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"Oi that would be victimising me "Hows that then?  | |||
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"Oi that would be victimising me Hows that then? "My mailbox would be empty lol | |||
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"I must admit to being a bit lazy about making initial contact with people, possibly also a bit lacking in confidence..so all my meets ,so far, have come from other people initiating the contact..and yes I've had some fantastic meets because of it. Maybe I should be a little more pro-active though. "Being pro active is the best way of getting what you want from Fab i would think?  | |||
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"Oi that would be victimising me Hows that then?
My mailbox would be empty lol"Not if more ladies took the initiative.... | |||
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest? "
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"I'm STILL waiting!  "Ohhhh ffs man have some patience..... | |||
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"Except we might not take the initiative with Ryan." Yea yea that's it gang up on me. Well I'm quite happy with my abusive 'fuck off bag head' mails they keep me occupied | |||
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"I must admit to being a bit lazy about making initial contact with people, possibly also a bit lacking in confidence..so all my meets ,so far, have come from other people initiating the contact..and yes I've had some fantastic meets because of it. Maybe I should be a little more pro-active though. Being pro active is the best way of getting what you want from Fab i would think? "I'm certainly not complaining about the fun I've had so far..but increasing the opportunities has got to be a good thing | |||
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"Besides, I might miss something if I systematically ignore all men. There are a lot to work my way through! I still don't see why men can't be expected to read profiles and not behave like randy teenagers. It's not really asking a lot." So its all the men that are a pain in the ass then? You have stated before now and on a few occasions actually that man A said this or man B said another that wasnt to your liking.....so why wont YOU take the initiative to message the guys you want? As for men acting like randy teenagers, why dont some women stop thinking a repeat meet means a baby shower and a walk up the aisle? See what im doing here? | |||
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"I must admit to being a bit lazy about making initial contact with people, possibly also a bit lacking in confidence..so all my meets ,so far, have come from other people initiating the contact..and yes I've had some fantastic meets because of it. Maybe I should be a little more pro-active though. "I love it when girls are pro-active. Even if you're not interested, it's always nice to know someone likes the sound and look of you. I always respond to them regardless, out of politeness, anyway. I realise with the volume of messages the average lady receives on here, that just wouldn't be possible  | |||
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"I must admit to being a bit lazy about making initial contact with people, possibly also a bit lacking in confidence..so all my meets ,so far, have come from other people initiating the contact..and yes I've had some fantastic meets because of it. Maybe I should be a little more pro-active though. Being pro active is the best way of getting what you want from Fab i would think?
I'm certainly not complaining about the fun I've had so far..but increasing the opportunities has got to be a good thing "See...its amazing what positive thinking can do! | |||
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"I like to go on the prowl at times
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"I like to go on the prowl at times
Good isnt it........rarrrrrrrrrrrr "Yes and it is normally greeted with a thanks, don't normally get winks, messages from couples/women etc So I like to think it makes them feel special
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"but Femme some don't want to change their approach as it may give them a loss of position, they may like the buzz of logging on and seeing 78 inbox and the lift that gives them... it's a strange world "well imagine what that would do for a not so confident single guy/couple new to the scene.....wow the possibilites | |||
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"I like to go on the prowl at times
Good isnt it........rarrrrrrrrrrrr "I'll give prowling a go, but stalking my prey just isn't my thing | |||
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"I like to go on the prowl at times
Good isnt it........rarrrrrrrrrrrr
Yes and it is normally greeted with a thanks, don't normally get winks, messages from couples/women etc
So I like to think it makes them feel special
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"Right just gone 1 most ladies are now on their lunch I'll just sit back now and watch them roll in. Yes sirre bob it's going to be like shooting fish in a barrel! "Shut up you
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"but Femme some don't want to change their approach as it may give them a loss of position, they may like the buzz of logging on and seeing 78 inbox and the lift that gives them... it's a strange world well imagine what that would do for a not so confident single guy/couple new to the scene.....wow the possibilites "yup, agree..... | |||
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"I like to go on the prowl at times
Good isnt it........rarrrrrrrrrrrr
I'll give prowling a go, but stalking my prey just isn't my thing "You'll love it! | |||
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"but Femme some don't want to change their approach as it may give them a loss of position, they may like the buzz of logging on and seeing 78 inbox and the lift that gives them... it's a strange world "I would go with that point and think its why many don't use the filters. Its all an ego boost for some women getting lots of mail and feeling popular and if it works for them building a little self esteem then fair play. After all some women have had kids and other events in life and really don't feel confident in making the first move. They feel more confident in going through what's offered rather tan going out for what they really want. | |||
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Good isnt it........rarrrrrrrrrrrr
