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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you prefer to meet local people - those in your city/borough/county or do you prefer to meet those further away - get a hotel, do a road trip, travel at least 90mins plus away from home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like ideally in London tho I met some out of town in between x definitely wanna avoid neighbours tho, the whole I saw u at the local Sainsbury’s freaks me out…

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)

Guess it depends if family/wives/kids are in the vicinity.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

For ease on a month by month basis we stick to meets within an hour of where we live.

For friends that we really like we are prepared to travel any distance.

Finally we have been known to do the odd road trip where we do have the odd meet or attend a club.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It would be great if I could meet someone around my neck of the woods

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I generally prefer 15 minutes plus away

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I prefer to meet people out of town. Because very small town.

And I'm happy with a road trip, I genuinely enjoy them. Hotels are awesome for so many reasons, not least I don't have to wash the bedding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet locals. Just eurgh!!

Anything about an hour traveling is fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like local area but avoid same area. I don’t want to bump into them all at the Library.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like local area but avoid same area. I don’t want to bump into them all at the Library."

Yes, I don't want them seeing that I've borrowed Dogging for Dummies yet again.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I would love to meet people local to me. Since that largely doesn't happen, pre-pandemic I used to travel a lot. I'd routinely make five-hour round trips for meets, and one occasion made an eight-hour round trip. Gotta go where the people want me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like local area but avoid same area. I don’t want to bump into them all at the Library.

Yes, I don't want them seeing that I've borrowed Dogging for Dummies yet again."

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Local if possible x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely not local, the potential for drama is higher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you prefer to meet local people - those in your city/borough/county or do you prefer to meet those further away - get a hotel, do a road trip, travel at least 90mins plus away from home? "

I don't mind travel. Local can be awkward.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Local would be great. Easy for spontaneous ‘Come over. I want you’ meets.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes Departure Lounge in NN9

I am happy with local meets of up to 20 miles radius from my home.

Had a message yesterday from a lady in the North of Scotland, 573 miles each way, 10hrs driving acccording to Google, think I will pass on that one.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve usually tried to avoid local but to be honest it’s never been an issue in the past.

I don’t have a problem with travel and road trips are fun.

Ultimately it’s the person that I make a connection with that is important, not convenience or proximity that dictates meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local would be great, but everyone within 10 miles knows I’m a twat. Those further afield have yet to discover it

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