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"Right i looked and your profile is like 10000s here.. So did not stand out .. You would be better having some sort of face pic on if not all your face there ways you can .. Look at others profiles get some tips from the ones that do well here .. you will know from feedback they get .. And 2 weeks is nothing give it a year and get to know people on forums and chat rooms and then say ... as its not just about shagging its about getting to know people. And welcome to FAB and with all things in life you have to take good with bad as would be boring if all the same." i agree, i dont get a lot of free time to meet so i tend to choose the folk i get to know pretty well through chatrooms and socials...it works for me as i dont get any problems with timewasters (so far)so stick with it, i hope it works out for you | |||
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"i'm not claiming two weeks is a long time to be on the site and i was not expecting people to be throwing themselves at me but in the short time i've been a member i've discovered unfortunately there seem to be a lot more fake or timewasting people than there are genuine on here. It's a real shame because the site has potential to be a great one. I'm not claiming i have a solution to this problem and i'd like to think a lot of people have found the site much more successful than i have. I've asked for advice on how to make my profile more appealing to others but was met with more criticism than helpful comments. I'm sure it's just a minority but seems people especially single males seem to think belittling people is a good way to work their way up the social network on here. So congratulations to all the fakes, timewasters and bullies, you have as good as convinced yet another genuine swinger that the site is a waste of time!" See ya. One less for me to compete with :D | |||
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"i'm not claiming two weeks is a long time to be on the site and i was not expecting people to be throwing themselves at me but in the short time i've been a member i've discovered unfortunately there seem to be a lot more fake or timewasting people than there are genuine on here. It's a real shame because the site has potential to be a great one. I'm not claiming i have a solution to this problem and i'd like to think a lot of people have found the site much more successful than i have. I've asked for advice on how to make my profile more appealing to others but was met with more criticism than helpful comments. I'm sure it's just a minority but seems people especially single males seem to think belittling people is a good way to work their way up the social network on here. So congratulations to all the fakes, timewasters and bullies, you have as good as convinced yet another genuine swinger that the site is a waste of time!" rome was not built in a day.... time, patience, common sense.... to me 2 weeks, doesn't show giving it time or showing any patience..... the site does give you all the tools to make it work... its up to you to decide if you want to use as many or as little of those as you like | |||
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"Personally op, your username wouldn't entice me to read a message from you." That's a very good point. I hadn't clocked the profile name. Overtly sexual ones do put a good deal of people off. | |||
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"i'm not claiming two weeks is a long time to be on the site and i was not expecting people to be throwing themselves at me but in the short time i've been a member i've discovered unfortunately there seem to be a lot more fake or timewasting people than there are genuine on here. It's a real shame because the site has potential to be a great one. I'm not claiming i have a solution to this problem and i'd like to think a lot of people have found the site much more successful than i have. I've asked for advice on how to make my profile more appealing to others but was met with more criticism than helpful comments. I'm sure it's just a minority but seems people especially single males seem to think belittling people is a good way to work their way up the social network on here. So congratulations to all the fakes, timewasters and bullies, you have as good as convinced yet another genuine swinger that the site is a waste of time!" So what is your REAL gripe??? That too many single guys are contacting you? Have to say if I were gay or bi, I would be on your profile like a shot, as it comes over strongly that that is what you are looking for.. Is it that you can't get your head around that, on a site that is FREE, you get a lot of weirdos homing in on your profile (for the same reasons I stated above) and wasting your time??? Or is it that your expectations we skewed by your own confusion over what swinging is?? Unlike what you see in porn, it is not readily available sex. It's about mutually shared experiences with people who do as much for you, as you do for them..... and to get to that point it takes TIME to find the swingers with whom you click. And, sorry to have to burst your bubble, if you think that can be done in two weeks...... well...... have a think about it.... | |||
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". Was not slating the site." 'Fab... MASSIVE DISAPPOINTMENT SO FAR' is it just me ? | |||
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"Personally op, your username wouldn't entice me to read a message from you. That's a very good point. I hadn't clocked the profile name. Overtly sexual ones do put a good deal of people off." +1 I have my singles profile and a joint one with my OH. We only play with single bi guys, but any with names like this put us off and get deleted without reading. We may miss some decent guys by doing this, but its stage one of our filter process | |||
