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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?

I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I’ve not heard the term bedroom bully before. I’m not sure I’m a fan as bully can imply a loss of control.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It doesn't exactly sound positive...

I imagine the same types describe themselves as Doms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it might be someone who nicks all the duvet but I'm probably way out.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I've never heard of Bully as a term. "Bull" is a term people use in connection with cuckold scenarios. Maybe these guys are getting confused with that??

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Bedroom Bully is a disturbingly unpleasant term, in my opinion, and conveys an image of coercive control, which is now illegal in Northern Ireland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never heard anyone refer to themselves as a bully on here before but I'd avoid anyone that used the term personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would avoid anyone using that word. Bullying is not nice, and conveys a very different image to dominance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not heard that term before but if I came across someone who has that in their profile I would stay clear of them.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I’ve seen the term used and have stayed well clear of anyone using it.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Not heard that term before and just seems to conjure up thoughts of someone doing something against their will

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?

I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal? "

What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it might be someone who nicks all the duvet but I'm probably way out."

No thats me, duvet thief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t image that would be attractive to many women on here. They want reassurance they’ll be safe with the stranger they’re meeting, not bullied, seems the wrong choice of words to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Surprised to see so many people that have never come across it on here. I tend to notice it a lot more on younger guys' profiles, so it might be the demographics we're looking at?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?

I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?

What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…"

The word makes me uncomfortable.

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?

I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?

What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…

The word makes me uncomfortable. "

if you could give some examples of what you would famcy in a controlled emvirnoment (safe for you)? For the sake of the discussion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?

I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?

What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…

The word makes me uncomfortable.

if you could give some examples of what you would famcy in a controlled emvirnoment (safe for you)? For the sake of the discussion."

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I've ever heard that term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?

I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?

What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…

The word makes me uncomfortable.

if you could give some examples of what you would famcy in a controlled emvirnoment (safe for you)? For the sake of the discussion."

It’s not what you do, it’s the way it’s done. I can be thrown around, slapped, ch*k*d, humiliated, but it’s consensual and I know he always has my best interest foremost in his mind.

This is not what comes to mind with the term bully.

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?

I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?

What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…

The word makes me uncomfortable.

if you could give some examples of what you would famcy in a controlled emvirnoment (safe for you)? For the sake of the discussion.

It’s not what you do, it’s the way it’s done. I can be thrown around, slapped, ch*k*d, humiliated, but it’s consensual and I know he always has my best interest foremost in his mind.

This is not what comes to mind with the term bully."

I see… With the wrong person, such a situation can turn unpleasant I am afraid…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone describe themselves as a "bully"? If so, why?

I've seen it quite a lot on here and it always makes me feel really intimidated. I like it a bit rougher than the next person, but that word makes me feel uneasy for some reason. From anyone who likes it - what's the appeal?

What rough things do you like but at the same time make you feel uneasy? I am just trying to understand…

The word makes me uncomfortable.

if you could give some examples of what you would famcy in a controlled emvirnoment (safe for you)? For the sake of the discussion.

It’s not what you do, it’s the way it’s done. I can be thrown around, slapped, ch*k*d, humiliated, but it’s consensual and I know he always has my best interest foremost in his mind.

This is not what comes to mind with the term bully.

I see… With the wrong person, such a situation can turn unpleasant I am afraid…"

Which is why those with the term bully, are to be avoided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen the term being sed on the forums last year during the first lockdown

Guy got tore a new one

Personal I wouldn’t want a bully

Yes domanite me but I also want to feel in control off the situation

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

I can't say that it sounds like someone who would endear themselves to me, Urban Dictionary has this definition of it:

"Bedroom Bully

A man who controls and dominates the bedroom, he can be aggressive and forceful during sexual activity! Serve you pain and pleasure while making you wet enjoying the pleasure of pleasuring. He has far and few limits with the attitude of “just do what daddy say”!"

Sounds pretty horrific.

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Bedroom%20Bully

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Sounds like a nightmare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shabba ranks. Had a tune "Bedroom Bully "

Rough and ready hard n slow.

Some words used, sound harsher than the Actual actions and practise..

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I've not come across it but bully to me comes across as without consent. As a bully doesn't ask before they bully their victim. I would be uncomfortable with someone who would use this term.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth


"I've not come across it but bully to me comes across as without consent. As a bully doesn't ask before they bully their victim. I would be uncomfortable with someone who would use this term."

As I understand it, it means exactly that: in all honesty, it sounds like someone who'd end up with a Police report.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Maybe Shabba Ranks has joined Fab his daddy was a bedroom bully

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Maybe Shabba Ranks has joined Fab his daddy was a bedroom bully "

Yes! Shabba! God that gave me some memories haha

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Maybe Shabba Ranks has joined Fab his daddy was a bedroom bully

Yes! Shabba! God that gave me some memories haha "
That's what came to mind when I saw the thread

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Maybe Shabba Ranks has joined Fab his daddy was a bedroom bully

Yes! Shabba! God that gave me some memories haha That's what came to mind when I saw the thread "

Fair play! The 1 for me that comes to mind is of course Mr Loverman

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