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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

WARNING, this post contains no information on herbs.

What advice would you give to a newbie on here based on you're own Fabalicious experiences.

I'll get the ball rolling.

If someone messages to say "I'm comming to your area in the next few weeks" be aware that they probably won't be.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Trust your instincts.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Don't get drawn into sex chat...they just want wank material

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Don’t try to be something you’re not. Just be yourself

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Don't feel pressured to share a phone number (or similar) to chat off the site.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Manage expectations, a response or meet is not going to happen straight away.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

You'll come across some really nice people and also many cocks, the wanted and the unwanted kind.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Don’t expect to much patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared to be googleing things somethings can be a shock at first

Don’t worry though you will grow numb to it and nothing sexual will faze or shock you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some lovely lady’s and gents have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient, good meets take thyme.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't get drawn into sex chat...they just want wank material "

Oh the classic "what would you do to me?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be patient, good meets take thyme."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be prepared to be googleing things somethings can be a shock at first

Don’t worry though you will grow numb to it and nothing sexual will faze or shock you"

Unless you get into electro play, that's pretty shocking ;-p

I think the urban dictionary post had me googling many things I had to rinse my brain out after reading lol

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Would have to be amazing sex chat to getb a rise out of me even more so a wank.

Different things work for different poeple. We have always spent time getting to know people to see if there is a connection. Some just like to jump in with both feet.

But experience has tought us that people can't help themselves and often you can tell very quickly which way the wind is bowing which would result in conversation end with a polite no. Then they'll come into forums and chat calling us time wasters. But dont loose any sleep over it

So simple truth is don't take people here on face value, getting to know them works cos sooner or later they'll slip up if they are not genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't feel pressured to share a phone number (or similar) to chat off the site.

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I've found if someone asks for kik they never meet.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Stay away from drama and those who seem to seek it out.

Enjoy yourself and trust your instincts if you get a hinky feeling walk away.

Always meet for a social first in a public place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid the Vol au vents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel the need to explain yourself to anyone on here. You are here for your own reasons and motivations. Unless you're doing anything illegal, crack on!

Use the filter function on your messages. Saves a lot of grief in the long run.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Don't get drawn into sex chat...they just want wank material

Oh the classic "what would you do to me?" "

Yep

Or an essay on what they want to do to me.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Sort your profile out before you send copy and paste messages. Don’t upload cock pics on your profile.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone says faf make sure you say yes and then request admin to change your profile to a male called dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be prepared to be googleing things somethings can be a shock at first

Don’t worry though you will grow numb to it and nothing sexual will faze or shock you

Unless you get into electro play, that's pretty shocking ;-p

I think the urban dictionary post had me googling many things I had to rinse my brain out after reading lol"

Ha ha not something I have tryed is electro play ha ha but I presume it would be pretty shocking to say the least and and yes some stuff can be lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't get drawn into sex chat...they just want wank material

Oh the classic "what would you do to me?"

Yep

Or an essay on what they want to do to me."

Especially when it says "lift me onto the bed" unless you have a forklift you're not lifting me anywhere lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would have to be amazing sex chat to getb a rise out of me even more so a wank.

Different things work for different poeple. We have always spent time getting to know people to see if there is a connection. Some just like to jump in with both feet.

But experience has tought us that people can't help themselves and often you can tell very quickly which way the wind is bowing which would result in conversation end with a polite no. Then they'll come into forums and chat calling us time wasters. But dont loose any sleep over it

So simple truth is don't take people here on face value, getting to know them works cos sooner or later they'll slip up if they are not genuine."

Wise words indeed

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Don't waste your time trying to chase, and don't be one of those 'genuine, professional, nice guys'

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm moving near you soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of the so called single women arent they just dont blare it out on the forums like us men do haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't play your cards close, don't be surprised when people ask questions about your nonsense sounding claims

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

If you ask for a meet and they say ‘careful what you wish for’ ….they will string you along into a cul-de-sac of disappointment.

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Don't feel pressured to share a phone number (or similar) to chat off the site.

I've found if someone asks for kik they never meet. "

Not necessarily true. I ask for kik as my phone is a works phone so can’t access Fab when on 4g so easier on kik and absolutely always meet.

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By *ibonacciMan
over a year ago

hidden location

Do or do not. There is no try.

- Master Yoda.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

For a guy… Don’t try too hard , if it’s too much effort you’re doing it all wrong, Send about as many messages a month as you receive and be patient build relationships and don’t try and get all your sex from this one site or you may be disappointed.

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