FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies……your libido

By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Hi there

Just because this is a swinging site doesn't mean that all the ladies here have sky high libidos

So am curious ladies………

How high would you say your libido is?

Does it change whether single vs relationship?

If you have a high libido when you are single does that automatically mean lots of masturbation, or does your high libido only come out when you are with someone?

How has your libido changed from say late teens to the age you are now? Eg low in 20's, sky high in 30's non existent in 40's back with a vengeance in 50's etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would be the measure of a low and a high libido?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a -10

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"What would be the measure of a low and a high libido?"

That’s partly what I hope this thread answers??!

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button. "

And what about when single?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady is only on here cause she’s gagging for it 24/7

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"About a -10"

Ha ha refrigerator level?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is really high. When I'm single it's still really high, and I just take care of myself

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"A lady is only on here cause she’s gagging for it 24/7

True story

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"A lady is only on here cause she’s gagging for it 24/7

Hai think that’s what most of us men on here would like to be true!

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"Hi there

Just because this is a swinging site doesn't mean that all the ladies here have sky high libidos

So am curious ladies………

How high would you say your libido is?

Does it change whether single vs relationship?

If you have a high libido when you are single does that automatically mean lots of masturbation, or does your high libido only come out when you are with someone?

How has your libido changed from say late teens to the age you are now? Eg low in 20's, sky high in 30's non existent in 40's back with a vengeance in 50's etc"

Are you that Sydney university fella I see mentioned at the bottom of many profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lady is only on here cause she’s gagging for it 24/7

True story

And that your honour concludes the case for the defence

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button.

And what about when single?"

Can switch it off if nobody is floating my boat.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button. "

This

I'm told I have a high-ish sex drive.

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Mine is really high. When I'm single it's still really high, and I just take care of myself "

How many times a day/orgasms a day do you class as high?!

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By *arried-BBW-LookingWoman
over a year ago

fun town

"A lady is only on here cause she’s gagging for it 24/7

Yep about right

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Hi there

Just because this is a swinging site doesn't mean that all the ladies here have sky high libidos

So am curious ladies………

How high would you say your libido is?

Does it change whether single vs relationship?

If you have a high libido when you are single does that automatically mean lots of masturbation, or does your high libido only come out when you are with someone?

How has your libido changed from say late teens to the age you are now? Eg low in 20's, sky high in 30's non existent in 40's back with a vengeance in 50's etc

Are you that Sydney university fella I see mentioned at the bottom of many profiles

?? nah Melbourne. We stay away from those losers!

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button.

This

I'm told I have a high-ish sex drive. "

What for you is highish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married for 14yrs and we hardly ever had sex then after my divorce 6yrs ago I found fab and I made up for lost time lol xx now with a break up from an ex ass and lockdown it's now been just over 3.5yrs since I last had sex xx

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button.

And what about when single?

Can switch it off if nobody is floating my boat."

This is a skill I need to learn!

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Mine is really high. When I'm single it's still really high, and I just take care of myself "

Snap!

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Lots of masturbation in that time? Or just not bothered?

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

Worcestershire

"A lady is only on here cause she’s gagging for it 24/7

This! Aha

However I avoid disappointment so I'm fussy who I allow to fuck me these days, which means I may have to go without a while. I play with myself nearly daily wether had sex or not

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Mine is really high. When I'm single it's still really high, and I just take care of myself

Snap!

How much masturbation to take care of it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was married for 14yrs and we hardly ever had sex then after my divorce 6yrs ago I found fab and I made up for lost time lol xx now with a break up from an ex ass and lockdown it's now been just over 3.5yrs since I last had sex i have a high sex drive once I eventuallyget it, its almost like my appetite has been woken up and ready to play lol xx"

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Hi there

Just because this is a swinging site doesn't mean that all the ladies here have sky high libidos

So am curious ladies………

How high would you say your libido is?

Does it change whether single vs relationship?

If you have a high libido when you are single does that automatically mean lots of masturbation, or does your high libido only come out when you are with someone?

How has your libido changed from say late teens to the age you are now? Eg low in 20's, sky high in 30's non existent in 40's back with a vengeance in 50's etc"

Are you from Sydney university?

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

Very high! Always has been!

Masturbation is one tool in the armoury

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"A lady is only on here cause she’s gagging for it 24/7

This! Aha

However I avoid disappointment so I'm fussy who I allow to fuck me these days, which means I may have to go without a while. I play with myself nearly daily wether had sex or not "

How many orgasms a day to keep you feeling satisfied ?!

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Very high! Always has been!

Masturbation is one tool in the armoury

Always good to have more than one approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the sexy Mr its constantly high

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"With the sexy Mr its constantly high

Show o??

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Varies from high to super high to off the scale.

I can only think of one period of time in my 20s when it dipped for a few months, with good reason.

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Varies from high to super high to off the scale.

I can only think of one period of time in my 20s when it dipped for a few months, with good reason.

Dare I ask how many orgasms a day off the scale is?!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

My libido didn't really kick in until I was 35. I had sex in my teens and 20s but didn't really enjoy it and wasn't bothered about masturbating.

I discovered how fun it could be in my 30s and since then my libido has been steady and fairly high. I'm not insatiable, but I like a lot of sex and if I'm not having sex regularly I'll masturbate at least twice most days.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Like others have said, for me this is very much dependent on the right stimulation. Sometimes it can also be self-perpetuating when my sex drive is high.

