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Rejected because you got a beard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? I told someone that I could easily shave my beard off it's not a problem it will grow back in a week. This isn't a moan and find it funny though. :D if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got rejected because I didn't have one so like all things if its not what the other wants no big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they didn't want to meet you full stop and it was just easier for them to say they prefer no beards than to say they didn't want to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few woman say no because of the beard, but that’s fine, we all have personal likes on here. Plenty more women who are a fan of beards and body hair

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I didn’t like beards either, it was a preference, I think I’m cured now

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

I agree with Midnight, think it was a more polite “No thank you” than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about preferences, I’ve been turned down cos I don’t have a hairy chest. It is what it is.

I’ve turned women down because they’re not what I’m looking for, simples, get over it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? I told someone that I could easily shave my beard off it's not a problem it will grow back in a week. This isn't a moan and find it funny though. :D if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly? "

Why would you want to change something you obviously like about yourself in order to potentially raise your appeal for some random woman you don't know?

You realise none of us has universal appeal right?

Personally, I'd spend time concentrating on people looking for me rather than waste a nanosecond on those not: but that's me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Had a few woman say no because of the beard, but that’s fine, we all have personal likes on here. Plenty more women who are a fan of beards and body hair "

Exactly!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No but we have been rejected because I don't have a beard.

Also been rejected because I have less hair on my head than they would have liked and on one occasion because I don't have tattoos.

Also those exact reasons have meant we have meet other couples.

It is nice that everybody is different if everybody was the same the world would be a very boring place.

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By *effrey45Man
over a year ago

Lytham

I get turned down due to my wit and charm

Or total lack of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just saying when I got rejected for having a beard they turned round and said to me if you didn't have a beard you would look sexy but because you've got a beard you are ugly it's like that's nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel the need to change yourself for someone else's preference.. rock that beard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i aint changing myself just for a fuck bollox to that i dont have a beard but wouldn’t grow one of some bird said she only fucks blokes with beards move on mate

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just saying when I got rejected for having a beard they turned round and said to me if you didn't have a beard you would look sexy but because you've got a beard you are ugly it's like that's nice"

I honestly wouldn't lose sleep /give a passing thought about something a stranger on a website said about my appearance (good or bad)

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Some women don't like beards. C'est la vie. But many do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a woman on here say she would meet me if i shaved my beard off.... jog on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not going to lose any sleep about it I just found it rather amusing that's all all as people know on here I'm just a guy that does speaking videos I'm just a guy who's on here to have a bit of a laugh and a bit of banter I don't take anything to heart life's too short for all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try having a shaved head, beard and tattoos, rejection is common

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We don’t like beards..

Some people don’t like bald guys..

There’s no rules saying people have to like you..

Bleeting about it won’t help, it’s not like I can grow hair overnight..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Try having a shaved head, beard and tattoos, rejection is common "

Not in these parts

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

C would reject anyone with a beard…she doesn’t like them. I have stubble and I just pass.

You’ll have your own preferences as to what you want someone to look like. How rigid that remains is down to you.

We all have preferences.

K

K

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

I turned away someone with a beard the other day, she took offence to my comment that it didn't suit her

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I always get a giggle when people wink or message us yet have on their profile “no beards”.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Meh, I've been told this morning I'd be pretty if I weren't fat.

People have views on others, they have preferences, and they like to share them.

No one should change for someone else. Especially not for a shag ffs

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Yes this happens to me all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? I told someone that I could easily shave my beard off it's not a problem it will grow back in a week. This isn't a moan and find it funny though. :D if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly?

Why would you want to change something you obviously like about yourself in order to potentially raise your appeal for some random woman you don't know?

You realise none of us has universal appeal right?

Personally, I'd spend time concentrating on people looking for me rather than waste a nanosecond on those not: but that's me."

This. Exactly this.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes this happens to me all the time "

I like your beard. X

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes this happens to me all the time "

Your avatar is beautiful! You definitely suit glasses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh, I've been told this morning I'd be pretty if I weren't fat.

