FabSwingers.com forum: Creeped out by a lady?

By *rSsh OP Man
over a year ago

Poundbury

We all know ladies and couples who have found certain guys at clubs and parties a bit creepy.

Have you ever had an experience of a lady freaking you out?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yes. I’ve had experiences of women touching without permission, being pushy, rude and disrespectful. It’s rare that anyone does anything though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I have came across yet to be honest with you

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Yes. Though wasn't a club... just a normal pub and an impromptu full monty by me and a couple of mates. I was in my 20s and woman in her 70s removed her knickers and put them in my pocket, touching and grabbing and then tried to drag me to the toilets

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I’ve come across a real psycho on here. Scary person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all know ladies and couples who have found certain guys at clubs and parties a bit creepy.

Have you ever had an experience of a lady freaking you out?"

I'm the self confessed creep or freep as we are know in anti social circles

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I was being spanked in a private room at a club by my partner, the door was ajar and we had an audience which I love

I was drifting in a wonderful zone when all of a sudden a woman barged in and threw a punch at my arse! Literally fist punched my arse! I have never seen my partner move so fast and along with another few guys marched her out of the building. She was very d*unk

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve been told this a few times… I took it as a complement

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Yes

messages alone were enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of pissed up women in clubs walking around doing whatever they like. Nothing is ever said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve known some very disturbed women. Shouting down the corridor that “I’ll let you fuck me in my Superman boots” was one woman’s masterpiece.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I have a couple of times. It's not funny or anything to be proud of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but my stalker has set up a number of female profiles on here to contact me, as I deleted kik to stop him setting up profiles when I blocked him.

Had a t-girl stalk me in the village I lived in. Messaged me to tell me what I’d been wearing, when, and that they were going to offer me a lift home- even said the street I lived on. Scary as their female persona was totally different to their male one, so I still don’t know who they were. Blocked and couldn’t wait to move xx

Had a number of spiteful messages from women though, usually to tell me I’m fat, attack my relationship dynamics etc, even on my social media, which is a completely different profile name x

So gender definitely isn’t a barrier to horrid behaviour x

Viv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads. Thankfully none on fab

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Loads of pissed up women in clubs walking around doing whatever they like. Nothing is ever said."

That's because they are women and they can do whatever they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I’ve had women try to touch me and kiss me. Very awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads of pissed up women in clubs walking around doing whatever they like. Nothing is ever said."

Absolutely 100% this, nothing is ever said to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads of pissed up women in clubs walking around doing whatever they like. Nothing is ever said.

Absolutely 100% this, nothing is ever said to them. "

I’ve said something to them, believe me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a women in bar throw her knickers at and asked me to take her outside and fuck her . As she was really pissed I did the gentlemanly thing and declined . She then straddle my leg rub herself back and forth leaving a hideous slug trail on my new trousers. Not impressed. Had to leave because of the hassle she was causing while others laughed

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"We all know ladies and couples who have found certain guys at clubs and parties a bit creepy.

Have you ever had an experience of a lady freaking you out?

I'm the self confessed creep or freep as we are know in anti social circles"

A creep and proud ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh boy I’ve had a few! Usually when too much alcohol has been consumed but also one stalker that used to sit outside my work and stare at me through the window and when I got angry with her told her brother i sexually assaulted her, so he then came after me but thankfully finally saw sense that his sister was a person who needed some help

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

A few times. Once was in a room playing with someone, when this woman barged in and slapped me hard across the face - she thought it would be hysterically funny. Wasn't so funny when the women I was with started shouting at her that she's a fucking psycho bitch....

