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Ladies - pubic hair helpandadvice MEN-view on my issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I am a dark thick haired girl. Until recently I had a small area of pubic hair (I plucked the hair off up until a landing strip sized area)

This was neat and I didn’t have a stubbled area around , it was lovely and smooth.

I recently started shaving , due to wanting to achieve “neatness” in a quick frame of time after spontaneous meets, however this has created ingrown hairs , rash looking patches and a general (in my opinion) unpleasant look comparatively.

I’d like to ask,

LADIES - for the porn star style smoothness and beautiful skin comparable to skin anywhere else on your body , what do I do apart from salon waxing ? ALSO, I’ve never had a wax , do they get really in there underneath , all around and in the crevices ? How painful, how embarrassing etc?

MEN- do you look at a shaven pubic area on a lady and feel a little grossed by the ingrown hair, stubbled bits , spots and sore looking shaved pussy?(I have seen all sorts of pics on here with all levels of the shaved pussy symptoms) are men too polite to ever mention or do they literally not care at all and never noticed ?

I feel like it’s one of those things people don’t address or talk about . Opinions and views wanted please

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

If you go for a Hollywood or Brazilian etc, yes they will get right in there

As for embarrassing, no not really. They've seen literally hundreds of vulvas, I'm sure yours is lovely but I bet your waxer doesn't care about it one bit

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I don’t find any issues with waxing as I have a high pain threshold, I used to do my own waxing. What about an electric razor? They don’t cut as close to the skin but leave a smooth finish and convenient to use every few days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shave at the moment so I can feel your pain RE ingrown hairs but I used to wax which wasn't too painful as long as the hair wasn't tooooo long. I prefer getting waxed but sadly it's just too expensive for me at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ingrown hairs, spots, the shape of your pubic hair….really couldn’t care less. I suspect it’s the same for most men

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By *esty 2021Man
over a year ago

Rockford IL

Don’t care and don’t mind and also wondered if the obsession with an area looking pre-pubescent isn’t just a tad creepy and forced upon people in an age of following what they see.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"So I am a dark thick haired girl. Until recently I had a small area of pubic hair (I plucked the hair off up until a landing strip sized area)

This was neat and I didn’t have a stubbled area around , it was lovely and smooth.

I recently started shaving , due to wanting to achieve “neatness” in a quick frame of time after spontaneous meets, however this has created ingrown hairs , rash looking patches and a general (in my opinion) unpleasant look comparatively.

I’d like to ask,

LADIES - for the porn star style smoothness and beautiful skin comparable to skin anywhere else on your body , what do I do apart from salon waxing ? ALSO, I’ve never had a wax , do they get really in there underneath , all around and in the crevices ? How painful, how embarrassing etc?

MEN- do you look at a shaven pubic area on a lady and feel a little grossed by the ingrown hair, stubbled bits , spots and sore looking shaved pussy?(I have seen all sorts of pics on here with all levels of the shaved pussy symptoms) are men too polite to ever mention or do they literally not care at all and never noticed ?

I feel like it’s one of those things people don’t address or talk about . Opinions and views wanted please "

First few times i had same issie with rash and ingrown hairs. Secret is to trim as short as possible first, very hot water, and a fresh blade. Its unrealistic to expect totally clean every time and i wouldnt be put off as such. Trimmed and neat is better than smooth and acne-fied imo

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Don’t care and don’t mind and also wondered if the obsession with an area looking pre-pubescent isn’t just a tad creepy and forced upon people in an age of following what they see."

More to do with touch texture and hairballs than the visual

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I think men care far less about these things than us women do, in fact most don't even notice.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

Shaving with a razor doesn't make your hair thicker. You probably Shaving again the grain and therefore actually pushing your hair folical under the skin resulting in ingrowing hairs. Its normal. Try waxing as an alternative.

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By *esty 2021Man
over a year ago

Rockford IL


"Don’t care and don’t mind and also wondered if the obsession with an area looking pre-pubescent isn’t just a tad creepy and forced upon people in an age of following what they see.

More to do with touch texture and hairballs than the visual"

Not talking about it hanging down in plaits. As you said on the other post neatly trimmed is perfectly acceptable.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

When you first start shaving your skin isn't used to it and becomes spotty itchy etc. That will stop after a few shaves. Also use a good skin balm or cream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I am a dark thick haired girl. Until recently I had a small area of pubic hair (I plucked the hair off up until a landing strip sized area)

This was neat and I didn’t have a stubbled area around , it was lovely and smooth.

