FabSwingers.com forum: Humour

By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

So…. When you are building up to a meet and physically they tick every box for you but the ability to laugh together isn’t there…. Do you walk or is it essential ..

Essential for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's essential! If they don't have humour they may as well be dead to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're funnier than me then I'm not interested.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

They definitely need a sense of humour to meet me

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"It's essential! If they don't have humour they may as well be dead to me."

Dead to you?? Harsh but fair

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If they're funnier than me then I'm not interested. "

Dam it

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"If they're funnier than me then I'm not interested. "

Is that even possible

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Essential, you could be melting my knickers off with your looks but if your as dull as a rock it just isn't gonna do it for me

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"They definitely need a sense of humour to meet me

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"Essential, you could be melting my knickers off with your looks but if your as dull as a rock it just isn't gonna do it for me

*googles how to melt knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's essential! If they don't have humour they may as well be dead to me.

Dead to you?? Harsh but fair

It's true I really don't see people who do not have humour as people I just see them as dead people who are lost and here before their time

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"It's essential! If they don't have humour they may as well be dead to me.

Dead to you?? Harsh but fair

It's true I really don't see people who do not have humour as people I just see them as dead people who are lost and here before their time "

Best they buy some joke books

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think a sense of humour is essential you’ve got to laugh

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"I do think a sense of humour is essential you’ve got to laugh "

I agree…. If you don’t have that connection before hand it’s a tough job building the tension

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

If I meet them and they can't stop laughing it's annoying

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"If I meet them and they can't stop laughing it's annoying

Especially when I take my clothes off

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

A sense of humour is essential.

I wouldn’t want to meet someone who’s as dull as dish water.

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"A sense of humour is essential.

I wouldn’t want to meet someone who’s as dull as dish water.

Even if they ticked every other box ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the first thing I connect with. If it's not there then chat won't even get rolling, let alone a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every interaction I have on here is based on humour. I would meet for a coffee unless they could make me chuckle.

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"Probably the first thing I connect with. If it's not there then chat won't even get rolling, let alone a meet."

Nothing better than making someone laugh… with you though not at you (please see above about being naked)

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"Every interaction I have on here is based on humour. I would meet for a coffee unless they could make me chuckle."

It would be a dull coffee otherwise

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Definitely not essential, just preferred.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"A sense of humour is essential.

I wouldn’t want to meet someone who’s as dull as dish water.

Even if they ticked every other box ??"

Yes, even if they ticked every box for me.

Life’s to short to be serious 24/7.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Essential, you could be melting my knickers off with your looks but if your as dull as a rock it just isn't gonna do it for me

*googles how to melt knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essential. Otherwise I'd look like an idiot laughing to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like walking

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"Essential. Otherwise I'd look like an idiot laughing to myself."

Always laugh at your own inner thoughts

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Essential

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"I like walking

Keeps your steps up

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Essential....

I mean.. what's life without humour. But I suppose some people are just looking for a shag.....

No find someone who will make you laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like walking

Keeps your steps up

It does indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour is essential, and being able to keep up with the banter too.

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"Essential....

I mean.. what's life without humour. But I suppose some people are just looking for a shag.....

No find someone who will make you laugh. "

For me laughing together before deed helps the attraction and sexual tension

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Essential but... everyone's sense of humour is different. The most important thing is I can make them laugh because I need constant validation and flattery.

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Essential....

I mean.. what's life without humour. But I suppose some people are just looking for a shag.....

No find someone who will make you laugh.

For me laughing together before deed helps the attraction and sexual tension "

It would bode well for me that laughing helped with attraction.... I would feel more confident about being naked with them then

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"Essential but... everyone's sense of humour is different. The most important thing is I can make them laugh because I need constant validation and flattery."

Yep… absolutely get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,humour is so important,and banter,the ability to laugh at myself,means I'm not at all arrogant and self loving .and it shows warmth and your comfortable with me

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Essential but... everyone's sense of humour is different. The most important thing is I can make them laugh because I need constant validation and flattery."

That's the point really; it's another dimension of compatibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like walking

Very funny person ^

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

A sense of humour is vital to us, it even says that on our profile. We are a couple who heartedly laugh every day and appreciate laughter, so we need a sense of humour in those that we meet. Can't be doing with dull.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Definitely an essential for me….I’m hugely attracted to a guy who can make me laugh one way whilst running their hands up my leg the other.

It’s having a mix of all of the boxes being filled.

But it’s not something that has to always be there, just being funny wouldn’t work as it’s important to have more depth to each convo

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I like mushrooms, so I must be a fungi....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s vital they laugh at my jokes.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Essential. Otherwise I'd look like an idiot laughing to myself."