I'll give prowling a go, but stalking my prey just isn't my thing "No stalking is "why havent you replied to my text i sent you 2 seconds ago!" prowling is smooth....calm n sexxxxxy | |||
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"Besides, I might miss something if I systematically ignore all men. There are a lot to work my way through! I still don't see why men can't be expected to read profiles and not behave like randy teenagers. It's not really asking a lot.So its all the men that are a pain in the ass then? You have stated before now and on a few occasions actually that man A said this or man B said another that wasnt to your liking.....so why wont YOU take the initiative to message the guys you want? As for men acting like randy teenagers, why dont some women stop thinking a repeat meet means a baby shower and a walk up the aisle? See what im doing here?" Simple answer is that I do message guys I like. Where did I say all men are a pain in the arse? I said I don't see why they can't be expected to read profiles. I didn't say none read profiles, just that it's not unreasonable to expect they should. As for repeats, no thanks means no thanks, not please try again in a week, pretending you haven't messaged me before. It's nothing to do with weddings, more I didn't fancy you a week ago, why would I fancy you now? I deal with repeats by blocking them. But it doesn't excuse them pestering people who have said no thank you. Do I see what you're doing? Well it looks like you're justifying laziness on the part of some men and putting the onus on the people they message to deal with it. Or have I misunderstood? Why should men not be expected to behave like adults here? I've heard lazy and/or rude behaviour (from some, not all) excused a lot but I've not heard a good reason it should be. | |||
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"And some may not have the confidence to deal with a 'no thanks' . "Good point Iconic but when the shoe is on the other foot they may not be so highly critical though eh? | |||
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"Right just gone 1 most ladies are now on their lunch I'll just sit back now and watch them roll in. Yes sirre bob it's going to be like shooting fish in a barrel!
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"And some may not have the confidence to deal with a 'no thanks' . "jesus....... that does not bear thinking about !!! honestly.... | |||
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Good isnt it........rarrrrrrrrrrrr
I'll give prowling a go, but stalking my prey just isn't my thing No stalking is "why havent you replied to my text i sent you 2 seconds ago!" prowling is smooth....calm n sexxxxxy "I better get my copy and paste message sorted before I start | |||
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Good isnt it........rarrrrrrrrrrrr
I'll give prowling a go, but stalking my prey just isn't my thing No stalking is "why havent you replied to my text i sent you 2 seconds ago!" prowling is smooth....calm n sexxxxxy "Like a cat wearing sunglasses | |||
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"And some may not have the confidence to deal with a 'no thanks' . Good point Iconic but when the shoe is on the other foot they may not be so highly critical though eh?"I would hope they would delete the offensive messages or the ones they find offensive ( if they were truly offensive they should be reported ) and move on rather than rant about them being from saddoes, wankers, & fukwits. Never quite get the need to refer to offence with offence | |||
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"I like to go on the prowl at times
Good isnt it........rarrrrrrrrrrrr
I'll give prowling a go, but stalking my prey just isn't my thing No stalking is "why havent you replied to my text i sent you 2 seconds ago!" prowling is smooth....calm n sexxxxxy
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"Besides, I might miss something if I systematically ignore all men. There are a lot to work my way through! I still don't see why men can't be expected to read profiles and not behave like randy teenagers. It's not really asking a lot.So its all the men that are a pain in the ass then? You have stated before now and on a few occasions actually that man A said this or man B said another that wasnt to your liking.....so why wont YOU take the initiative to message the guys you want? As for men acting like randy teenagers, why dont some women stop thinking a repeat meet means a baby shower and a walk up the aisle? See what im doing here? Simple answer is that I do message guys I like. Where did I say all men are a pain in the arse? I said I don't see why they can't be expected to read profiles. I didn't say none read profiles, just that it's not unreasonable to expect they should. As for repeats, no thanks means no thanks, not please try again in a week, pretending you haven't messaged me before. It's nothing to do with weddings, more I didn't fancy you a week ago, why would I fancy you now? I deal with repeats by blocking them. But it doesn't excuse them pestering people who have said no thank you. Do I see what you're doing? Well it looks like you're justifying laziness on the part of some men and putting the onus on the people they message to deal with it. Or have I misunderstood? Why should men not be expected to behave like adults here? I've heard lazy and/or rude behaviour (from some, not all) excused a lot but I've not heard a good reason it should be." Pain in the arse= figure of speech my words.....this is what YOU are saying in your recent posts and some threads you have put up....its almost like *sigh* its so hard to be you.... as you have to put up with all these men sending you messages you dont like....this is how you are coming across, i just think there needs to be balance, its seems a bit rich that you are asking for men to stop behaving like "randy teenagers" yet you see fit to put veiled moans on the forums...theres is a pattern forming, i have noticed, i dont expect you to see that at all....but there is a solution to your problem.....you just seem to want to ignore it, and will always come back with something else you are not happy with i this respect....when im not happy about something i do something about it...i dont expect others to do it for me.....if you say you message guys n get meets from it i dont see why the others bother you....as for crude messages.....if they hurt your sensitivities delete n ignore.....donkey that sat on thistle n wouldnt get up syndrome is my point of _iew  | |||
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"And some may not have the confidence to deal with a 'no thanks' .
