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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i was a bit of a lad gotta admit it in my 20s 30s bit of bovver here and there bit of aggro now and then haha selfish bit dodgy haha but got pussy most nights i went out now ive mellowed slowed down a bit cut out all the crap tried to sort myself out moved to a nice area and the pussy has dried up haha

do women like a bad boy more ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was a bit of a lad gotta admit it in my 20s 30s bit of bovver here and there bit of aggro now and then haha selfish bit dodgy haha but got pussy most nights i went out now ive mellowed slowed down a bit cut out all the crap tried to sort myself out moved to a nice area and the pussy has dried up haha

do women like a bad boy more ???"

Some in my experience do but personally I rocked the rough diamond look with cropped hair and facial scars and found that to be to some ladies liking without having to partake in the badness bit.

Oh happy days.!!!!

T

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

No I prefer a gentleman they know how to respect and treat a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be that you have changed the type of woman you are around now you are in a nicer area.

You are nicer, as are they and perhaps they like to get to no someone a bit more before jumping in the sack.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope, I prefer men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I prefer a gentleman they know how to respect and treat a woman "

i always respect and treat women well haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be that you have changed the type of woman you are around now you are in a nicer area.

You are nicer, as are they and perhaps they like to get to no someone a bit more before jumping in the sack. "

maybe haha ive also lost my looks haha

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not for me

I prefer a good egg!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was a bit of a lad gotta admit it in my 20s 30s bit of bovver here and there bit of aggro now and then haha selfish bit dodgy haha but got pussy most nights i went out now ive mellowed slowed down a bit cut out all the crap tried to sort myself out moved to a nice area and the pussy has dried up haha

do women like a bad boy more ???"

Some how i agree and concur with your point, been to otherside of table, sincere, nerd, speak polietly give repect to everyone even to younger ones, and hardly manage to see pussy fucking was distance dream, untill 25 when i get into job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will always defer to women on this ...

But I've taken the view that women (people) want someone who is confident in their own skin, doesn't compromise on who they are in order to get a gal, and lives their life for them.

Bad boys normally fit this bill. But not just bad boys. However a lot of self proclaimed "nice guys" don't fit this description.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did was I was younger and didn't know any better. Not now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope the real bad boys you wouldn’t even know

Like carlos condit meet him on the street we’ll dressed soft spoken polity

But a complete kills

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

I'm a little bit weerrrr, a little bit weeeeeey, a little bit dodgy

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I prefer a nice fella, a gentleman, bad boys can be drama laden a bit loutish and that’s not for me, I like a nice man I do

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

In the interests of clarity what do people mean when they say "bad boy"?

I take it to mean untrustworthy, emotionally immature, treat em mean to keep em keen attitude and unreliable.

We had a neighbour whose husband was what I think if as a bad boy. She told me once "that's why I love him", to me she was the epitome of a door mat.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I live somewhere nice so we don’t have bad Boys just gents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I noticed this a lot when in my younger days. You'd always see beautiful girls going out with right wrong ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I noticed this a lot when in my younger days. You'd always see beautiful girls going out with right wrong ones. "

deffo the bigger the twat the hotter the bird back in my day haha like a hotty magnet

i was only mid range on the cunt scale so only pulled mid range birds haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes I noticed this a lot when in my younger days. You'd always see beautiful girls going out with right wrong ones. "

Confirmation bias

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Absolutely true, and every woman will be the first to say “oh not me I like the nice ones” then see them going home with the bad boys.

Actions speak louder than words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not true.

I like a gentleman who knows how to treat me like I need, and behave like a bad man, but is respectful and considerate too.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The only bad boy I like is in the bedroom x

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

A man who knows how to treat a woman with respect, a gentleman with a naughty mind who knows how to stimulate my mind and body far out ways the stereotypical bad boy type xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Absolutely true, and every woman will be the first to say “oh not me I like the nice ones” then see them going home with the bad boys.

Actions speak louder than words "

Every woman?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

One of my friends always went for the bad boys but is with someone kind and respectful now and she's never been happier. I could never be a bad boy because it's just not in my nature but I tend to end up with bad girls though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience a certain type do, when i came out from a spell in her mag's hotel i had so many messages on socials from women that had seen in the papers. They wernt my type for sure but all had a certain same look about them.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Tends to be a case of spend your youth going from bad boy to bad boy, enjoying the thrills that come with it, then settle down with a nice guy and never tell him about your past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me out on all counts then

Bad and mad !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls like a bad boy.

Women like a Man with his act together.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Girls like a bad boy.

