FabSwingers.com forum: Two steps forward, three steps back

By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Anyone else feel like that, just when you think you are making progress, your head is in a good place, then something comes long and kicks you in the gut so that all that hard work of being positive gets kicked out of you and you feel you have to start all over again

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By *iltopbearMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Thats my life!

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

You are not alone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else feel like that, just when you think you are making progress, your head is in a good place, then something comes long and kicks you in the gut so that all that hard work of being positive gets kicked out of you and you feel you have to start all over again"

You must have read my biography

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. There is always curveball

Hope you are ok OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha can relate always believed when you are given one good thing in life another is taken away as a levelle at least that’s how it is for some

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

So apt

hope you’re ok OP

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Every day at the moment.

Just remember that recovery isn’t linear and never moves how we’d like. There will be good days, bad days, good weeks and bad months. It’s only when you look back at the journey you’ve taken that you realise how far you’ve come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time!

Don't give up though.

Sending hugs OP zx

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Aw, Agent C! I hope you are ok?

Sending you hugs & positivity xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Story of my effing life!!! X

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Always. Often more than three steps.

But there are days when the steps forward are longer and more rewarding. Those are the ones that we have to find, to focus on and to embrace.

I hope that you can find that Agent. And I hope that everyone who is feeling that way can as well.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

not local even if it says I am

All. The. Damn. Time.

The difference now is I have learned to adjust my perspective more quickly or distract myself with other things in a healthier way than I used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daily at the minute!!

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

not local even if it says I am

I’m gonna leave some hugs here for all those struggling at the moment…take a couple pass the rest along!

May you find at least one peaceful moment of beauty that makes you smile in your life today

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I’m gonna leave some hugs here for all those struggling at the moment…take a couple pass the rest along!

May you find at least one peaceful moment of beauty that makes you smile in your life today

What a lovely post

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Everyone on earth goes through this. It's part of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that AC. Life is seldom a straight path. But keep walking at your own pace, not others.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Daily at the minute!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Daily at the minute!!

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, esp when you get the nerve to tackle an ongoing issue but expect the worst

Hope your day improves OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put a couple of sidesteps in the middle and you have a decent tango.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Happens all too often. Fucking hate it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, I hope it is a temporary blockage and not quicksand.

I've been trying to remind myself of the benefits of walking backwards for health and wellbeing - making it a choice to accept the three steps back. Even when it makes me swear and tear my hair out.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yes, I feel your pain OP.

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