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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over

I’ve recently turned 51, and since coming back on to this wonderful site, I’ve noticed that lots of ladies/couples have a cut off of 50 alas This is by no means a whinge of any shape or form, but we slightly older fellas, or at least this silver fox (maybe silverback actually!) would love the opportunity to chat and meet

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By *xxxMan
over a year ago

Bedford & Chester

Since returning I've noticed the age range seems to have dropped to under 40s, surely that's no age? Lol

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Since returning I've noticed the age range seems to have dropped to under 40s, surely that's no age? Lol

"

Depends where you’re viewing from I guess

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Just adjust your search to only show those looking for your age range

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Just adjust your search to only show those looking for your age range "

I thought I had but I’ll have to check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just adjust your search to only show those looking for your age range "

Brilliant advice x nice to see yous back in the forums x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just adjust your search to only show those looking for your age range

Brilliant advice x nice to see yous back in the forums x "

Hello Jack

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By *ouGotMaleNWMan
over a year ago

North West

Erm how old is older?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Erm how old is older? "

Well the op is 51. That makes him younger in my book

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Erm how old is older?

Well the op is 51. That makes him younger in my book "

Bless you and thank you

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Try being 67 . Out of so many age ranges . Even females , couples within say the 50 + range want younger. Not interested in more mature. I do get younger . ? Some yes scammers . But have chatted to few that a lot younger than me. Although . To far away for what say both require. . So no meet

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Older you say OP?

I'll be 60 in less than 6 months, with age comes perfection and experience

Or at least that's what I tell maself everyday

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Older you say OP?

I'll be 60 in less than 6 months, with age comes perfection and experience

Or at least that's what I tell maself everyday "

I couldn't agree more. I have aged like a cheese, mature, a bit mouldy and nobody can quite identify the smell

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Try being 67 . Out of so many age ranges . Even females , couples within say the 50 + range want younger. Not interested in more mature. I do get younger . ? Some yes scammers . But have chatted to few that a lot younger than me. Although . To far away for what say both require. . So no meet "

Good luck and please believer me when I say I wasn’t whinging, just something I had noticed as I passed 50,

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Older you say OP?

I'll be 60 in less than 6 months, with age comes perfection and experience

Or at least that's what I tell maself everyday "

Absolutely

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Older you say OP?

I'll be 60 in less than 6 months, with age comes perfection and experience

Or at least that's what I tell maself everyday

I couldn't agree more. I have aged like a cheese, mature, a bit mouldy and nobody can quite identify the smell "

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Try being 67 . Out of so many age ranges . Even females , couples within say the 50 + range want younger. Not interested in more mature. I do get younger . ? Some yes scammers . But have chatted to few that a lot younger than me. Although . To far away for what say both require. . So no meet

Good luck and please believer me when I say I wasn’t whinging, just something I had noticed as I passed 50, "

I gave been on here . Plus use other sites. It is odd . Two other sites I use. Females around my age seem to want companionship , no intimacy etc. On here as I said want younger males. So option is to see if younger females than my age range interested ? Perhaps females around 50+ could comment if they read this ?

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Try being 67 . Out of so many age ranges . Even females , couples within say the 50 + range want younger. Not interested in more mature. I do get younger . ? Some yes scammers . But have chatted to few that a lot younger than me. Although . To far away for what say both require. . So no meet

Good luck and please believer me when I say I wasn’t whinging, just something I had noticed as I passed 50,

I gave been on here . Plus use other sites. It is odd . Two other sites I use. Females around my age seem to want companionship , no intimacy etc. On here as I said want younger males. So option is to see if younger females than my age range interested ? Perhaps females around 50+ could comment if they read this ? "

Each to their own I guess. It’s good to know you’ve met some lovely ladies though.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Try being 67 . Out of so many age ranges . Even females , couples within say the 50 + range want younger. Not interested in more mature. I do get younger . ? Some yes scammers . But have chatted to few that a lot younger than me. Although . To far away for what say both require. . So no meet

Good luck and please believer me when I say I wasn’t whinging, just something I had noticed as I passed 50,

I gave been on here . Plus use other sites. It is odd . Two other sites I use. Females around my age seem to want companionship , no intimacy etc. On here as I said want younger males. So option is to see if younger females than my age range interested ? Perhaps females around 50+ could comment if they read this ?