Women like a Man with his act together. "

Indeed and emotionally mature people with good self esteem tend to gravitate to people with similar attributes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was a bit of a lad gotta admit it in my 20s 30s bit of bovver here and there bit of aggro now and then haha selfish bit dodgy haha but got pussy most nights i went out now ive mellowed slowed down a bit cut out all the crap tried to sort myself out moved to a nice area and the pussy has dried up haha

do women like a bad boy more ???"

Nothing to do with you were younger and better looking then ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nonsense.

I see the appeal that might be confused.

But good guys don’t finish last. And they do get the girl.

I may look rough and ready and my life story feels like an action movie at times. But I ain’t a bad boy.

I couldn’t tell you if I’m popular, or lusted after because I’m a good guy! I’ve no idea. I just know I’m me and I treat women with respect. I flirt, and I’m cheeky as hell. But when I’m with a lady my eyes are never taken away from them.

There’s no one else that turns my gaze. And they are the reason I’m smiling so much.

With them I’ll flirt, joke, chat about like and want to know all about what makes them who they are. I like swapping life stories and talking about each other’s dreams. But I’ll always enjoy there story more than mine (I know mine) lol

If that makes me a good guy… then I’d sooner be that

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Only to use...

Good guys are for keeping

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"In the interests of clarity what do people mean when they say "bad boy"?

I take it to mean untrustworthy, emotionally immature, treat em mean to keep em keen attitude and unreliable.

We had a neighbour whose husband was what I think if as a bad boy. She told me once "that's why I love him", to me she was the epitome of a door mat. "

Strangely enough that is almost how I would describe someone who is too nice to be true.

A purple people pleaser who doesn't have the courage of his convictions and doesn't have an opinion of his own.

Someone who needs validation from others or who reminds everyone that they are a nice guy, a gent, someone to be trusted is actually the least reliable and trustworthy character.

Everyone will have their own definition of what a bad boy is but usually they are much more transparent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I prefer a gentleman they know how to respect and treat a woman "

This xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first questions is how many times have they been arrested and how many grannies have they robbed... if it's more than ten, then fanny is open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first questions is how many times have they been arrested and how many grannies have they robbed... if it's more than ten, then fanny is open. "

Haha, blown my theory out the water

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Not in my experience o/p. 'Bad Boys' are just that...boys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not the lyrics to a 80s song by Wham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely despise bad boys! Oh my gosh they make my skin crawl but so many women I know seem to love them.

You're right they probably do get more pussy. But nope, I will never give a bad boy mine. I like a good respectful man.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Could be that you have changed the type of woman you are around now you are in a nicer area.

You are nicer, as are they and perhaps they like to get to no someone a bit more before jumping in the sack.

maybe haha ive also lost my looks haha "

Plus your not in your 20’s now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subjective, I don't know if because a male is more desirable he will be more successful and thus becomes more arrogant from it, that as opposed to a respectful man who feels he needs to try harder in this way to make up for less desirable attributes... Or is a bad boy attitude a sign of confidence that women are always attracted to, confidence is probably the number one key to intimacy. I'd say more the latter to be true.

I'm not a "bad boy" but I'm not a nice guy either, even still I wouldn't quantify my success or failure with women to anything like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was a bit of a lad gotta admit it in my 20s 30s bit of bovver here and there bit of aggro now and then haha selfish bit dodgy haha but got pussy most nights i went out now ive mellowed slowed down a bit cut out all the crap tried to sort myself out moved to a nice area and the pussy has dried up haha

do women like a bad boy more ???"

I like men who don't use the phrase "the pussy has dried up"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"In the interests of clarity what do people mean when they say "bad boy"?

I take it to mean untrustworthy, emotionally immature, treat em mean to keep em keen attitude and unreliable.

We had a neighbour whose husband was what I think if as a bad boy. She told me once "that's why I love him", to me she was the epitome of a door mat.

Strangely enough that is almost how I would describe someone who is too nice to be true.

A purple people pleaser who doesn't have the courage of his convictions and doesn't have an opinion of his own.

Someone who needs validation from others or who reminds everyone that they are a nice guy, a gent, someone to be trusted is actually the least reliable and trustworthy character.

Everyone will have their own definition of what a bad boy is but usually they are much more transparent. "

I'm not really understanding what you mean. She's too nice to be true or her immature, untrustworthy husband?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Dry pussy? Have you tried lube?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was a bit of a lad gotta admit it in my 20s 30s bit of bovver here and there bit of aggro now and then haha selfish bit dodgy haha but got pussy most nights i went out now ive mellowed slowed down a bit cut out all the crap tried to sort myself out moved to a nice area and the pussy has dried up haha

do women like a bad boy more ???

