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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A breed that only come alive in the bedroom but really have nothing else to say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

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Perfect!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom "
If they want to listen!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

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I’ve met one or two and they haven’t tried to do that at all. Perhaps because I’m so thoroughly moronic that I’m not seen as much of a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us really clever people never use that term.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does one do when they encounter a monosyllabic Sapiosexual?

With a long profile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

I’ve met one or two and they haven’t tried to do that at all. Perhaps because I’m so thoroughly moronic that I’m not seen as much of a challenge "
Play dumb with extreme caution!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom If they want to listen!"

If one has anything worth listening to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. "
I'll try to make you laugh right after a great display of intelligence, OK?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Us really clever people never use that term."
Stop that Leo! It may inflame them!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom If they want to listen!

If one has anything worth listening to "
Sounds like the tightrope walk has just begun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom If they want to listen!

If one has anything worth listening to Sounds like the tightrope walk has just begun!"

Hold on tight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad."
So there just normal people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom If they want to listen!

If one has anything worth listening to Sounds like the tightrope walk has just begun!

Hold on tight "
I have never noticed any handholds during such performances!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. I'll try to make you laugh right after a great display of intelligence, OK?"

That would be rather perfect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. So there just normal people."
their...I got away with that one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. I'll try to make you laugh right after a great display of intelligence, OK?

That would be rather perfect. "
A performing Seal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. I'll try to make you laugh right after a great display of intelligence, OK?

That would be rather perfect. A performing Seal!"

Maybe you'll get a Kiss From A Rose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom If they want to listen!

If one has anything worth listening to Sounds like the tightrope walk has just begun!

Hold on tight I have never noticed any handholds during such performances!"

I never said use your hands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom If they want to listen!

If one has anything worth listening to Sounds like the tightrope walk has just begun!

Hold on tight I have never noticed any handholds during such performances!

I never said use your hands "
Is this the sort of confusing talk Sapiosexuals engage in in the bedroom?

What am I holding on to?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. I'll try to make you laugh right after a great display of intelligence, OK?

That would be rather perfect. A performing Seal!

Maybe you'll get a Kiss From A Rose"

If the whole of Fab had been set up just to make that line work, it would have been worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. I'll try to make you laugh right after a great display of intelligence, OK?

That would be rather perfect. A performing Seal!

Maybe you'll get a Kiss From A Rose"
Intelligence and humour deserving of just a kiss?

OK..because you had great flavour in the way that you put it..I'm hooked!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. I'll try to make you laugh right after a great display of intelligence, OK?

That would be rather perfect. A performing Seal!

Maybe you'll get a Kiss From A Rose

If the whole of Fab had been set up just to make that line work, it would have been worth it "

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By *axtanMan
over a year ago

los Cristianos now

Well said English Rose.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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I put off adding that word to my profile for a long time but then added it because I want a true friend with benefits and found a much better connection with smart people. I am aware it sounds very pretentious but decided I dont give a fuck if it works

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well said English Rose. "
I'm going to take a sneak peak at her profile and if the word Sapiosexual is not found I must doubt her integrity!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I put off adding that word to my profile for a long time but then added it because I want a true friend with benefits and found a much better connection with smart people. I am aware it sounds very pretentious but decided I dont give a fuck if it works So the crux of the matter is to increase your standing in the eyes of others you save your verbal shut for the bedroom?"
verbal smut...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm a boobieosexual

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. So there just normal people. their...I got away with that one!"

They’re

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a boobieosexual "
Some may take offence at that but not those in the know!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. So there just normal people. their...I got away with that one!

They’re "
Not another one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well said English Rose. I'm going to take a sneak peak at her profile and if the word Sapiosexual is not found I must doubt her integrity!"
Yep, it's in there AS BOLD AS BRASS!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I put off adding that word to my profile for a long time but then added it because I want a true friend with benefits and found a much better connection with smart people. I am aware it sounds very pretentious but decided I dont give a fuck if it works"

I like smart people too, fast decision makers , risk takers, successful, leaders in their field or entrepreneurs , but often when I get to know an “intelligent” person online , they are the opposite and speak in riddles to cover it up

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. So there just normal people. their...I got away with that one!"
awww their they're there.... never mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I put off adding that word to my profile for a long time but then added it because I want a true friend with benefits and found a much better connection with smart people. I am aware it sounds very pretentious but decided I dont give a fuck if it works

I like smart people too, fast decision makers , risk takers, successful, leaders in their field or entrepreneurs , but often when I get to know an “intelligent” person online , they are the opposite and speak in riddles to cover it up "
Interesting.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. So there just normal people. their...I got away with that one! awww their they're there.... never mind "
You agree she should have let me get away with those errors?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. So there just normal people. their...I got away with that one! awww their they're there.... never mind You agree she should have let me get away with those errors?"
of course she should of