People have views on others, they have preferences, and they like to share them.

No one should change for someone else. Especially not for a shag ffs"

You ARE pretty!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Yes this happens to me all the time

I like your beard. X "

I use conditioner so it’s nice and soft

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By *entleman Blue EyesMan
over a year ago

Saffron Walden

Have to say I've been on the receiving end a number of times too.. prematurely white, balding and a beard. Niche is the word I think lol

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Yes this happens to me all the time

Your avatar is beautiful! You definitely suit glasses. "

Thanks Meli

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just saying when I got rejected for having a beard they turned round and said to me if you didn't have a beard you would look sexy but because you've got a beard you are ugly it's like that's nice"

And that’s called “Having an opinion” which they are completely entitled to have!!!!

You come across at times as being very intolerant of people’s opinions which in my opinion is not a good look but chin up Simon and crack on with your fab adventure.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? I told someone that I could easily shave my beard off it's not a problem it will grow back in a week. This isn't a moan and find it funny though. :D if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly? "

it's the other way around for me

I had 3 photo's on badoo

the 2 with a beard had 5 stars

the one without had 1 star

brutal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just saying when I got rejected for having a beard they turned round and said to me if you didn't have a beard you would look sexy but because you've got a beard you are ugly it's like that's nice"

I think you look better on your pics with the beard ! - sticks & stones will break our bones - but Name shall never hurt us!!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly?"

I think they meant they found the beard ugly, not you.

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By *nto My ArmsMan
over a year ago

Herts/London


"Have to say I've been on the receiving end a number of times too.. prematurely white, balding and a beard. Niche is the word I think lol "

Niche is good! Attracts the most interesting people x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do think there should be more positivity in the world that we live in there are too many people out there that one to judge and it's understandable everyone's got their own opinion but sometimes it can cause offence why would anyone say if you wasn't fat you would look pretty it's like you are who you are you are what you are if you don't like it simple just go and do one you don't need to go and hurt someone's feelings

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

I get rejected all the time for being such a nice guy. Its tough here

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I would reject most with a beard with a few depends.......

1. It's long and unkempt.

2. I don't like the features behind it.

3. It looks like it would be coarse and scratchy.

I have no idea of what someone would look like without a beard so it's logical that I have to fancy them WITH a beard and if the beard is unattractive then so be it.

I have seen great bodies and what looks like the good hair and eyes of a good looking man but his beard is just not good. .....

I think bad hair is easier to overlook than a bad beard.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Yes I have ...it's just another form of racism ??

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

The reason I post full body pics on here is I got fed up of the chatting away,getting on, send a full pic and then have ermm yeah not for me thanks. It happens, people like what they like and that's just life, if I let every little criticism get to me I'd not be here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason I post full body pics on here is I got fed up of the chatting away,getting on, send a full pic and then have ermm yeah not for me thanks. It happens, people like what they like and that's just life, if I let every little criticism get to me I'd not be here

"

I get this all the time too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I am not a fan of mega/GoT wildling beards but a groomed one is nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I have ...it's just another form of racism ??"

It really isnt (facepalm)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s all about preferences, I’ve been turned down cos I don’t have a hairy chest. It is what it is.

I’ve turned women down because they’re not what I’m looking for, simples, get over it "

With those abs you got turned down? There really is no justice in the world, sir!

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there


"Yes I have ...it's just another form of racism ??

It really isnt (facepalm) "

Introduce to the race of Beardies please

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there


"Yes I have ...it's just another form of racism ??

It really isnt (facepalm)

Introduce ME to the race of Beardies please "

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"I had a woman on here say she would meet me if i shaved my beard off.... jog on. "

No objections to it here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate beards and yeah I do reject of the guy has one, but only if he's not prepared to shave it off. It's not really a rejection though, it's just me saying I don't like beards. It's about attraction and compatibility.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Yes this happens to me all the time "

Lol bloody beard

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Neat designer beards look damn sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any thoughts on mine, ladies? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No objections to it here "

Noted.