I like men who don't use the phrase "the pussy has dried up" "

What would you prefer? a fanny draught? Cunt famine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was a bit of a lad gotta admit it in my 20s 30s bit of bovver here and there bit of aggro now and then haha selfish bit dodgy haha but got pussy most nights i went out now ive mellowed slowed down a bit cut out all the crap tried to sort myself out moved to a nice area and the pussy has dried up haha

do women like a bad boy more ???

I like men who don't use the phrase "the pussy has dried up"

What would you prefer? a fanny draught? Cunt famine?"

Drought* stupid auto change

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare


"do women like a bad boy more ???"

Some do, some don't. Next question.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I doubt very much. You just got old and ugly

Just kidding.

I know typical bad boys who weren't particularly swamped in pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, I prefer men"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank goodness I’m such a good boy.

I couldn’t possibly handle anymore pussy.

I could do with a stunt cock on call as it is.

I try not to complain though, I’m good like that.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My interpretation of bad boy isn't how they treat women.

I was thinking more how they behave in society.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"In the interests of clarity what do people mean when they say "bad boy"?

I take it to mean untrustworthy, emotionally immature, treat em mean to keep em keen attitude and unreliable.

We had a neighbour whose husband was what I think if as a bad boy. She told me once "that's why I love him", to me she was the epitome of a door mat.

Strangely enough that is almost how I would describe someone who is too nice to be true.

A purple people pleaser who doesn't have the courage of his convictions and doesn't have an opinion of his own.

Someone who needs validation from others or who reminds everyone that they are a nice guy, a gent, someone to be trusted is actually the least reliable and trustworthy character.

Everyone will have their own definition of what a bad boy is but usually they are much more transparent.

I'm not really understanding what you mean. She's too nice to be true or her immature, untrustworthy husband?"

No the part where you describe what you take to mean a bad boy. Untrustworthy, emotionally immature and unreliable are all words I have used to describe someone claiming to be a nice guy. Usually because in acting as all things to all men he or she is all of the above.

Bad boys are usually more clearly defined even if they are playing a role.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"In the interests of clarity what do people mean when they say "bad boy"?

I take it to mean untrustworthy, emotionally immature, treat em mean to keep em keen attitude and unreliable.

We had a neighbour whose husband was what I think if as a bad boy. She told me once "that's why I love him", to me she was the epitome of a door mat.

Strangely enough that is almost how I would describe someone who is too nice to be true.

A purple people pleaser who doesn't have the courage of his convictions and doesn't have an opinion of his own.

Someone who needs validation from others or who reminds everyone that they are a nice guy, a gent, someone to be trusted is actually the least reliable and trustworthy character.

Everyone will have their own definition of what a bad boy is but usually they are much more transparent.

I'm not really understanding what you mean. She's too nice to be true or her immature, untrustworthy husband?

No the part where you describe what you take to mean a bad boy. Untrustworthy, emotionally immature and unreliable are all words I have used to describe someone claiming to be a nice guy. Usually because in acting as all things to all men he or she is all of the above.

Bad boys are usually more clearly defined even if they are playing a role. "

Ah, ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was a bit of a lad gotta admit it in my 20s 30s bit of bovver here and there bit of aggro now and then haha selfish bit dodgy haha but got pussy most nights i went out now ive mellowed slowed down a bit cut out all the crap tried to sort myself out moved to a nice area and the pussy has dried up haha

do women like a bad boy more ???

I like men who don't use the phrase "the pussy has dried up"

What would you prefer? a fanny draught? Cunt famine?"

Use whatever phrase you want. This particular pussy will remain closed to men who talk like women are one homogenous set of holes for their use.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i was a bit of a lad gotta admit it in my 20s 30s bit of bovver here and there bit of aggro now and then haha selfish bit dodgy haha but got pussy most nights i went out now ive mellowed slowed down a bit cut out all the crap tried to sort myself out moved to a nice area and the pussy has dried up haha

do women like a bad boy more ???

I like men who don't use the phrase "the pussy has dried up" "

i guess a fuck is out of the question then haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I doubt very much. You just got old and ugly

Just kidding.

I know typical bad boys who weren't particularly swamped in pussy.

"

haha your not wrong i dont go looking like i used to either the pubs and clubs i used to visit have all been condemmed now haha

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I doubt very much. You just got old and ugly

Just kidding.

I know typical bad boys who weren't particularly swamped in pussy.

haha your not wrong i dont go looking like i used to either the pubs and clubs i used to visit have all been condemmed now haha "

The whole social scene is different now. Most pubs, bars and clubs where I live are gone, and people trek into London where people aren't as sociable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I doubt very much. You just got old and ugly

Just kidding.