jesus....... that does not bear thinking about !!!
honestly.... "Some really don't like it and if you block them all hell can let loose. It goes for men too I guess but some really can't handle rejection. | |||
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"And some may not have the confidence to deal with a 'no thanks' . "I promise I will try not to get abusive when I get a negative response..oh my poor fragile ego | |||
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"What about a really random idea... 1. you see someone on fab you thing 'yummy' or whatever word your mind uses. 2. you send them a nice perhaps amusing maybe risque, but in no way fithy or rude message. 3. you wait 4. you get a reply that is either 'yes come get me ' or 'sorry not interested'. 5 if its the former continue comunication. 6 if its the latter 'o nothing esle' and move on to the next person you see that is 'yummy'. 7. in no way send repeat messages asking 'why' or insults . Am i being naive ? ? " 1b Read their profile and see if they are looking for someone such as yourself. If so, move on to 2. If not, move on to the next profile. | |||
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"It's a nice idea and a very admirable sentiment. Can't see it catching on though. ." no cause what would people then have to moan about...particularly single females when theyve had a bad day? | |||
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"It's a nice idea and a very admirable sentiment. Can't see it catching on though. .no cause what would people then have to moan about...particularly single females when theyve had a bad day? "They could moan when they get a no thanks! Or... Or ... Or they could moan that everyone just agrees to meet them too easily so they must be desperate | |||
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"It's a nice idea and a very admirable sentiment. Can't see it catching on though. .no cause what would people then have to moan about...particularly single females when theyve had a bad day?
They could moan when they get a no thanks! Or... Or ... Or they could moan that everyone just agrees to meet them too easily so they must be desperate "Many a true word said in jest | |||
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i use this site for my enjoyment and fun the day it becomes tiresome or not fun i will leave
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest? "fear of rejection.... the way it is at the moment they are the ones who do the picking... mind you... you should see some of the messages I have no thank you to from women... and the ones I get after... I'm guessing some couples and women on here would and do take rejection as bad as apparently some single blokes do... | |||
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"I love it all... no golden bullet in this game just respect others in messages and replies delete anything you don't like report the offensive ones utilise the filters that best suit your needs be proactive but most of all, keep your feet on the ground: getting meets, attention & fawning in Chat, Forums & Clubs can create bigger divas than Mariah with PMT..... the day you forget, usually first day of your downfall. " | |||
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest? "We messaged one once and he didn't respond 
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest?
We messaged one once and he didn't respond
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"I am a much bigger diva than Mariah! Least now I know who is to blame. Damn them single guys and their messaging! "me too and I blame everyone.... and just wank.
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"Oi that would be victimising me Hows that then?
My mailbox would be empty lol"inboxes ryan ! | |||
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest?
We messaged one once and he didn't respond
Did notice a couple of days later that he had not logged in for over a year though "You messaged me if i remember correctly....purrrrrrr | |||
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"We messaged one once and he didn't respond
Did notice a couple of days later that he had not logged in for over a year though You messaged me if i remember correctly....purrrrrrr"Yeah but you told us you was washing your hair for the next 5 years | |||
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"I am a much bigger diva than Mariah! Least now I know who is to blame. Damn them single guys and their messaging! "I am also a diva, but who cares
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"I am a much bigger diva than Mariah! Least now I know who is to blame. Damn them single guys and their messaging!
