FabSwingers.com forum: fm couples profiles ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Couples, Why is it that a lot of couples profiles don't show any pics of the male involved.

I like to see pics of both f and m on their profile.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I used to ask this of couples when I used to seek and meet couples. They would ask to meet and I would point out I could not judge any initial attraction if there were no photos of the man.

The most common reply was, he is too shy to have his photo taken. Not too shy to take his clothes off and have sex with a random stranger though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to ask this of couples when I used to seek and meet couples. They would ask to meet and I would point out I could not judge any initial attraction if there were no photos of the man.

The most common reply was, he is too shy to have his photo taken. Not too shy to take his clothes off and have sex with a random stranger though

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I used to ask this of couples when I used to seek and meet couples. They would ask to meet and I would point out I could not judge any initial attraction if there were no photos of the man.

The most common reply was, he is too shy to have his photo taken. Not too shy to take his clothes off and have sex with a random stranger though

I am not ranting about men generally, but many profiles had no photos of the male half at all, or maybe one photo of her face on the end of his cock. When asked for a photo of him after sharing my face photo, they still wouldn't send one because he was too shy. Really

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to ask this of couples when I used to seek and meet couples. They would ask to meet and I would point out I could not judge any initial attraction if there were no photos of the man.

The most common reply was, he is too shy to have his photo taken. Not too shy to take his clothes off and have sex with a random stranger though

Haha..thats a terrible excuse. I think some couples profiles are managed by the m and the m seems to think we only want to see the f counterparts but how wrong they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to ask this of couples when I used to seek and meet couples. They would ask to meet and I would point out I could not judge any initial attraction if there were no photos of the man.

The most common reply was, he is too shy to have his photo taken. Not too shy to take his clothes off and have sex with a random stranger though

It's madness. I think they hope that we will fall in lust with the woman and then when we finally meet the hideous ogre man in the flesh we will agree to shag him anyway just to get to the woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to ask this of couples when I used to seek and meet couples. They would ask to meet and I would point out I could not judge any initial attraction if there were no photos of the man.

The most common reply was, he is too shy to have his photo taken. Not too shy to take his clothes off and have sex with a random stranger though

It's madness. I think they hope that we will fall in lust with the woman and then when we finally meet the hideous ogre man in the flesh we will agree to shag him anyway just to get to the woman.

lol...I love the way you said that...so true tho

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I think it also depends on the dynamics of the couple.If their are just looking for the wife to play while the husband watches or films then what’s the point of him having pictures..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples, Why is it that a lot of couples profiles don't show any pics of the male involved.

I like to see pics of both f and m on their profile.

I do find this odd. Especially when its the gent thats done/doing the messaging but theres no photos of him. Strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it also depends on the dynamics of the couple.If their are just looking for the wife to play while the husband watches or films then what’s the point of him having pictures.."

This

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'm the one mainly on the forum, so I like doing forum challenges. I'm the one who likes attention seeking so erm yeah there's lots of photos of me.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

We have both but he always says people want to see women more than men - which I disagree with, so trying to get more boy pics on our profile

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By *urAlterEgosCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

"We have both but he always says people want to see women more than men - which I disagree with, so trying to get more boy pics on our profile

We have this too. Of all the pics we take Mrs always prefers the ones where Mr is included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to ask this of couples when I used to seek and meet couples. They would ask to meet and I would point out I could not judge any initial attraction if there were no photos of the man.

The most common reply was, he is too shy to have his photo taken. Not too shy to take his clothes off and have sex with a random stranger though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to ask this of couples when I used to seek and meet couples. They would ask to meet and I would point out I could not judge any initial attraction if there were no photos of the man.

The most common reply was, he is too shy to have his photo taken. Not too shy to take his clothes off and have sex with a random stranger though

It’s because the wife is bait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the couples profile I'm on I've made it clear I want an equal balance of pics of each of us for this very reason.

I think a lot of men will have confidence issues up against the pics of their woman. Which is a real shame as they really shouldn't do. And then as said above sometimes it's to do with the dynamic.

It's annoying though, there's often comments made about how hard it is to find a unicorn but then they don't show the guy.

I gave up on the idea of being with a couple on my own for this reason and because of a couple that were rude to me.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

"On the couples profile I'm on I've made it clear I want an equal balance of pics of each of us for this very reason.

