FabSwingers.com forum: How long have you been single

By *eathcock69 OP Man
over a year ago

Navan

Hey guys just want to know to all the single people in here how long are you single? I'm coming up to my 8th year being single and tbh it's hard to be possitive and confident about my looks and personality from time to time but I get by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 and a half long bloody years!

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

8 or 9 years. I lost count now to be honest

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

About nine years

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

Since May 2019..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months

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By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Almost 3 years

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Until more recently it was 15 years

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Too long to remember.

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Almost 2 years for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was single for 4 years before the relationship I am in now.

NBVN x

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By *oreveryoungkWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

10 years now

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By *lle82Woman
over a year ago

Ashford

About two and a half years - I enjoy it for lots of reasons and have loads of fun but other times it can be a bit lonely. Swings (sexy ones

) and roundabouts. Lx

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"About two and a half years - I enjoy it for lots of reasons and have loads of fun but other times it can be a bit lonely. Swings (sexy ones

) and roundabouts. Lx"

Totally agree with this comment, it's nice to do what you want and when lol but it can be lonely at times as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years for me, tried dating and it doesn't work. Case in point recently starting seeing someone and the first time she stayed over ( Monday just gone ) she had me up until 4am arguing. Had fab playmates stay over and no such problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming up on 3 yrs, should have done it years ago

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Officially just over 2 years.

Mentally and physically, over 5 years.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"5 years for me, tried dating and it doesn't work. Case in point recently starting seeing someone and the first time she stayed over ( Monday just gone ) she had me up until 4am arguing. Had fab playmates stay over and no such problems.

Why was she arguing at 4am. Did you hog the duvet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 months. I still miss him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t had a long term/serious relationship for 20 years. I’ve got the the point now where I’m too set in my ways and used to being on my own, to let anyone else in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 5 years. I intend to stay this way, it’s the best!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 11 years for me

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

3 small relationships this year, but only lasting like 1-2 months each so dubno if they count

If not. Then March 2019

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

I’ve not had a relationship and been single 19 years now

Since my fiancée cheated on me and got pregnant by him then took me for everything!!

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

About 20 months

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

5 and a half years. I am quite content being single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 3 years like others have said get lonely at times would be nice to have someone to cuddle up to, weekends away etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Three years around now I caught him out on his lie, be three officially at the beginning of January

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Wowzers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just coming up for two years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Three years around now I caught him out on his lie, be three officially at the beginning of January"

that's crap, I'm sorry

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Three years around now I caught him out on his lie, be three officially at the beginning of January

that's crap, I'm sorry"

Oh I'm so over him... Should have left him long before I did

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

11 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14mths or so…..should of been at least 5yrs really but better late than never.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

About 3 years and really don’t want another conventional relationship. Single life is great, can see who I want when I want and also get quality ME time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 2 marvellous years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Three years around now I caught him out on his lie, be three officially at the beginning of January

that's crap, I'm sorry

Oh I'm so over him... Should have left him long before I did "

Not a great way to end things though. I wish I had left my LTR about a decade before I did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Advaita there is only eternal oneness x

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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago

Kent

4.5 years now. My one and only proper relationship!

Was recently dating someone for 6/7 month's. Kept getting close, then told hmmm, maybe Just friends, repeated a few times. Was quite draining and upsetting really!

I'm not cut out for relationships it seems, ill keep it simple now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

16 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 and a half years

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

5 years and very happy. I'm still very good friends with my ex wife and we help each other out if we can.

Although this situation makes it easy for me I can't see me ever having another relationship.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Six years and I love it.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

8.5 years and, never thought I'd say this but I'm totally over it now would love to find someone - hey ho

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

4 years for me but I have had a FWB for about 3 of those, don't know if that makes a difference to me being classed as single.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 months next month. Some of it's been difficult but getting a bit better x

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Sixteen years, and staying that way, I don't think that I want to go back to having to get up in the of the night and head for the family bathroom to let go a rip, rap roarer and arsehole tearer. It's bad enough doing that when I have someone sleeping over without making it habit of a lifetime.