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"thanks all for the genuine advice but my inbox is now a common place for hate mail. Was not slating the site. So apologies to any one i have upset. So i'l delete my profile and wish the nice people on this site the best of luck." Well that is giving up without even trying isnt it..too lazy to change it just delete.. As to hate mail.. that is dealt with by the click of a button..and block. The reason you are getting negative reaction Is Because YOU are negative.. You can change your name and start again.. it does tae time to settle in here.. Pity really . we have all put up some very good points.. and you just want to flounce out.. deary me ... | |||
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"The reason you are getting negative reaction Is Because YOU are negative.. You can change your name and start again.. it does take time to settle in here.. Pity really . we have all put up some very good points.. and you just want to flounce out.. deary me ... " ... One reaps as one sows...... | |||
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" And just for the record i am a genuine swinger and regularly attend parties at chams and Youtopia which is where i was recommended the site." am not sure if that information makes this thread make you look better or worse ! | |||
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"was talking about my own limited experience on here. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion arent they. Like i say best of luck to the genuine people on this site. And just for the record i am a genuine swinger and regularly attend parties at chams and Youtopia which is where i was recommended the site." If that is the case, surely you were pre-warned of some of the negatives on here...??? | |||
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"Poof! As in gone! Oops! " So you're Julie the Freudian Slut now, are you...? xx | |||
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"Poof! As in gone! Oops! So you're Julie the Freudian Slut now, are you...? xx " I am very As I was just sitting down with a cuppa and catching up. I went to click his profile and thought "poof" it's gone, but then posted "poof" here which yes of course could be taken another way xx | |||
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"Poof! bit harsh, thought he was just bi? " I knew this would lead to that I could have course deleted my comment...but hey got to make someone laugh on this time wasters site | |||
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"Poof! As in gone! Oops! " That genuinely had me LOL'ing | |||
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"Unlike what you see in porn, it is not readily available sex. It's about mutually shared experiences with people who do as much for you, as you do for them....." Really? Shit. | |||
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"Unlike what you see in porn, it is not readily available sex. It's about mutually shared experiences with people who do as much for you, as you do for them..... Really? Shit." ha ha! | |||
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"From a lady who isnt a timewaster or a fake ,some simple advice ...change your pictures or at least put on some less obvious ones. A pic of you in nice tight white calvins would attract me a lot more .......or a nice white unbuttoned shirt and nothing else ........and good advice about the forums and chat it works for me ." Hi, I tried to put a nice pic of myself wearing some nice tight calvins and cos of the name on the waist band it got rejected lol | |||
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"From a lady who isnt a timewaster or a fake ,some simple advice ...change your pictures or at least put on some less obvious ones. A pic of you in nice tight white calvins would attract me a lot more .......or a nice white unbuttoned shirt and nothing else ........and good advice about the forums and chat it works for me . Hi, I tried to put a nice pic of myself wearing some nice tight calvins and cos of the name on the waist band it got rejected lol " Not sure that would be the case, as we have seen plenty of named pants | |||
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"From a lady who isnt a timewaster or a fake ,some simple advice ...change your pictures or at least put on some less obvious ones. A pic of you in nice tight white calvins would attract me a lot more .......or a nice white unbuttoned shirt and nothing else ........and good advice about the forums and chat it works for me . Hi, I tried to put a nice pic of myself wearing some nice tight calvins and cos of the name on the waist band it got rejected lol Not sure that would be the case, as we have seen plenty of named pants " I'll resend then see if it gets accepted , couldn't see any other reason it was clean!.......and so were the pants lol | |||
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"i'm not claiming two weeks is a long time to be on the site and i was not expecting people to be throwing themselves at me but in the short time i've been a member i've discovered unfortunately there seem to be a lot more fake or timewasting people than there are genuine on here. It's a real shame because the site has potential to be a great one. I'm not claiming i have a solution to this problem and i'd like to think a lot of people have found the site much more successful than i have. I've asked for advice on how to make my profile more appealing to others but was met with more criticism than helpful comments. I'm sure it's just a minority but seems people especially single males seem to think belittling people is a good way to work their way up the social network on here. So congratulations to all the fakes, timewasters and bullies, you have as good as convinced yet another genuine swinger that the site is a waste of time!" fabswingers is a better place without you after read both your post's!! pushy people like you give us single males a bad name see ya your loss mate trust me | |||