Does laughing at your own jokes class you as an idiot because I do that a lot

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It's essential for me to be able to laugh at yourself and each other. I've been talking to someone since yesterday that I met through somewhere else and she's ticking every box and we're meeting on Tuesday

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"It's essential for me to be able to laugh at yourself and each other. I've been talking to someone since yesterday that I met through somewhere else and she's ticking every box and we're meeting on Tuesday

That’s quick work

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"Essential. Otherwise I'd look like an idiot laughing to myself.

Does laughing at your own jokes class you as an idiot because I do that a lot

Are you asking if you are an idiot ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually overdo it with humour and misplaced sarcasm straight out of the gate and so rarely get to the point where we are going to meet as they don't get much of what I find funny...

...but at least I found it all funny, as I'm sitting horny and alone

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"It’s vital they laugh at my jokes."

He stole Bob Monkhouse's joke book ^

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"I usually overdo it with humour and misplaced sarcasm straight out of the gate and so rarely get to the point where we are going to meet as they don't get much of what I find funny...

...but at least I found it all funny, as I'm sitting horny and alone

It’s all about context on messages… I’m dry and sarcastic… can come across as a cock womble

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Yay! This makes me happy

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I also vet all potential mates by making them watch Blackadder Goes Forth and asking them to write a 5,000 word treatise on the use of satire as a polemical tool.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Essential. Otherwise I'd look like an idiot laughing to myself.

Does laughing at your own jokes class you as an idiot because I do that a lot

Are you asking if you are an idiot ??

I laugh at my own messages I send out or jokes all the time….I might be I guess

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"If they're funnier than me then I'm not interested. "

Are you funny?

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Awww hope it all goes well for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They must have an excellent sense of hummus.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If they're funnier than me then I'm not interested.

Are you funny?"

Humour him and pretend he is.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"If they're funnier than me then I'm not interested.

Are you funny?

Humour him and pretend he is."

Deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually overdo it with humour and misplaced sarcasm straight out of the gate and so rarely get to the point where we are going to meet as they don't get much of what I find funny...

...but at least I found it all funny, as I'm sitting horny and alone

It’s all about context on messages… I’m dry and sarcastic… can come across as a cock womble

Well that makes me feel better: I thought it was just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally say something jokey at the beginning, if the reply is serious then that's the end of the road

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By *elshkinky OP Man
over a year ago

south wales

"I normally say something jokey at the beginning, if the reply is serious then that's the end of the road

Like a knock knock joke

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I dont love humour

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Guess who can make me laugh???

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

That’s quick work

I don't hang about

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yay! This makes me happy

Nervous and excited, she's lush

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Awww hope it all goes well for you

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour is the most important part alongside trust in my opinion. Without either of those its a nin starter.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

A similar sense of humour is great but not essential for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A similar sense of humour is great but not essential for me. "

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Essential.

If we've got to the stage of arranging a meet then she's either hilarious or not been taking her meds.

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By *ales lookingMan
over a year ago

gwynedd

Women always giggle when I take my pants down so I'm obviously winning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what it is

essential For like a fb or fwb thing

If it’s just a one night stand then not that important as long as going in we know it’s just mindless sex nothing more nothing less

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By *onzo888100Man
over a year ago

Bangor

I'd just walk. If they've no sense of humor, then that's it. Life's too short to be dull and boring

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd assume that someone may be too nervous to laugh and be fully themselves on a first meet.

It's potentially a long jump away from being on different wavelengths, though that could happen.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

"Essential but... everyone's sense of humour is different. The most important thing is I can make them laugh because I need constant validation and flattery."

Vell hello. I'm Vlad ze Impaler and you haf ze nice boobies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually overdo it with humour and misplaced sarcasm straight out of the gate and so rarely get to the point where we are going to meet as they don't get much of what I find funny...

...but at least I found it all funny, as I'm sitting horny and alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So…. When you are building up to a meet and physically they tick every box for you but the ability to laugh together isn’t there…. Do you walk or is it essential ..

Essential for me

Humour is paramount for me... It's all to do with the connection...I was seeing a guy from here but OMG he was the driest person I ever ever met...He Never laughed & was always so serious

a complete turn off tbh...& Yup I walked...fk that ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's important for me, if they take life seriously we just won't get on. I love someone who can take banter aswell as give it back to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find on a first date you can get some laughs but you tend to behave a little more just in ads you let out your full humour and scare them off! You’ve got to feed in the dark humour little by little

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

No connection via humour is a turn off for me

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"It's important for me, if they take life seriously we just won't get on. I love someone who can take banter aswell as give it back to me."

Oh - I'd give to you alright.........

Arrrh, you didn't mean it that way.... Errrm.

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