FabSwingers.com forum: Private life

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been getting asked for facebook or insta profiles lately. Im more for keeping my private life and friends and family not part of this. Whats others thoughts?

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By *asterTheWayMan
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Yeah, don't fall for that, seems like a way to bribe you for money or something.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nooooo. I don’t mix the two. Kik for fab. WhatsApp etc for real life.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I wouldn't share my Facebook. Not a hope!

I keep this separate to my friends and family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always good practice to keep things seperate if you value your privacy. Once people start joining the dots they can find out all sorts online.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Definitely don't share any form of social media.

It's a risky business for sure.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

This is one of the reasons I don't meet anymore (aside from the fact I have no sex drive) is I'd want to access that stuff to check for girlfriends or wives who may be blissfully unaware their partner is doing the dirty on them and using me as a tool to do it.

I wouldn't expect anyone to give me that access due to potential violation or stalkery behaviour, therefore stuck in a catch 22.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Been getting asked for facebook or insta profiles lately. Im more for keeping my private life and friends and family not part of this. Whats others thoughts? "

Same although some friends that I've made on here have crossed over to life long friends and been added to Facebook etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your all in the same mind as me. I dont get why people would ask. I dont have social media so no issue to me. But then get accused of lieing about not having it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nooooo. I don’t mix the two. Kik for fab. WhatsApp etc for real life. "

Exactly the same

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

Completely, I don't even give out my number

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Plenty of friends have my real life details. But friends is the operative word… not giving random strangers anything!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its literally the first thing some females ask for. And say they wont talk without it. For there own safety.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Your all in the same mind as me. I dont get why people would ask. I dont have social media so no issue to me. But then get accused of lieing about not having it. "

My reason.

My ex didn't give me access to his FB. I was told it was purely for work which I could understand as I rarely use FB myself.

If I HAD been given that access I'd have learned him and his wife weren't separated at all. I'd have learned that the first time we were together was his wedding anniversary and whilst I was in the shower he was telling the world on there that he loved her and wishing her a happy anniversary.

Point blank I'd have never got into a relationship with him to start with, one that lasted almost 2 years and broke my faith in love and has caused me to shut down as far as letting anyone near me

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By *asterTheWayMan
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

I'm the same, no FB or Insta accounts. Deleted them years ago.

Found them too negative and "look at me!!!".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your all in the same mind as me. I dont get why people would ask. I dont have social media so no issue to me. But then get accused of lieing about not having it.

My reason.

My ex didn't give me access to his FB. I was told it was purely for work which I could understand as I rarely use FB myself.

Point blank I'd have never got into a relationship with him to start with, one that lasted almost 2 years and broke my faith in love and has caused me to shut down as far as letting anyone near me "
i understand with relationships. But as for meets and talking on fab. I think things should be kept seperate. I bet 90% of people dont give real names

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm the same, no FB or Insta accounts. Deleted them years ago.

Found them too negative and "look at me!!!"."

Exactly. Really dont get the fascination. I speak to who i want to speak and share things with who i want to see on text or whatsapp

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Your all in the same mind as me. I dont get why people would ask. I dont have social media so no issue to me. But then get accused of lieing about not having it.

My reason.

My ex didn't give me access to his FB. I was told it was purely for work which I could understand as I rarely use FB myself.

Point blank I'd have never got into a relationship with him to start with, one that lasted almost 2 years and broke my faith in love and has caused me to shut down as far as letting anyone near me i understand with relationships. But as for meets and talking on fab. I think things should be kept seperate. I bet 90% of people dont give real names"

That's what I'm saying tho, had I known the truth when we started talking in here I'd have never met him. I'd never have given him the chance to cheat on his wife with me. I'd have never given him the chance to create a double life with me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your all in the same mind as me. I dont get why people would ask. I dont have social media so no issue to me. But then get accused of lieing about not having it.

My reason.

My ex didn't give me access to his FB. I was told it was purely for work which I could understand as I rarely use FB myself.

Point blank I'd have never got into a relationship with him to start with, one that lasted almost 2 years and broke my faith in love and has caused me to shut down as far as letting anyone near me i understand with relationships. But as for meets and talking on fab. I think things should be kept seperate. I bet 90% of people dont give real names

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids

"I'm the same, no FB or Insta accounts. Deleted them years ago.

Found them too negative and "look at me!!!".

Exactly. Really dont get the fascination. I speak to who i want to speak and share things with who i want to see on text or whatsapp"

^ This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, don't fall for that, seems like a way to bribe you for money or something."

Also don't give them your real phone number if you use it on FB/ Insta etc. They can find you that way without knowing your name.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"Your all in the same mind as me. I dont get why people would ask. I dont have social media so no issue to me. But then get accused of lieing about not having it.

My reason.

My ex didn't give me access to his FB. I was told it was purely for work which I could understand as I rarely use FB myself.

Point blank I'd have never got into a relationship with him to start with, one that lasted almost 2 years and broke my faith in love and has caused me to shut down as far as letting anyone near me i understand with relationships. But as for meets and talking on fab. I think things should be kept seperate. I bet 90% of people dont give real names

I think in a long term relationship you share stuff.

For a first meet I would noy expect house keys and a bedside cabinet.

There is a difference.