I’ve not been rejected due to my beard but I’ve seen plenty of profiles which state it’s a ‘no’.

It is what it is; I think I look better with mine than without now, my wife likes it, so it’s not coming off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was so hoping this thread was posted by a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day you can’t please everyone, some will and some won’t have a preference for beards. Have/sport something because ‘you’ like it…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I have ...it's just another form of racism ??"

How do you work that out? Racism is prejudice on the basis of someone's race or ethnicity.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I was so hoping this thread was posted by a woman "

That reminds me I need a battery for ......... something .... just something.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Yes I have ...it's just another form of racism ??

How do you work that out? Racism is prejudice on the basis of someone's race or ethnicity. "

It's Beardism at best !

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"Yes I have ...it's just another form of racism ??

How do you work that out? Racism is prejudice on the basis of someone's race or ethnicity. "

It was a joke ??

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"Yes I have ...it's just another form of racism ??

It really isnt (facepalm) "

Yes I know - I thought it was such a dumb response that people would realise it was a joke...but they this is the internet. You never get th benefit of the doubt

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By *entleman Blue EyesMan
over a year ago

Saffron Walden

I've just put a non beard photo up too as a comparitor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I have ...it's just another form of racism ??

How do you work that out? Racism is prejudice on the basis of someone's race or ethnicity.

It was a joke ??"

Your emoji didn't show...and people do write some dumb stuff, sorry!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

No some females like hair between there legs

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t like beards. Can’t help it I just don’t. I wish I did! I wouldn’t meet someone with a long or big beard, doesn’t mean I think they’re ugly! Some men really suit them. It’s my issue not theirs. I wouldn’t expect anyone to shave it off for me, in fact if they offered I still wouldn’t meet them as I wouldn’t change anything for someone else x

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By *ouGotMaleNWMan
over a year ago

North West

Each to their own, everyone has their own personal preferences.. I used to be clean shaven then grew a normal tidy short beard, it went grey but I get told that I kinda suit the salt and pepper, greying beard so just stuck with it. Have shaved it off again in the past but hardly recognise myself. But yes everyone has their own likes and dislikes and thats what makes us all unique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? I told someone that I could easily shave my beard off it's not a problem it will grow back in a week. This isn't a moan and find it funny though. :D if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly? "

Dude if it grows back in a week that ain’t a beard, that’s stubble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like beards. Can’t help it I just don’t. I wish I did! I wouldn’t meet someone with a long or big beard, doesn’t mean I think they’re ugly! Some men really suit them. It’s my issue not theirs. I wouldn’t expect anyone to shave it off for me, in fact if they offered I still wouldn’t meet them as I wouldn’t change anything for someone else x"

Fancy a coffee xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of beards but I'd never want someone to shave it off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I've been rejected because of this reason. Even though its very evident from my profile pic. So it was just I think a polite way of telling me that I'm not their cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve spoken to people that aren’t into beards. And we still chat, as they are gorgeous people just not the physical attraction to go any further than that.

But I’d never shave it. Ever x

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I personally love beards, I'm a pognophile. But don't change urself to please other on a swinging site. Be yourself. Always the most attractive thing about people are genuine confident people who are real, not molding into people they think you want, a yes man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have turned guys down for their beard. I will check all pics first but if they all have a long beard in then it’s a no from me. I don’t mind a short one but I would not expect someone the change who they are. But if he has pictures with his beard at different lengths so to speak then I could say I prefer it a bit shorter

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don’t like beards. Can’t help it I just don’t. I wish I did! I wouldn’t meet someone with a long or big beard, doesn’t mean I think they’re ugly! Some men really suit them. It’s my issue not theirs. I wouldn’t expect anyone to shave it off for me, in fact if they offered I still wouldn’t meet them as I wouldn’t change anything for someone else x

Fancy a coffee xx "

You know I do .