I know typical bad boys who weren't particularly swamped in pussy.

haha your not wrong i dont go looking like i used to either the pubs and clubs i used to visit have all been condemmed now haha

The whole social scene is different now. Most pubs, bars and clubs where I live are gone, and people trek into London where people aren't as sociable. "

yea sad times all the old haunts gone good times back in the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was a bit of a lad gotta admit it in my 20s 30s bit of bovver here and there bit of aggro now and then haha selfish bit dodgy haha but got pussy most nights i went out now ive mellowed slowed down a bit cut out all the crap tried to sort myself out moved to a nice area and the pussy has dried up haha

do women like a bad boy more ???

I like men who don't use the phrase "the pussy has dried up"

i guess a fuck is out of the question then haha "

Haha no chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i was a bit of a lad gotta admit it in my 20s 30s bit of bovver here and there bit of aggro now and then haha selfish bit dodgy haha but got pussy most nights i went out now ive mellowed slowed down a bit cut out all the crap tried to sort myself out moved to a nice area and the pussy has dried up haha

do women like a bad boy more ???

I like men who don't use the phrase "the pussy has dried up"

i guess a fuck is out of the question then haha

Haha no chance "

it was worth a try tho plenty more fish in the sea haha

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I don’t like silly little boys, never have and never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was much younger (and much more stupid) maybe !

These days I like a gentleman with confidence , who knows exactly how to treat me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nope. I’ve never gone for bad boys.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm a good boy, and I do ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so nobody likes a bad boy then haha thats the story on here anyway why then are they never short of a bird or two???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a bad boy and unfortunately the dating sites are all difficult to navigate these days because of the bad boys.

I’m far more respectful and want to have any prospective partner to have a good time not just me getting my nut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest growing up I loved the bad boys more than the quiet shy ones.

Never dated one properly though and definately didn't want to keep any long term they were too much bloody hassle ha ha

Sex was always good though and you never got any grief from other blokes on a night out if the one you knew was around

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Your like moths to a flame aren’t you ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your like moths to a flame aren’t you ladies "

Same reaction usually happens to Men in Suits so be careful.....

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Your like moths to a flame aren’t you ladies

Same reaction usually happens to Men in Suits so be careful..... "

Ha ha ! I’m always happy to wear one if asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be that you have changed the type of woman you are around now you are in a nicer area.

You are nicer, as are they and perhaps they like to get to no someone a bit more before jumping in the sack. "
It's not that it's that there's no booze or dr*gs to hand.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

The bad boys may get more...but the nice boys appreciate it more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watch good girls on Netflix and one of the guys on there is called Rio he is a bad boy but absolutely gorgeous now the actor who plays him is called Manny now I'm on a Facebook group called the Rio appreciation group and someone asked everyone on there of which there are thousands but who are you attracted to Rio or Manny and the responses where pretty much all for Rio.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral


"so nobody likes a bad boy then haha thats the story on here anyway why then are they never short of a bird or two??? "

As some spend all their money on leasing a big flash car and going out to fancy places which is like a honey trap to certain girls. It's the whole package that goes with them, no one wants an outright knob head but for some girls they accept a bit of give and take...bad boy but get money spent on them. All falls apart when they realise the lad still lives at home orrrr they're a drug dealer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit I do like a bad boy

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s wierd it’s often the reverse for women, I really like quiet shy geeky intelligent girls , but Ladettes not matter how fit are unattractive

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be that you have changed the type of woman you are around now you are in a nicer area.

You are nicer, as are they and perhaps they like to get to no someone a bit more before jumping in the sack. It's not that it's that there's no booze or dr*gs to hand."

nah mate never done drugs had a drink but never been a pisshead

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian


"i was a bit of a lad gotta admit it in my 20s 30s bit of bovver here and there bit of aggro now and then haha selfish bit dodgy haha but got pussy most nights i went out now ive mellowed slowed down a bit cut out all the crap tried to sort myself out moved to a nice area and the pussy has dried up haha

do women like a bad boy more ???"

Part of me believes this is true

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Subjective, I don't know if because a male is more desirable he will be more successful and thus becomes more arrogant from it, that as opposed to a respectful man who feels he needs to try harder in this way to make up for less desirable attributes... Or is a bad boy attitude a sign of confidence that women are always attracted to, confidence is probably the number one key to intimacy. I'd say more the latter to be true.

I'm not a "bad boy" but I'm not a nice guy either, even still I wouldn't quantify my success or failure with women to anything like that."

Confidence - is the key...

From the bad boy image, to a doorman, barman, DJ, guy spinning a waltzers the fairground, to a small fat balding man with a Ferrari, lawyer, politician, policeman, fireman, squaddy.