I spent most of my 20s and 30s in longterm relationships and always thought my sex drive was fairly low. I think it's because they were not very happy relationships, even though I was in love and felt attracted to my exes.

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"My libido didn't really kick in until I was 35. I had sex in my teens and 20s but didn't really enjoy it and wasn't bothered about masturbating.

Thanks for such an honest answer. ??

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"Like others have said, for me this is very much dependent on the right stimulation. Sometimes it can also be self-perpetuating when my sex drive is high.

Ah a fellow Welshie! When it’s high how high does it go, lots of masturbation and/or sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's dead until he kisses me

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"It's dead until he kisses me

Then watch out ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's dead until he kisses me

Then watch out ??"

Oh yes

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

"It's dead until he kisses me

Then watch out ??

Oh yes

He’s a lucky man ??

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I don't about in comparison to what is or is not high for others.

But mine has diminished over time.

Used to masturbate daily achieving multiple orgasms at will....not so much now.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Like others have said, for me this is very much dependent on the right stimulation. Sometimes it can also be self-perpetuating when my sex drive is high.

Ah a fellow Welshie! When it’s high how high does it go, lots of masturbation and/or sex?"

About this high /points

Well, yeah, masturbation if no alternatives are to hand but it's not the same. It's like fast food; it hits the spot but other food is much better (I know many who love their me-time will probably disagree).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can switch it on/off when I want - I did so in the past too!

Think it depends for some women if pre-occupied by family life and work commitments.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"It's dead until he kisses me

Then watch out ??

Oh yes

He’s a lucky man ??"

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I can switch it on/off when I want - I did so in the past too!

Think it depends for some women if pre-occupied by family life and work commitments.

I'd say family life and work can be big factors too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really isn't a constant thing that can be measured. It depends on so many things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty horny all the time but life takes over so I switch it of when I need to but once I see someone I want I'm like a dog in heat it's also at those times I masterbate more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Varies massively depending on where in my cycle I am, anxiety levels, who’s on the scene, how busy I am, etc. Never a definitive answer here

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Mine is variable.

If I'm tired, grumpy or under the weather, I tend not to want sex.

At other times I want sex at totally inappropriate times, when hubby and I are at work

I would say it's probably average...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very frustrating being in a relationship with a woman with low sex drive

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Very frustrating being in a relationship with a woman with low sex drive "

I think it depends on what you consider low. Hormones can have a big impact in sex drive as can mentsl health and general well-being. Has it always been low?

My husband's sex drive is much higher than mine, but there's other options to sex. He doesn't feel neglected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very frustrating being in a relationship with a woman with low sex drive

I think it depends on what you consider low. Hormones can have a big impact in sex drive as can mentsl health and general well-being. Has it always been low?

My husband's sex drive is much higher than mine, but there's other options to sex. He doesn't feel neglected. "

My most recent relationship her drive was matching mine at the start and slowly declined, could be down to a number of reasons but frustrating nevertheless. I’d love to know the other options could be useful in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button. "

This is me also xx

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Very frustrating being in a relationship with a woman with low sex drive

I think it depends on what you consider low. Hormones can have a big impact in sex drive as can mentsl health and general well-being. Has it always been low?

My husband's sex drive is much higher than mine, but there's other options to sex. He doesn't feel neglected.

Sounds like the fizz went out of it. Sometimes the initial newness is what increases the sex drive.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Lately wiggles is high as fuck

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

It varies.

If I'm tired or poorly, around the new moon when my energies are flat, it's zilch!

If I'm feeling good and it's approaching full moon, it's high lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a little of both xx

Lots of masturbation in that time? Or just not bothered?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button.

This

I'm told I have a high-ish sex drive. "

I think most people on here have a high sex drive lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines really high always has been even when younger.... insatiable is the word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say I usually have cycles, and I notice this more since having changed all my hormonal levels and having almost no T in my body.

I have moments where I feel very sexual (usually it’s like 10 days in the month) and then the rest I’m not really bothered. I could still have sex with the right person,

but I don’t have the need for it or need of self gratification either.

Atm I’m in my heat cycle and I could sit on any dick attached to a half decent looking gent

… just saying

If this makes any sense. Also, generally when I’m not in my cycles I don’t really think of sex much at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?"

Absolutely yea xx

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Really?

Absolutely yea xx "

That's seems like a long time. Are you ready to make up for it again? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say as I'm getting older, my libido is increasing but I don't strum my clit aggressively on a daily basis either.

Hormones and womanly mooods are a bitch, they usually play a big part too.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

I think I described this to a friendly recently

Guys all think they have a high sex drive. Most seem to sit at around an 8/10 sex drive

But if a woman finds a guy that pushes the right buttons. No man can satisfy her fully. A woman that finds her right man can be an 11/10.

It’s all about finding the right person for women

For men it’s all about finding a willing person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I described this to a friendly recently

Guys all think they have a high sex drive. Most seem to sit at around an 8/10 sex drive

But if a woman finds a guy that pushes the right buttons. No man can satisfy her fully. A woman that finds her right man can be an 11/10.

It’s all about finding the right person for women

For men it’s all about finding a willing person "

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Mine is high and we have been together a long time; its Hubby that maintains that

it was high before but higher with him

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