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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester

How are you doing today? I’m having one of those days/weeks where I’ve no bloody idea what to do with myself. My anxiety is spiking and I’m a right grouchy cow. You know where you’re overwhelmingly sad/angry/agitated but with no real cause or resolution…

What do you do when you’re like this?

Do you get like this?

What’s going on in your life to make you feel something right now?

Sometimes just saying it out loud helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horny mixed with very easily irritable… overall, more good than bad x

I get what u mean I used to be engulfed with latent anxiety, and it was horrid as I couldn’t pin point why…I hate the feeling of being anxious . I hope you feel better soon OP, try do lots of breath work as that helps a lot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hyper. Happy. Hopeful.

Now... my happy hysteria aside.. my self help tool box consists of various things. Cutting off root of anxiety if possible - radical and best treatment. Works here a treat. If not possible then just letting those emotions ride through but not clenching them between your brain folds.. I cry. Angrily usually. Then there is that emptiness and a space to fill it again with self kindness. I nourish myself with good people around me, with simple conversations and deep ones if simple won't cut the deal. I touch myself lovingly pampering or even brushing my hair like my Grandma would. I read things which remind me what a fucking strong person I am and it's all there. I twirl around dancing wildly and letting those anxious feelings evaporate with sweat. And so on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am good op thanks for asking and awww hugs to you op hopefully you feel better soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm feeling good. After getting over an eye problem I had some busy days ahead that finished yesterday. So today is a 'and breathe' day. And I'm enjoying it.

When I feel agitated and stressed I either...

Go for a drive where I can do a decent speed with loud music on.

Sit in a hot bath for an hour.

Buy something fancy for dinner with a fancy dessert.

Zone out and watch a film.

Or get mister to sort me out with impact play and restraints. That works a treat.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Oh Saff.... anxiety is such a bitch and I wish you didn't have that.

No ideas or resolutions ever spring to mind, when I get that way I'm a duvet diver. Just curl up and shut out the world. And then get stupid on the forum to try and distract myself.

I'm mostly feeling overwhelmed, helpless, confused and sad at the moment. Also like I want to try fisting but only in order to pull my lady parts out of me by the uterus so I stop bleeding to death. I'm not sure that's how it's meant to be done though.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I'm bored frustrated and totally fed up. Other than that I'm good

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I feel for you saf, I am up and down at the moment, I am sure it will pass.

If not you know where I am if you want to vent or chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending you hugs lovely. I can relate at the moment

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

In all honesty, awful. I’m all over the place; angry, sad, anxious, numb, the full grief box set.

When I’m low I tend to shut off, isolate myself or go the other way and want to talk to people, I try to fight the isolation feelings as I know that it’s no good for me.

If getting out doesn’t help then I write, if writing doesn’t help then I talk.

I know that these feelings will pass, I try to let them flow over and through me, let them pass like water and not let them define me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To eat ur pussy til u cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mood right now is dark and bleak.

I will shake myself up soon, I am just really bad at being injured, and angry with myself about it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

You know how mine is. One of the worst weeks in a long time. I could do with a break from life on an island somewhere. I’m not usually one to moan on here but today I’m gonna! Never felt this down in a long time

Hugs to everyone xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anxious, overwhelmed, annoyed, sad.

Too much going on at the moment for one person to deal with.

I need a break

Big love to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have some anxiety and depression at the moment, I'm not sure I've been aware of anxiety like before so it's new to me and I don't know why and I don't know how to fix it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we should book a Fab on tour holiday! Let's recharge and take stock

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Horny mixed with very easily irritable… overall, more good than bad x

I get what u mean I used to be engulfed with latent anxiety, and it was horrid as I couldn’t pin point why…I hate the feeling of being anxious . I hope you feel better soon OP, try do lots of breath work as that helps a lot x "

I stayed in bed an extra hour just to match my breathing to my snorey old dog defo helps x

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Hyper. Happy. Hopeful.

