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Are Kinky Men frowned upon?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All

I’m fairly new to Fabs. I am a kinky guy and I wanted to get thoughts from experienced members and females regarding men with kinky interests.

Love to hear your thoughts, good / bad/ indifferent are welcomed.

Kinky interests include; spanking, restraints, hair pulling , dirty talk, nipple toys, foot/ pussy/arse worshipping.

Thanks

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I wouldn't consider those interests particularly kinky myself.

I've never seen any indication that men being kinky is frowned upon. Certainly not on Fab.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

They're only frowned on if it's their kink

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Suddenly I'm kinky, just like that

I thought I was normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're only frowned on if it's their kink"

Indeed! We frown on our sub all the time, especially when it breaks our ever changing and arbitrary rules!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Suddenly I'm kinky, just like that

I thought I was normal "

Normal seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We shouldn't be frowning upon anyone's kinks on here.

You like what you like, as long as its not illegal, it's all good!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Suddenly I'm kinky, just like that

I thought I was normal

Normal seriously "

Shhhhhhh! Don't give my secrets away you you you.......normal person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All

I’m fairly new to Fabs. I am a kinky guy and I wanted to get thoughts from experienced members and females regarding men with kinky interests.

Love to hear your thoughts, good / bad/ indifferent are welcomed.

Kinky interests include; spanking, restraints, hair pulling , dirty talk, nipple toys, foot/ pussy/arse worshipping.

Welcome to fab fellow londoner..

I find from my experience when a woman fanceys you rotten and see's you or any man she views as a sexual attraction and is turned on. Then most things are go go go. What ever her type style, taste/taste,'s maybe.

When any woman does not have any urges for a Man/men then all is purvey,distastefull and very creepy! .

I would say stimulate the mind/minds and the body mostly follows.

We men are very Visualy wired...

Thanks "

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Suddenly I'm kinky, just like that

I thought I was normal

Normal seriously

Shhhhhhh! Don't give my secrets away you you you.......normal person "

I think that is possibly the biggest insult I've ever had Sophie!!!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

not frowning here

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Suddenly I'm kinky, just like that

I thought I was normal

Normal seriously

Shhhhhhh! Don't give my secrets away you you you.......normal person

I think that is possibly the biggest insult I've ever had Sophie!!! "

I could probably do better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All

I’m fairly new to Fabs. I am a kinky guy and I wanted to get thoughts from experienced members and females regarding men with kinky interests.

Love to hear your thoughts, good / bad/ indifferent are welcomed.

Kinky interests include; spanking, restraints, hair pulling , dirty talk, nipple toys, foot/ pussy/arse worshipping.

Thanks "

I've encountered some kink shaming and chatted to others who have. But also lots of people who are very kink positive! You could always mention your likes without labelling them kinky! Personally I'd only count the first two as kinky and plenty of people like both who are super vanilla!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hands on throats, face slapping both ways, tied up flogged, pleasured, flogged

Belt round the subs neck, walk her round on all fours, spanking as we move

Thrown in the bath andpissed on, then kissed so i can taste it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some kinks certainly are shamed on here, even though they shouldn’t be, but I’m not sure your kinks would be shamed op. If they are, then so what? It says everything about the person shaming, and nothing about you.

You do you, and enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a kinky male and I have never been shamed on here.

I talk freely about my kinks and likes and dislikes with people in here and sometimes it's not their thing and that's OK.

If you are pushy and sending lots of messages to vanilla couples then you might find people who will feel angry that you have not read their profiles or that you might be the 10th subby or Dominant guy who has messaged them that day.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Suddenly I'm kinky, just like that

I thought I was normal "

Sounded like a normal Saturday night to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hands on throats, face slapping both ways, tied up flogged, pleasured, flogged

Belt round the subs neck, walk her round on all fours, spanking as we move

Thrown in the bath andpissed on, then kissed so i can taste it "

How does this advance the discussion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hands on throats, face slapping both ways, tied up flogged, pleasured, flogged

Belt round the subs neck, walk her round on all fours, spanking as we move

Thrown in the bath andpissed on, then kissed so i can taste it

How does this advance the discussion? "
It's an advertisement fantasy. A chance to say hey look at me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On the Fab list of interests, I noted the list, I’d consider kinky are.

Would anyone say there are other ‘kinks’ that should be added ?

Existing list —-

SM (sado masochist)

Watersports

Spanking

Role Play

Cuckolding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hands on throats, face slapping both ways, tied up flogged, pleasured, flogged

Belt round the subs neck, walk her round on all fours, spanking as we move

Thrown in the bath andpissed on, then kissed so i can taste it

How does this advance the discussion? It's an advertisement fantasy. A chance to say hey look at me "

I didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the Fab list of interests, I noted the list, I’d consider kinky are.

Would anyone say there are other ‘kinks’ that should be added ?

Existing list —-

SM (sado masochist)

Watersports

Spanking

Role Play

Cuckolding "

It depends on your perspective. Some would say fisting is kinky. I've come across guys who think anal is kinky. We all have a different normal.

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