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does the Sapio in sexual mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. So there just normal people. their...I got away with that one! awww their they're there.... never mind You agree she should have let me get away with those errors?of course she should of "
I knew it!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. So there just normal people. their...I got away with that one! awww their they're there.... never mind You agree she should have let me get away with those errors?of course she should of I knew it!"
should of should have been have ... slipped that one by you ...back of the net!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are attracted to athletic bodies, some people are attracted to brains, etc. Sapiophile and sapiosexual mean you are attracted and aroused by a partner showing intelligence, culture, etc. It doesn't mean you think yourself smarter than everyone else. You can have an average body shape yet be attracted to athletic types, can't you?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I put off adding that word to my profile for a long time but then added it because I want a true friend with benefits and found a much better connection with smart people. I am aware it sounds very pretentious but decided I dont give a fuck if it works So the crux of the matter is to increase your standing in the eyes of others you save your verbal shut for the bedroom? verbal smut..."

If I cared about my standing then maybe so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. So there just normal people. their...I got away with that one! awww their they're there.... never mind You agree she should have let me get away with those errors?of course she should of I knew it!should of should have been have ... slipped that one by you ...back of the net!!! "
It was a great goal!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I put off adding that word to my profile for a long time but then added it because I want a true friend with benefits and found a much better connection with smart people. I am aware it sounds very pretentious but decided I dont give a fuck if it works So the crux of the matter is to increase your standing in the eyes of others you save your verbal shut for the bedroom? verbal smut...

If I cared about my standing then maybe so. "
I definitely understood your initial response and my question was designed to test that response and you have passed the test!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former. "
I cannot challenge this statement as I was not there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people are attracted to athletic bodies, some people are attracted to brains, etc. Sapiophile and sapiosexual mean you are attracted and aroused by a partner showing intelligence, culture, etc. It doesn't mean you think yourself smarter than everyone else. You can have an average body shape yet be attracted to athletic types, can't you?"
You can speak all cockney and a posh voice in the right circumstance sends shivers to your.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people are attracted to athletic bodies, some people are attracted to brains, etc. Sapiophile and sapiosexual mean you are attracted and aroused by a partner showing intelligence, culture, etc. It doesn't mean you think yourself smarter than everyone else. You can have an average body shape yet be attracted to athletic types, can't you?"
Thanks for the input.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. So there just normal people. their...I got away with that one! awww their they're there.... never mind "
I missed the humour too...2-0 to you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former. "
Yes, beauty is no indicator of sexual prowess.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former. Yes, beauty is no indicator of sexual prowess."

It's not even about prowess though of course that helps. But if they can excite my mind the body quickly follows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does the Sapio in sexual mean?"

Its derived from the Italian left back Antonio Sapioli who played for Inter in the 1930's. He is reputed to have had an IQ of 184 and wrote several books on modernist architecture.

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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighsWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere


"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. I'll try to make you laugh right after a great display of intelligence, OK?

That would be rather perfect. A performing Seal!

Maybe you'll get a Kiss From A Rose"

Best come back on the Forums ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

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In my view as a sapiosexual, I listen and watch more than talk.

I'm neither above or below anyone else.

I just love to hear other peoples thoughts, experiences and views, I find it stimulates the mind and you can make a great connection with a person.

As for the bedroom (or wherever sex takes place) I'm more demisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with wanting a bit of intelligence. Mix that with a sense of humour and I'm there. I'll try to make you laugh right after a great display of intelligence, OK?

That would be rather perfect. A performing Seal!

Maybe you'll get a Kiss From A Rose

Best come back on the Forums ever!"

Yes, brilliant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

In my view as a sapiosexual, I listen and watch more than talk.

I'm neither above or below anyone else.

I just love to hear other peoples thoughts, experiences and views, I find it stimulates the mind and you can make a great connection with a person.

As for the bedroom (or wherever sex takes place) I'm more demisexual."
I like this! You will have to explain demisexual to me as I'm not googling is that laziness?

Or I prefer this conversation?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does the Sapio in sexual mean?

Its derived from the Italian left back Antonio Sapioli who played for Inter in the 1930's. He is reputed to have had an IQ of 184 and wrote several books on modernist architecture."
I'm more interested in his left foot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former. Yes, beauty is no indicator of sexual prowess.

It's not even about prowess though of course that helps. But if they can excite my mind the body quickly follows. "
Respect on that but isn't that generally the case anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does the Sapio in sexual mean?

Its derived from the Italian left back Antonio Sapioli who played for Inter in the 1930's. He is reputed to have had an IQ of 184 and wrote several books on modernist architecture. I'm more interested in his left foot!"
Knowing Leo! I'm taking this lightly!!

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By *urAlterEgosCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Q - How do you know if someone is a sapiosexual?

A - They will tell you!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Q - How do you know if someone is a sapiosexual?

A - They will tell you!!! "
Chuckle.

