FabSwingers.com forum: I'm dreading my upcoming birthday

By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Why I'm dreading my birthday on Saturday is because I can tell it's not going to be a good one due to the fact that I can't go out (not even to a club) because I'm skint and I have to bloody work.

It's really got me down and I've absolutely no idea what to do

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

Is going out the only fun thing you can do?

Be honest worry yourself. Don’t let society dictate the idea that you have to go out to a pub/club and get plastered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is plenty of other fun to be had OP without spending money or going out. Favourite movies? Music and dance around in your pants?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Stamford

Celebrate it another time.

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

My birthday on Monday and I'm not going out either. Friends round for drinks and a day at the coast for me!

Your birthday is what you make of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an over rated day dude . Should be called let's make money for commercial enterprise day . Dont even get me started on overpriced bits of card in paper a sack sent to add more misery to the day

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"Celebrate it another time. "

I think I'll wait until next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can always celebrate it another time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go fund me.

If a lady can get a trip to Disney paid by strangers.

There's also a giving community but I forget what it's called.

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"Can always celebrate it another time

That's what I'm gonna do. Next year.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I hardly ever celebrate mine.

I just make up for it every other time I go out

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By *B..Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Most people have not celebrated their birthdays over the last year, just pick another day of your choosing and do something nice then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can always celebrate it another time

That's what I'm gonna do. Next year."

Something to look forward to then

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"There is plenty of other fun to be had OP without spending money or going out. Favourite movies? Music and dance around in your pants? "

No point really as builders will be in all week to do work on the house.

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"Can always celebrate it another time

That's what I'm gonna do. Next year.

Something to look forward to then

I guess so

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"Why I'm dreading my birthday on Saturday is because I can tell it's not going to be a good one due to the fact that I can't go out (not even to a club) because I'm skint and I have to bloody work.

It's really got me down and I've absolutely no idea what to do

Do you have your health??

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

Billions of people don’t celebrate their birthdays - it’s just media hype to get people to give gifts and get d*unk

I had 2 birthdays during lockdown and didn’t mind

Happiness comes from within, it’s not an external thing. Take a few cakes into work and share the joy - they can just be cheap ones.

Play some uplifting music and celebrate that your birthday and rejoice in the knowledge you have a roof over your head and a job - millions of people don’t have either

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By *ueenieHWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I turn 30 on Monday and I'm not doing anything for it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just another day , your a year older that’s all , you can party anytime you want , you don’t need money to have a good time

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Make a nice cup of tea and have a wank.

That's what I do, minus the wank.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

Highlight of my birthday is getting texts and messages from people I rarely hear from, wishing me well, not a night down the pub or presents.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Make a nice cup of tea and have a wank.

That's what I do, minus the wank.

You’re missing out then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh up young un, get thee self of down somewhere classy for a bevy or 2, try castle it’s always classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is plenty of other fun to be had OP without spending money or going out. Favourite movies? Music and dance around in your pants?

No point really as builders will be in all week to do work on the house."

Do they not dance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can always celebrate it another time

That's what I'm gonna do. Next year.

Something to look forward to then

I guess so"

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"Eh up young un, get thee self of down somewhere classy for a bevy or 2, try castle it’s always classy

Like I said, I'm skint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eh up young un, get thee self of down somewhere classy for a bevy or 2, try castle it’s always classy

Like I said, I'm skint."

Cheap as chips in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a birthday. I really don't get why the need to do anything? It doesn't cost anything to spend time with those nearest to you.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Best kind of birthday call your mates get them to drink some booze small house party sounds good to me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Most people have not celebrated their birthdays over the last year, just pick another day of your choosing and do something nice then "

Agree

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Have a virtual party on here ... there will be cake ..boobie hugs .. cocktails .... foam dance floor ..hot tubs.... did I mention boobs? ...or any thing else you'd care to ask for

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"Best kind of birthday call your mates get them to drink some booze small house party sounds good to me"

Can't I'm afraid. Got builders in all week.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincs

It’s the same date every year

So you could have saved all year to go out

Booked the time off work

Planned for a few friends to do something

Maybe do that for next year…

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Hey.. This is an opportunity to mark your birthday in a way you never have before! Go for a walk to your favourite place, Have a candle lit bath, a pic nic. Put your bottom lip away and make it something simple but special.. The day you were born was a good day!! Even if it's just for a small part of the day. Or organise something for when you can celebrate.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I had a different kind of birthday celebration last week that didn't involve going out, anything is possible if you want it to

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"It’s the same date every year

So you could have saved all year to go out

Booked the time off work

Planned for a few friends to do something

Maybe do that for next year…

I did book time off to go to Cupids for a belated birthday celebration. Already cancelled going as I can't afford it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s the same date every year

So you could have saved all year to go out

Booked the time off work

Planned for a few friends to do something

Maybe do that for next year…

I did book time off to go to Cupids for a belated birthday celebration. Already cancelled going as I can't afford it."

Thats a shame. Maybe go another time.

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"It’s the same date every year

So you could have saved all year to go out

Booked the time off work

Planned for a few friends to do something

Maybe do that for next year…

I did book time off to go to Cupids for a belated birthday celebration. Already cancelled going as I can't afford it.

Thats a shame. Maybe go another time.

Yeah. I'm already going in a couple of weeks.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"It’s the same date every year

So you could have saved all year to go out

Booked the time off work

Planned for a few friends to do something

Maybe do that for next year…

I did book time off to go to Cupids for a belated birthday celebration. Already cancelled going as I can't afford it.

Thats a shame. Maybe go another time.

Yeah. I'm already going in a couple of weeks."

So why are you moaning? ?

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"It’s the same date every year

So you could have saved all year to go out

Booked the time off work

Planned for a few friends to do something

Maybe do that for next year…

I did book time off to go to Cupids for a belated birthday celebration. Already cancelled going as I can't afford it.

Thats a shame. Maybe go another time.

Yeah. I'm already going in a couple of weeks.

So why are you moaning? ?"

Me going to a club in a couple of weeks has got nothing to do with my birthday. Having a belated birthday celebration then would be pointless.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"It’s the same date every year

So you could have saved all year to go out

Booked the time off work

Planned for a few friends to do something

Maybe do that for next year…

I did book time off to go to Cupids for a belated birthday celebration. Already cancelled going as I can't afford it.

Thats a shame. Maybe go another time.

Yeah. I'm already going in a couple of weeks.

So why are you moaning? ?

Me going to a club in a couple of weeks has got nothing to do with my birthday. Having a belated birthday celebration then would be pointless."

Maybe appreciate that you can go at all?

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"It’s the same date every year

So you could have saved all year to go out

Booked the time off work

Planned for a few friends to do something

Maybe do that for next year…

I did book time off to go to Cupids for a belated birthday celebration. Already cancelled going as I can't afford it.

Thats a shame. Maybe go another time.

Yeah. I'm already going in a couple of weeks.

So why are you moaning? ?

Me going to a club in a couple of weeks has got nothing to do with my birthday. Having a belated birthday celebration then would be pointless.

Maybe appreciate that you can go at all?

I always do.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Make a nice cup of tea and have a wank.

That's what I do, minus the wank.

You’re missing out then! "

You haven't seen my vagina

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