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

3 years now almost. I would like to date, but I don't want anything serious right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over 2 years now

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford

Rocking on a year

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By *pectressWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Almost two and a half years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly 5 peaceful and happy years. And many fab meets hehe more please! Xx

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

With the exception of a period of 2 years to 1992, when going out with and subsequently engaged to a lady (we broke up before our wedding), I've been Single all my life. I'm 66 now!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Well over nineteen years now. It seems to work okay for me.

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By *ewforestguyMan
over a year ago

England

It'll be 3 years on Sunday.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I am on by choice 6 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year and plan on staying that way.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Fucking ages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over 4 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why was she arguing at 4am. Did you hog the duvet?"

Not at all, it was more that after 4 dates, this being the 4th I didn't agree that we were in a " relationship " just yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since 2013, most of the time it’s ok, but sitting watching tv alone not so good, especially when you find yourself talking to the tv

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I m into my 6th year it can be both lonely and fun

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

8months

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Two weeks and four days

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

The last time I had a proper bf was 2008.

Just dated and had fwb since then. And a period of celibacy for about 3 years.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

9 years. I had bambino’s to raise.

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

"8 and a half long bloody years!

Ditto i think

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By *miableRogueMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Almost 4 years

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By *iltopbearMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Six years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 an a half years

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
over a year ago

watford

7 years for me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 years and happy. Would never go back to a ‘conventional’ relationship or live with someone again.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

17 years x

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

"17 years x"

Wow that is a long time to live on your own I hope you have had some FWB along the way.

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

6 years since left the wife... though wish I'd done so sooner rather than trying to do the right thing

Dabbled since but struggled and only now starting to come out of my self and be me... but its hard

And long way to go before finding my self confidence and esteem.

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By *r.MorningstarMan
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray

3 years, dating these days is like sticking your head I an aquarium, will it be a cute turtle or a shark biting your head off

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Almost a year n half.

Absolutely no desire to have another relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 4 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long I have forgotten what a nightmare my last relationship was.....never happening again!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two weeks and four days

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Why was she arguing at 4am. Did you hog the duvet?

Not at all, it was more that after 4 dates, this being the 4th I didn't agree that we were in a " relationship " just yet

Ah well that’s a stupid time for her to have that discussion and I’d have told her to sleep on the sofa. Best off out of that one by the sounds of it.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Not long enough given the spiteful messages the ex left this week ...some only show their true colours at the end of things I guess, but ...why do you only remember the block option when it's too late

Doh!

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

13 years.

"Old maid" territory, now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only just over 2 years, but already I’m considering giving up on the dating scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven’t had a long term/serious relationship for 20 years. I’ve got the the point now where I’m too set in my ways and used to being on my own, to let anyone else in.

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snap x

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

"8 and a half long bloody years!

How? People are missing out

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Four years now, one or two dates with a couple of ladies but nothing special.

Got another date set up for next weekend

However I can’t see myself settling down with anyone now, too set in my ways.

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By *lla4everTV/TS
over a year ago

Overseas

25 x

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By *ipmannMan
over a year ago

Cahir

8 years. Wife walked away with a 'friend' of ours leaving 3 children behind. They live with me happy out they are. Find myself too old for dating..

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"7 years and happy. Would never go back to a ‘conventional’ relationship or live with someone again."

This is how I feel as well right now

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

15 years...Thanks for reminding me! Lol

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Only a few months for me... But I do miss the togetherness, and it would be the icing if I met someone on here, that had similar tastes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 years on Sunday.

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By *aughtyladyYummymanCouple
over a year ago

In a place not far from Exeter

Until a few years ago it was 12yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming up for two years. It's only the last couple of months that it's bothered me, mostly I'm pretty contented on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally have lost count. I did take a vow of celibacy which lasted for 5years (through choice I must add) and although I learnt a great deal about myself in the process, it suddenly dawned on me that I was only depriving myself and others.

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By *irebird567Woman
over a year ago

near by

Roughly 6 years now, god that's a depressing thought

agree it gets lonely but the independence that comes with it is worth it I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Since all this were fields lad

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

over 5 years now

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Well, I haven't even had a first date in about seven years.

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