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By *urAlterEgosCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Under Jumper

I thought a sapiosexual was someone that was aroused by intelligence - i guess they could be thick as 2 short planks but like that the other person is smart? I think some just use the term as others have said to be a bit ‘ im smarter than you’ and others maybe to reinforce that a massive cock and abs isnt what gets them going - they want something between the ears more.

That isn’t to say brains and abs with big dick isnt possible theres tons of smart people on here. But theres also tons of knuckle draggers.

Attraction is a funny thing isn’t it? Im just waiting for a woman with such bizarre taste that she finds me irresistible

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought a sapiosexual was someone that was aroused by intelligence - i guess they could be thick as 2 short planks but like that the other person is smart? I think some just use the term as others have said to be a bit ‘ im smarter than you’ and others maybe to reinforce that a massive cock and abs isnt what gets them going - they want something between the ears more.

That isn’t to say brains and abs with big dick isnt possible theres tons of smart people on here. But theres also tons of knuckle draggers.

Attraction is a funny thing isn’t it? Im just waiting for a woman with such bizarre taste that she finds me irresistible "
Thanks for the input, all considered opinions are welcome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence. "
Very true!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

I’ve met one or two and they haven’t tried to do that at all. Perhaps because I’m so thoroughly moronic that I’m not seen as much of a challenge "

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence. "

Agree with this...for this is me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

I’ve met one or two and they haven’t tried to do that at all. Perhaps because I’m so thoroughly moronic that I’m not seen as much of a challenge

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Miss A quietly drifts onto the scene with her noble self x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

east of Stamford


"One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence. "

Innit.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Under Jumper


"One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence.

Agree with this...for this is me!"

For the record - you’re gorgeous- just thought I’d mention it!! X

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence.

Agree with this...for this is me!"

I, too, concur.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

I’ve met one or two and they haven’t tried to do that at all. Perhaps because I’m so thoroughly moronic that I’m not seen as much of a challenge

Miss A quietly drifts onto the scene with her noble self x"

You are a sweetheart x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

I’ve met one or two and they haven’t tried to do that at all. Perhaps because I’m so thoroughly moronic that I’m not seen as much of a challenge

Miss A quietly drifts onto the scene with her noble self x

You are a sweetheart x"
It's true..take care x

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By *scarpatMan
over a year ago

sexy town

Not my type...i had to google it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One doesn't have to be intelligent to be attracted to intelligence.

Innit. "
Innit!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former. Yes, beauty is no indicator of sexual prowess.

It's not even about prowess though of course that helps. But if they can excite my mind the body quickly follows. Respect on that but isn't that generally the case anyway!"

No i think many people are more visual than i am. Nothing wrong with that just as there is nothing wrong with preferring intelligence. Luckily we all have a myriad of preferences so there is a chance for all to find their lid.

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Always cringe when I see someone describe themselves as sapiosexual

Seems pretentious to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All I know is I have had sex with ugly guys with wonderful minds and with incredibly attractive guys with average intelligence and the sex had been much better with the former. Yes, beauty is no indicator of sexual prowess.

It's not even about prowess though of course that helps. But if they can excite my mind the body quickly follows. Respect on that but isn't that generally the case anyway!

No i think many people are more visual than i am. Nothing wrong with that just as there is nothing wrong with preferring intelligence. Luckily we all have a myriad of preferences so there is a chance for all to find their lid. "
Respect on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer casiosexuals.

Love a good watch me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always cringe when I see someone describe themselves as sapiosexual

Seems pretentious to me "
It can be a contentious issue and maybe this (superb) thread can open some mouths or is it hands!?

The saga continues....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too busy discussing quantum entanglement and recreating history instead of fucking… however it takes a clever girl to pull one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer casiosexuals.

Love a good watch me."
A smile for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too busy discussing quantum entanglement and recreating history instead of fucking… however it takes a clever girl to pull one"
The recruitment process is alive and well!

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

So it's all OK and fine being heterosexual homosexual bisexual fab straight TV ts

CD pansexual, crave big cocks big tits big black cocks bbw ssbbw athletes mathletes diggers joggers gym fit slim fit big fit unfit bdsm smokers ch*kers deep throaters but having sapiosexual / sapiophile in your profile is something that it's OK to poke fun at? (I'm aware it sounds a bit like the old advert)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So it's all OK and fine being heterosexual homosexual bisexual fab straight TV ts

CD pansexual, crave big cocks big tits big black cocks bbw ssbbw athletes mathletes diggers joggers gym fit slim fit big fit unfit bdsm smokers ch*kers deep throaters but having sapiosexual / sapiophile in your profile is something that it's OK to poke fun at? (I'm aware it sounds a bit like the old advert) "
My good friend, I have respect for you and have seen you around here many times..but if you reread the thread I wouldn't call it arousing a pisstake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer casiosexuals.

Love a good watch me."