I am also a diva, but who cares
Now I also have an excuse why "I think me, you n _iew should go in chat forum and demand a diva only room | |||
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"I am a much bigger diva than Mariah! Least now I know who is to blame. Damn them single guys and their messaging!
I am also a diva, but who cares
Now I also have an excuse why
I think me, you n _iew should go in chat forum and demand a diva only room "Haha! Only if I can bring my entourage | |||
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Did notice a couple of days later that he had not logged in for over a year though You messaged me if i remember correctly....purrrrrrr
Yeah but you told us you was washing your hair for the next 5 years "You were gonna organise a walking /rambling social...i got traumatised at the thought of wearing hiking boots...forgive me | |||
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" I think me, you n _iew should go in chat forum and demand a diva only room ".....won't get View in there unless they burn Jo Malone candles everywhere. | |||
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Did notice a couple of days later that he had not logged in for over a year though You messaged me if i remember correctly....purrrrrrr
Yeah but you told us you was washing your hair for the next 5 years You were gonna organise a walking /rambling social...i got traumatised at the thought of wearing hiking boots...forgive me "hiking boots ?? EEK | |||
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" I think me, you n _iew should go in chat forum and demand a diva only room
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Did notice a couple of days later that he had not logged in for over a year though You messaged me if i remember correctly....purrrrrrr
Yeah but you told us you was washing your hair for the next 5 years You were gonna organise a walking /rambling social...i got traumatised at the thought of wearing hiking boots...forgive me "Yeah, there wasn't enough interest and anyway, thought it would be pointless as everyone would end up in the hedges
But on a serious note, we have messaged a few ladies and gents and have had some real nice meets, 1 forum reg (never mention no names) has become a good friend and we have met her a few times
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"We messaged one once and he didn't respond
Did notice a couple of days later that he had not logged in for over a year though You messaged me if i remember correctly....purrrrrrr
Yeah but you told us you was washing your hair for the next 5 years You were gonna organise a walking /rambling social...i got traumatised at the thought of wearing hiking boots...forgive me
Yeah, there wasn't enough interest and anyway, thought it would be pointless as everyone would end up in the hedges
But on a serious note, we have messaged a few ladies and gents and have had some real nice meets, 1 forum reg (never mention no names) has become a good friend and we have met her a few times
So it does work to message others.
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest?
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"im proactive and i will message someone if i like the profile and the photos abusive messages i laugh delete and move on "My approach exactly..........the day its too much like hard work,is the day I hang up my fab boots! | |||
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"Valid point, we will need to make sure it holds more than 200! Entourage takes up a hell of a space. Also, we should ask for three private rooms alongside just for getting ready for the fawning "Sounds perfect darling! | |||
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"Valid point, we will need to make sure it holds more than 200! Entourage takes up a hell of a space. Also, we should ask for three private rooms alongside just for getting ready for the fawning
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"Valid point, we will need to make sure it holds more than 200! Entourage takes up a hell of a space. Also, we should ask for three private rooms alongside just for getting ready for the fawning
Sounds perfect darling!
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"Valid point, we will need to make sure it holds more than 200! Entourage takes up a hell of a space. Also, we should ask for three private rooms alongside just for getting ready for the fawning
Sounds perfect darling!
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"Right just gone 1 most ladies are now on their lunch I'll just sit back now and watch them roll in. Yes sirre bob it's going to be like shooting fish in a barrel! "Any luck Dave ? I've had 2 nibbles on donut groundbait ! What bait are you trying? | |||
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"I will most certainly watch your make up dahling but you may not look me in the eye until I'm sure you're a true diva "And you may not touch my bottom, until my PA has thoroughly inspected you | |||
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"Valid point, we will need to make sure it holds more than 200! Entourage takes up a hell of a space. Also, we should ask for three private rooms alongside just for getting ready for the fawning
Sounds perfect darling!
*air kisses*
Yes watch my makeup darling, no smudging, or touching allowed tsk!