Now... my happy hysteria aside.. my self help tool box consists of various things. Cutting off root of anxiety if possible - radical and best treatment. Works here a treat. If not possible then just letting those emotions ride through but not clenching them between your brain folds.. I cry. Angrily usually. Then there is that emptiness and a space to fill it again with self kindness. I nourish myself with good people around me, with simple conversations and deep ones if simple won't cut the deal. I touch myself lovingly pampering or even brushing my hair like my Grandma would. I read things which remind me what a fucking strong person I am and it's all there. I twirl around dancing wildly and letting those anxious feelings evaporate with sweat. And so on. "

Sorted my roots out and made myself look slightly human need a decent front for a family dinner. X

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"You know how mine is. One of the worst weeks in a long time. I could do with a break from life on an island somewhere. I’m not usually one to moan on here but today I’m gonna! Never felt this down in a long time

Hugs to everyone xxxx"

I know everything seems to bloody like on at once!! You’ll get through it x can I come?!? We can have separate islands to shout on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel hungry cause I have -£3 and don't get paid for a week, staying in bed conserving energy

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"In all honesty, awful. I’m all over the place; angry, sad, anxious, numb, the full grief box set.

When I’m low I tend to shut off, isolate myself or go the other way and want to talk to people, I try to fight the isolation feelings as I know that it’s no good for me.

If getting out doesn’t help then I write, if writing doesn’t help then I talk.

I know that these feelings will pass, I try to let them flow over and through me, let them pass like water and not let them define me.

"

You’re very entitled to feel that way and you know we are here always one day at a time x

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

It’s been a crappy week. Happy, sad, crying, laughing.

When I feel that wave of sadness coming over me I’ll take the dogs to the park, clean and sort closets, bake. Some days it help and some days it doesn’t.

Big hug to you OP and everyone here.

And Nora, Bora Bora sounds like a perfect relaxation island.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit generically down, which is actually pretty good for me.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I am good op thanks for asking and awww hugs to you op hopefully you feel better soon"

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I feel hungry cause I have -£3 and don't get paid for a week, staying in bed conserving energy "

Noooo have you reached out to anyone? There are amazing people who are the safety net for times like this x

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm sorry to read so many unhappy posts. Sending peaceful vibes X

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Anxious, overwhelmed, annoyed, sad.

Too much going on at the moment for one person to deal with.

I need a break

Big love to you "

Hope things improve soon Chuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh so many people struggling.. Sending love to all and hope you all have a better week on the horizon

OP, i tend to go out for a walk, or immerse myself in cooking something complicated that needs my brain power when i feel like that

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Try a taichi visualisation... standing in a warm shower and starting from your head and slowly working down allow the warm water to wash your tensions away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm feeling quite numb today,which is a relief after so much time feeling stressed and miserable. Sending love to everyone that's struggling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Saff, I know those feelings

Life has thrown me a couple of shitty curveballs this last 12 months

I am glad my resolve is winning out over my anxiety spikes, but some days spit me out the other end a demented, emotional, rambling wreck

You have friends, family & colleagues

Hold on to them

I know I'd have been in a much crappier place without the support of mine

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m ok, which considering how crap things have been for a long time, is bloody brilliant.

To those who need a hug, there’s one right here. If you need help, I urge you to get it and take some of the shit away. Better times are ahead but it can be a battle to get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gosh so many people struggling.. Sending love to all and hope you all have a better week on the horizon

OP, i tend to go out for a walk, or immerse myself in cooking something complicated that needs my brain power when i feel like that

"

Oh i didn't say how i am feeling... A little flat - I'm super tired and have a headache, raised temp and sore throat .. I think i am ill But soldiering through!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel hungry cause I have -£3 and don't get paid for a week, staying in bed conserving energy

Noooo have you reached out to anyone? There are amazing people who are the safety net for times like this x"

lol NEVER ask for help. Enforced fasting , keeps me lean. Nothing compared to the emotional issues others are having

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Sending you hugs lovely. I can relate at the moment "

Back at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are you doing today? I’m having one of those days/weeks where I’ve no bloody idea what to do with myself. My anxiety is spiking and I’m a right grouchy cow. You know where you’re overwhelmingly sad/angry/agitated but with no real cause or resolution…

What do you do when you’re like this?

Do you get like this?

What’s going on in your life to make you feel something right now?

Sometimes just saying it out loud helps "

Same very maudlin here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. Putting on a brave face, getting on with the day to day, but in the background, mind's constantly wandering into the realms of "what if".

