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Do you set your bar high or low

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good afternoon everyone am off work today so it's a good day. I have set my bar high in the past but have found contempment how aboutbyou good people

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Don't understand the question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't understand the question. "
do you seek promotion at work for instance or maybe you are happy at your level x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very selective tbh... always aim high

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Police Squad.

The high you are the further you fall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we’re talking about work I went through a period of setting my bar high in terms of doing the very best I could do in my current role but had no desire to go further.

This was always misinterpreted by my colleagues as “wanting to get ahead”. I never did , I just wanted to do the best I could do.

Roll forward a few years and I did get a promotion and absolutely hated it so asked to go back to my previous role and I’m enjoying it so much more.

You’ve got to do what you enjoy I think, life will get you down otherwise

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm always striving to be better. Not found my ceiling yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I set my bar high but realistically high otherwise I'm just setting myself up for disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we’re talking about work I went through a period of setting my bar high in terms of doing the very best I could do in my current role but had no desire to go further.

This was always misinterpreted by my colleagues as “wanting to get ahead”. I never did , I just wanted to do the best I could do.

Roll forward a few years and I did get a promotion and absolutely hated it so asked to go back to my previous role and I’m enjoying it so much more.

You’ve got to do what you enjoy I think, life will get you down otherwise "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

At work i had a very high bar in terms of my attitude to my job and the way I carried it out. After a stint in a responsible position I realised it wasn't for me and was quite happy doing my work to the best of my ability. Until it got deadly boring do I jumped ship

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At work i had a very high bar in terms of my attitude to my job and the way I carried it out. After a stint in a responsible position I realised it wasn't for me and was quite happy doing my work to the best of my ability. Until it got deadly boring do I jumped ship"

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