Each to their own I guess. It’s good to know you’ve met some lovely ladies though. "

Yes thanks. Still looking for regular , who is near me. At present there is one very close to me. . We have not had any meet yet. She says very interested. Going to ask to have social when we next message. Yes up to her . So not sure? I am very realistic . If she says no . Then understand. Or if meet and no it is the same .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of younger FEMS want older.

I see it all the time.

Maybe broaden your milage search, if you can!

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Try being 67 . Out of so many age ranges . Even females , couples within say the 50 + range want younger. Not interested in more mature. I do get younger . ? Some yes scammers . But have chatted to few that a lot younger than me. Although . To far away for what say both require. . So no meet

Good luck and please believer me when I say I wasn’t whinging, just something I had noticed as I passed 50,

I gave been on here . Plus use other sites. It is odd . Two other sites I use. Females around my age seem to want companionship , no intimacy etc. On here as I said want younger males. So option is to see if younger females than my age range interested ? Perhaps females around 50+ could comment if they read this ?

Each to their own I guess. It’s good to know you’ve met some lovely ladies though.

Yes thanks. Still looking for regular , who is near me. At present there is one very close to me. . We have not had any meet yet. She says very interested. Going to ask to have social when we next message. Yes up to her . So not sure? I am very realistic . If she says no . Then understand. Or if meet and no it is the same . "

Well that all sounds very encouraging and good luck and really hope it works out for you . Send some of that luck this way will you

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

Yeah we do come across the 50 limit quite a lot! Although we have our searches set for looking for our age, because one of us is younger than 50 they still show for us!

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Yeah we do come across the 50 limit quite a lot! Although we have our searches set for looking for our age, because one of us is younger than 50 they still show for us! "

Glad it’s not just me . I did check my searches and do have it set for my age wanted……it’s probably just me noticing the noises I know make when I stand up!! . Lovely profile by the way, hope you don’t mind me saying

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading


"Try being 67 . Out of so many age ranges . Even females , couples within say the 50 + range want younger. Not interested in more mature. I do get younger . ? Some yes scammers . But have chatted to few that a lot younger than me. Although . To far away for what say both require. . So no meet

Good luck and please believer me when I say I wasn’t whinging, just something I had noticed as I passed 50,

I gave been on here . Plus use other sites. It is odd . Two other sites I use. Females around my age seem to want companionship , no intimacy etc. On here as I said want younger males. So option is to see if younger females than my age range interested ? Perhaps females around 50+ could comment if they read this ?

Each to their own I guess. It’s good to know you’ve met some lovely ladies though.

Yes thanks. Still looking for regular , who is near me. At present there is one very close to me. . We have not had any meet yet. She says very interested. Going to ask to have social when we next message. Yes up to her . So not sure? I am very realistic . If she says no . Then understand. Or if meet and no it is the same .

Well that all sounds very encouraging and good luck and really hope it works out for you . Send some of that luck this way will you "

Yes will say. Female is not on Fab ? Contacted on another site. Yes very wary could be scam. But from chatting. Answers to questions , chat is very normal and honest answers to my questions ? Which if fake would not know ? So will be either social meet or F *** off from the profile . Blocked lol

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Try being 67 . Out of so many age ranges . Even females , couples within say the 50 + range want younger. Not interested in more mature. I do get younger . ? Some yes scammers . But have chatted to few that a lot younger than me. Although . To far away for what say both require. . So no meet

Good luck and please believer me when I say I wasn’t whinging, just something I had noticed as I passed 50,

I gave been on here . Plus use other sites. It is odd . Two other sites I use. Females around my age seem to want companionship , no intimacy etc. On here as I said want younger males. So option is to see if younger females than my age range interested ? Perhaps females around 50+ could comment if they read this ?

