FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies.. Men & the Car Selfie!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t know about you other fabulous forum ladies but do you get face pics from guys which are them gurning in their car/work van/truck etc

Most of us ladies take the time to don lingerie, set the scene, style our pictures..

Yet everyday we get inundated with guys, no photos on their profile (other than maybe their dick in another Fanny) but they possibly read the profile see we request a face photo and then send …..

The photo of them in the car, with it without high vis vest…

Yet they wonder why we may not be interested….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a rushed photo while the wife is not about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gurning...I like that bit.

Yes very often a photo as you describe is received, it's not very alluring.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Guys aren't exactly known for their exotic flare.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Haha yes, I have seen so many of those type of photos. They often have sunglasses on too

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Haha yes, I have seen so many of those type of photos. They often have sunglasses on too"

Were they healthy & safety sunglasses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys aren't exactly known for their exotic flare.

This is oh sooo true and I hate having my photo taken or taking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s where I’ve been going wrong! No lingerie when I’m taking face pics

What a moron I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when you go to clubs and all the women are in lingerie, sexy dresses and heels and the guys are in jeans and T shirts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably a rushed photo while the wife is not about "

100 percent !

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I like it when you go to clubs and all the women are in lingerie, sexy dresses and heels and the guys are in jeans and T shirts. "

Maybe I should go to a club in just my Y-fronts.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's a step up from the toilet selfie.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't mind them. Lingerie pics do nothing for me

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

You wear lingerie for a face pic on here?

I usually just send one from when I've been out and about doing something fun.

I don't actually mind a car picture, probably the only background I don't like is a messy house! But what I've seen a lot of is duck face

Just no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like it when you go to clubs and all the women are in lingerie, sexy dresses and heels and the guys are in jeans and T shirts.

Maybe I should go to a club

in just my Y-fronts.

Why does it matter what anyone wears, we all end up naked at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha there’s one if me eating chips in my car

But I’m

Smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but clearly the socks stay on no??

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

For a face pic shared by PM, I just send a regular selfie, unless I've been chatting a while, got to know someone and then I might send a sexy selfie.

Mrs KC

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't mind a car selfie, it's like a this is me selfie and that's fine really. The pouting not so much but I'd be a bit more bemused if someone sent me a selfie taken at that moment and they were all tarted up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only thing I think when I see a car selfie is would I look good bent over the hood off it or on it and and hope you don’t mind my heels and such scratching up your pain work

other than that I don’t see a use for it

As they type off car you drive and no bareing on if your getting in my knickers

So why show me on in less you intended to use it as a sex prop to bend me over on

Sorry bit crude but the truth lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

My face pics don’t have me in lingerie. I never send face and body in same pic.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"My face pics don’t have me in lingerie. I never send face and body in same pic. "

I never noticed that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's what's under the bonnet that counts.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I like it when you go to clubs and all the women are in lingerie, sexy dresses and heels and the guys are in jeans and T shirts.

Maybe I should go to a club

in just my Y-fronts.

Why does it matter what anyone wears, we all end up naked at some point."

First impressions. If someone strolled into a club in scruffy joggers and shabby trainers I would be put off immediately. It's all about making an effort. If they can't make an effort to look good then maybe they won't put much effort in with sex either. That's just my thoughts.

Mrs

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I like it when you go to clubs and all the women are in lingerie, sexy dresses and heels and the guys are in jeans and T shirts.

Maybe I should go to a club

in just my Y-fronts.

Why does it matter what anyone wears, we all end up naked at some point.

Mrs"

So my Y-fronts would be OK then.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"My face pics don’t have me in lingerie. I never send face and body in same pic.

I never noticed that.