To watch or calculate the next move?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer casiosexuals.

Love a good watch me.

To watch or calculate the next move? "
This sort of question gets the thinkers thinking..I like it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer casiosexuals.

Love a good watch me.

To watch or calculate the next move? This sort of question gets the thinkers thinking..I like it!"
..That!That!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Sapiosexual does and can get quite a bad press at times. It can come across as egotistical or elitist to some, I’ve seen others call it ableist.

To me though it’s the fact that a persons mind or intelligence is attractive to another.

Words and meanings can be clumsy and open to various personal connotations, language is an imperfect tool after all, but to me it’s fairly straightforward and simple; attraction based on the mental not just the physical. Seeing as how so many seem to base attraction on more than just looks, at least some of that must fall into this for many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer casiosexuals.

Love a good watch me.

To watch or calculate the next move? This sort of question gets the thinkers thinking..I like it!..That!That!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad."
On rereading this she makes some interesting points and are they partly true?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sapiosexual does and can get quite a bad press at times. It can come across as egotistical or elitist to some, I’ve seen others call it ableist.

To me though it’s the fact that a persons mind or intelligence is attractive to another.

Words and meanings can be clumsy and open to various personal connotations, language is an imperfect tool after all, but to me it’s fairly straightforward and simple; attraction based on the mental not just the physical. Seeing as how so many seem to base attraction on more than just looks, at least some of that must fall into this for many"
Thanks very much for that input it's an interesting opinion.

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By *gcoopsWoman
over a year ago

London

Looool!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Too busy discussing quantum entanglement and recreating history instead of fucking… however it takes a clever girl to pull one"

You should never mess with the timey wimey thing.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe we need certain words to highlight particular preferences, but is it easy to relate to Sapiosexuals?

After all I (they) may like you.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looool!"
What brings that crazy laughter?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I don't think sapiosexuals (well from my experience and observations on the forum) are particularly. They'll still lust after a not particularly bright, pretty young thing. It sounds nice. An ideal version of who they'd like to sex but intelligence isn't a requirement to get to know them carnally. More a thing they'd like/a way of sounding like they want a deeper connection*.

*obviously not all sapiosexuals, some of them aren't that bad. So there just normal people. their...I got away with that one! awww their they're there.... never mind You agree she should have let me get away with those errors?of course she should of "

Should HAVE. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a big difference between a sapiophile and a sapiosexual though both are massively overused on Fab. A sapiosexual is aroused by intelligence. That is not the same as saying that they find intelligent people more arousing,it is a fetish like being aroused by feet. It means there need be no attraction or interest in the rest of the person, the display of intelligence alone is enough to create sexual arousal. I may be wrong but it seems unlikely that there would be a many people with this rather unique fetish as Fab profiles would have you believe.

A sapiophile is a person who's primary romantic attraction to a person is intellectual. This is perhaps closer to what many mean in that they prefer a person with a perceived level of intelligence as they connect better with such people - whether or not they intend the romantic implications of this word is a different question.

Preferring the company of intelligent people, having more of a connection with them and therefore having better sex isn't sapiosexual. Watching a video of Steven Hawking explain the radiative loss of matter from black holes and finding yourself unable to resist having a wank is. Aside from that, it's an inaccurate way of saying I don't tend to get on with people I consider thick so unless you reach my arbitrary standards of intelligence I'm unlikely to like you never mind fuck you. Oh, and when I say intelligent I mean not less than me but preferably not too much more as that will make me feel inadequate.

Just my opinion of course

Mr

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"So it's all OK and fine being heterosexual homosexual bisexual fab straight TV ts

CD pansexual, crave big cocks big tits big black cocks bbw ssbbw athletes mathletes diggers joggers gym fit slim fit big fit unfit bdsm smokers ch*kers deep throaters but having sapiosexual / sapiophile in your profile is something that it's OK to poke fun at? (I'm aware it sounds a bit like the old advert) My good friend, I have respect for you and have seen you around here many times..but if you reread the thread I wouldn't call it arousing a pisstake."

Sure. If you can re read the op and yawn emoji and think it was not pejorative and intended to poke fun I apologise. There are plenty of posts here that are having a jab at those who choose to use that preference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. "
Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help.

Thanks for your input though.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

ilkley and Stockport

I'm sapient. Not so sure about the sexual. I have got an awful lot of books though. Some of them I've even finished colouring in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So it's all OK and fine being heterosexual homosexual bisexual fab straight TV ts

CD pansexual, crave big cocks big tits big black cocks bbw ssbbw athletes mathletes diggers joggers gym fit slim fit big fit unfit bdsm smokers ch*kers deep throaters but having sapiosexual / sapiophile in your profile is something that it's OK to poke fun at? (I'm aware it sounds a bit like the old advert) My good friend, I have respect for you and have seen you around here many times..but if you reread the thread I wouldn't call it arousing a pisstake.

