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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you have sex with someone for the first time (maybe a ons, or you possibly only just met them) do you go down on them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if they’re Australian

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

The men I’ve met did, no oral no meet

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Only if they’re Australian "

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Sure, if they're into it and clean.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

They have the ‘A’ game

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Oh, is there an etiquette for first time sex ? Touch, no touch ? Lick, no lick ? Suck, no suck ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you have sex with someone for the first time (maybe a ons, or you possibly only just met them) do you go down on them?"

Always. It’s a massive honour and pleasure to do it. It’s quite the most intimate and exquisite act possible, I think.

I feel short-changed if I don’t get to go down on a partner!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only if they’re Australian "

Oh yeah, how so? Something different down there?

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Absolutely!

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Only if they enjoyed receiving oral - I enjoy giving and see no difference in wether it’s the 1st meet or the 101 st time .

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Yes! I enjoy it so want to do it. Equally is hardly expect her to suck me off and not return the fav

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Damn right I would

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh, is there an etiquette for first time sex ? Touch, no touch ? Lick, no lick ? Suck, no suck ?"

I'm just curious to others preferences because I had a mixed reaction after being asked how a ons went from some friends

I couldn't understand what I chose wasn't met with consistent approval and wondered how others viewed it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"When you have sex with someone for the first time (maybe a ons, or you possibly only just met them) do you go down on them?"

Do you expect a woman to go down on you first time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inst it meant to be mandatory lol

How can you not I was always under the impression that it was part off 4 play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask for a checklist beforehand and if it's on there, I'll tick it off.

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

"When you have sex with someone for the first time (maybe a ons, or you possibly only just met them) do you go down on them?"

Absolutely! It's a huge turn on for me and I'm happy to spend as much time pleasuring a woman orally as she will allow.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

My oral has already gotten them into bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you have sex with someone for the first time (maybe a ons, or you possibly only just met them) do you go down on them?"

Why ever not?

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By *oeVWEMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

All day long. First thing on my mind

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By *rjamesMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes, as far as I can remember (there were two times I couldn't remember much of what happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most certainly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When you have sex with someone for the first time (maybe a ons, or you possibly only just met them) do you go down on them?

Do you expect a woman to go down on you first time? "

I don't expect a woman to fellate me no, not at any point really, it's nice, but that's all it is.

I mean I won't get in her way if she wants but it's not what/keeps me turned me on

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I would hope so

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

Circumstances permitting, absolutely.

If I decided I wasn't going to go down on someone then I wouldn't be having sex with them in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. Why wouldn’t I?

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Bloody right I would but no chance of that anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I love doing it so I wouldn’t count lack of familiarity with someone against it.

If I didn’t think they were clean enough to consider it, I wouldn’t be going near them in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only if they’re Australian

Oh yeah, how so? Something different down there?"

Pouches.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Indeed Generally that’s where the mood goes to anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only if they’re Australian "

Do you put your shrimp on her barbie?

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Would be rude not to!

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like to dine at the (Y)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, oral for her, oral for me. Both happy

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I would

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Why wouldn't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only if they’re Australian

Oh yeah, how so? Something different down there?"

It's upside down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you have sex with someone for the first time (maybe a ons, or you possibly only just met them) do you go down on them?"

Oh should I not have I been doing it wrong

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By *oTouchPleaseAndTeaseMan
over a year ago

Harlow

It's all in the name ?

Mmm

& the veri's

& I always ask

So it's a yes if all goes well and we click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is a one night stand after a night out then no but I wouldn't expect a women to go down on me.

If its just the first time and then yes.

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By *illy123789Man
over a year ago

bracknell

I always would…. Giving oral is one of the greatest pleasures in life; slowly, erotically running your tongue along the entire length of a woman’s pussy and feeling her shudder with pleasure; then finding the clit and sucking, licking, teasing, is awesome. She tries to control it for ages but when she suddenly clamps your head down there between her legs you know you’ve got it right… as she bucks and thrusts underneath you; your tongue still hunting out her pleasure… tasting her getting wetter and wetter; I absolutely love it.