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I got rejected because I dont wear glasses. Thats how shallow some females are on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't dream of shaving my beard just to try and get a meet personally. It's a part of me look i.e. me so its a take it or leave it situation, plus K loves it.

I also trim it to a number 3 anyway so it kept short and tidy especially for meets / club night.

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beards aren’t my taste but I would never ask someone to shave it! That’s crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also OP your beard suits you in our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beards aren’t my taste but I would never ask someone to shave it! That’s crazy "

I adore beards but I agree. I think it’s awful when women ask men to remove them before a meet. I wouldn't ever meet a man who told me to shave my pubes or trim my hair before we met.

If you can't accept someone with a beard then I don't really think you deserve them without it to be honest. But I think most men would remove it for the sake of a shag.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

OP you look gorgeous with your beard. Never shave it off!

I've been rejected after a social for being "too nice". Bloody friend-zoned!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? I told someone that I could easily shave my beard off it's not a problem it will grow back in a week. This isn't a moan and find it funny though. :D if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly? "

Don't give in

If someone would tell me I look better in short hair I'd not cut them!

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By *n my radarMan
over a year ago

mayo

Mine 3in long n well groomed and I not shaving for anyone everyone to there own in my opinion

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Want me? Live with the well maintained soup catcher.....

It's all personal preference and that's fine.

Though more love for the fuzz would be good....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I got rejected for having a beard, which was weird cause I haven’t got a beard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She said I can’t go out with anyone who’s got a beard, I said I haven’t got a beard, she said no, but you could grow one in the future and that’s a risk I’m not prepared to make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st paragraph of my profile in capitals "I don't like beards"

80% of messages are from guys with beards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not shaving my beard off for no one but myself. If they don’t like you for you fuck em.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Hate beards …apart from my own that is

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

Interesting topic...

I have trimmed mine back to stubble or somewhere close to it before, on the basis that it was a fair compromise. The lady in question informed me that longer facial hair would irritate her skin. I told her that was unfortunate but I wasn't prepared to shave it completely. So I offered to trim it back a little more than usual to save irritation but meant we could still go ahead...

It's all about finding a compromise with people and if you can't, then maybe you're just not compatible. I guess I got lucky that time maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf I think you might have made it worse by offering to shave. It gives the impression that you're so desperate for a shag that you'd physically change yourself (even if that's not the case)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My beard is the least of my worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re face doesn’t fit you could have all the money in world all the looks in

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I hate beards, I find them a total turnoff, certainly wouldn't expect or want anyone to shave it off if they had one as I wouldn't be attracted to them in the first place x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm the bearded lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.

Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.

Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes."

You suit a beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.

Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.

You suit a beard"

Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.

Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.

You suit a beard

Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x"

One of your pics either way your handsome xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.

Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.

You suit a beard

Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x

One of your pics either way your handsome xx"

Do I suit a beard too? xxx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.

Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.

You suit a beard

Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x"

Yours looks OK, I'm talking about long beards

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By *irgin1aTV/TS
over a year ago

Here xx


"Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? I told someone that I could easily shave my beard off it's not a problem it will grow back in a week. This isn't a moan and find it funny though. :D if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly? "

Not ugly, just a preference similar to shaving down below, is it not???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like beards amd some people don’t, it is as simple as that.

I would not expect anyone to change their appearance for me and I am not going to change my appearance for anyone.

My beard stays lol

Mr HH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.

Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.

You suit a beard

Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x

One of your pics either way your handsome xx"

I should learn my own profile! Ha! I’ll send you some face photos so you can see better

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.

Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.

You suit a beard

Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x

One of your pics either way your handsome xx

I should learn my own profile! Ha! I’ll send you some face photos so you can see better "

Ok

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.

Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.

You suit a beard

Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x

One of your pics either way your handsome xx

I should learn my own profile! Ha! I’ll send you some face photos so you can see better

Ok"

Very very handsome

Chiselled features xxxx

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes but I've also had people like me because I have a beard and I'd never shave it off to please someone else

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Some people like beards amd some people don’t, it is as simple as that.

