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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok here goes, hoping for some tips.

My partners ultimate fantasy is to watch me be fucked by a girl with a strap on and for him to obviously join in, so dp, spitroast etc, he’s not fussed about playing with the girl himself just wants to see me getting lots of attention. Now my question is where the fook do I start looking I’ve no idea as you can tell I’m very new to this lol x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd suggest either a club or starting with your profile and making it clear. You're either recently single or have a partner, not both.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you share his fantasy?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I'd suggest either a club or starting with your profile and making it clear. You're either recently single or have a partner, not both."

Aside from the above, you list yourself as straight, which would likely put some off.

You may be better off looking for a professional if its just a bucket list thing, otherwise attending a club as a couple would allow you to meet and chat with people that may be interested in the same things.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I'd suggest either a club or starting with your profile and making it clear. You're either recently single or have a partner, not both."

This, it reads v confusing

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I'd suggest either a club or starting with your profile and making it clear. You're either recently single or have a partner, not both."

Sorry but the profile would stop us so maybe head to club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah sorry my profile is all over the place I do need to sit and change it. I was married ended that about a year ago now with someone else. I’m down as straight as never really thought about trying women not something I’d never do but who knows I guess. I’ll sit and change the profile so I make more sense on there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also I should really make my profile a couples one as my partner goes on here too. Is it something I can just change this one to or do I have to set up a complete new one?

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"Ok here goes, hoping for some tips.

My partners ultimate fantasy is to watch me be fucked by a girl with a strap on and for him to obviously join in, so dp, spitroast etc, he’s not fussed about playing with the girl himself just wants to see me getting lots of attention. Now my question is where the fook do I start looking I’ve no idea as you can tell I’m very new to this lol x"

How about what you want?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you share his fantasy?"

I’m always open to try new things tbh x

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Also I should really make my profile a couples one as my partner goes on here too. Is it something I can just change this one to or do I have to set up a complete new one?"

You have no verifications to lose by deleting this profile, might be worth setting up a new one, or mail admin to ask if they will permit a change to couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also I should really make my profile a couples one as my partner goes on here too. Is it something I can just change this one to or do I have to set up a complete new one?

You have no verifications to lose by deleting this profile, might be worth setting up a new one, or mail admin to ask if they will permit a change to couples."

Yeah true actually might just be easier to start from scratch x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

It's already a couple's profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's already a couple's profile"

Oh yeah lol I didn’t set it up as a couples though. Obviously my partners been in and changed it lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's already a couple's profile

Oh yeah lol I didn’t set it up as a couples though. Obviously my partners been in and changed it lol"

You can't change your own status admin will have done it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so I’ve changed my profile, I think it’s a bit less confusing now. Feel free to have a look and tell me what you think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I’ve changed my profile, I think it’s a bit less confusing now. Feel free to have a look and tell me what you think x"
more photo’s of you and your hubby may well help

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Ok so I’ve changed my profile, I think it’s a bit less confusing now. Feel free to have a look and tell me what you think x"

That looks better and stops the confusion.

Get rid of the disclaimer crap at the end though. It's totally pointless and makes your profile look really long which will put some people off reading it.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" I’m down as straight as never really thought about trying women not something I’d never do but who knows I guess. "

Reading this might put off women from wanting to fuck you with a strap-on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman asked you to fuck her with a strap on and maybe get no other satisfaction from the interaction how would you feel about it?

We need to be careful about bringing fantasies to life because we obviously only look at it from our perspective.

Others have asked how you feel about the fantasy but you really need to talk to your partner about it. Do you want threesomes? What will the other person get from the interaction?

Being the guest into a couples relationship can be intimidating. No one wants to be a tool in others fantasies. You want to be an equal participatant

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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My partners ultimate fantasy is to watch me be fucked by a girl with a strap on and for him to obviously join in, so dp, spitroast etc, he’s not fussed about playing with the girl himself just wants to see me getting lots of attention. "

So he will "obviously" play with you but not the other woman. I think you will find it hard finding a woman who is willing to be not treated equally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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My partners ultimate fantasy is to watch me be fucked by a girl with a strap on and for him to obviously join in, so dp, spitroast etc, he’s not fussed about playing with the girl himself just wants to see me getting lots of attention.

So he will "obviously" play with you but not the other woman. I think you will find it hard finding a woman who is willing to be not treated equally"

Hmmm yeah that sounds bad don’t it. He’d be more than willing to play with another girl I’m just not sure how much I could play with another girl. But I guess who knows until you’re in that situation I suppose

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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I’m just not sure how much I could play with another girl. But I guess who knows until you’re in that situation I suppose "

Do you really want a woman to fuck you with a strap on or are you just going along with his fantasy ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I’m just not sure how much I could play with another girl. But I guess who knows until you’re in that situation I suppose

Do you really want a woman to fuck you with a strap on or are you just going along with his fantasy ? "

Yeah I’m quite up for it tbh and I’d love to make it a reality for him. Whether it ever happens who knows.

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