I’d never expect or assume a woman would go down on me if we’d only just met, but I love to offer her the pleasure of my services if she wants… her pleasure, my fun.

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By *namoratomanMan
over a year ago

Herefordshire

Absolutely as it’s an essential part of the foreplay! Why wouldn’t you?

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

If it was a random just met out that night then probably not, but if I was out then I'm 99.9% gonna be pissed so yes I would. But planned meet yeh 100%. I struggle to not do it haha

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

50/50 seems like a fair play

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

If she let me, I’d be down for it.

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

Lot of men saying what they think women want to hear.

In a real life setting or a fab setting

So unbelievable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman goes down on me first time it's only fair to do the same and if anal happens get prepared to be pegged??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was only a virgin once, i wont make the same mistakes twice

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

They have to pass the finger test first, and believe me, not all do.

Frank

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton

"Lot of men saying what they think women want to hear.

In a real life setting or a fab setting

So unbelievable "

Yeah agree with this. Sometimes I’ve pulled a girls knickers down and been met with an unpleasant smell and thought no chance. But that didn’t put me off having sex with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck yes. I'm eating ur pussy so good u will b wanting me come back for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely adore licking, sucking, fingering pussy/clit, whatever the lady enjoys the most, its my biggest turn on, seeing and feeling the lady enjoying what you're doing. No better feeling in my opinion.

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By *ackFromTheDead2Man
over a year ago

London/Surrey

"When you have sex with someone for the first time (maybe a ons, or you possibly only just met them) do you go down on them?"

Yeah if I'm expecting the same back why wouldn't I. Plus it's 1 of my strengths so gotta show it off

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By *unnyman84Man
over a year ago

maidstone

It’s a two way street in my eyes!!

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

"Lot of men saying what they think women want to hear.

In a real life setting or a fab setting

So unbelievable

Yeah agree with this. Sometimes I’ve pulled a girls knickers down and been met with an unpleasant smell and thought no chance. But that didn’t put me off having sex with her. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you have sex with someone for the first time (maybe a ons, or you possibly only just met them) do you go down on them?"

If it’s a dick appointment, usually I’m on my knees pretty fast

I always have oral before the main dish is served. Like who doesn’t??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go down every time. Love the taste mmm

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By *omond guyMan
over a year ago

alexandria

Yes and why not only time I wouldn't is if she asked me not to but never had anyone ask me not to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only if they’re Australian

Oh yeah, how so? Something different down there?"

Home and away neighbours lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yes to the question

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Of course. If they go down.on my I go down on them

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yes .. usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, love doing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lot of men saying what they think women want to hear.

In a real life setting or a fab setting

So unbelievable "

I was waiting for someone to give this statement in an around about way. Kind of ties in with how I felt about my friends opinions on it.

I did think that there's probably more that wouldn't than this thread would suggest because of the mixed reaction I had, a lot more, maybe more 50/50. Not accusing anyone of lying however. I put that down to survival, you're not going to openly make yourself seem close minded on here and have a negative view that could be detrimental to your chances. That's just fab, an it's perfectly OK to present yourself like that, everyone hides the truths that could turn people off.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Strange question really as I don’t usually plan out meets. It’s all rather spontaneous. To be fair some women don’t really enjoy it, helpfully they usually put this in their profile or articulate that through messaging/conversation.

I find it a strange question because I should imagine 90% of fellas would expect a blow job I am thinking. I would say, bar none. All of the women I have met through fabs made an “effort” for the meet, as I hope I have and that what would do is only dictated by preference

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I would always do that if that's what she wants. I don't know why you think somebody wouldn't just because it's a first time.

I have met women who aren't into receiving oral though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strange question really as I don’t usually plan out meets. It’s all rather spontaneous. To be fair some women don’t really enjoy it, helpfully they usually put this in their profile or articulate that through messaging/conversation.

I accept what you're saying but my original question was not specifically aimed at 'fab meets' bud.

If I meet someone from fab they're almost definitely going to want me to do it and enjoy oral sex (giving and receiving), this is because I've more than likely found out a lot more about them and thus being more selective. If you get yourself on to a ons situation for instance you're lucky if you can remember their name

... not that I would or have just taken any old stranger back with me

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