It sounds like the damage he did has had quite an impact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been getting asked for facebook or insta profiles lately. Im more for keeping my private life and friends and family not part of this. Whats others thoughts? "

Private life is called that for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got WhatsApp

You on kik

Where in Wyrley are you

Hit me up on fb

Wuu2 Send your address now

These are some of the idiotic questions that I get asked every day on here and I'm sure everyone else's gets these too.

As the blood flow drained from there brains into there sexual organs. Why would you even entertain asking or answering these questions. Idiots. So op it's not only annoying it's idiotic xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You got WhatsApp

You on kik

Where in Wyrley are you

Hit me up on fb

Wuu2 Send your address now

These are some of the idiotic questions that I get asked every day on here and I'm sure everyone else's gets these too.

As the blood flow drained from there brains into there sexual organs. Why would you even entertain asking or answering these questions. Idiots. So op it's not only annoying it's idiotic xx

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sorry if i got your blood boiling there. I dont mind kik after achat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You got WhatsApp

You on kik

Where in Wyrley are you

Hit me up on fb

Wuu2 Send your address now

These are some of the idiotic questions that I get asked every day on here and I'm sure everyone else's gets these too.

As the blood flow drained from there brains into there sexual organs. Why would you even entertain asking or answering these questions. Idiots. So op it's not only annoying it's idiotic xx

sorry if i got your blood boiling there. I dont mind kik after achat

Cant you chat on here to people.

Kik the pic collectors play ground lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not both life’s are separate

Or in less we been meeting for like 6-7 months and want to take things further

Sorry for the rudeness here

But if they just banging me sensless then I don’t see the need for that info

If they want more than just mindless sex and they earn my trust then yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You got WhatsApp

You on kik

Where in Wyrley are you

Hit me up on fb

Wuu2 Send your address now

These are some of the idiotic questions that I get asked every day on here and I'm sure everyone else's gets these too.

As the blood flow drained from there brains into there sexual organs. Why would you even entertain asking or answering these questions. Idiots. So op it's not only annoying it's idiotic xx

sorry if i got your blood boiling there. I dont mind kik after achat

Cant you chat on here to people.

Kik the pic collectors play ground lol xx

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most stay on here. But if going well maybe move to kik. As not always on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely not both life’s are separate

Or in less we been meeting for like 6-7 months and want to take things further

Sorry for the rudeness here

But if they just banging me sensless then I don’t see the need for that info

If they want more than just mindless sex and they earn my trust then yes "
great answer

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I agree op, keep this separate from real life.

That's why I won't give out too much info either on where I live /work.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

As a thing, even with Social Media you shouldn't put more than is neccesary on there.

In my line of work, i've seen users accounts on Facebook, LinkedIn etc being broken into, simply because the attacker used a tool to simply guess the password with the info gathered on social media sites.

Things like kids names, dates of birth etc should be kept off of it or you lock your social media down to friends only, reduces the chances of attackers gathering info about you as an individual.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's an instant delete and block from me if those are mentioned x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's an instant delete and block from me if those are mentioned x"
kik aswell?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It's an instant delete and block from me if those are mentioned x kik aswell?"

Yes x

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I don’t like having family on Facebook let alone strangers from here

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"You got WhatsApp

You on kik

Where in Wyrley are you

Hit me up on fb

Wuu2 Send your address now

These are some of the idiotic questions that I get asked every day on here and I'm sure everyone else's gets these too.

As the blood flow drained from there brains into there sexual organs. Why would you even entertain asking or answering these questions. Idiots. So op it's not only annoying it's idiotic xx

sorry if i got your blood boiling there. I dont mind kik after achat

Cant you chat on here to people.

Kik the pic collectors play ground lol xx

lol kik is where I usually take the conversation to let it die because of this reason

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I don’t mind giving out my number to people after I’ve chatted on here for a while, if they’re not comfortable then there are other chat apps.

I wouldn’t give out my Facebook account to anyone I didn’t consider a friend though and I’ve made sure that nothing crosses over between.

There are tiers to building friendships on here, people may move at different rates as we all need to be guarded and at the same time, question those that are excessively guarded, as in PP’s situation.

Plenty of people lie, they lie to families, loved ones and to those they call friends but some people want to take advantage as well. It’s a balancing act what we reveal and there’s no right or wrong answer, only to be vigilant and careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really use other social media sites

Previously on another site would share numbers if became good friends and now only way to contact since I left there

On here only share number of definitely meeting

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"You got WhatsApp

You on kik

Where in Wyrley are you

Hit me up on fb

Wuu2 Send your address now

These are some of the idiotic questions that I get asked every day on here and I'm sure everyone else's gets these too.

As the blood flow drained from there brains into there sexual organs. Why would you even entertain asking or answering these questions. Idiots. So op it's not only annoying it's idiotic xx

sorry if i got your blood boiling there. I dont mind kik after achat

Cant you chat on here to people.

Kik the pic collectors play ground lol xx

lol kik is where I usually take the conversation to let it die because of this reason "

Kik has always worked fine for me. I’ve only ever given it to people I really like or am likely to meet. Never had any issues. A lot don’t seem to like it though from what I’ve read on here. To me it’s just a WhatsApp for fab folk.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"I'm the same, no FB or Insta accounts. Deleted them years ago.

Found them too negative and "look at me!!!"."

That is my situation also.

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