I would not expect anyone to change their appearance for me and I am not going to change my appearance for anyone.

My beard stays lol

Mr HH"

You suit yours from what I can see x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

o/p block and move on...good luck!

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By *ailingSwagmanMan
over a year ago

North Essex / Midlands / Southcoast

Mine comes and goes depending on work/mood. I wouldn't change it for a person/date though.

Yesterday three month bushy beard, today smooth!

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there


"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.

Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes."

Ahem... the beard stays, for obvious reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. Lots of people also only ask for vwe or gym fit. Its simple, if they have something in their profile that you don't match up to then don't message them. It saves wasting both yours and their time.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It is what it is. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. Lots of people also only ask for vwe or gym fit. Its simple, if they have something in their profile that you don't match up to then don't message them. It saves wasting both yours and their time."

Yours is nice

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

I'm either in a state of stuble or beard. The longest I've had a beard on here is a little over a month.

Sometimes my beard gets a little itchy & it drives me frigging nuts! So I shave it off!

If I was meeting someone then I'd shave unless it said in their profile they liked a bearded guy or guy with stubble.

Same goes for my hairy chest too! No biggie whether I do or don't....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have long hair, some Women loved it, some didn't.

I'm now bald, some Women love it, some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people like beards amd some people don’t, it is as simple as that.

I would not expect anyone to change their appearance for me and I am not going to change my appearance for anyone.

My beard stays lol

Mr HH

You suit yours from what I can see x"

Thank you

Mr HH

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"My beard is the least of my worries "

Me too

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

But at least I can stone a blasphemer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like beards. Can’t help it I just don’t. I wish I did! I wouldn’t meet someone with a long or big beard, doesn’t mean I think they’re ugly! Some men really suit them. It’s my issue not theirs. I wouldn’t expect anyone to shave it off for me, in fact if they offered I still wouldn’t meet them as I wouldn’t change anything for someone else x

Fancy a coffee xx

You know I do . "

Awww x

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By *illbilly47Man
over a year ago

Faversham

I’ve been rejected and accepted because of my beard. I’ve been rejected and accepted because of my tattoos. I been rejected and accepted because of both lol!

It’s a funny old world

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Would any of the 'rejected' like to tell me I can't order the dishes I fancy in a restaurant or the clothes I like to wear? Being 'rejected' on a site like this isn't a slur against character or a value judgement on a person, it's just a personal choice and it's only part of the decision making process.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Would any of the 'rejected' like to tell me I can't order the dishes I fancy in a restaurant or the clothes I like to wear? Being 'rejected' on a site like this isn't a slur against character or a value judgement on a person, it's just a personal choice and it's only part of the decision making process. "

No one said its slur we are talking about experiences we all have choices and types xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? "

Not yet

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"Would any of the 'rejected' like to tell me I can't order the dishes I fancy in a restaurant or the clothes I like to wear? Being 'rejected' on a site like this isn't a slur against character or a value judgement on a person, it's just a personal choice and it's only part of the decision making process.

No one said its slur we are talking about experiences we all have choices and types xx

"

We've been here a long time and some guys definitely take rejection (for whatever reason) like a slur on them. Some of them even get abusive. It shouldn't like that but it is.

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d not shave my beard off for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yours is nice "

Thanks for that, always appreciate a complement. And in the spirit of that you're pics are fantastic, very very sexy. My oh my those eyes

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

No one has ever mentioned a beard as being the reason, but it's rare to even be told I'm being rejected at all. Normally it's just being totally ignored.

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By *illbilly47Man
over a year ago

Faversham


"Would any of the 'rejected' like to tell me I can't order the dishes I fancy in a restaurant or the clothes I like to wear? Being 'rejected' on a site like this isn't a slur against character or a value judgement on a person, it's just a personal choice and it's only part of the decision making process. "

When I say ‘rejected’ I just mean I didn’t make their selection process or that’s not their thing. It doesn’t bother me in the slightest. Everyone has there preferences.

