FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Do think Fab should get rid off winks all together?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No, I don't

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Why? Winks definitely have their place.

It's like old school flirting in a pub- a brief glance & a smile at someone you like the look of.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Why? Winks definitely have their place.

It's like old school flirting in a pub- a brief glance & a smile at someone you like the look of."

Exactly this.

Winks are awesome.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

We need a super wink like they have on that swipey lefty swipey righty app.

It could be a double wink called a......

Wait for it.....

BLINK

Thank me later when fab makes it a thing

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

No, cos you can wink yourself!

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Why? Winks definitely have their place.

It's like old school flirting in a pub- a brief glance & a smile at someone you like the look of.

Exactly this.

Winks are awesome."

I find women and couples love to send winks to single guys, the minute a single guy winks at both, it either they stop being lazy, or won't even bother to make the next move. Me personally I prefer a straight up message.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Do think Fab should get rid off winks all together?"

No some people use it some people don't.

If you are going to make sweeping statements like that you have to justify why it should be got rid of.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No. I don't mind a cheeky wink, if they've read my profile and I like theirs.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Why? Winks definitely have their place.

It's like old school flirting in a pub- a brief glance & a smile at someone you like the look of.

Exactly this.

Winks are awesome.

So when a woman or a couple winks at you, send them a message. Surely that's just the logical next step, unless I'm missing something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I think they’re great had meets from winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I like a cheeky wink and love sending them too, I think winks have there place

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By *entlemenpipMan
over a year ago

not far

Winks have their place for example right now im trying to quite smoking and u till I do my profile reads as smoker which alot of people don't like so I send a wink instead of a full message

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By *entlemenpipMan
over a year ago

not far

Winks have their place for example right now im trying to quite smoking and u till I do my profile reads as smoker which alot of people don't like so I send a wink instead of a full message

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By *entlemenpipMan
over a year ago

not far

Winks have their place for example right now im trying to quite smoking and u till I do my profile reads as smoker which alot of people don't like so I send a wink instead of a full message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks can serve subtle purposes, like intentionally making a hole in a person's filters to let someone message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do think Fab should get rid off winks all together?"

Why ??? Your a bloke I’m surprised you would ask that

it’s are go to when we can’t be arsed writing out a long winded message

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

No, I like sending and receiving winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I like sending and receiving winks.

Tried

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"No, I like sending and receiving winks.

Tried "

Lol

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

No, some people use them to show interest and they’ll get responses from them. I personally ignore them and don’t send any but others do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I like sending and receiving winks.

Tried

Lol"

Worth a shot right

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Do think Fab should get rid off winks all together?

Why ??? Your a bloke I’m surprised you would ask that

it’s are go to when we can’t be arsed writing out a long winded message "

You still have to write that massage at some point, so why not just do it from the start

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Nope. They can be a bit of fun.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"No, some people use them to show interest and they’ll get responses from them. I personally ignore them and don’t send any but others do"

Damn. I was just going to send one.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"No, I like sending and receiving winks.

Tried "

Try again…

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"No, I like sending and receiving winks.

Tried

Try again…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do think Fab should get rid off winks all together?

Why ??? Your a bloke I’m surprised you would ask that

it’s are go to when we can’t be arsed writing out a long winded message

You still have to write that massage at some point, so why not just do it from the start "

It’s like doing the dishes !

Yeah eventually you have to do them but sometimes you just want to veg out on the couch and lazy wink girls on fab while eating a big packet of Doritos

Why you so racist against winks tho ?

Tell me what difference it would make if they took it away ?

Besides me and my pal up above been pissed off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are great for if example, a profile has no information about what they are looking for, but their pics are hot.

A wink is a good way of checking if your in with a shout.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

Oh no, I love a cheeky wink

Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I like sending and receiving winks.

Tried

Try again…

She played me I did try again !!

To no joy !! Does ur preference

Settings exclude handsome bastards ?

I can’t think of any other reason

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

"No, some people use them to show interest and they’ll get responses from them. I personally ignore them and don’t send any but others do

Damn. I was just going to send one.

I’d have monkey scrub you if you did

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

It started with a wink lol yes I've had a lot of meets that started with a wink

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"No, some people use them to show interest and they’ll get responses from them. I personally ignore them and don’t send any but others do

Damn. I was just going to send one.

I’d have monkey scrub you if you did

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally !!!!

I can sleep happy tonight.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"No, I like sending and receiving winks.