Sure. If you can re read the op and yawn emoji and think it was not pejorative and intended to poke fun I apologise. There are plenty of posts here that are having a jab at those who choose to use that preference. "
Intended more to be humourously provocative to create discussion.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Malmesbury


"I'm sapient. Not so sure about the sexual. I have got an awful lot of books though. Some of them I've even finished colouring in "

Aaaah yes, but did you stay within the lines?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sapient. Not so sure about the sexual. I have got an awful lot of books though. Some of them I've even finished colouring in "
Broad shoulders (No jibe intended) are needed to bear that humour.

I hope it can get the green light!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sapient. Not so sure about the sexual. I have got an awful lot of books though. Some of them I've even finished colouring in "

I’ve read all this thread with interest … the fact I snort laughed huuugely at “innit” and this post makes me know where abouts I am on intelligence levels x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So it's all OK and fine being heterosexual homosexual bisexual fab straight TV ts

CD pansexual, crave big cocks big tits big black cocks bbw ssbbw athletes mathletes diggers joggers gym fit slim fit big fit unfit bdsm smokers ch*kers deep throaters but having sapiosexual / sapiophile in your profile is something that it's OK to poke fun at? (I'm aware it sounds a bit like the old advert) My good friend, I have respect for you and have seen you around here many times..but if you reread the thread I wouldn't call it arousing a pisstake.

Sure. If you can re read the op and yawn emoji and think it was not pejorative and intended to poke fun I apologise. There are plenty of posts here that are having a jab at those who choose to use that preference. "
I've not seen those other posts.

I've learnt a bit from those on the thread who describe themselves as Sapiosexuals.

That has also taken away a bit of discomfort at the idea of approaching one on here, because I have a better understanding of the idea.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help.

Thanks for your input though. "

Ableism is discrimination against disabled people.

Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So it's all OK and fine being heterosexual homosexual bisexual fab straight TV ts

CD pansexual, crave big cocks big tits big black cocks bbw ssbbw athletes mathletes diggers joggers gym fit slim fit big fit unfit bdsm smokers ch*kers deep throaters but having sapiosexual / sapiophile in your profile is something that it's OK to poke fun at? (I'm aware it sounds a bit like the old advert) My good friend, I have respect for you and have seen you around here many times..but if you reread the thread I wouldn't call it arousing a pisstake.

Sure. If you can re read the op and yawn emoji and think it was not pejorative and intended to poke fun I apologise. There are plenty of posts here that are having a jab at those who choose to use that preference. I've not seen those other posts.

I've learnt a bit from those on the thread who describe themselves as Sapiosexuals.

That has also taken away some discomfort at the idea of approaching one on here, because I have a better understanding of their idea.

Yet I will still be encountering individuals if I do..and people are people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Down with labelism!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help.

Thanks for your input though.

Ableism is discrimination against disabled people.

Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones. "
Why should Sapiosexuals be accused of prejudicing the disabled..I don't see the link?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Down with labelism! "
Get out of here..you must have a label somewhere in your possession..a shirt collar?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help.

Thanks for your input though.

Ableism is discrimination against disabled people.

Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones. "

Is the implication then that if you are disabled or of "lower class" that you can not/are not attracted by "intelligence"? That would seem rather nonsensical.

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By *martin1001Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

If Sapiosexual means being attracted to highly intelligent people, what's the correct term for being attracted to people who are reasonably intelligent, can construct coherent sentences with correct spelling, and go like a steam train?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there is a big difference between a sapiophile and a sapiosexual though both are massively overused on Fab. A sapiosexual is aroused by intelligence. That is not the same as saying that they find intelligent people more arousing,it is a fetish like being aroused by feet. It means there need be no attraction or interest in the rest of the person, the display of intelligence alone is enough to create sexual arousal. I may be wrong but it seems unlikely that there would be a many people with this rather unique fetish as Fab profiles would have you believe.

A sapiophile is a person who's primary romantic attraction to a person is intellectual. This is perhaps closer to what many mean in that they prefer a person with a perceived level of intelligence as they connect better with such people - whether or not they intend the romantic implications of this word is a different question.

Preferring the company of intelligent people, having more of a connection with them and therefore having better sex isn't sapiosexual. Watching a video of Steven Hawking explain the radiative loss of matter from black holes and finding yourself unable to resist having a wank is. Aside from that, it's an inaccurate way of saying I don't tend to get on with people I consider thick so unless you reach my arbitrary standards of intelligence I'm unlikely to like you never mind fuck you. Oh, and when I say intelligent I mean not less than me but preferably not too much more as that will make me feel inadequate.

Just my opinion of course

Mr"
A very informative and well considered opinion.