I think a lot of men will have confidence issues up against the pics of their woman. Which is a real shame as they really shouldn't do. And then as said above sometimes it's to do with the dynamic.

It's annoying though, there's often comments made about how hard it is to find a unicorn but then they don't show the guy.

I gave up on the idea of being with a couple on my own for this reason and because of a couple that were rude to me. "

There definitely seems to be a belief that either people will only be interested in seeing the woman, or that the woman’s body is the only one worth posting, but that must make people wonder if the guy is either too shy, or too hideous or something, I don’t know. On the plus side there do seem to be enough forum threads about guys wanting to know how to take better pics of themselves so maybe the trend will shift??

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

The majority of pics on our profile are of me, and only a few of Mr! Nothing behind it other than the fact I’m self employed and can get naked at work any time I like, therefore take pics for fab! I’m also the only one who takes part in the forums! There are however a lot more images of him with his cock out on our friends only images which we are more than happy to share with ladies we’re chatting too! We just chose not to share those images to the public! If ladies don’t want to see me, then I’m more than happy just to add them to my single profile instead if that helps our couples profile! Miss pc

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Couples, Why is it that a lot of couples profiles don't show any pics of the male involved.

I like to see pics of both f and m on their profile.

Another thread just said these are common. The bigest problem despite what people say and said in the other thread.

Unless you are youngish, fit/athletic, rugged. Defacto typecast male, chris Hemsworth, Jason Momoa. Then the profile won't even get look.

As has been said and continued to be said, got to fancy them both, but very few do and it is the female most are looking for anyway.

If you do not fit the above profile, then male on the publics will almost certainly stop the profile from getting a second glance.

I would go as far as to say, male pics on the profile are simply used as further filters - saves having to make any effort only to decide - no way

People will disagree in public but in private...

It is the nature of the beast

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Depends on the dynamic of the couple really, if they're both wanting to play then yes for sure I want to see both, if he's going to sit out and just watch and it's about me and her then it's not too much of an issue not seeing him

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Men are ooogly!!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Id say it depends on what people are after.

There are few photos of me because of what we are looking for - I do things to others.

However when we have been looking to meet, and depending upon what that meet will entail have either shared photos of me and my penis or met people socially first.

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By *hatalovelypairCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

There's a couple of my husband on our profile.

There's more of me because I'm the extrovert and love to dress up in lingerie and take pics...hes not that way inclined

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

"We have both but he always says people want to see women more than men - which I disagree with, so trying to get more boy pics on our profile

We have this too. Of all the pics we take Mrs always prefers the ones where Mr is included."

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If they want to meet us we need to see both of them. If for any reason one of them can't or won't supply a photo we assume that person isn't interested and allow them to move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a fairly good mix of both of us which is what we like to see on other couples profiles I have to admit if there’s none of the male then I’d question why not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men are ooogly!!

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Come on guys, if you are part of a couple get your pics out their!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If a couple with no pics of the male, messages our couple profile, we ignore it. In the past we've spent too long engaging with profiles where it's just the lady, then when we get a pic of the male, there's no attraction.

I'm straight so seeing the male is very important to me.

I understand if only the woman plays, but if a couple is looking to meet another couple and all are playing, they should have a few of the man too.

We have lots of my other half on our profile,yes many might not like pics being taken, but one or 2 is all it needs.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We try to keep a balance of photos although there are more of Mrs than there are Mr.

For some it is about attraction and popularity if you take our photos for example some photos of Mrs have a couple of thousand fabs whilst a few of Mr photos might have made it to double figures now if you leave them on show for a few years

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Yes as a couple why do you not show Both parties in the couple bit frustrating .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We make a point of having pics of us both..it can be a deal breaker, playing with other couples everyone has to be attracted.Sadly the ladies tend to be lovely and partner not so lovely.Rare to have attraction for all parties concerned.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We have both and I think its a valid point that both should be present in the pictures, both for single ladies and for couples.

Picture of just one half puts us off..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on guys, if you are part of a couple get your pics out their!"

They’re out there on our couples profile and out here for cross referencing.

What others do with their profile is completely up to them.

These kind of threads always make me

Just avoid the profiles if they don’t contain things you want to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on guys, if you are part of a couple get your pics out their!

They’re out there on our couples profile and out here for cross referencing.

What others do with their profile is completely up to them.

These kind of threads always make me

Just avoid the profiles if they don’t contain things you want to see."

Good point well made Sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on guys, if you are part of a couple get your pics out their!