Each to their own I guess. It’s good to know you’ve met some lovely ladies though.

Yes thanks. Still looking for regular , who is near me. At present there is one very close to me. . We have not had any meet yet. She says very interested. Going to ask to have social when we next message. Yes up to her . So not sure? I am very realistic . If she says no . Then understand. Or if meet and no it is the same .

Well that all sounds very encouraging and good luck and really hope it works out for you . Send some of that luck this way will you

Yes will say. Female is not on Fab ? Contacted on another site. Yes very wary could be scam. But from chatting. Answers to questions , chat is very normal and honest answers to my questions ? Which if fake would not know ? So will be either social meet or F *** off from the profile . Blocked lol "

Fingers crossed for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see your age limit is 99 . Would you actually have sex with a 99 year-old woman m8.

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"I see your age limit is 99 . Would you actually have sex with a 99 year-old woman m8. "

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading


"I see your age limit is 99 . Would you actually have sex with a 99 year-old woman m8. "

I leave open age range. Yes could narrow down to nearer me. Have a look on profiles . See oldest , yes it is not 99 . ? I could narrow down to say my age . Easier to leave open. Same as younger 18 ? . A lot of others will say ,? Not be allowed, even though legal ?

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We only meet men 60+. Old is gold for us.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Well I'm still going get message's and offers and I'm almost 67 well in 4 weeks time that is

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I see your age limit is 99 . Would you actually have sex with a 99 year-old woman m8. "

Hope I still get a meet or 2 if I get to 99! x

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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighsWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere

I've met so many guys with 'adjusted ages' on their profiles. Ie, it says they're 51, but when you meet they tell you they're 57!

I personally couldn't give a hoot how old anyone is on a social level, but I find it a little weird playing with anyone older than my parents.

For me older does equal better, but there is a limit.

Clubs and socials are by far the best way to go, as people can judge you in person and not on statistics.

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"We only meet men 60+. Old is gold for us.

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Lucky older guys I say

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Well I'm still going get message's and offers and I'm almost 67 well in 4 weeks time that is "

Hugely happy birthday in 4 weeks

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"I see your age limit is 99 . Would you actually have sex with a 99 year-old woman m8.

Hope I still get a meet or 2 if I get to 99! x"

Totally with you there

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"I've met so many guys with 'adjusted ages' on their profiles. Ie, it says they're 51, but when you meet they tell you they're 57!

I personally couldn't give a hoot how old anyone is on a social level, but I find it a little weird playing with anyone older than my parents.

For me older does equal better, but there is a limit.

Clubs and socials are by far the best way to go, as people can judge you in person and not on statistics."

Definitely 51 here although maybe I’ve had a harder life than I think and I look older?

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Age cut off point is a problem for all us mature guys when we can't message certain people, albeit that we have probably forgotten more than some youngsters have even learned. A pal of mine who is actually the ex doorman / Barman / DJ in swinger clubs, whom you would think would have his choice has got the same problem. We've both come to the conclusion that the way forward for mature guys in emotionally, and financially secure circumstances is to establish a relationship with a like minded mature lady and connect with couples.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm another one that turns 60 at the beginning of next year, so for most single ladies I am well past it

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"Age cut off point is a problem for all us mature guys when we can't message certain people, albeit that we have probably forgotten more than some youngsters have even learned. A pal of mine who is actually the ex doorman / Barman / DJ in swinger clubs, whom you would think would have his choice has got the same problem. We've both come to the conclusion that the way forward for mature guys in emotionally, and financially secure circumstances is to establish a relationship with a like minded mature lady and connect with couples. "

Nice advice

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By *e renard de la campagne OP   Man
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over


"I'm another one that turns 60 at the beginning of next year, so for most single ladies I am well past it"

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the older people xx

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I would be put off by a profile that displayed a photo 5 years old, even if they were in my preferred age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s plenty of profiles out there this are happy to meet over 50s. Why focus on the ones who don’t want to?

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Plenty of men messaged you saying they'd be happy to meet haha

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