Fact checkers can check those definitions given and should.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If Sapiosexual means being attracted to highly intelligent people, what's the correct term for being attracted to people who are reasonably intelligent, can construct coherent sentences with correct spelling, and go like a steam train? "
A hell of a ride!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sapient. Not so sure about the sexual. I have got an awful lot of books though. Some of them I've even finished colouring in

I’ve read all this thread with interest … the fact I snort laughed huuugely at “innit” and this post makes me know where abouts I am on intelligence levels x"
Intelligent enough to be understood perfectly.

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

Don’t ask me…I’m a bear of little brain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t ask me…I’m a bear of little brain."

I'm smarter than the average bear.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I am attracted to intelligence but there has to be physical attraction as well. I am not attracted to arrogance - who is? - and find compassion and a sense of humour go a long way towards forming a connection with somebody.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Under Jumper


"If Sapiosexual means being attracted to highly intelligent people, what's the correct term for being attracted to people who are reasonably intelligent, can construct coherent sentences with correct spelling, and go like a steam train? "

Horny! Or if it’s a steam train Hornby!!! - I’ll let Myself out…again!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help.

Thanks for your input though.

Ableism is discrimination against disabled people.

Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones. Why should Sapiosexuals be accused of prejudicing the disabled..I don't see the link?"
You are probably using the word disabled in a wider sense than just physical..but if so wouldn't even that seem offensive to many?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If Sapiosexual means being attracted to highly intelligent people, what's the correct term for being attracted to people who are reasonably intelligent, can construct coherent sentences with correct spelling, and go like a steam train?

Horny! Or if it’s a steam train Hornby!!! - I’ll let Myself out…again!!"
No need for an exit use that tunnel over there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am attracted to intelligence but there has to be physical attraction as well. I am not attracted to arrogance - who is? - and find compassion and a sense of humour go a long way towards forming a connection with somebody."
Wow! Compassion opens doors for others where possible!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am attracted to intelligence but there has to be physical attraction as well. I am not attracted to arrogance - who is? - and find compassion and a sense of humour go a long way towards forming a connection with somebody. Wow! Compassion opens doors for others where possible!"
That's a serious statement and not a flirt!

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By *ystic_connectionsMan
over a year ago

leicester


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

"

So true that . But I feel they should have such educational qualifications to say they’re smart & intelligent to be honest. Not just being street smart .. that doesn’t mean they’re sapiophiles are they ?? X lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" A very informative and well considered opinion.

Fact checkers can check those definitions given and should."

They're the ones in the dictionary which is of course where any true sapiosexual would look

Mr

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Under Jumper


" A very informative and well considered opinion.

Fact checkers can check those definitions given and should.

They're the ones in the dictionary which is of course where any true sapiosexual would look

Mr"

Exactly - mines got pictures in it too!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

So true that . But I feel they should have such educational qualifications to say they’re smart & intelligent to be honest. Not just being street smart .. that doesn’t mean they’re sapiophiles are they ?? X lol "
I'm interested as to why you mentioned street smarts in that.

Are you saying that it's really only all a matter of having guile in your choices..and that covered by a screening of another's intellect?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" A very informative and well considered opinion.

Fact checkers can check those definitions given and should.

They're the ones in the dictionary which is of course where any true sapiosexual would look

Mr"
Thanks Mr

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Don’t ask me…I’m a bear of little brain.

I'm smarter than the average bear. "

I have noticed that, Yogi!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I couldn’t describe myself as sapiosexual as for me it’s a combination of both looks and personality/intellect that makes me want to meet someone. That’s hardly unusual - particularly amongst fellow forumites.

I do find it quite fatuous when many people on here claim to be sapiosexual. I’m tempted to make myself look as hideous as possible - turn up quoting Keats and Shakespeare and demand sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

A breed that only come alive in the bedroom but really have nothing else to say?"

How is that relevant to what the word means, you might well have said, why do vegans go shopping on a Tuesday ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

A breed that only come alive in the bedroom but really have nothing else to say?

How is that relevant to what the word means, you might well have said, why do vegans go shopping on a Tuesday ?!"

On we only shop on Fridays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I’m tempted to make myself look as hideous as possible - turn up quoting Keats and Shakespeare and demand sex! "

Is that a dagger I see before me ?

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over a year ago


"I couldn’t describe myself as sapiosexual as for me it’s a combination of both looks and personality/intellect that makes me want to meet someone. That’s hardly unusual - particularly amongst fellow forumites.

I do find it quite fatuous when many people on here claim to be sapiosexual. I’m tempted to make myself look as hideous as possible - turn up quoting Keats and Shakespeare and demand sex! "
Should I laugh!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help.

Thanks for your input though.

Ableism is discrimination against disabled people.

Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones. Why should Sapiosexuals be accused of prejudicing the disabled..I don't see the link?"

The concept of sapiosexuality is inherently ableist because the markers of "intelligence" in our society are intrinsically ableist too. Literacy is the big obvious one; the society-wide assumption is that someone who struggles with reading and writing is "less intelligent", which discriminates against people with conditions like dyslexia.

