FabSwingers.com forum: Whats the one thing that puts you off in bed ladies?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

A man who cums in the first 5 seconds

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man who cums in the first 5 seconds"

The disappointment is an understatement …

Also yes poor hygiene and bad attitude come very close to that

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Feeling like I'm there to service them and what I would like doesn't matter. No thank you.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Arrogance

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

An overly squishy mattress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above & wearing socks in bed! Lol

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By *ollymollWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

Scratchy long toe nails

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

A man being in it

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Bad breath

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"An overly squishy mattress."

I’m not one to kink-shame, but that’s a minority fetish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad or no foreplay x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Bad teeth, being too rough

Being selfish

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By *lackCherry...Woman
over a year ago

North East

Lack of foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene. Also if he doesn't like a nice cuddle afterwards.

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Lack of foreplay"

Love foreplay... and love to please, a woman turned on is a massive turn on for me!

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

For me it's...bad hygiene, long toe nails, lack of fore play, bad breath, lack of cock action, cum too quick, selfishness, lack of effort...

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Feeling like I'm there to service them and what I would like doesn't matter. No thank you."

Meli I second this …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% this also wham bam thank you ma'am x

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Men playing with My nipples too rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snoring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being called a good girl or them calling theirselves daddy.. gives me the creeps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Dyson

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By *0shadesOfFilthMan
over a year ago

nearby

I wonder what the replies would have been, had the question been to men

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

When the buttons of the duvet are up at the head end rather than the feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man who cums in the first 5 seconds"

So within the first 10 seconds is ok? (I'm leaving myself wide open here!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snoring

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I wonder what the replies would have been, had the question been to men "

Probably wouldn’t have been any. Never usually is when it’s the other way round lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone talking right in my ear the whole way through, pretty much the same sentence over and over. That really wasn't my thing.

A man that thinks or expects me to cum via foreplay and not sex. That's a big one!

A man that cums far to quickly.

Bad hygenie.

A lack of understanding of the female body.

Pushy arrogant men.

A lazy man.

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By *dysseusukMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"When the buttons of the duvet are up at the head end rather than the feet"

Ha ha, thought i was the only one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue being stuck in my ear !

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

A lady who is too gentle with me, I may be little but I’m definitely not going to break

Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All of the above & wearing socks in bed! Lol"

Ditto and off white ones

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tongue being stuck in my ear ! "
my ex use to love that just shows everyone is different x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being called a good girl or them calling theirselves daddy.. gives me the creeps."

I had a message from a guy a couple of days ago making a comment and calling me a girl. I don’t know him so replied and asked him not to call me a girl - he told me I was too sensitive and should look for other snowflakes to talk to on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder what the replies would have been, had the question been to men "

Make a thread, ask it and see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crumbs

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I wonder what the replies would have been, had the question been to men

Make a thread, ask it and see?"

I dare you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder what the replies would have been, had the question been to men

Make a thread, ask it and see?

I dare you "

I’d rather not

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I wonder what the replies would have been, had the question been to men

Make a thread, ask it and see?

I dare you

I’d rather not

Go on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder what the replies would have been, had the question been to men

Make a thread, ask it and see?

I dare you

I’d rather not

Go on x"

I have no interest in knowing

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

"I wonder what the replies would have been, had the question been to men

Make a thread, ask it and see?

I dare you "

The only way to sort it out is with a ,,,,, Fight, harry hill style.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I wonder what the replies would have been, had the question been to men

Make a thread, ask it and see?

I dare you

The only way to sort it out is with a ,,,,, Fight, harry hill style."

I couldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man who cums in the first 5 seconds"

Hahaha brilliant .

Honest question , can men really cum that quick ? Like i know couple of minutes is doable but seconds ?

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Dirty sheets

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Dirty sheets

They may be a little mucky afterwards.

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By *ickyquimCouple
over a year ago

north west

Dutch ovens

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

When they haven't made the bed or have old mismatched bedding. First thing I notice! Doesn't give me much hope for the sex.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Feeling like just a hole to be filled rather than him wanting me there specifically.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Being fingered like he's trying to poke holes in my bladder.

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

A guy that thinks bashing my cervix is sexy. It really really isn't! Also yes socks in bed, take em off ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy that thinks bashing my cervix is sexy. It really really isn't! Also yes socks in bed, take em off ffs!

Some women do like the hard sex! Would it be a turn off if the man asked first "do you want it hard or soft?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like water beds. Other than that most beds look friendly enough to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy that thinks bashing my cervix is sexy. It really really isn't! Also yes socks in bed, take em off ffs!

That happens because a lot of guys have cave man dick syndrome and cant read a woman when they fuck them...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man who cums in the first 5 seconds"

Thank Christ…..I’m OK for about 6 secs, 7 on good day.

FAVQF?

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

All the above simply reinforces that you really do need to chat about these things before hand!

;-)

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Men telling me they are going to make me squirt

No you are not going to...Bye

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Men telling me they are going to make me squirt

No you are not going to...Bye

Oh yes, this too

Hate when anyone starts this in a message too,total turn off.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

The thought that there is a massive spider in it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"The thought that there is a massive spider in it

so that's why you have a hoover in your bedroom.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

A nice Dutch Oven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll answer as a man....bad teeth and poor hygiene..minging!