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"i'm not claiming two weeks is a long time to be on the site and i was not expecting people to be throwing themselves at me but in the short time i've been a member i've discovered unfortunately there seem to be a lot more fake or timewasting people than there are genuine on here. It's a real shame because the site has potential to be a great one. I'm not claiming i have a solution to this problem and i'd like to think a lot of people have found the site much more successful than i have. I've asked for advice on how to make my profile more appealing to others but was met with more criticism than helpful comments. I'm sure it's just a minority but seems people especially single males seem to think belittling people is a good way to work their way up the social network on here. So congratulations to all the fakes, timewasters and bullies, you have as good as convinced yet another genuine swinger that the site is a waste of time! fabswingers is a better place without you after read both your post's!! pushy people like you give us single males a bad name see ya your loss mate trust me " | |||
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"i'm not claiming two weeks is a long time to be on the site and i was not expecting people to be throwing themselves at me but in the short time i've been a member i've discovered unfortunately there seem to be a lot more fake or timewasting people than there are genuine on here. It's a real shame because the site has potential to be a great one. I'm not claiming i have a solution to this problem and i'd like to think a lot of people have found the site much more successful than i have. I've asked for advice on how to make my profile more appealing to others but was met with more criticism than helpful comments. I'm sure it's just a minority but seems people especially single males seem to think belittling people is a good way to work their way up the social network on here. So congratulations to all the fakes, timewasters and bullies, you have as good as convinced yet another genuine swinger that the site is a waste of time! fabswingers is a better place without you after read both your post's!! pushy people like you give us single males a bad name see ya your loss mate trust me " not the your loss comment! hes left so think he decided it wasnt | |||
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"i wasn't getting any before i joined fab , and im still not getting any after 6 months of being a member , so i haven't lost anything therefore cant complain " That's the spirit! | |||
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"i wasn't getting any before i joined fab , and im still not getting any after 6 months of being a member , so i haven't lost anything therefore cant complain " ooo now i feel sorry for you xxx may have to mail . lol xx And your still hanging in there xx | |||
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"thanks all for the genuine advice but my inbox is now a common place for hate mail. Was not slating the site. So apologies to any one i have upset. So i'l delete my profile and wish the nice people on this site the best of luck." i really dont buy this line... 'hate mail', sorry just not having it.. tbh if anyone had a go at another person in a nasty way or said something really crass or insensitive about certain subjects then yes a response would be forthcoming from some... but to attempt to say 'have had hate mail' over the OP, just think its fiction.. | |||
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"I think the OP was lonely, lost and a poor confused soul and we did nothing to save him " As View has stated time and again, when the pursuit of sex on this site is more important than just having a laugh, its time to go. He made the right choice. | |||
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"I think the OP was lonely, lost and a poor confused soul and we did nothing to save him As View has stated time and again, when the pursuit of sex on this site is more important than just having a laugh, its time to go. He made the right choice." It was my attempt at a poor joke lol | |||
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"i wasn't getting any before i joined fab , and im still not getting any after 6 months of being a member , so i haven't lost anything therefore cant complain ooo now i feel sorry for you xxx may have to mail . lol xx And your still hanging in there xx" i'll stick with it , law of averages & all that | |||
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"oh dearie me... dam, dam, dam I have been working hard over the last 2 weeks or I would have sucked you dry.....to the point your testes shrivelled and popped out your japs eye. sorry again " View!!! | |||
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"Haha some things never change " No, the guys moan about the females, the females moan about the men, the straights moan about the bi's, the bare backers are chased from the villages like a scene from an old Frankenstein movie.... No much about the same... I still have my single female profile for getting cock pics sent.... Happy days | |||
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"Haha some things never change No, the guys moan about the females, the females moan about the men, the straights moan about the bi's, the bare backers are chased from the villages like a scene from an old Frankenstein movie.... No much about the same... I still have my single female profile for getting cock pics sent.... Happy days" Haha I can believe that aswell | |||
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