Tried

Try again…

She played me I did try again !!

To no joy !! Does ur preference

Settings exclude handsome bastards ?

I can’t think of any other reason

No. I can wink her.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Create a law and remove a right.

….I mean stop asking for things to be removed that actually helps people connect. There’s other things that could be created to hopefully help people find each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, used correctly, they work brilliantly.

Some of the best meets I've had here (over the different profiles) began with a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a tricky question but if you all send me some I’ll be more than willing to conduct the necessary research.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

No, 99% of the ones I do are ignored but equally 99% of the nice personal messages I do are ignored so for me it's an easier way to be ignored!

Maybe they could also have some sort of Trip Advisor type ratings to compliment verifications. Might stop people behaving like idiots and also help non verified like me get a good reputation as being a decent friendly person who writes nice stories and is worth chatting to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I like sending and receiving winks.

Tried

Try again…

She played me I did try again !!

To no joy !! Does ur preference

Settings exclude handsome bastards ?

I can’t think of any other reason

No. I can wink her.

Her preference obviously only excludes handsome fuckers !

No wonder you could wink her !!!

I’m kidding _hunky gent

1-0

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

No, I like them and they have helped kick off a conversation or two.

I don't get enough though

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"No, I like sending and receiving winks.

Tried

Try again…

She played me I did try again !!

To no joy !! Does ur preference

Settings exclude handsome bastards ?

I can’t think of any other reason

No. I can wink her.

Her preference obviously only excludes handsome fuckers !

No wonder you could wink her !!!

I’m kidding _hunky gent

1-0

Oh I'm handsome, its just the fucker but that may not count.

For now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks..

A lot of my meets have started off with a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I like sending and receiving winks.

Tried

Try again…

She played me I did try again !!

To no joy !! Does ur preference

Settings exclude handsome bastards ?

I can’t think of any other reason

No. I can wink her.

Her preference obviously only excludes handsome fuckers !

No wonder you could wink her !!!

I’m kidding _hunky gent

1-0

Oh I'm handsome, its just the fucker but that may not count.

For now.

Fuck that im changing my whole profile and going to give it another go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks can be very random, always nicer to receive a message that isn't along the lines of "want to suck my dick as it's like massive love innit"

Bit of effort goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a tricky question but if you all send me some I’ll be more than willing to conduct the necessary research. "

Nobody fell for this then?

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Oh no, I love a cheeky wink

Miss pc "

We will keep that in mind

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Do think Fab should get rid off winks all together?

Why ??? Your a bloke I’m surprised you would ask that

it’s are go to when we can’t be arsed writing out a long winded message

You still have to write that massage at some point, so why not just do it from the start

It’s like doing the dishes !

Yeah eventually you have to do them but sometimes you just want to veg out on the couch and lazy wink girls on fab while eating a big packet of Doritos

Why you so racist against winks tho ?

Tell me what difference it would make if they took it away ?

Besides me and my pal up above been pissed off

I'm not against winks at all. Just putting the question out there.

The difference it would make, is that everyone would have to make the effort to send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do think Fab should get rid off winks all together?

Why ??? Your a bloke I’m surprised you would ask that

it’s are go to when we can’t be arsed writing out a long winded message

You still have to write that massage at some point, so why not just do it from the start

It’s like doing the dishes !

Yeah eventually you have to do them but sometimes you just want to veg out on the couch and lazy wink girls on fab while eating a big packet of Doritos

Why you so racist against winks tho ?

Tell me what difference it would make if they took it away ?

Besides me and my pal up above been pissed off

I'm not against winks at all. Just putting the question out there.

The difference it would make, is that everyone would have to make the effort to send a message "

Ok at least I know your point of view !

How many winks do you get a day or week whichever???

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Do think Fab should get rid off winks all together?

Why ??? Your a bloke I’m surprised you would ask that

it’s are go to when we can’t be arsed writing out a long winded message

You still have to write that massage at some point, so why not just do it from the start

It’s like doing the dishes !

Yeah eventually you have to do them but sometimes you just want to veg out on the couch and lazy wink girls on fab while eating a big packet of Doritos

Why you so racist against winks tho ?

Tell me what difference it would make if they took it away ?

Besides me and my pal up above been pissed off

I'm not against winks at all. Just putting the question out there.

The difference it would make, is that everyone would have to make the effort to send a message

Ok at least I know your point of view !

How many winks do you get a day or week whichever???"

