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By *nlyfun3 OP   Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

How many of you on here who have been here for ages find that people who choose to leave here then rejoin and then message you to re verify them. What are your thoughts on this. It happens to me often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not happened to me very often, no.

If they were fairly recent I guess I’d be ok with it. From a year ago, probably not.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I verified Adam & Eve years ago, they might be unlos by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past when meeting people was on my radar

At the moment, it isn't, so it seems needy to ask purely to be seen as 'more genuine' by others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done this before for people who have come back

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I have done in the past when meeting people was on my radar

At the moment, it isn't, so it seems needy to ask purely to be seen as 'more genuine' by others"

Bus Wanker is genuine

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Yeah, i don't see there's anything wrong in it.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I have done this as well for people who I gave previously met and got on with. I've no issue with verifying them again. Unless it's someone who keeps leaving and coming back. I do mention in the veri how I met them on a previous profile tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't ask. As flatering as my veri's were, they were from another time. I don't buy into it anyway and won't lose sleep over not having any, just my choice.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I have done this as well for people who I gave previously met and got on with. I've no issue with verifying them again. Unless it's someone who keeps leaving and coming back. I do mention in the veri how I met them on a previous profile tho."

Yo Yo profilers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done in the past when meeting people was on my radar

At the moment, it isn't, so it seems needy to ask purely to be seen as 'more genuine' by others

Bus Wanker is genuine "

You know it Ace

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"How many of you on here who have been here for ages find that people who choose to leave here then rejoin and then message you to re verify them. What are your thoughts on this. It happens to me often"

if i am happy they are back i will do it....if it is too often or it has been too long before they ask again i wont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of you on here who have been here for ages find that people who choose to leave here then rejoin and then message you to re verify them. What are your thoughts on this. It happens to me often"

Have a few who keep disappearing and rejoining and every time it’s the same story. ANNOYING as . It’s okay once but yeah…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I re-verify if they ask. A verification from me is likely to kill all chance of them ever meeting again anyway so no-one ever asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see anything wrong with it they are still the same person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I verified Adam & Eve years ago, they might be unlos by now "

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd do it for someone I've previously met and had a good time with and have in the past.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have no issues with re verifying someone if they return but I only do it once. If they leave again and return I have refused on several occasions.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I'm more than happy to do it, if they are friends then not sure why I wouldn't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it for an old friend who left forum and rejoined but doesn't wish to come back to forum. We did webcam in the past and I was happy to do so.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I don't mind as long as they're not a serial leaver/re-jouner...it gets rather tiresome when they ask you to write a 27th veri

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's not happened yet but I would be reluctant.

Probably because I'm not one to delete my online accounts ever and just make them private / hidden.

I see a lot of profiles declaring, 'I've been here before', and wonder why they are so quick to delete.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I had 20+ veris on my last profile before leaving and deleting it. The vast majority of those were social and from a fab walking group.

When I rejoined with this profile more than half of those who verified me before had also left the site and I didn't ask any of the others to reverify me because it was a whole new journey with a different mindset. I've never even spoken to those who verified me before.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Only if I am still friends with them. I'm likely to know why they left and why they are returning.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We have had a few, usually single guys that get in a relationship delete their account then when it doesn’t work out jump back on Fab and so ask is to verify them again.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don't mind as long as they're not a serial leaver/re-jouner...it gets rather tiresome when they ask you to write a 27th veri "

. Hence I haven’t asked you again

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Usually blokes pretending still to be couple send messages out. Veris are usually given without checking if they are still a couple. Mates veris

Why veris not worth the the typing in a lot of cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've redone a few but only after asking a couple of questions to make sure they are who they say they are. But for serial re-joiners then I don't, I usually block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a look around!

See the mess!

Re-verify no-one!

Let them earn their stripes the hard way!

To ask for people to re-verify you based on a new profile is laughable and highly embarrassing in my eyes!

Have they NO shame!

Begging for crumbs!

I'm not joking!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take a look around!

See the mess!

Re-verify no-one!

Let them earn their stripes the hard way!

To ask for people to re-verify you based on a new profile is laughable and highly embarrassing in my eyes!

Have they NO shame!

Begging for crumbs!

I'm not joking!!!!!"

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes I've done it for people returning that I've met x

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Yes I've done it for people returning that I've met x"

Did you meet them after they returned? Just curious

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Yes I've done it for people returning that I've met x

Did you meet them after they returned? Just curious

"

One yes x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Yes I've done it for people returning that I've met x

Did you meet them after they returned? Just curious

"

Not necessarily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it just comes down too if you still think they deserved the first verification you left them xx

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

It happens to me but I’m not sure they deserve new verifications if they didn’t verify me in the first place?

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I wouldn't re-verify without meeting them again to check my first assessment was correct

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

If it’s fairly recent … I do but when it’s been literally 5 years or more and that’s happened several times , I don’t .

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

What annoys me is if a couple leave you can no longer read the veri's they have sent you

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted due to having a rather unsaviour follower who was relentless. Ive come back to nobody knowing who i am... (it's funny and enlightening nobody knowing exactly who this is!!!! Hahaha) , therefore wouldnt ask to be re-verified by those i have met! What is past is past for me

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"How many of you on here who have been here for ages find that people who choose to leave here then rejoin and then message you to re verify them. What are your thoughts on this. It happens to me often"
yes I will do as long as I actually remember them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could find some of my meets from my previous profile i may have asked them to re verify. Hopefully after another meet

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"How many of you on here who have been here for ages find that people who choose to leave here then rejoin and then message you to re verify them. What are your thoughts on this. It happens to me often"

I don’t mind when it’s once - but I get tired of the people who constantly disappear and re-appear and ask for a new verification every time. I get sick and tired of advising people to hide their profile rather than delete it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have one verification for this reason. I quit too often. At one point we had 50 plus verifications.

But I'm not going to pester people when it's less important than I used to feel.

At first we were worried about being believed to be genuine. Now it's ok. If people don't think we are real then they are entitled to their opinion and it won't actually affect us

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