They have a what most could perceive as a "cocky arrogance".

But it is that confidence women are attracted to.

As a people watcher and ex DJ from nightclubs and pubs I've seen them all offer the 30 odd years in that business.

It is the same thing every time.

A small percentage of ladies will go for the quite reserved guys. But the majority would be all doe eyed for the cocky arrogant fucker..

And It is probably a primal response. Primal Confidence is a sign alpha male dominance. Hunter. Leader. Good genies for future offspring...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"It’s wierd it’s often the reverse for women, I really like quiet shy geeky intelligent girls , but Ladettes not matter how fit are unattractive "

You gotta watch out for the quiet ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are just getting old kev

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are just getting old kev "

haha tell me about it!!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"You are just getting old kev

haha tell me about it!!!"
you're Millwall keV ... course you're a bad boy

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Don't agree with that statement. However good boy or bad boy it helps to know the game and box clever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Subjective, I don't know if because a male is more desirable he will be more successful and thus becomes more arrogant from it, that as opposed to a respectful man who feels he needs to try harder in this way to make up for less desirable attributes... Or is a bad boy attitude a sign of confidence that women are always attracted to, confidence is probably the number one key to intimacy. I'd say more the latter to be true.

I'm not a "bad boy" but I'm not a nice guy either, even still I wouldn't quantify my success or failure with women to anything like that.

Confidence - is the key...

From the bad boy image, to a doorman, barman, DJ, guy spinning a waltzers the fairground, to a small fat balding man with a Ferrari, lawyer, politician, policeman, fireman, squaddy.

They have a what most could perceive as a "cocky arrogance".

But it is that confidence women are attracted to.

As a people watcher and ex DJ from nightclubs and pubs I've seen them all offer the 30 odd years in that business.

It is the same thing every time.

A small percentage of ladies will go for the quite reserved guys. But the majority would be all doe eyed for the cocky arrogant fucker..

And It is probably a primal response. Primal Confidence is a sign alpha male dominance. Hunter. Leader. Good genies for future offspring... "

I agree with how you expanded my point and is very interesting to know that you seen it first hand.

But confidence isn't something you're born with, an I can only explain that it's a characteristic you develop with successes and in some cases taken away by not necessarily just failure but many contributing factors

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Subjective, I don't know if because a male is more desirable he will be more successful and thus becomes more arrogant from it, that as opposed to a respectful man who feels he needs to try harder in this way to make up for less desirable attributes... Or is a bad boy attitude a sign of confidence that women are always attracted to, confidence is probably the number one key to intimacy. I'd say more the latter to be true.

I'm not a "bad boy" but I'm not a nice guy either, even still I wouldn't quantify my success or failure with women to anything like that.

Confidence - is the key...

From the bad boy image, to a doorman, barman, DJ, guy spinning a waltzers the fairground, to a small fat balding man with a Ferrari, lawyer, politician, policeman, fireman, squaddy.

They have a what most could perceive as a "cocky arrogance".

But it is that confidence women are attracted to.

As a people watcher and ex DJ from nightclubs and pubs I've seen them all offer the 30 odd years in that business.

It is the same thing every time.

A small percentage of ladies will go for the quite reserved guys. But the majority would be all doe eyed for the cocky arrogant fucker..

And It is probably a primal response. Primal Confidence is a sign alpha male dominance. Hunter. Leader. Good genies for future offspring...

I agree with how you expanded my point and is very interesting to know that you seen it first hand.

But confidence isn't something you're born with, an I can only explain that it's a characteristic you develop with successes and in some cases taken away by not necessarily just failure but many contributing factors"

Totally agree. How a person presents themselves counts for half. How they act and talk is the follow up.

If you stand tall are comfortable in your own image and believe in that image you are already sending signals to potential partners.

3seconds - it takes 3 seconds to make a lasting impression.

There is also the 6ft, 3ft, personal space body language to look at also.

You have 3 seconds from 6ft away to make that first impression.

If the individual holds at 6ft. They are not sure if you meet their personal criteria.

If they move from 6ft to 3ft. They are interested and will decide if they want to approach your personal space after talking to you.

I have sat in fetish clubs minding my own business drinking a soft drink either people watching or reading a fetish magazine/book and have been approached.

I have stood in nightclubs by myself minding my own business and have been approached.

It is not about the looks its how you hold yourself and are perceived by others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be that you have changed the type of woman you are around now you are in a nicer area.

You are nicer, as are they and perhaps they like to get to no someone a bit more before jumping in the sack. It's not that it's that there's no booze or dr*gs to hand.

nah mate never done drugs had a drink but never been a pisshead "
Who said you!

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