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By *harlotteBigBoobsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

When you tell them beforehand your not into anal in anyway shape or form and they are ok with it, say no problem at all then when they get in bed they try with a cheeky finger and bring it up saying i thought i could change your mind...ERM NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought that there is a massive spider in it

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what about a small one ?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"When you tell them beforehand your not into anal in anyway shape or form and they are ok with it, say no problem at all then when they get in bed they try with a cheeky finger and bring it up saying i thought i could change your mind...ERM NO"

Especially when they ignore the no entry sign as well. Pfffffft.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Calling me baby, girl, good girl, slut, or anything similar! Instant ick!

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By *exyMPCouple
over a year ago

SOUTHEND-ON-SEA

"Snoring "

Thought this question was for us ladies to answer.

Why is it men can never read !!

Now that's what puts me off.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not listening to me.

Bad hygiene/breath

Knob cheese

Picking up their phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not listening to me.

Bad hygiene/breath

Knob cheese

Picking up their phone.

"
what about not listening to you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not listening to me.

Bad hygiene/breath

Knob cheese

Picking up their phone.

what about not listening to you ?"

Also that

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"The thought that there is a massive spider in it

what about a small one ? "

Them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thought that there is a massive spider in it

what about a small one ?

Them too

. Size doesn't matter to girls then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone else is in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socks have no place in the bedroom…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone else is in it."

Or when Someone sleeps diagonally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone else is in it.

Or when Someone sleeps diagonally

That's me, why there's no room for anyone else!

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

White boxers

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"All of the above & wearing socks in bed! Lol"

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not listening to me.

Bad hygiene/breath

Knob cheese

Picking up their phone.

How many actually have knob cheese? Surely that would mean it’s not been washed for at least a week?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When someone else is in it.

Or when Someone sleeps diagonally

That's me, why there's no room for anyone else!"
hate that all squashed up hanging off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone else is in it.

Or when Someone sleeps diagonally

That's me, why there's no room for anyone else!"

Why do you think I said that haha..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When someone else is in it.

Or when Someone sleeps diagonally

That's me, why there's no room for anyone else!

Why do you think I said that haha..

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just feel like saying im gonna get off hahaha

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"The thought that there is a massive spider in it

what about a small one ?

Them too

. Size doesn't matter to girls then

Not as much as it does to men

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Socks have no place in the bedroom…"
sock drawer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone talking right in my ear the whole way through, pretty much the same sentence over and over. That really wasn't my thing.

A man that thinks or expects me to cum via foreplay and not sex. That's a big one!

A man that cums far to quickly.

Bad hygenie.

A lack of understanding of the female body.

Pushy arrogant men.

A lazy man.

You have a funny concept of " one".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men playing with My nipples too rough "

Yes!!!!! Or sucking so hard on my clit that it feels like it's gonna pop off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tongue being stuck in my ear ! "

It just feels so strange doesn't it????

Make it stoooooppppppp!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone else is in it.

Or when Someone sleeps diagonally

That's me, why there's no room for anyone else!

Why do you think I said that haha..

just feel like saying im gonna get off hahaha"

There were three in the bed and the little one said: roll over.. roll over.. and they all rolled over..

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"A guy that thinks bashing my cervix is sexy. It really really isn't! Also yes socks in bed, take em off ffs!

Some women do like the hard sex! Would it be a turn off if the man asked first "do you want it hard or soft?""

I love rough hard sex, but there's a huge difference between that and having a guy aim to 'bash yer cervix in'. A cervix isn't part of the sexual anatomy and it's very uncomfortable or even painful to have it bashed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breadcrumbs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeping socks on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great educational thread, my note book is now full...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Breadcrumbs."

I'm with you on one....annoying bits of toast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Breadcrumbs.

I'm with you on one....annoying bits of toast

They really dig into the soft bits, don't they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene and breath xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Breadcrumbs.

I'm with you on one....annoying bits of toast

They really dig into the soft bits, don't they

Indeed they do. Don't want crumbs getting stuck in private areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy puts his thumb in me!!!

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By *egasusQMan
over a year ago

Ashbourne

"If a guy puts his thumb in me!!!"

But how about if the guy is massaging/playfully spanking/squeezing your bum cheeks and the tip of his thumb running lightly OVER your bum hole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man who cums in the first 5 seconds"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he cums in my ass and calls me Sarah but my real name is Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When he cums in my ass and calls me Sarah but my real name is Dave

Haha that's so funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manhandling my boobs, I've had a fair few that feel like they're testing fruit for ripeness. I prefer a softer touch there

Oh and had one kept his eyes shut the whole time. That was a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socks

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"A man who cums in the first 5 seconds

Thank Christ…..I’m OK for about 6 secs, 7 on good day.

FAVQF?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Some men just can’t settle in a position. It’s like they are recreating the Karma Sutra and spinning you around the bed like a bottle.

Just give a gal time to enjoy herself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got to be smell.... You HAVE to be clean and smell nice...and thats easy!!

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