FabSwingers.com forum: What constitutes a good message?

By *teve48uk OP Man
over a year ago

Ware

So with 1001 profiles of all shapes and sizes, what, in your opinions, are good opening messages?

Do you expect

Quick intro, who I am and where etc

War and peace and go into detail

Short and sweet with what I will do to you! Lol

Or something else?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The main thing is to actually have something to say. It's most likely to be bouncing off something from a forum post or from our profile. We only want to meet people we can have a conversation with so somebody needs to show they have something to talk about in an opening message. Too many don't appear to have anything to say. "Hi" or things like that don't show any conversation skills.

Also, a nice simple one, say hello and use our names. It seems so obvious to me but hardly anybody starts with a greeting or our names. I feel that if somebody decides to tell us they want to have sex with us, it's not too much to start with "Hello, Luke and Hannah".

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

One that makes me consider replying

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

Hi (my name) I like your profile, (mention something in the profile). If you take a quick look at mine and fancy chatting please message me back. (Their name)

Short simple and sweet

I hate the messages where men talk about themselves like it’s an advert e.g.

‘hi I’m x tall, huge rock, love eating pussy and can meet all your sex needs’ …

I go zzz then hit the BLOCK button

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By *ilverSwordMan
over a year ago

Belfast-ish

"Hi (my name) I like your profile, (mention something in the profile). If you take a quick look at mine and fancy chatting please message me back. (Their name)

Short simple and sweet

I hate the messages where men talk about themselves like it’s an advert e.g.

‘hi I’m x tall, huge rock, love eating pussy and can meet all your sex needs’ …

I go zzz then hit the BLOCK button"

Thats how I send my messages tho I don't get alot back

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi (my name) I like your profile, (mention something in the profile). If you take a quick look at mine and fancy chatting please message me back. (Their name)

Short simple and sweet

I hate the messages where men talk about themselves like it’s an advert e.g.

‘hi I’m x tall, huge rock, love eating pussy and can meet all your sex needs’ …

I go zzz then hit the BLOCK button

Thats how I send my messages tho I don't get alot back

lol"

Same, oh well.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Start at the shoulders , work your way down and finish at the neck and scalp ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I might consider a well constructed good message may not be the same as the next persons.

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

"So with 1001 profiles of all shapes and sizes, what, in your opinions, are good opening messages?

Do you expect

Quick intro, who I am and where etc

War and peace and go into detail

Short and sweet with what I will do to you! Lol

Or something else? "

Now that is a trade secret, and you need to be a payed up member of the trade secret union to get access to that paticular trade secret and it is obvious that you are not a payed up member of the trade secret union, because the information you seek is in the trade secret membership pack that arrives when you apply to become a member of the trade secret branch of fab swingers.

other than that set up a new profile under a female sudo, and get ideas of the messages and cock pic's you will receive.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Start at the shoulders , work your way down and finish at the neck and scalp ...... "

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Humour. I don’t care if it’s just one sentence or an essay. Make me laugh and smile and I’m yours. Well not literally but, you get my drift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I dont remember the first messages of the ones I meet. So it clearly doesn't need to be a mind blowing message. Otherwise how could I forget it.

I go look at the profile and pics. And it's that that will have me respond rather than the actual message most of the time.

Short bios do nothing for me I love the long ones that tell me about the person.

So there's no perfect message or one set thing. Though I love a bit of humour if anything.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Probably the single most important thing is that it's from a woman

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Something else

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Something else "

I'm going to need more than that to go on

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

I like funny openers or a bit of humour.

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By *ibonacciMan
over a year ago

hidden location

What constitutes a good message?

Getting a response...!

(All scenarios are different; there is no 'standard' system that works I find, so each is unique to the person you are sending to)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scented candles,warm oils,soft music and don't rush thats a good massage x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something else "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a combination, the message could be absolute shit. But their profile/pictures/status recovers it.

Normally it's the status that's turns me off completely

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By *teve48uk OP Man
over a year ago

Ware

Wow, some good replies!

I believe when messaging try to include something from their profile, proves you actually read it!!

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By *ature BBW Lover 69Man
over a year ago

exeter

"Hi (my name) I like your profile, (mention something in the profile). If you take a quick look at mine and fancy chatting please message me back. (Their name)

Short simple and sweet

I hate the messages where men talk about themselves like it’s an advert e.g.

‘hi I’m x tall, huge rock, love eating pussy and can meet all your sex needs’ …

I go zzz then hit the BLOCK button"

Yeah that’s pretty much what I do , seems to work quite well , it’s getting the initial chat going so first message is important

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

What should be universally recognised is that there is no one size fits all message. What one person will like the next will hate.

If messages are relevant, and interesting, backed up with some effort into the message and profile then they will generally get a response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 things,if your messaging someone in the forums then you have an ice breaker because of the topic,if your messaging someone who you have searched then read profile carefully and just write a simple message about why your messaging them

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Read our profile

Haven’t copied and pasted their message

Write something interesting

No one liners or just one word!

Have a decent profile and pics (no action shots and dick pics)

Be polite

Simple really

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