Not that many! I would say maybe one every two weeks lol! I hope you get much more than that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do think Fab should get rid off winks all together?

Why ??? Your a bloke I’m surprised you would ask that

it’s are go to when we can’t be arsed writing out a long winded message

You still have to write that massage at some point, so why not just do it from the start

It’s like doing the dishes !

Yeah eventually you have to do them but sometimes you just want to veg out on the couch and lazy wink girls on fab while eating a big packet of Doritos

Why you so racist against winks tho ?

Tell me what difference it would make if they took it away ?

Besides me and my pal up above been pissed off

I'm not against winks at all. Just putting the question out there.

The difference it would make, is that everyone would have to make the effort to send a message

Ok at least I know your point of view !

How many winks do you get a day or week whichever???

Not that many! I would say maybe one every two weeks lol! I hope you get much more than that lol"

I get none mate thanks for bringing that up on here ha

Anyway stop been wink racist alright

some of us men don’t have witty banter and chat so the wink is handy !

I’m genuinely always just joking around this was a laugh

have a good one OP

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Never look at them but I'm sure alot do so just leave the option x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do think Fab should get rid off winks all together?

Why ??? Your a bloke I’m surprised you would ask that

it’s are go to when we can’t be arsed writing out a long winded message

You still have to write that massage at some point, so why not just do it from the start

It’s like doing the dishes !

Yeah eventually you have to do them but sometimes you just want to veg out on the couch and lazy wink girls on fab while eating a big packet of Doritos

Why you so racist against winks tho ?

Tell me what difference it would make if they took it away ?

Besides me and my pal up above been pissed off

I'm not against winks at all. Just putting the question out there.

The difference it would make, is that everyone would have to make the effort to send a message

Ok at least I know your point of view !

How many winks do you get a day or week whichever???

Not that many! I would say maybe one every two weeks lol! I hope you get much more than that lol

I get none mate thanks for bringing that up on here ha

Anyway stop been wink racist alright

some of us men don’t have witty banter and chat so the wink is handy !

I’m genuinely always just joking around this was a laugh

have a good one OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do think Fab should get rid off winks all together?

Why ??? Your a bloke I’m surprised you would ask that

it’s are go to when we can’t be arsed writing out a long winded message

You still have to write that massage at some point, so why not just do it from the start

It’s like doing the dishes !

Yeah eventually you have to do them but sometimes you just want to veg out on the couch and lazy wink girls on fab while eating a big packet of Doritos

Why you so racist against winks tho ?

Tell me what difference it would make if they took it away ?

Besides me and my pal up above been pissed off

I'm not against winks at all. Just putting the question out there.

The difference it would make, is that everyone would have to make the effort to send a message

Ok at least I know your point of view !

How many winks do you get a day or week whichever???

Not that many! I would say maybe one every two weeks lol! I hope you get much more than that lol

I get none mate thanks for bringing that up on here ha

Anyway stop been wink racist alright

some of us men don’t have witty banter and chat so the wink is handy !

I’m genuinely always just joking around this was a laugh

have a good one OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never view winks but I still think the feature should remain...Some obvs do view them & in some cases that 1st wank I mean wink has triggered a connection & a meet

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

I like a wink. I use them & it's great to get on back. Sometimes it can lead to something good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never view winks but I still think the feature should remain...Some obvs do view them & in some cases that 1st wank I mean wink has triggered a connection & a meet

Can’t bring you fucking anywhere Lia !

You drag every conversation to the gutter !!

That’s why your officially added to my hotlist !

Cue you dancing around in excitement!

You earned it go you

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We like winks. If someone catches our eye we wink and if they wink back we send a message or get a message instead of a wink back.

We do message aswell, but it's just a quick easy way to show interest and build it from there.

It's the ones that wink us, we wink back and then no message ect that don't make sense

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Had my first ever wink yesterday.

Wasn't exciting as it was some profile trying to get you to pay money to join some sort of club....

Was nice to experience for ten seconds till I had seen the profile though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are Great, for me it's telling that person you fancy them. If you get a wink back then I akways follow with a message. wink wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had my first ever wink yesterday.

Wasn't exciting as it was some profile trying to get you to pay money to join some sort of club....

Was nice to experience for ten seconds till I had seen the profile though."

If I got a wink and hit The profile and there was a picture of a cocker spaniel id be chuffed !!!

Puffing my chest out in the mirror like I’m the bollox

Can’t wait for an actual real life women to do it !

