective on this both women and men what do you prefer and what feels nicest. thanks."

I tend to agree with you OP but I have to admit that there have been three occasions that what I liked wasn't exactly what they liked. One was actually a verification, but he did say that I was too gentle with her, and if we were to play again I would need to be a lot rougher with her. Another lady who wanted to date long term said to me that I would never make a dom as I am too nice a guy, but she could go and scratch that itch when needed. The third was a hotel meet that was a hard and fast fuck and go. As I suggested a slow sensual experience, the lady told me that what I like is not what everyone likes. As I left so another guy came up the corridor and knocked the door. Seems like it was a target driven timed call. So with those experiences in mind, I try to get a feel for what different people like before we play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Either neither both, somewhere in between?

Not a sprint or a marathon, maybe the 800 metres? Slow start and gradually build to a heart pounding surge on the last lap"

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Surely you don't just start hard and fast though?

I like variety, but much prefer slow and sensual these days.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Depends what mood I’m in ..

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I like both x

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