Seriously – speak to any neurodiverse individual, and they'll have endless stories of being treated like they're an idiot just because their brains operate differently to the socially mandated "norm".

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over a year ago


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A breed that only come alive in the bedroom but really have nothing else to say?

How is that relevant to what the word means, you might well have said, why do vegans go shopping on a Tuesday ?!"
One thing I do know City is a dictionary shall be in my hands later looking at definitions of..

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help.

Thanks for your input though.

Ableism is discrimination against disabled people.

Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones.

Is the implication then that if you are disabled or of "lower class" that you can not/are not attracted by "intelligence"? That would seem rather nonsensical. "

No, that is not the implication at all. You've got it exactly backwards. The issue is that the concept of "sapiosexuality" discriminates against people who don't display the socially accepted markers of a certain very narrow kind of intelligence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I saw an excellent post on another sex-related website that made a compelling argument that the entire concept of "sapiosexuality" is both ableist and classist. Can you explain ableist (most able?) and classist to us..it would help.

Thanks for your input though.

Ableism is discrimination against disabled people.

Classism is prejudice against people belonging to a particular social class, although in practice it's aimed exclusively at "lower" ones. Why should Sapiosexuals be accused of prejudicing the disabled..I don't see the link?

The concept of sapiosexuality is inherently ableist because the markers of "intelligence" in our society are intrinsically ableist too. Literacy is the big obvious one; the society-wide assumption is that someone who struggles with reading and writing is "less intelligent", which discriminates against people with conditions like dyslexia.

Seriously – speak to any neurodiverse individual, and they'll have endless stories of being treated like they're an idiot just because their brains operate differently to the socially mandated "norm". "
A powerful statement!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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A breed that only come alive in the bedroom but really have nothing else to say?

How is that relevant to what the word means, you might well have said, why do vegans go shopping on a Tuesday ?! One thing I do know City is a dictionary shall be in my hands later looking at definitions of.."
which is a good thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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A breed that only come alive in the bedroom but really have nothing else to say?

How is that relevant to what the word means, you might well have said, why do vegans go shopping on a Tuesday ?!

On we only shop on Fridays "
My OP was brought about by a person who used the word sapiosexual in her profile..yet when encountered in messaging was monosyllabic and that was a person with enough verifications to be real and a well verified (with ALL well written veris!) user of the site.

I did notice she had put the singular word bored....up a few times in updates!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

A breed that only come alive in the bedroom but really have nothing else to say?

How is that relevant to what the word means, you might well have said, why do vegans go shopping on a Tuesday ?!

On we only shop on Fridays My OP was brought about by a person who used the word sapiosexual in her profile..yet when encountered in messaging was monosyllabic and that was a person with enough verifications to be real and a well verified (with ALL well written veris!) user of the site.

I did notice she had put the singular word bored....up a few times in updates!"
She was the final straw thar broke the camels back about that word!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"

A breed that only come alive in the bedroom but really have nothing else to say?

How is that relevant to what the word means, you might well have said, why do vegans go shopping on a Tuesday ?!

On we only shop on Fridays My OP was brought about by a person who used the word sapiosexual in her profile..yet when encountered in messaging was monosyllabic and that was a person with enough verifications to be real and a well verified (with ALL well written veris!) user of the site.

I did notice she had put the singular word bored....up a few times in updates!"

Opposites attract.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Some intellectuals enjoy the company of us less learned people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

A breed that only come alive in the bedroom but really have nothing else to say?

How is that relevant to what the word means, you might well have said, why do vegans go shopping on a Tuesday ?!

On we only shop on Fridays My OP was brought about by a person who used the word sapiosexual in her profile..yet when encountered in messaging was monosyllabic and that was a person with enough verifications to be real and a well verified (with ALL well written veris!) user of the site.

I did notice she had put the singular word bored....up a few times in updates!

Opposites attract."
I'm going to hang you one day!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some intellectuals enjoy the company of us less learned people. "
I thought that went out with Dickens!

BUT they do love to party with us!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

A breed that only come alive in the bedroom but really have nothing else to say?

How is that relevant to what the word means, you might well have said, why do vegans go shopping on a Tuesday ?!

On we only shop on Fridays My OP was brought about by a person who used the word sapiosexual in her profile..yet when encountered in messaging was monosyllabic and that was a person with enough verifications to be real and a well verified (with ALL well written veris!) user of the site.

I did notice she had put the singular word bored....up a few times in updates!

Opposites attract."
She blocked me for my line of friendy inquiry/encouragement..without sex talk!

If I see bored on another update!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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A breed that only come alive in the bedroom but really have nothing else to say?

How is that relevant to what the word means, you might well have said, why do vegans go shopping on a Tuesday ?!

On we only shop on Fridays My OP was brought about by a person who used the word sapiosexual in her profile..yet when encountered in messaging was monosyllabic and that was a person with enough verifications to be real and a well verified (with ALL well written veris!) user of the site.

