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"Men fake it too" Yep it’s easier than trying to explain why sometimes you can’t reach the summit  | |||
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"Men fake it too Yep it’s easier than trying to explain why sometimes you can’t reach the summit "true | |||
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"That makes me sad. Anyone should be able to say at any point, I've had enough. " I agree but it can, sometimes, lead to them feeling like it’s their fault when actually it’s nothing to do with them it’s just us not quite feeling it for one of many reasons. Then the questions come  | |||
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"We do?? Once Iv started I'm committed there's no way I'm putting I'm all that effort to walk away with the tanks still full. To be fair if why would I wanna sleep with someone and have to fake it?? " what about when you drink | |||
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"It's ok ... it's all about the journey...not necessarily the arrival "Some women don’t see it like that tho do they, they want to reach the end of the journey. | |||
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"It's ok ... it's all about the journey...not necessarily the arrival
Some women don’t see it like that tho do they, they want to reach the end of the journey. "so women hate it | |||
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"It's ok ... it's all about the journey...not necessarily the arrival
Some women don’t see it like that tho do they, they want to reach the end of the journey. so women hate it "Some, not all, feel it’s a reflection on them, which it isn’t. | |||
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"I prefer men not to cum, especially if it means they can go again. If they're not feeling it, I'd rather know and move on." I love your way of thinking  | |||
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"I prefer men not to cum, especially if it means they can go again. If they're not feeling it, I'd rather know and move on." it’s the not feeling it I always do it’s just when I have had a few drinks always get a hard on just can’t come | |||
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"It's ok ... it's all about the journey...not necessarily the arrival
Some women don’t see it like that tho do they, they want to reach the end of the journey. so women hate it
Some, not all, feel it’s a reflection on them, which it isn’t. "definitely not at all | |||
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"I prefer men not to cum, especially if it means they can go again. If they're not feeling it, I'd rather know and move on. it’s the not feeling it I always do it’s just when I have had a few drinks always get a hard on just can’t come " Yep like running a race and the fuckers keep moving the finishing line  | |||
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"We do?? Once Iv started I'm committed there's no way I'm putting I'm all that effort to walk away with the tanks still full. To be fair if why would I wanna sleep with someone and have to fake it?? what about when you drink " I don't fake it it just don't happen haha | |||
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 ) It all depends!
So I don't take it personally and understand that there could be a myriad of reasons why they can't finish. | |||
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"I'd hate a guy to feel like he has to fake it with me, I completely understand sometimes not feeling it so I'd understand a guy not feeling it for whatever reason. In the past with my LTR if I was too tired to get tyere, or not feeling great, he understood, and vice versa. If he had a tiring day we'd usually play a bit then go to sleep and finish the following day. I have met with a guy that on one occasion couldn't fully 'perform', but he'd had quite a lot to drink with friends before we saw each other that time. I've also had guys who every single time we met could 'perform' (and then some! ) It all depends!
So I don't take it personally and understand that there could be a myriad of reasons why they can't finish. "(Gets down on one knee)  | |||
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"The orgasm is not the be all and end all." Well said | |||
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"We do?? Once Iv started I'm committed there's no way I'm putting I'm all that effort to walk away with the tanks still full. To be fair if why would I wanna sleep with someone and have to fake it?? " It's usually reserved for the third or fourth round. And usually cos I need to sleep | |||
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"The orgasm is not the be all and end all. Well said "Absolutely but, like I said previously, some women take it personally that you’ve not cum because of a reason to do with them, when it isn’t.  | |||
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"Men fake it too" It can be difficult for ye to fake though yea...no sperm if fakin...not unless you're quick to exit & dispose of condom   Which you obvs are... Buuuttttttt what if he/she wanted your spunk sprayed on a body part...i.e ass or tits...how do ya get outta that one ?  | |||
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"Men fake it too It can be difficult for ye to fake though yea...no sperm if fakin...not unless you're quick to exit & dispose of condom Which you obvs are... Buuuttttttt what if he/she wanted your spunk sprayed on a body part...i.e ass or tits...how do ya get outta that one ? "That’s a rock and hard place situation!!! But as a man speaking you just finish the job solo If needs be | |||
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"Men fake it too It can be difficult for ye to fake though yea...no sperm if fakin...not unless you're quick to exit & dispose of condom Which you obvs are... Buuuttttttt what if he/she wanted your spunk sprayed on a body part...i.e ass or tits...how do ya get outta that one ? "got me on that one then I have to just be polite and tell her | |||
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"Men fake it too" sometimes it's just not happening& that's okay | |||
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"Men fake it too It can be difficult for ye to fake though yea...no sperm if fakin...not unless you're quick to exit & dispose of condom Which you obvs are... Buuuttttttt what if he/she wanted your spunk sprayed on a body part...i.e ass or tits...how do ya get outta that one ? got me on that one then I have to just be polite and tell her"Best to just say it...yea... But I think it's a case of just not wanting to offend...I've never been in that situ thankfully...My prob is the opposite...The fkers cuuuummmmmmm too quick...  
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"Men fake it too It can be difficult for ye to fake though yea...no sperm if fakin...not unless you're quick to exit & dispose of condom Which you obvs are... Buuuttttttt what if he/she wanted your spunk sprayed on a body part...i.e ass or tits...how do ya get outta that one ? got me on that one then I have to just be polite and tell her
Best to just say it...yea... But I think it's a case of just not wanting to offend...I've never been in that situ thankfully...My prob is the opposite...The fkers cuuuummmmmmm too quick...
Not Good "It’s tough been good at everything!! I can relate | |||
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"Men fake it too It can be difficult for ye to fake though yea...no sperm if fakin...not unless you're quick to exit & dispose of condom Which you obvs are... Buuuttttttt what if he/she wanted your spunk sprayed on a body part...i.e ass or tits...how do ya get outta that one ? got me on that one then I have to just be polite and tell her
Best to just say it...yea... But I think it's a case of just not wanting to offend...I've never been in that situ thankfully...My prob is the opposite...The fkers cuuuummmmmmm too quick...
Not Good "not just saying it I have never had that problem just when I have a drink can’t come  | |||
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"Men fake it too It can be difficult for ye to fake though yea...no sperm if fakin...not unless you're quick to exit & dispose of condom Which you obvs are... Buuuttttttt what if he/she wanted your spunk sprayed on a body part...i.e ass or tits...how do ya get outta that one ? got me on that one then I have to just be polite and tell her
Best to just say it...yea... But I think it's a case of just not wanting to offend...I've never been in that situ thankfully...My prob is the opposite...The fkers cuuuummmmmmm too quick...
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not just saying it I have never had that problem just when I have a drink can’t come "That has its obvious advantages too...lasting power etc...  | |||
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"Men fake it too It can be difficult for ye to fake though yea...no sperm if fakin...not unless you're quick to exit & dispose of condom Which you obvs are... Buuuttttttt what if he/she wanted your spunk sprayed on a body part...i.e ass or tits...how do ya get outta that one ? got me on that one then I have to just be polite and tell her
Best to just say it...yea... But I think it's a case of just not wanting to offend...I've never been in that situ thankfully...My prob is the opposite...The fkers cuuuummmmmmm too quick...
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not just saying it I have never had that problem just when I have a drink can’t come
That has its obvious advantages too...lasting power etc... "it really does I always enjoy it love sex | |||
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