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By *izzmasterzeroMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I had a woman force herself on me, grabbing at my dick, squeezing my ass, trying to stick her tongue down my neck... all of which was unwanted, she finally got the hint but threw her drink in my face and slapped me, when I threw my drink back at her I got kicked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it’s the reason my profile says I don’t accommodate

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Met a women at a club with an ex .she looked older then her pics .she was v pushy kept dragging my ex away .she wanted 2 fuck my ex and me 2 b her bitch . Politely told her I'm no 1s bitch .if she ad been a guy I would av punched her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was being spanked in a private room at a club by my partner, the door was ajar and we had an audience which I love

What

lol

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I had a stalker from POF. She scared off another woman that I had met just once for a coffee. In the end I had to get the police involved. They were fantastic.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes. Not from a club though, from here (she’s no longer here btw). It was a pretty traumatic and scary experience. Not something I’d like to go through again x

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I had a woman bite my lip really hard when I was in a hot tub - I thought she was close to whisper / talk but she just grabbed on and bit me….I wanted to go home and cry

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes in a club, pushed out of the way by a female who went down on my wife. We were new to swinging and it came as a bit of a shock. Now with experience we would have pulled her up by her hair told her to go away in strongest terms and reported her to the club staff.

Also had a woman walk up to me in a club and grab my balls. She was most put out when I told her to let go before I reported her. No bloke would have dared go up to a woman and grab her breasts in a club yet a woman thought it was OK to do that to me.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Majority of hassles I’ve ever had whilst dressed is with Men, from trying to get me to do things I didn’t want (sexually) to abusing me about my dressing.

However in the Village (Manchester) I was hassled several times by a few women. A lesbian started to get angry with me as I was talking to her girlfriend, she was physically removed from the place due to her shouting at me

A d*unken woman put her hand up my skirt as I stood at the bar. She did it as a laugh with her mates, luckily they agreed with me that it was inappropriate and downright insulting so took her out, she then took offence as it was ‘just a joke’.

There’s a couple of other incidents in the 20 years of going to venues within the gay, fetish or swingers lifestyle but nothing too dramatic.

Truth be told the majority of the time a woman approaches it’s generally in a nice way. Even Hen Parties want to have photos with you, compliment or drag you off to party with them. So it’s only occasionally that a woman has ever creeped me out.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I had a woman bite my lip really hard when I was in a hot tub - I thought she was close to whisper / talk but she just grabbed on and bit me….I wanted to go home and cry

Had similar when a woman bit my bum. To be fair she asked - and my bum gets a lot of attention. However - instead of the delicate nibble/kiss I was expecting she bit right in and left me with angry black bruises for a couple of weeks.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Seem plenty of strange behaviour from females, but it is difficult to define what is creepy? Certainly easier with guys

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"Loads of pissed up women in clubs walking around doing whatever they like. Nothing is ever said.

Absolutely 100% this, nothing is ever said to them. "

This is one of the main reasons that I rarely go to clubs...I've never had any hassle from men, but the dr*nk women can be really obnoxious. I'd happily travel or pay more to go to a club with a zero alcohol policy.

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I was groped and squeezed by a friend of a friend at a busy organised social. I wasn't creeped out, but I much prefer saying hello as an introduction.

Him x

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Oh god yeah plenty of times

I work the doors and also been a naked butler, seen it all

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Loads of pissed up women in clubs walking around doing whatever they like. Nothing is ever said."

Bingo!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Just twice in our whole swinging life lol. Will had a nasty experience with a female at a couples meet we had that then freaked him out when she became a single profile as she seemed to be at every night out we went that we had our name on the guest list he was scared for his life and also had a female that I nicknamed Scary that was always at Xtasia who used to follow us around, she never spoke to us just stared and on occasion tried a sneaky feel in crowded areas which was what felt creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an eye opener... Its put me off going to clubs a bit.

The amount of flack men get and women can be just as bad.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"This is an eye opener... Its put me off going to clubs a bit.

The amount of flack men get and women can be just as bad."

Awww don’t be put off just be aware it’s down to the individual not their sexuality, best to live with you have experienced it than the wonder of what if you had experienced it I think, I’m sure most people are not scary lol

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"This is an eye opener... Its put me off going to clubs a bit.

The amount of flack men get and women can be just as bad."

It truly is the minority that can get a bit as the Op said ‘creepy’ it’s not a regular occurrence. Plus the club owners have a responsibility to all patrons to ensure they’re safe and anyone found breaking the rules is asked to leave, man or woman.

I have had more experiences outside swingers clubs than inside.

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