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By *ature BBW Lover 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter

Wonder if it’s the same for a lot people in here , I’m on here everyday and usually for a few good hours , and always checking messages through the day , does it feel like you are addicted to it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. I come on here some days and I’m here for hours. Then constantly back and forth reading messages. I say to myself I’ll have a few days away but it doesn’t happen.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I'm only on here if I have the time. The real world comes before fab for me

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Totally addicted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Research finds that, people are addicted to awaiting for messages and texts and pings and email drops more so now than ever before with the speed of tech!

People used to work all day waiting to get home for an email to have dropped to their inbox. Hopeing it was a picture,words, or even a date and a meetup.

This whole world is addictive tbh.

Reality & fiction = we all decide if we want to play or be played

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely addictive 5 minutes on here quite easily turn into an hour or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in and out a lot... When i delete my account its usually for a couple of months

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I probably was a while ago. I was on way too much. Not so much anymore though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder if it’s the same for a lot people in here , I’m on here everyday and usually for a few good hours , and always checking messages through the day , does it feel like you are addicted to it ? "

I was very much so. But took a long break. We’ll see how I get on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a hundred days left after that it's thank you and goodnight Vienna

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Different types of addiction. Top 3

It is the instant hit - go hard on the forums hours and hours (days) for a while but get nowhere, eventually get bored, loose interest and drop out.

Popularity addiction this is where the passive/aggression addiction comes in everyone is s threat and you have to put them down at every opportunity believing it is the only way to maintain your popularity addiction.

Long term addicts who need to feel a need for belonging, or need for attention., need for constant validation.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs


"Different types of addiction. Top 3

It is the instant hit - go hard on the forums hours and hours (days) for a while but get nowhere, eventually get bored, loose interest and drop out.

Popularity addiction this is where the passive/aggression addiction comes in everyone is s threat and you have to put them down at every opportunity believing it is the only way to maintain your popularity addiction.

Long term addicts who need to feel a need for belonging, or need for attention., need for constant validation.

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I might be long term think I need therapy...lol. Any shrinks on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think it's fab, it's the penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think it's fab, it's the penis "

ha ha

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Don't think it's fab, it's the penis "

I’d like to talk to you about your addiction…

It varies. I can spend ages here some days or keep logging in and out. Other days I get fed up with it in seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Think I am to be honest and not always in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I've deleted it many times for relationships outside of swinging always end up back

Would love to be with a swinger but guys just think I'm a slut

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Different types of addiction. Top 3

It is the instant hit - go hard on the forums hours and hours (days) for a while but get nowhere, eventually get bored, loose interest and drop out.

Popularity addiction this is where the passive/aggression addiction comes in everyone is s threat and you have to put them down at every opportunity believing it is the only way to maintain your popularity addiction.

Long term addicts who need to feel a need for belonging, or need for attention., need for constant validation.

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I disagree with all of that. So i'm going to read it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have an addictive personality then yes.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's a theory ..... I still disagree with all of it.

To me those are types of usage....

Styles if you like.....

Demonstrable behaviours but not addiction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely possible to get addicted.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Definitely possible to get addicted. "

I agree. It's a behaviour. Once you keep indulging in that behaviour to the detriment of other aspects of your life then it is an addiction.

Detriment can be :-

not performing daily tasks,

not socialising,

staying up late,

spending too long seated,

soaking in the toxic conversations on here and becoming immersed in them.

Little exercise

Eating badly

Not paying attention to your bills , work etc....

There's probably more.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Probably the most important one I missed out is becoming emotionally attached in some way.

Being hurt by 'ethereal' people

Worrying about their life instead of yours. etc etc

It's damaging ...... very damaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can spend ages in the forums as I love the banter and diversity of topics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wonder if it’s the same for a lot people in here , I’m on here everyday and usually for a few good hours , and always checking messages through the day , does it feel like you are addicted to it ? "

I paid up for I don't know how many months. So far only had 1 solid contact. Not finding it so friendly to use. Guess I will just hang around and experience an adult site then happily and quietly vanish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, waste far too much time on here...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Yes, waste far too much time on here... "

It's not a waste if you benefit from it Mia. xx

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