I’m sorry but I don’t like beards on ladies

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yours is nice

Thanks for that, always appreciate a complement. And in the spirit of that you're pics are fantastic, very very sexy. My oh my those eyes "

You are welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ewwwww x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is what it is. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. Lots of people also only ask for vwe or gym fit. Its simple, if they have something in their profile that you don't match up to then don't message them. It saves wasting both yours and their time."

I stick to this too. In fact when a woman / couple who have a rule about anything I don’t fit the description for but still message me, I just reply telling them I’m not their type. I don’t even bother sending photos. There’s just no point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did you jump to that conclusion? Some people just don't like beards... Nor men who are willing to shave it for a shag, quite often too

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Have had the odd dunt because of face fuzz....its fair enough really, not every ladies taste

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I never had a full set to get rejected, but back in the days when I had the Tom Selleck/Burt Reynolds moustache, as was the fashion back then, if I got any adverse comments, I simply told them it's a womb groom, and that I was cultivating on my face what grows wild on my arse.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

I look 12 without my goatee I get not liking beards but if your not into it I'm not getting rid of it xD

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By *oBeRodeMan
over a year ago

clifton ish

I absolutely hate body hair pubes, beards , especially on women lol

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By *im75Her77Couple
over a year ago

937 S.W.

Bearded or not, aren't clams,oysters and scallops just the most wonderful, joyful playthings EVER?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a beard

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? I told someone that I could easily shave my beard off it's not a problem it will grow back in a week. This isn't a moan and find it funny though. :D if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly? "

Some women like beards. Some don't. Making out it makes you "ugly" is a stretch at best, ridiculous at worst. My Mrs hates them. Does growing a beard make me ugly to her? Absolutely not. Does it make her face come out in a rash when I smooch her? Absolutely, hence the hate.

Stop worrying about why someone said no and deal with it. You cant please everyone so don't try.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I prefer non beard, especially when it comes to females.

I prefer smooth all over too, but in a club environment I can be known to let the beard thing pass, even on females.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes I have ...it's just another form of racism ??"

Sigh...God give me strength!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I hate beards and yeah I do reject of the guy has one, but only if he's not prepared to shave it off. It's not really a rejection though, it's just me saying I don't like beards. It's about attraction and compatibility. "

I'm curious: why would you, some random woman on a sex site, ask someone to adjust their appearance for you?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I would probably turn someone down if they didn't have some kind of facial hair as I 99 per cent of the time find clean shaven unattractive. Everyone likes different things. There is no way on earth I would ask someone to grow one though, and I would probably lose a little respect of them if they offered.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I had an opening introductory message once from a couple I had never spoken to before or even seen their profile.

They had close to 100 verifications and they told me I had to lose the beard or i wouldn't be meeting them.

So many entitled assumptions in that one message. I'm sure they had a positive response from others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone said to shave off your beard for a meet, there's a serious case of entitlement and I think it would say a lot about that person. Would not meet them.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

It's all about a person's preference and taste. If a woman doesn't like my beard then hey that's fine. Would I shave it off? No.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

On this website you can be so prescriptive, beyond silly, about what you're looking for and expect from people!! From wanting to meet just one dude to a 12 man strong tag team.....from a requirement to give her a good seeing to and make her orgasm 2.5 times (verified not just at your word you can do this) to being suspended from a ceiling with your 12.5 inch xxl cock uncut (less than 12.5 =rejection)swinging about.....its a lass telling you she wants clean shaven over a beard that your bemused by as to why she wasn't keen on you, even with the ugly line from her this should hardly have raised an eyebrow. Id like to think most men can deal with such frivolous blah when told 'not for me, sorry 'but we are starting to look more like cuckold husbands everyday even if it's not one of our 'likes'

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