I did notice she had put the singular word bored....up a few times in updates!

Opposites attract. She blocked me for my line of friendy inquiry/encouragement..without sex talk!

If I see bored on another update!!!!!"
friendly sounds better.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Under Jumper


"I couldn’t describe myself as sapiosexual as for me it’s a combination of both looks and personality/intellect that makes me want to meet someone. That’s hardly unusual - particularly amongst fellow forumites.

I do find it quite fatuous when many people on here claim to be sapiosexual. I’m tempted to make myself look as hideous as possible - turn up quoting Keats and Shakespeare and demand sex! "

verily milady i would pump thine arse with vigour rarely seen outside of the most dedicated of sodomites!! - fancy a shag??

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Sapiosexual is by definition finding intelligence attractive. I consider myself sapiosexual and the intelligence I value is emotional intelligence above all. I wouldn’t say that’s a bad thing, quite the opposite in fact. I think it’s fair to say that although NSA is perfect for some in the lifestyle for a good proportion a bit more depth to an encounter is preferred.

It shows what you’re after not what you are.

Also it’s a lot more inclusive than many would think. Hence it’s a popular word in the lgbtq+ community as it shows what ones preferences are without being specific but equally demonstrating ones ability to find attraction in ways far less shallow than just looks.

For example; I see many women in vanilla life say they want a man who is good at sensing their feelings. That is interpersonal intelligence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if anyone is a Sapiosexual don't message me as I had to look up the word

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Well if anyone is a Sapiosexual don't message me as I had to look up the word "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sapiosexual is by definition finding intelligence attractive. I consider myself sapiosexual and the intelligence I value is emotional intelligence above all. I wouldn’t say that’s a bad thing, quite the opposite in fact. I think it’s fair to say that although NSA is perfect for some in the lifestyle for a good proportion a bit more depth to an encounter is preferred.

It shows what you’re after not what you are.

Also it’s a lot more inclusive than many would think. Hence it’s a popular word in the lgbtq+ community as it shows what ones preferences are without being specific but equally demonstrating ones ability to find attraction in ways far less shallow than just looks.

For example; I see many women in vanilla life say they want a man who is good at sensing their feelings. That is interpersonal intelligence.

"

Beautifully put.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Some intellectuals enjoy the company of us less learned people. I thought that went out with Dickens!

BUT they do love to party with us!!"

Dickensian diatribe has never gone out of fashion though

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Well if anyone is a Sapiosexual don't message me as I had to look up the word "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if anyone is a Sapiosexual don't message me as I had to look up the word "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if anyone is a Sapiosexual don't message me as I had to look up the word "

You win the internet today.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I've found that people who start labelling themselves as sapiosexual are in the same category as guys who claim to be Alpha..

If you have to mention it... you probably aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

A breed that only come alive in the bedroom but really have nothing else to say?

How is that relevant to what the word means, you might well have said, why do vegans go shopping on a Tuesday ?!

On we only shop on Fridays My OP was brought about by a person who used the word sapiosexual in her profile..yet when encountered in messaging was monosyllabic and that was a person with enough verifications to be real and a well verified (with ALL well written veris!) user of the site.

I did notice she had put the singular word bored....up a few times in updates!"

I'm monosyllabic with peeps i don't want to interact with

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I couldn’t describe myself as sapiosexual as for me it’s a combination of both looks and personality/intellect that makes me want to meet someone. That’s hardly unusual - particularly amongst fellow forumites.

I do find it quite fatuous when many people on here claim to be sapiosexual. I’m tempted to make myself look as hideous as possible - turn up quoting Keats and Shakespeare and demand sex! Should I laugh!"

Not if you didn’t find it amusing - no!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I couldn’t describe myself as sapiosexual as for me it’s a combination of both looks and personality/intellect that makes me want to meet someone. That’s hardly unusual - particularly amongst fellow forumites.

I do find it quite fatuous when many people on here claim to be sapiosexual. I’m tempted to make myself look as hideous as possible - turn up quoting Keats and Shakespeare and demand sex!

verily milady i would pump thine arse with vigour rarely seen outside of the most dedicated of sodomites!! - fancy a shag?? "

I’ll be there in half an hour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

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You what? Come again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

You what? Come again? "

You're clearly not Sapiosexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think one has to have something to say, to get them to the bedroom "

"How's u?" Will that do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

You what? Come again?

You're clearly not Sapiosexual "
Sorry, I'm lost! Just give me tits and arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

You what? Come again?

You're clearly not Sapiosexual Sorry, I'm lost! Just give me tits and arse!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say that sapiosexuals as they call themselves on their profiles usually try to outsmart you and rank themselves higher in intelligence at the first opportunity.

You what? Come again?

You're clearly not Sapiosexual Sorry, I'm lost! Just give me tits and arse!"

Will one tit do?

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