FabSwingers.com forum: What non sexual thing do you miss a partner doing now your single

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mine is having my ear hair plucked out as its so difficult getting them out by myself . Couldn't grow a beard to save my life but my ear hair grows incredibly fast and long . Loved resting on her lap as she throughly gave them a good pull with the tweezers .

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

The cleaning

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Conversation. Specifically early evening, glass of wine, listening to music, eating nibbles in front of the fire wild and varied conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The cleaning

100% the cleaning

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

So many things...sofa snuggles, cooking together, giving me a hug and a kiss on the forehead if I'm having a bad day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many things...sofa snuggles, cooking together, giving me a hug and a kiss on the forehead if I'm having a bad day."

I liked it when you kissed my head

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

The intimacy and having that person there that you share everything with, even just a daft joke.

Excuse me whilst I just cry quietly in the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The intimacy and having that person there that you share everything with, even just a daft joke.

Excuse me whilst I just cry quietly in the corner"

Hugs x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"So many things...sofa snuggles, cooking together, giving me a hug and a kiss on the forehead if I'm having a bad day.

I liked it when you kissed my head "

Only because I ruffled your hair and called you a good boy afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back rubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many things...sofa snuggles, cooking together, giving me a hug and a kiss on the forehead if I'm having a bad day.

I liked it when you kissed my head

Only because I ruffled your hair and called you a good boy afterwards

Get a room lol xxx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I don't miss my ex wife doing anything

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Giving a shit about my day.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I don’t miss my ex but it would be nice to cosy up on the sofa with a significant other without having to get dressed up but still find it exciting to get dressed up for them too

Oh and diy skills are missed

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By *ino70Man
over a year ago

Telford

Holding hands when out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just being there and giving me a hug x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Electric screwdriving. No matter how hard I hold it in, it always just rounds of the screw at warp speed, I dont understand. And plenty of other things besides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my ex zero. From other partners. The smile when they see me, the affection, having someone to cook for (feeder) and look after. Tenderness, touching, holding hands, so much really.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I do miss cuddles and their feet up over my legs while sat chatting on the settee.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Electric screwdriving. No matter how hard I hold it in, it always just rounds of the screw at warp speed, I dont understand. And plenty of other things besides. "

Make sure you’re using the right tip, PZ2 instead of Philips depending on the screw. Push in straight and hard then get the screwdriver turning slowly.

Can’t help with the other things though

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Cuddling in bed whatching tv together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminding me about the things that needed done that I always forgot about, like renewing stuff or a relatives birthday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing!

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Talking, even just having silly conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely nothing! "

Quality!

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Accepting me the way I am and being able to be myself.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

To many things to mention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching a film together and having a giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spooning. It was the best feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he checked my meter readings.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Going golf for the day and leaving me in peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cynics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going golf for the day and leaving me in peace."

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

"The intimacy and having that person there that you share everything with, even just a daft joke.

Excuse me whilst I just cry quietly in the corner"

The intimacy I really miss

Cuddles and squeezes on tap, kissing and face stroking, random wrestling...

I just miss being held when I need it really

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By *edsmudgeMan
over a year ago

oxford

"To many things to mention"

Yeah this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles and snuggles when you need it, hair stroking and massages.

When I really can’t do something, and there’s no one there to help me.

When I hear a funny noise late at night and I’m scared

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Explaining things to me that I don't understand.

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By *edsmudgeMan
over a year ago

oxford

"To many things to mention

Yeah this"

But I thinking it can be summed up by

Having a purpose ,

Well this tread changed my Sunday mood …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ironing I bloody hate doing it don't mind cleaning but ironing no thinking of taking it to a ironing service that opened up round corner I hate it that much

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Cuddles, spooning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cuddles, spooning "

Just not the same with a pillow is it?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Someone just touching me just because I'm there, a brush of a hand on the shoulder as they get up off the settee, a kiss while I'm making coffee. And spooning snuggles in bed. Reaching out a hand and meeting theirs half way.

Being in a group of people and sharing a look that is just for the two of you. Or knowing with a look that it is time to go.

I miss the small things.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

The cuddles, the gentle touches as they pass, the random conversation

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

The cuddles, the touching and nights cuddled up on the sofa.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Tbh I’ve never had a ‘good’ domestic relationship. Sometimes that makes me sad - at others it makes me happy because I’ve nothing to miss.

Certainly never had a relationship where I was made to feel cherished or appreciated. X

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Impromptu hugs or an arse to slap cheekily as I walk past... or being an ear to listen and to care

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Tbh I’ve never had a ‘good’ domestic relationship. Sometimes that makes me sad - at others it makes me happy because I’ve nothing to miss.

Certainly never had a relationship where I was made to feel cherished or appreciated. X"

I feel this to my soul. It's a long way back where I felt any of the things I mentioned and they were alternated with far less gentle touches and actions.

Everyone should feel cherished and appreciated Peachy.... and I hope you find yours

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I miss the sofa snuggles and the gentle strokes. Also being able to squeeze someone's spots without them thinking I'm weird....it's therapeutic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holding her hand and sitting tight..real tight ..with her ..

