FabSwingers.com forum: Being blocked

By *kaythen07 OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Could someone maybe shed some light. A couple had been viewing my profile for a few days. I message to say I'd like to know more about them as I can see they've been looking (their profile is very vague so nothing to go on, no profile pic ect). Now they've blocked me.... I don't get it???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t know, no point in wondering really… I’ve been blocked by some and didn’t even approach those people. So go figure

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

I wouldn't worry about it fella. For every block there's better coming I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worth your time wondering OP. Their loss

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Sometimes you get blocked by people you've never messaged in the first place. I found one today. Doesn't bother me in the slightest.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Could be all sorts of things but you are unlikely to ever find out, just forget about them and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just move on in the politest way

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Been blocked soo many people and soo many times , but still i seep well

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Viewing your profile isn’t an expression of interest. As there can be multiple reasons for doing so, not all of them are because they’re interested in meeting you.

So by blocking you they’ve sent a message, unfortunately for you it’s, thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens a lot!.. I hate it when you spend time composing a message, and I mean longer than the 'How are you' type messages, basically done everything that THEY required and not even a polite reply of 'Thanks but no thanks'

. but dont ponder over it, says more about them than it does you!

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By *kaythen07 OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Not worth your time wondering OP. Their loss

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why thank you

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Don't worry...my block list is getting hoooge

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By *kaythen07 OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Thanks for all the messages. Don't think I'm gona have sleepless nights over it. Just think a simple let down is polite. Then they can block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block them back and forget them and enjoy your fab adventure.

If you worry to much it can drive you crazy but the blocks I dislike are the coward blocks we’re they send you a message and block you before you can reply.

Best of luck op.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Block them back o/p.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Think of it as a lucky escape from future drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the sheer volume of profiles on here it may just be a simple case of them looking to remind themselves and then realising they've seen your profile before and it doesn't match what they are looking for, hence no message from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always a reason. You'll never know and you don't need to worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose they just don't want to be contacted by you?

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

It happens all the time don't take it personal some people are the way they are

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin

"Could someone maybe shed some light. A couple had been viewing my profile for a few days. I message to say I'd like to know more about them as I can see they've been looking (their profile is very vague so nothing to go on, no profile pic ect). Now they've blocked me.... I don't get it???"

Why don't you message them and...oh right!

Just use it as 'another fucking opportunity for growth!'.

Be mindful of the feelings and ask yourself why some random couple blocking you on here has brought up the reaction it has.

The reaction is completely understandable, but getting to the point where our self perception is not dependent on others people's beliefs or actions is freeing.

You won't even need fab after that

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Block them back.

Next question?

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin

"With the sheer volume of profiles on here it may just be a simple case of them looking to remind themselves and then realising they've seen your profile before and it doesn't match what they are looking for, hence no message from them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let it go move on. You'll never find out why, life is too short to worry bout it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m blocked by a lot of people, don’t give it a second thought

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