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"I will most certainly watch your make up dahling but you may not look me in the eye until I'm sure you're a true diva
And you may not touch my bottom, until my PA has thoroughly inspected you "I'll get mine to call yours and we can let the inspections begin ... Darling | |||
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"I will most certainly watch your make up dahling but you may not look me in the eye until I'm sure you're a true diva
And you may not touch my bottom, until my PA has thoroughly inspected you
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"Except we might not take the initiative with Ryan. Yea yea that's it gang up on me. Well I'm quite happy with my abusive 'fuck off bag head' mails they keep me occupied "oops sorry it was meant to say fuck me | |||
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"I've suggested this to people I've met that complained of the volume of messages and the concept just flies over their head. Maybe this site could take badoo's approach and have a yes/no/maybe thing so guys could at least have a clue if they're gonna be wasting their time messaging some people." i wish u messaged me i might have said yes | |||
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"I love it all... no golden bullet in this game just respect others in messages and replies delete anything you don't like report the offensive ones utilise the filters that best suit your needs be proactive but most of all, keep your feet on the ground: getting meets, attention & fawning in Chat, Forums & Clubs can create bigger divas than Mariah with PMT..... the day you forget, usually first day of your downfall. " Here here! If I like the look of someone, I would probably send them a wink...and never get offended if no reply... this is meant to be fun, isn't it?? | |||
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"Except we might not take the initiative with Ryan. Yea yea that's it gang up on me. Well I'm quite happy with my abusive 'fuck off bag head' mails they keep me occupied
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"Being pro active is the best way of getting what you want from Fab i would think? "Doesn't seem to do me much good | |||
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"Except we might not take the initiative with Ryan. Yea yea that's it gang up on me. Well I'm quite happy with my abusive 'fuck off bag head' mails they keep me occupied
oops sorry it was meant to say fuck me
Shit! Send it again I did the statuary delete and block "*statutory  what a penis ! I was standing really still at the time | |||
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"Except we might not take the initiative with Ryan. Yea yea that's it gang up on me. Well I'm quite happy with my abusive 'fuck off bag head' mails they keep me occupied
oops sorry it was meant to say fuck me
Shit! Send it again I did the statuary delete and block
*statutory what a penis ! I was standing really still at the time"Good recovery! | |||
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"Except we might not take the initiative with Ryan. Yea yea that's it gang up on me. Well I'm quite happy with my abusive 'fuck off bag head' mails they keep me occupied
oops sorry it was meant to say fuck me
Shit! Send it again I did the statuary delete and block
*statutory what a penis ! I was standing really still at the time"I've never seen an 'airy statue | |||
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"Except we might not take the initiative with Ryan. Yea yea that's it gang up on me. Well I'm quite happy with my abusive 'fuck off bag head' mails they keep me occupied
oops sorry it was meant to say fuck me
Shit! Send it again I did the statuary delete and block
*statutory what a penis ! I was standing really still at the time
I've never seen an 'airy statue "What about an airy arris? | |||
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"Except we might not take the initiative with Ryan. Yea yea that's it gang up on me. Well I'm quite happy with my abusive 'fuck off bag head' mails they keep me occupied
oops sorry it was meant to say fuck me
Shit! Send it again I did the statuary delete and block
*statutory what a penis ! I was standing really still at the time
I've never seen an 'airy statue
What about an airy arris?"Well I've been down wind of a warm breeze that's generated from one..not something I care to repeat | |||
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest? ". Come on, that would mean they would have to do the leg work, and they can't possibly have the time when they don't even have the time to click a few buttons to open the message, delete and block, la di da!!! | |||
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest?
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest? "You don't mean..... put the shoe on the other foot for a while and deal with ..............rejection!!!! | |||
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"its seems a bit rich that you are asking for men to stop behaving like "randy teenagers" yet you see fit to put veiled moans on the forums..." Actually, I agree with this. Veiled moans and digs are very childish. | |||
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"Oi that would be victimising me Hows that then?
My mailbox would be empty lolNot if more ladies took the initiative.... "I would never get any messages under that criteria lol | |||
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"its seems a bit rich that you are asking for men to stop behaving like "randy teenagers" yet you see fit to put veiled moans on the forums... Actually, I agree with this. Veiled moans and digs are very childish. "Yet you continue.....my thread wasnt just about you...get over yourself, there just seems a few single ladies moaning and reusing to do anything about it...go figure | |||
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest?
You don't mean..... put the shoe on the other foot for a while and deal with ..............rejection!!!! "you had me at shoe.... | |||
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest? "Beauty and brains. | |||
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest?
Beauty and brains. "oooooooh i dunno bout that, just common sense....long time no see | |||
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"its seems a bit rich that you are asking for men to stop behaving like "randy teenagers" yet you see fit to put veiled moans on the forums... Actually, I agree with this. Veiled moans and digs are very childish. Yet you continue.....my thread wasnt just about you...get over yourself, there just seems a few single ladies moaning and reusing to do anything about it...go figure "It's not just refusing to do anything about it.... it's sitting back and EXPECTING guys to adapt to the way they want things done, whilst being a fucking lazy bint who can't be arsed to bite the bullet and practise what they preach..... because they want it spread out for them on their lazy bint plate.... IMHO | |||
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest?