What do I do about it? I don't know? I read someone say somewhere, sometimes the right thing to do and the hard thing to do are often the same thing ...ain't that the truth.

Cwtches to all that need 'em

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By *ornynhot123Woman
over a year ago

Dublin 22

Oh you just literally made me lol ?? u somehow managed to describe my week to a T and like yourself I cannot come up with an answer ?? anxiety, frustration (maybe?) but eitherways I get it!! Sitting here myself thinking what will I do or what can I do to uplift those spirits after the shittiest week EVER!! any ideas within reason lol would also be greatly appreciated and well received ?? I'll keep an eye on this thread ha! Best of luck ?? hope maybe 2day or whenever will make up 4 that crazy wk I can sooooooo relate....honestly!

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Gripped by ennui

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear so many are finding it tough going at the moment. Self care and small wins where you can will help.

This too shall pass

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Same here. Putting on a brave face, getting on with the day to day, but in the background, mind's constantly wandering into the realms of "what if".

What do I do about it? I don't know? I read someone say somewhere, sometimes the right thing to do and the hard thing to do are often the same thing ...ain't that the truth.

Cwtches to all that need 'em

"

Truth. There isn’t always a resolution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you like some penis to cheer you up OP?

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Would you like some penis to cheer you up OP? "

Yours? No. Ta

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Apologies need to go fo a family thing I need like a joke in the head… will catch up later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling very flat,emotional and totally burnt out, but hey ho life goes on

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"How are you doing today? I’m having one of those days/weeks where I’ve no bloody idea what to do with myself. My anxiety is spiking and I’m a right grouchy cow. You know where you’re overwhelmingly sad/angry/agitated but with no real cause or resolution…

What do you do when you’re like this?

Do you get like this?

What’s going on in your life to make you feel something right now?

Sometimes just saying it out loud helps "

Hugs xxxx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Sending you hugs Saff - it’s not a good place to be and even more so when you don’t know what causes it

I’m having a burn it day ….. cathartic confidential waste bonfire and a beer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sort of in a high happy mood, but have lots of different 'things' wound right up to bursting point with me, so if even one of those tips over the edge then I shall set the whole thing on fire and stride off into the smoky horizon type of mood. Or would like to. In reality I will just cry, shrug and start at the bottom again. Hope you feel ok soon. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are you doing today? I’m having one of those days/weeks where I’ve no bloody idea what to do with myself. My anxiety is spiking and I’m a right grouchy cow. You know where you’re overwhelmingly sad/angry/agitated but with no real cause or resolution…

What do you do when you’re like this?

Do you get like this?

What’s going on in your life to make you feel something right now?

Sometimes just saying it out loud helps "

I’d usually head to my local range. Shoot shit or throw axes. It’s an amazing way to de stress x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are you doing today? I’m having one of those days/weeks where I’ve no bloody idea what to do with myself. My anxiety is spiking and I’m a right grouchy cow. You know where you’re overwhelmingly sad/angry/agitated but with no real cause or resolution…

What do you do when you’re like this?

Do you get like this?

What’s going on in your life to make you feel something right now?

Sometimes just saying it out loud helps

I’d usually head to my local range. Shoot shit or throw axes. It’s an amazing way to de stress x "

I watched the axe throwing at our local range, I bet that is so satisfying to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hyper. Happy. Hopeful.

Now... my happy hysteria aside.. my self help tool box consists of various things. Cutting off root of anxiety if possible - radical and best treatment. Works here a treat. If not possible then just letting those emotions ride through but not clenching them between your brain folds.. I cry. Angrily usually. Then there is that emptiness and a space to fill it again with self kindness. I nourish myself with good people around me, with simple conversations and deep ones if simple won't cut the deal. I touch myself lovingly pampering or even brushing my hair like my Grandma would. I read things which remind me what a fucking strong person I am and it's all there. I twirl around dancing wildly and letting those anxious feelings evaporate with sweat. And so on.

Sorted my roots out and made myself look slightly human need a decent front for a family dinner. X"

You are there now. I hope its a sort of a gathering where one charges their batteries!

And light and strength to those who struggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffer from anxiety and struggling with unrequited love (while she's playing about with several young men).

So I dragged myself out for a run. It helps. But now I'm back I'm here trying to just meet people. Hello people

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