I recently started shaving , due to wanting to achieve “neatness” in a quick frame of time after spontaneous meets, however this has created ingrown hairs , rash looking patches and a general (in my opinion) unpleasant look comparatively.

I’d like to ask,

LADIES - for the porn star style smoothness and beautiful skin comparable to skin anywhere else on your body , what do I do apart from salon waxing ? ALSO, I’ve never had a wax , do they get really in there underneath , all around and in the crevices ? How painful, how embarrassing etc?

MEN- do you look at a shaven pubic area on a lady and feel a little grossed by the ingrown hair, stubbled bits , spots and sore looking shaved pussy?(I have seen all sorts of pics on here with all levels of the shaved pussy symptoms) are men too polite to ever mention or do they literally not care at all and never noticed ?

I feel like it’s one of those things people don’t address or talk about . Opinions and views wanted please "

i love a landing strip,

And i speak for most if not all guys on here when i say this -

do i find stubble ect off putting? No way... its totally normal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Westy , I think my motivation was the cleanliness and the ease of cleanliness and it coming across as mutually polite. I hadn’t actually thought of the “appeal to men” part of it , I was just fed up of the time it took to maintain a grown but neat area of hair. I’m happy with the hair but it’s still gotta be neat not left wild , but it became easier and quicker to whip it all off , that’s why I’ve asked what men think as I hadn’t actually considered the visual appeal x

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By *esty 2021Man
over a year ago

Rockford IL


"Westy , I think my motivation was the cleanliness and the ease of cleanliness and it coming across as mutually polite. I hadn’t actually thought of the “appeal to men” part of it , I was just fed up of the time it took to maintain a grown but neat area of hair. I’m happy with the hair but it’s still gotta be neat not left wild , but it became easier and quicker to whip it all off , that’s why I’ve asked what men think as I hadn’t actually considered the visual appeal x "

Ruby…I wasn’t calling you out on your motives so I sincerely apologize if you think I was x

It was more a general comment.

Really sorry if you thought it was an attack on you. I think your post asking for advice and comment we a good thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exfoliate the area to shave first.

Apply a very thin layer of conditioner on the hair, not shave foam/gel as it's harsh on the skin.

Use a fresh razor if you can.

Shave down the hair gently not up against it and don't keep going over the same area as you will irritate the skin more.

Once all done, shower off the conditioner and exfoliate again to prevent ingrown hair.

Then use a moisturising oil or cream a few times a day , every day and the skin won't react and cause rashes or spots.

I've always stuck to the above after a specialist told me those bits of info and never had an issue since.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I feel your pain Ruby. It's not easy is it. Id love a perfect little hairy triangle on top and smooth everywhere else but trying to get it perfect then maintain it is beyond me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy who likes a lady garden I’d prefer it was left untouched but if it’s been tended and there’s a few blemishes etc…. It won’t stop me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Westy , I think my motivation was the cleanliness and the ease of cleanliness and it coming across as mutually polite. I hadn’t actually thought of the “appeal to men” part of it , I was just fed up of the time it took to maintain a grown but neat area of hair. I’m happy with the hair but it’s still gotta be neat not left wild , but it became easier and quicker to whip it all off , that’s why I’ve asked what men think as I hadn’t actually considered the visual appeal x

Ruby…I wasn’t calling you out on your motives so I sincerely apologize if you think I was x

It was more a general comment.

Really sorry if you thought it was an attack on you. I think your post asking for advice and comment we a good thing!"

Oh no I just didn’t want it to come across as I felt it was based on what someone else wanted etc , but I’ve heard that a few times about the “why bald like a pre-pub” but I don’t think it’s like that for women doing it

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I understand completely what your saying, couldn’t get to the salon so shaved, worse mistake I ever made, ingrowing hairs and itchy with regrowth, all men I’ve met have said they don’t mind the stubble in between waxes. As for the waxing, I have the Hollywood and yes they they get in everywhere, I don’t find it as painful as my eyebrows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I'd notice, but it's not a deal big or small. It is just one of those things.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Waxing is the best, just need to get those first few waxes and into a regular cycle of having them. Keeps nice and smooth for much longer. I’ve never found it embarrassing, even on all fours getting the ass crack waxed it’s their job these ladies see it every day. First time having one is generally the most painful but after that is not so bad x

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