You don't mean..... put the shoe on the other foot for a while and deal with ..............rejection!!!! you had me at shoe.... "bloody brillaint am going to bed peeing meself laughing (well not literally ) lol | |||
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest?
You don't mean..... put the shoe on the other foot for a while and deal with ..............rejection!!!! you had me at shoe....
bloody brillaint am going to bed peeing meself laughing (well not literally ) lol"dirty boy | |||
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"its seems a bit rich that you are asking for men to stop behaving like "randy teenagers" yet you see fit to put veiled moans on the forums... Actually, I agree with this. Veiled moans and digs are very childish. Yet you continue.....my thread wasnt just about you...get over yourself, there just seems a few single ladies moaning and reusing to do anything about it...go figure "Oh if we're counting veiled moans and bitchy comments, I'm not even close to leading the field. From some people it's acceptable but not from others? Sorry, I don't think so. *I* continue? If you want to point the finger for that, you're going to need more than just the one. As for you not just bitching about me, ever think my comments are nothing to do with you? | |||
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"I found an old Fifty Pence piece today......" Compared to the £30 000 scratch card, I think I'd have to opt for the scratch card. | |||
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"Oh, and you know what? I will continue to continue whilst some people think that veiled bitching is ok for them, but not for me. As for expecting men to adapt?! PMSL! Expecting them not to message asking for meets from people who've already said they're not looking for them?! Yeah, that's totally unreasonable! "I dont see where i said that.....this thread was aimed at all the ladies that have been moaning recently, not just you. Some have posted, not just you...i can say i am happy to agree to disagree, but yet you persist in stoking the fire, guess what? The world doesnt revolve round you! I was merely suggesting a solution..... | |||
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"I dont see where i said that....." You didn't. Like I said, my comments aren't meaning you either. "i can say i am happy to agree to disagree" You may be happy to, as was I. Did I post on this after I said we'd have to agree to disagree earlier? But other people, as usual, couldn't resist stirring it. If it's ok for them to continue, and they want to carry it on, that's totally fine by me | |||
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" As for expecting men to adapt?! PMSL! Expecting them not to message asking for meets from people who've already said they're not looking for them?! Yeah, that's totally unreasonable! "I dunno... there are enough functions available to use to prevent people sending repeat message if you or anyone doesn't like finding them in their inbox.... whether they are sent by accident or not. But it does make me roll my eyes when in one thread you see a bunch of women slagging guys off for they way they message people and adding comments like "is it too much to ask to expect.....blar blar balr" .... but a few threads later they post that they never message guys first.... for whatever bolloxy reason. | |||
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"PS...if you hate men so much, why do you wish to fuck them? "If that means me, where on earth did you get that? I thought we'd covered this yesterday. It's a certain type of men that I don't like, which is why blocking all of them isn't a good option. I've nothing against you femme. You speak your mind. I may not agree with you sometimes, and we clearly don't always see things from the same perspective, but I respect your integrity. | |||
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"But it does make me roll my eyes when in one thread you see a bunch of women slagging guys off for they way they message people and adding comments like "is it too much to ask to expect.....blar blar balr" .... but a few threads later they post that they never message guys first.... for whatever bolloxy reason." That, I agree, is a very fair point. | |||
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"PS...if you hate men so much, why do you wish to fuck them? "I hate men, that's why I fuck 'em | |||
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"I hate men too... But their cocks are nice." Do you prefer roasted or deep fried? | |||
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"I hate men too... But their cocks are nice. Do you prefer roasted or deep fried?" I am very easy... | |||
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" I am very easy... "Tell us something we don't know. | |||
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"I hate men too... But their cocks are nice. Do you prefer roasted or deep fried? I am very easy... ". No yoghurt sauce I take it! | |||
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Tell us something we don't know." | |||
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" I am very easy...
Tell us something we don't know."I didn't know that, but I'm making notes. | |||
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"Been thinking.....(yes it happens occasionally)all these female members that seem to have a problem with these "abusive messages" and getting messages from people they dont wish to communicate with, or getting comments on their pictures they dont like.....i wish to ask...... Why dont YOU message the guys YOU are interested in? And ignore the rest? "That's what we tend to do.....worst they can do is say, no thanks or just delete without replying. | |||
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