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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else get annoyed when people don’t actually include you in “user above” threads and blatantly ignore you every time? Or just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only replying so you ain’t ignored mate haha

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

You get used to it.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Just avoid those threads, not worth stressing over

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

The threads can go at a quick pace, it can easily be missed, would never be intentional. Win some loose some

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"The threads can go at a quick pace, it can easily be missed, would never be intentional. Win some loose some "

Sometimes it's blatantly intentional.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"only replying so you ain’t ignored mate haha "

Haha I see what you did there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You get used to it."

Do you??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just avoid those threads, not worth stressing over "

Highly irritating xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The threads can go at a quick pace, it can easily be missed, would never be intentional. Win some loose some "

Oh it is sometimes xx

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Nah, I like to see how many times I can be ignored for the popular fit woman 4 posts above me

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"The threads can go at a quick pace, it can easily be missed, would never be intentional. Win some loose some "

100% agreed.

OP, you'll probably help yourself a bit if you take note of the advice above, and also quote the person you are replying too. Otherwise confusion reigns.

If it is stressing you, then avoid those type of threads.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah, I like to see how many times I can be ignored for the popular fit woman 4 posts above me "

Aww I’d never ignore you xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The threads can go at a quick pace, it can easily be missed, would never be intentional. Win some loose some

100% agreed.

OP, you'll probably help yourself a bit if you take note of the advice above, and also quote the person you are replying too. Otherwise confusion reigns.

If it is stressing you, then avoid those type of threads."

It doesn’t stress me. It just stresses to me how cliquey the forums can be sometimes xx

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Just avoid those threads, not worth stressing over

Highly irritating xx"

If it is that hurtful, I really would avoid those threads. Loads of mindless trivia you can post on

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Those threads are the best at making single males feel shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up happens to us all

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"You get used to it."

Who said that?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"The threads can go at a quick pace, it can easily be missed, would never be intentional. Win some loose some

100% agreed.

OP, you'll probably help yourself a bit if you take note of the advice above, and also quote the person you are replying too. Otherwise confusion reigns.

If it is stressing you, then avoid those type of threads.

It doesn’t stress me. It just stresses to me how cliquey the forums can be sometimes xx"

It can appear cliquey, but it is no different than a group of friends down the pub. People will always respond more to people they feel they have a connection with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opp if this pisses you off then god help when people dont reply to your messages. This is fab for god sakes and you will be blocked and you will get blanked. Take it on the chin and think i cant be every persons cup of tea. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Opp if this pisses you off then god help when people dont reply to your messages. This is fab for god sakes and you will be blocked and you will get blanked. Take it on the chin and think i cant be every persons cup of tea. Lol"

I feel that every day in this place at some point lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pint "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Those threads are the best at making single males feel shit "

Exactly this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get ignored don’t worry about it im not botherd there are some lovely lady’s on forums kind funny quick witted and intelligent just give it time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The threads can go at a quick pace, it can easily be missed, would never be intentional. Win some loose some

100% agreed.

OP, you'll probably help yourself a bit if you take note of the advice above, and also quote the person you are replying too. Otherwise confusion reigns.

If it is stressing you, then avoid those type of threads.

It doesn’t stress me. It just stresses to me how cliquey the forums can be sometimes xx"

I genuinely hadn't noticed that. They've always been cliquey mate, don't worry about it. There's lots of blowing smoke up arses on here.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Nah, I like to see how many times I can be ignored for the popular fit woman 4 posts above me "

I've not posted on a shag, marry, kiss, pint, murder with a pitchfork thread for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trouble is that they tend to be so quickfire that by the time you respond then you are no longer the aforementioned user above.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The trouble is that they tend to be so quickfire that by the time you respond then you are no longer the aforementioned user above."

Delete post? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, I like to see how many times I can be ignored for the popular fit woman 4 posts above me

I've not posted on a shag, marry, kiss, pint, murder with a pitchfork thread for years "

They amuse me..seeing the men desperate to tell the hot women they want to fuck them like it will actually happen or quickly deleting it if it went to a guy like it makes them gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dosent bother me if I get missed

They quick fire threads 4 people could be posting at the one time

I tryed one night to sort one off the out

At it just became a bunch off user romoved post as ever time I posted I was out of tune

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The current thread, 4 times!! Coincidence?? I think nit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, I like to see how many times I can be ignored for the popular fit woman 4 posts above me

I've not posted on a shag, marry, kiss, pint, murder with a pitchfork thread for years

They amuse me..seeing the men desperate to tell the hot women they want to fuck them like it will actually happen or quickly deleting it if it went to a guy like it makes them gay "

Nailed it.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I really think you’re reading far too much into it. They’re just lighthearted games, I genuinely don’t think they’re having secret meetings where they all agree to ignore abc like in the playground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really think you’re reading far too much into it. They’re just lighthearted games, I genuinely don’t think they’re having secret meetings where they all agree to ignore abc like in the playground "

Yes we do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really think you’re reading far too much into it. They’re just lighthearted games, I genuinely don’t think they’re having secret meetings where they all agree to ignore abc like in the playground "

Nope just the Fab equivalent of that

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here


"I really think you’re reading far too much into it. They’re just lighthearted games, I genuinely don’t think they’re having secret meetings where they all agree to ignore abc like in the playground

Yes we do "

Ahh dang it, do I get an invite?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it’s very easy to get missed on those threads

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here


"I really think you’re reading far too much into it. They’re just lighthearted games, I genuinely don’t think they’re having secret meetings where they all agree to ignore abc like in the playground

Nope just the Fab equivalent of that"

I think maybe log off for a while if you feel that way, will do you no good if you believe that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really think you’re reading far too much into it. They’re just lighthearted games, I genuinely don’t think they’re having secret meetings where they all agree to ignore abc like in the playground

Yes we do

Ahh dang it, do I get an invite?!"

You're niether single or male so automatic entry

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent


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It doesn’t stress me. It just stresses to me how cliquey the forums can be sometimes xx"

You mustn’t use the word ‘cliquey’.

I used it once, and got told off, but I lived to tell the tale.

- From ‘Anonymous’

(Don’t look at my name at the top of this comment )

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Sometimes it’s very easy to get missed on those threads "

Just change your username to Emma Raducanu and I'm sure you'll be fine

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Nah, I like to see how many times I can be ignored for the popular fit woman 4 posts above me

I've not posted on a shag, marry, kiss, pint, murder with a pitchfork thread for years

They amuse me..seeing the men desperate to tell the hot women they want to fuck them like it will actually happen or quickly deleting it if it went to a guy like it makes them gay "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take it personally,its only fun.when it stops being fun and is affecting you.best stop for a while.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't take it personally,its only fun.when it stops being fun and is affecting you.best stop for a while."

But that bugs me. Why should I be the one to leave? Surely this place shouldn’t feel exclusive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect most of my forum contributions to be ignored (and not just the 'person above' threads)

As a single bloke, not particularly looking to meet, not particularly a smoke blower, not particularly social, not particularly chatty or pro-active in messaging others, I occupy a comfortable seat on the periphery

If I came here to be acknowledged, I think I'd find myself particularly short changed pretty quickly

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