FabSwingers.com forum: Why are some people such dicks???

By *andysbackbitches OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Sunny old lemner

*rant warning, people=arseholes"

Why is it that some men (as so far it only seems to be men this applies to, also, usually the ones who's profile state them as nice, respectful, and usually straight! But that's another rant...) cannot handle rejection on here. One such guy, now reported and blocked, had been pestering for a while, and I had replied and held conversation but Said from the off he wasn't my type. This "real gentleman" has taken it upon himself following the third No to report me, not to fab, but has stalked and found out employment details and contacted one of my higher ups at work. As this lifestyle does pose certain ethical issues in my line of work as far as clients could see me on here which would lead to issues.

However, I am an out transgender human being who is not ashamed of liking sex. Have taken some advice and now set face pics to friends only.

Sorry for the ramble/rant, just really got my back up and need to vent

Love you all!

Xxx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"*rant warning, people=arseholes"

However, I am an out transgender human being who is not ashamed of liking sex. Have taken some advice and now set face pics to friends only.

Sorry for the ramble/rant, just really got my back up and need to vent

Love you all!

Xxx"

Only happened to me once, a guy stalking me on here. But it leaves a lasting concern, so I understand your rant and needing to vent.

Stay strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody disgraceful, hope you're OK x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

That's horrendous! Sorry this happened to u x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why people are like this. I get rejected all the time but I just move on. Not bloody hard to understand someone doesn't like you. Just grow up and take it like a normal person. Just thought I'd join in your rant which is totally justified, hooe you don't mind

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Thats horrible, can you not report him to the police? surely its not legal staking ppl.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

How vile, hope you're ok op and it hasn't caused any problems at work for you.

Just wow, to be so unable to take rejection that you resort to this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope# not hooe lol

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

What a horrible person, hope you're ok

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By *andysbackbitches OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Sunny old lemner

I'm all good, thankfully my supervisor has a sense of humour..

As she said, I'm doing nothing wrong, but the possibilities are there to cause real ethical problems, so to just be a bit more discreet.

Really don't understand quite why he went quite so mental over it, I never once agreed to meet or anything, we were actually having a refreshingly "normal" conversation til that point.

Not going to take it any further though, just feels like it would cause more drama and none of us are here for drama!

Thank you for the supportive comments, really appreciate being able to rant and feel a bit heard xxx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

That’s terrible. Did you report them on here? People have been banned for doing that before. Even if it is outside of fab x

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Sometimes I'm ashamed of being a male, there seems to be a fair few that prey on women. It should not happen it gets my blood boiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is horrific and as a person who has been through stalking, my every sympathy goes out to you. It is horrific and thank god your employer was understanding. My advise, from experience, would be to log it with the police even if you aren’t going to take it further. Doing this really helped me.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

How has he found out your personal details about you

How would he know where you worked

What's going on

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

That's disgraceful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs op sorry you had to go though this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had something similar happen to me once, I learned very quickly not to share anything that could identify me in any way. It was really upsetting and scary. Some people are shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely log it with the police and I thought some law was in place regarding people downloading images of others without permission but I could be completely wrong either way take in further !

I had some issues with an ex of mine and it got pretty serious, I should of reported her long before I did but felt like maybe I was over reacting and being honest maybe embarrassed like I should just be able to deal with it, only when I got the police involved and things in place did it stop. I definitely report him.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Hugs op sorry you had to go though this"

Xxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Just scares me people know where I'm working sounds creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just scares me people know where I'm working sounds creepy "

Unless photos are shared with face that can be searched or personal details divulged then chances are quite slim. But it is a lesson for us all.

Hope you’re ok OP - you seem yo be ‘taking it in your stride’

. That is such a shitty thing to do. Should be punishable by jail!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about this. This is the kind of ridiculous behaviour I keep going on about with people. About other guys who don't get a reply back so they take it upon themselves to get nasty to them. Message really rude and abusive messages and threats sometimes because they didn't reply back to them. It's ridiculous and so childish and justs ruins it for all the other guys on here who do have patience and respect for women. Who do want to have a good time with no problems at all, group fun, swinging couples, or even discrete fun, which tries really hard to make that happen. But arsoles on here just don't get the reason for not getting any replies back is because there are so many men on here, which are bombarding messages to women all day long non stop, so they don't get chance to go through them all and read them lol men get told this all the time so why is it still happening? I mean why do it on here, they wouldn't go up to a woman and talk to them like that in a pub or a club or somewhere would they!! So why do it on here? Because they are weak little cowardly men who are too desperate to behave in a respectable manner, and try and go for a dirty one liner to get their end away. It's disgusting. They should be monitored straight away and then banned. That's my opinion!

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Jesus wept, how could someone be so insecure as to attempt to destroy someone cos they don't wanna get into bed with em?!

Not surprised you wanted to rant/vent!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Not surprised unfortunately. There are some right wronguns out there. Ruin it for everyone else. Sorry to hear about this, that's one of my fears on here are it could definitely impact my job too.

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