They’re out there on our couples profile and out here for cross referencing.

What others do with their profile is completely up to them.

These kind of threads always make me

Just avoid the profiles if they don’t contain things you want to see.

Good point well made Sam

Thanks Sam

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By * plus SCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

Suppose it depends on what the couple are after. On our public pictures it’s all me, as our profile clearly states I’m the one who plays, my husband watches and occasionally joins in. Again we’ve stated he’s straight, so can’t imagine any straight men being particularly bothered about seeing him in pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see a good mix of both male and female pics, I want to see if there's any attraction, I don't understand why there's none of the men sometimes.

Mrs

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Couples, Why is it that a lot of couples profiles don't show any pics of the male involved.

I like to see pics of both f and m on their profile.

We run our profiles as we choose to.

If that's not what you want to see then just block us and move along.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We find this a shame and makes us less likely to interact with a couple.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Couples, Why is it that a lot of couples profiles don't show any pics of the male involved.

I have no idea.

To me, even if he doesn't get involved there ought to be a photo if him somewhere, since he will be present.

The lack of photos of the chap is a common bug bear of mine. There's more of me than my husband on

our couple profile but he's definitely there, and not just his cock either.

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By *elilah999Woman
over a year ago

Malton

"Couples, Why is it that a lot of couples profiles don't show any pics of the male involved.

I like to see pics of both f and m on their profile.

I have a theory that's been proven for quite a few that I've come across this week especially. The male just isn't that appealing. Pretty simple. I came across a stunning couple/lady. Had over 100 pics of her and two of the males cock. So I asked could i see a picture please. Safe to say he was no Brad Pitt. Which was a real shame. Now I understand that nobody will show something they don't think will get them the desired attention or affect to get a meet. But fuck me sideways. What do you think was going to happen when the person sees the male. Yes someone will fancy that particular male. But just be honest with your pictures guys. It's soo frustrating and time consuming. Only to be told I think I'm gods gift to people. Well I'm sorry if your guy didn't float my boat. Sorry for having a preference

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

In reality how often is it likely to happen that two couples meet and opposing partners all hit if off.

The term rarer than rocking horse springs to mind along with one person taking one for the team.

In our case, I (Mr) have no interest in others so feel no need for pics of me.

We have met plenty of couples and feedback has always been good.

Go figure eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it also depends on the dynamics of the couple.If their are just looking for the wife to play while the husband watches or films then what’s the point of him having pictures.."

This is the case for us.

Mr won't be involved with anyone but Mrs Cheeky.

Seeking couples is for her enjoyment when Mr has to work away on occasion, only time Mr will be there is likely the first time or first couple of times until Mrs is comfortable to meet alone.

We also seek single guys, preferably straight as again, Mr won't be involved with anyone but Mrs Cheeky.

So we feel there's little point in advertising Mr, though if we are talking about meeting, we're happy to send a picture of Mr Cheeky

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

we show both just more of me

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

When we started out we only really met guys and they didn't tend to worry what I looked like etc as we were both there to pleasure S so had a tendancy to put pictures of mostly S.

Now we're interested in meeting more couples or ladies as well as guys there we are starting to include some of me too. Although there aren't so many of me posing I am in a lot of the 'action' pictures. Of course we have face pictures of us both together and separately uploaded to share but they are 'public'

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Just trying to stop my eyes rolling lol, if people don’t like someone’s profile press the back button and move on to the next, easy.

We could ask the question to why do lots of single guys profiles just have pics of their cock? is it not attached to something or do they think a pic of their cock is all that’s required

Most of the public pics on our profile are of me AJ bit we have equal amount of both of us in friends and if we’re looking to meet we will send pics of both of us, we usually meet couples and all as worked out well for us over the years

The only reason there’s more pics of me is I get horny having my pic taken

and I’m crap at taking pics, usually I chop Wills head off or there’s a plant coming out of it, sorry there’s no other reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's preference but as we are both playing we prefer to show pictures of both of us xx

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Everyone is here for their own reasons and therefore do as they see fit.

We're both in the game, so we're both in the profile pics

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By *elilah999Woman
over a year ago

Malton

"I guess it's preference but as we are both playing we prefer to show pictures of both of us xx"

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By *elilah999Woman
over a year ago

Malton

"Everyone is here for their own reasons and therefore do as they see fit.

We're both in the game, so we're both in the profile pics

Love this

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