This messages isn’t going to help that’s for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never view winks but I still think the feature should remain...Some obvs do view them & in some cases that 1st wank I mean wink has triggered a connection & a meet

Can’t bring you fucking anywhere Lia !

You drag every conversation to the gutter !!

That’s why your officially added to my hotlist !

Cue you dancing around in excitement!

You earned it go you

Ooooooooopppsss I can't help it...my mind does wander...

Especially when I'm around online Hotties or in person...

Mmmmmmmmmmmm do I get punished now for my misbehaviour... I hope so... (A spanking yea

)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally wink ppl i intially like after reading their profile and seeing their pics but always follow it up with a message only time i wont wink someone is if they have put something about winks in their profile

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

[Removed by poster at 14/09/21 20:16:45]

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I never view winks but I still think the feature should remain...Some obvs do view them & in some cases that 1st wank I mean wink has triggered a connection & a meet

Can’t bring you fucking anywhere Lia !

You drag every conversation to the gutter !!

That’s why your officially added to my hotlist !

Cue you dancing around in excitement!

You earned it go you

Ooooooooopppsss I can't help it...my mind does wander...

Especially when I'm around online Hotties or in person...

Mmmmmmmmmmmm do I get punished now for my misbehaviour... I hope so... (A spanking yea

Did someone say spanking?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"We need a super wink like they have on that swipey lefty swipey righty app.

It could be a double wink called a......

Wait for it.....

BLINK

Thank me later when fab makes it a thing

Does that mean we can then play Blinkety Blink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never view winks but I still think the feature should remain...Some obvs do view them & in some cases that 1st wank I mean wink has triggered a connection & a meet

Can’t bring you fucking anywhere Lia !

You drag every conversation to the gutter !!

That’s why your officially added to my hotlist !

Cue you dancing around in excitement!

You earned it go you

Ooooooooopppsss I can't help it...my mind does wander...

Especially when I'm around online Hotties or in person...

Mmmmmmmmmmmm do I get punished now for my misbehaviour... I hope so... (A spanking yea

)

Did someone say spanking?

Nothing to do with you mate !

Stick to your thread

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I never view winks but I still think the feature should remain...Some obvs do view them & in some cases that 1st wank I mean wink has triggered a connection & a meet

Can’t bring you fucking anywhere Lia !

You drag every conversation to the gutter !!

That’s why your officially added to my hotlist !

Cue you dancing around in excitement!

You earned it go you

Ooooooooopppsss I can't help it...my mind does wander...

Especially when I'm around online Hotties or in person...

Mmmmmmmmmmmm do I get punished now for my misbehaviour... I hope so... (A spanking yea

)

Did someone say spanking?

Nothing to do with you mate !

Stick to your thread

Loool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I don't"

She's the boss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never view winks but I still think the feature should remain...Some obvs do view them & in some cases that 1st wank I mean wink has triggered a connection & a meet

Can’t bring you fucking anywhere Lia !

You drag every conversation to the gutter !!

That’s why your officially added to my hotlist !

Cue you dancing around in excitement!

You earned it go you

Ooooooooopppsss I can't help it...my mind does wander...

Especially when I'm around online Hotties or in person...

Mmmmmmmmmmmm do I get punished now for my misbehaviour... I hope so... (A spanking yea

)

Did someone say spanking?

Nothing to do with you mate !

Stick to your thread

Loool"

Mate lost what thread I was on !

I’ve been hitting them all up !

My bad yeah didn’t know it was urself !

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By *rcool67 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I never view winks but I still think the feature should remain...Some obvs do view them & in some cases that 1st wank I mean wink has triggered a connection & a meet

Can’t bring you fucking anywhere Lia !

You drag every conversation to the gutter !!

That’s why your officially added to my hotlist !

Cue you dancing around in excitement!

You earned it go you

Ooooooooopppsss I can't help it...my mind does wander...

Especially when I'm around online Hotties or in person...

Mmmmmmmmmmmm do I get punished now for my misbehaviour... I hope so... (A spanking yea

)

Did someone say spanking?

Nothing to do with you mate !

Stick to your thread

Loool

Mate lost what thread I was on !

I’ve been hitting them all up !

My bad yeah didn’t know it was urself !

Lol! It's all fun on here don't worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a cheeky winker

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By *asonnosaMMan
over a year ago

Grantham

People who use forums like them it seems the rest does not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree mate

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