It’s rule number one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn I knew I had one type of photo missing from my profile but couldn’t think what it was. Thank for the reminder OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have pictures of me in my car and van so no comment there

I'm always confused at the grumpy facial expressions in photos....especially when they describe themselves as 'fun'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like it when you go to clubs and all the women are in lingerie, sexy dresses and heels and the guys are in jeans and T shirts. "

It's a similar scene when you arrange a hook up and you're all dressed up nice etc and fella rocks up in casual tee shirt and shirts/jeans - not alluring at all. One time I met up with a fella, I actually told him he should have at least made an effort and I felt over dressed and sometimes that draws unwanted attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have pictures of me in my car and van so no comment there

I'm always confused at the grumpy facial expressions in photos....especially when they describe themselves as 'fun' "

I have a number of headshots with different facial expressions to show my range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sun helps bring out the glint in my eyes

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"I like it when you go to clubs and all the women are in lingerie, sexy dresses and heels and the guys are in jeans and T shirts. "

Plenty of men that can wear the blue Jeans and t shirt (has to be black and slim fitted) look in an elegant and sexy way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like it when you go to clubs and all the women are in lingerie, sexy dresses and heels and the guys are in jeans and T shirts.

Maybe I should go to a club

in just my Y-fronts.

Why does it matter what anyone wears, we all end up naked at some point.

Mrs"

Who mentioned joggers and trainers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always confused at the grumpy facial expressions in photos....especially when they describe themselves as 'fun' "

That occurred to me too!

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

"Haha yes, I have seen so many of those type of photos. They often have sunglasses on too"

Yes... This.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

"My face pics don’t have me in lingerie. I never send face and body in same pic.

I never noticed that.

It’s rule number one

Now you mention it I do the same

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Yeah…. Bloody men… they don’t make any effort with their photos…. Bastards

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

There are a range of cues available to women to convey their sexuality in images – lingerie, certain provocative poses, et cetera.

What are the equivalent cues for men? Don't say "a suit" or "a uniform" – those signal money and authority, not sex.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

"It's a step up from the toilet selfie."

And the pc webcam shot aka the crimewatch stare

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Only place they can get any privacy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a range of cues available to women to convey their sexuality in images – lingerie, certain provocative poses, et cetera.

What are the equivalent cues for men? Don't say "a suit" or "a uniform" – those signal money and authority, not sex."

That is why sky remotes were invented surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a range of cues available to women to convey their sexuality in images – lingerie, certain provocative poses, et cetera.

What are the equivalent cues for men? Don't say "a suit" or "a uniform" – those signal money and authority, not sex."

There’s nothing stopping you from doing a lingerie pic some woman are in to it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a range of cues available to women to convey their sexuality in images – lingerie, certain provocative poses, et cetera.

What are the equivalent cues for men? Don't say "a suit" or "a uniform" – those signal money and authority, not sex."

Some may argue these are interlinked.

I'm not quite sure what you mean by sexuality tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit, I thought this was gonna be a photo challenge thread !!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Must admit, I thought this was gonna be a photo challenge thread !!"

Maybe it should be:

Guys in underwear

Ladies doing car selfies.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Haha yes, I have seen so many of those type of photos. They often have sunglasses on too"

Sunglasses are a bit of a bug bare with me, I like to see someone's eyes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like it when you go to clubs and all the women are in lingerie, sexy dresses and heels and the guys are in jeans and T shirts.

Plenty of men that can wear the blue Jeans and t shirt (has to be black and slim fitted) look in an elegant and sexy way

To be fair, you'd look good in most outfits I imagine!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Haha yes, I have seen so many of those type of photos. They often have sunglasses on too

Sunglasses are a bit of a bug bare with me, I like to see someone's eyes x"

I'll just pop out to the car to take a selfie

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"I like it when you go to clubs and all the women are in lingerie, sexy dresses and heels and the guys are in jeans and T shirts.

Plenty of men that can wear the blue Jeans and t shirt (has to be black and slim fitted) look in an elegant and sexy way

To be fair, you'd look good in most outfits I imagine!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's what's under the bonnet that counts. "

Nah its all about the junk in the trunk

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"It's what's under the bonnet that counts.

Nah its all about the junk in the trunk "

I got nothing in my trunk, it's empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually send a link to my LinkedIn profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Must admit, I thought this was gonna be a photo challenge thread !!"

Now that’s an idea???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a range of cues available to women to convey their sexuality in images – lingerie, certain provocative poses, et cetera.

What are the equivalent cues for men? Don't say "a suit" or "a uniform" – those signal money and authority, not sex.

That is why sky remotes were invented surely?"

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