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Some company when having your tea, or watching a film. That person you want to ring or text when you wake up or before you go to bed, cuddles! X

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

From my ex spouse, nothing. From an ex , late night conversations, talking about our day, cuddles while watching crap tv, hugs and holding hands. So many little things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I miss the sofa snuggles and the gentle strokes. Also being able to squeeze someone's spots without them thinking I'm weird....it's therapeutic

I get the spot picking. Vety relaxing when I had it done to me and very intimate ax well. Until the point they decide its a deep one and regardless of the pressure or pain its coming out . My ex always said stop moaning it doesn't hurt that much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From my ex spouse, nothing. From an ex , late night conversations, talking about our day, cuddles while watching crap tv, hugs and holding hands. So many little things."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Running fingers through my chest hair, lazy morning wake ups together and taking the piss out of each other constantly. I always think a healthy relationship is marked by the fact people can take the mick out of each other. I know this is a non-sex thread but I think it actually makes the sex better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my recent ex, being called my favourite endearment which only he ever used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching TV together and screaming at the characters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying to distract me during sport before jumping me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone just touching me just because I'm there, a brush of a hand on the shoulder as they get up off the settee, a kiss while I'm making coffee. And spooning snuggles in bed. Reaching out a hand and meeting theirs half way.

Being in a group of people and sharing a look that is just for the two of you. Or knowing with a look that it is time to go.

I miss the small things."

This

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By *ovespudsMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Making my sandwiches and leaving saucey notes between each one. Also hiding pieces of her lingerie in my kit bag, which often fell out in front of my work mates.

Bless her, RIP my love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Making my sandwiches and leaving saucey notes between each one. Also hiding pieces of her lingerie in my kit bag, which often fell out in front of my work mates.

Bless her, RIP my love

That's beautiful, I want that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Running fingers through my chest hair, lazy morning wake ups together and taking the piss out of each other constantly. I always think a healthy relationship is marked by the fact people can take the mick out of each other. I know this is a non-sex thread but I think it actually makes the sex better."

Agree.

Not wuth the chest hair bit, cos I don't have any- but the banter bit!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Snuggling up on the sofa, spooning in bed, hearing his breathing when he'd fallen asleep before me, massaging his back and feeling him relax, chatting about randomn stuff, sharing a love of music, looking at his face and seeing the love in his eyes.

I still miss the one special person who still means the world to me

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Company, conversation, interest in each other's day.

The casual contact when passing on the stairs or in the kitchen that reminds you how much you lust after him...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snuggling, hugging, conversation. That random hugging, when u can just grab them and put ya arms around them. X feeling them and smelling them.

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Sorting my bills out.

I always paid them but I'd just hand money over and that would be that. Now I have to sort each individual bill and for some reason I get anxiety over it even though I have the money. Mind you the Ex gave me anxiety in the first place, I was fine with bills before so there is that.

Other than that nothing I can think of. I love sleeping alone now and it largely annoys me when someone else is in bed now but took a while to get used to at first.

Can't see me living with someone ever again. I just appreciate my own space now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fire that burns inside

While she bounces around talking about things and doing things

And her eyes and legs and … yeah

Life’s a bitch but at least I had her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles, spooning, and someone to bring me a cup of tea in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cuddles, spooning, and someone to bring me a cup of tea in the morning.

This! And sex

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Being there to be a friend that I can talk to about anything.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

The hugs ans saying how was your day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cooking and eating on my own. Hence most of my fab dates include a meal.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I am a widower. So still miss someone there at home. Cuddles etc. Going out , away , meals out. So many things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sarcasm and piss take and laughing til your sides hurt, or the occasional “I’ve pissed me self “ situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing with my hair running fingers thru it as we chill lying on the couch! (Head hair) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spoons on a lazy Sunday morning lay in, drifting off to sleep again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting dressed in the morning, pulling her thong up between her bum cheeks and before everyday running ringers round the top of them and letting it flick off her skin!! So hot and she didn’t even know it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sofa with a blanket and nothing in particular on the TV. Just cuddling and getting lost in the moment as if nothing else was going on in the world.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Just cuddles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I missed my ex once, but I got a better sight for my rifle, didn’t miss again!!

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

The things I miss the most are.

Conversations between partners.

The snuggles in bed on sofa or in the chairs.

The constant teasing of each other.

The kisses but mostly the night and morning ones.

The goodnight snuggle kiss before sleep or the good morning take care be safe ones.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Married couples tax allowance is about the only thing that I miss about my nearest and queerest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married couples tax allowance is about the only thing that I miss about my nearest and queerest. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversation - just someone to talk to about your day, about anything.

Someone next to you in bed, the warmth, cuddles

Just being the other half of the partnership in bringing up the kids and not doing it on my own as it a shit show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss being missed.

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By *l MateMan
over a year ago

Sheffield Centre

Falling asleep together and then waking up in the morning cudded up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotional support

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Playing with my hair and feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread makes me sad. After the ultimate betrayal I'll never risk my heart again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas shopping....I get so depressed seeing couples in town in the run up to Christmas....

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By *icevicebabyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Spider killer!

In all seriousness I miss a lot of the little things that come with having a regular partner.

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

Cuddles

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