FabSwingers.com forum: Unrequited

By *TK421- OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Love for a best friend....

Have you ever had it?

How did you get over it? If you have!

Sorry if it's been covered before.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Yes.

He met a girl and they made a family.

Had no choice but to get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently…had a friend for five years.

Caught feelings….then found out she did too

Took my shot…it didn’t hit the target.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Yes and no I'm still not totally over it - life's a bitch sometimes

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By *TK421- OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Recently…had a friend for five years.

Caught feelings….then found out she did too

Took my shot…it didn’t hit the target. "

Sorry to hear this. All the best....

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By *TK421- OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Yes and no I'm still not totally over it - life's a bitch sometimes

Yep.... Looking for some hope. You're ok now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently…had a friend for five years.

Caught feelings….then found out she did too

Took my shot…it didn’t hit the target.

Sorry to hear this. All the best...."

It’s all good buddy, I’ve been through worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love for a best friend....

Have you ever had it?

How did you get over it? If you have!

Sorry if it's been covered before.

Yes I got the love feels for a long-term male friend. I walked away before Covid Not really got over it yet. X

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Happens on Fab a lot op, hope you’re ok if it’s a personal post, can’t be easy

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By *TK421- OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Happens on Fab a lot op, hope you’re ok if it’s a personal post, can’t be easy

It's not. Especially as I need to walk away but she needs my support with import stuff. It's hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *TK421- OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Yes.

We are not alone.....

Hopefully that helps.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Lucky enough to say no

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By *TK421- OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Lucky enough to say no "

Ah you bugger....lol.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I still love an ex girlfriend so much that I’m happy she’s appears happy married to someone else. I had my chance and ruined it, so she deserves to be happy.

But if she ever needed me

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

"Yes and no I'm still not totally over it - life's a bitch sometimes

Yep.... Looking for some hope. You're ok now?"

Mostly, catches me unawares sometimes but less and less as time rolls by

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Was in love with someone, didn't have any confidence in myself and lost out badly.

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By *TK421- OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Yes it's hard isn't it.

I kind of wish there was a switch to press....

So how have people gotten over it?

Though I suspect from the responses most of us haven't......

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By *oc30Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Childhood friend. Met her again in Medschool ! Fell in Love. Never confessed, though she knew, the whole bloody year knew. Saw her getting married. It was hard , it is what it is ! Chin up and carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. The most painful thing I’ve done I think.

Hope you’re ok OP. Be kind to yourself

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By *nsatiableWoman
over a year ago

Newmarket

Yup. He was separated from his wife for a long time but we both caught feelings then she decided she wanted another go and he felt it his duty to try and save the marriage which I respect. He admitted he still loves her. Hurts no less though.

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By *TK421- OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Yes. The most painful thing I’ve done I think.

Hope you’re ok OP. Be kind to yourself

Tx"

Ah trying to be kind.

Just got to get to a place that I can be.

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very often ppl tend to forget how difficult it is for the rejector too.

It is not easy to tell someone that you don’t love her/him back.

Especially in a society that glorifies love and sees it as the ultimate goal to achieve complete satisfaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but I loved him enough to let him go.

We're still friends and he has a gorgeous little boy and a stunning fiance....He's happy and that means the world to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, but I loved him enough to let him go."

This is what you call real love. x

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