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"… is a message I (and we guys) get a lot. So whose type am I then, ladies? For the vain post #sorrynotsorry" Obviously you are somebody's, or indeed many somebody's. I get similar responses when I message first. The magic of both being each other's type is rare. | |||
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem " Love this reply, it’s so spot on xx | |||
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem " This! Lost count of the times I've had the you're lovely but not for me x | |||
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"As this is a website, it's extremely hard to showcase your personality, like you could in real life. The first thing a person sees is your profile picture and than your profile. If I may offer some advice is to change your username, and upload pictures that shows your persona. Topless pics and dick pics are all over this site, and that can make them boring. You have an awesome beard dude, I would put that as my profile pic (combine that with a shirt and tie, and that would look even better). " Thanks for the advice (noted!). But this was just meant as a lighthearted bit of fun lol. I’m tired so maybe didn’t come across that way. Now come on ladies, who fancies me? | |||
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem This! Lost count of the times I've had the you're lovely but not for me x" I can't see why you would get a lot of not for me x | |||
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"I got told by a guy on here I was a plain Jane " I’d have smacked him lol. Needs to give his head a wobble that guy xxx | |||
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"… is a message I (and we guys) get a lot. So whose type am I then, ladies? For the vain post #sorrynotsorry" Think yourself lucky mate. So of us just get laughed at. | |||
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"I got told by a guy on here I was a plain Jane I’d have smacked him lol. Needs to give his head a wobble that guy xxx" thanks Didn't bother me there's plenty other guys out there who like me. Plus for someone so plain he views my profile enough | |||
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"I got told by a guy on here I was a plain Jane " Me Tarzan. | |||
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"I got told by a guy on here I was a plain Jane Me Tarzan. " | |||
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"I got told by a guy on here I was a plain Jane " stupid arsehat | |||
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"I’m rarely people’s type. I’m fairly niche. I tend not to make the first move and let them come to me. " I think that is most woman on here’s game plan | |||
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem This! Lost count of the times I've had the you're lovely but not for me x" Really struggle to get my head round that. Xx | |||
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"I got told by a guy on here I was a plain Jane stupid arsehat " | |||
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"Been told it a few times...their loss, not mine x " Absolutely xxx | |||
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"I’m rarely people’s type. I’m fairly niche. I tend not to make the first move and let them come to me. " A 6ft woman is a dream! | |||
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem This! Lost count of the times I've had the you're lovely but not for me x" You are lovely tho! | |||
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"I’m rarely people’s type. I’m fairly niche. I tend not to make the first move and let them come to me. A 6ft woman is a dream!" I had a meet with a couple where the wife was 6ft2. She wore 4 inch heels too, my god she was a sight to see stood in my livingroom in her stockings and suspenders | |||
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"I’m lazy don’t look or send first message plus filters high, so when chat ie forums start as friends but have had the comment we not everyone’s cup of tea, so normal yes " You post a great profile | |||
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"The way I look at it is that it’s incredibly rare for anyone to be my type.. so much so I don’t really know what it is.. similarly I’m kinda odd.. so I expect my odds to be someone else’s type equally low. So I enjoy the site for what it is and expect nothing but friendship and eye rolls. " Yes but you do eyerolls like no one else. Plus I get a lot of them funnily enough | |||
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"The way I look at it is that it’s incredibly rare for anyone to be my type.. so much so I don’t really know what it is.. similarly I’m kinda odd.. so I expect my odds to be someone else’s type equally low. So I enjoy the site for what it is and expect nothing but friendship and eye rolls. Yes but you do eyerolls like no one else. Plus I get a lot of them funnily enough " I do!!! I bloody love eye rolling!!! you deserve them alllllllllllllll | |||
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"The way I look at it is that it’s incredibly rare for anyone to be my type.. so much so I don’t really know what it is.. similarly I’m kinda odd.. so I expect my odds to be someone else’s type equally low. So I enjoy the site for what it is and expect nothing but friendship and eye rolls. Yes but you do eyerolls like no one else. Plus I get a lot of them funnily enough I do!!! I bloody love eye rolling!!! you deserve them alllllllllllllll " | |||
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"Don’t worry OP - as others have said, it’s impossible to be right for everyone! If someone likes tall, busty blondes then they aren’t going to fancy me, but I would never take it personally. Although … I suppose I could stuff socks in my bra, wear a wig and walk on stilts … " I tried that - it didn't work. I'd be happy with someone who's not stuck up their own arse. | |||
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"Unless we think we're irresistible it seems like a polite enough reply to me. We should respect others preferences as we expect them to respect ours, and I don't think it's someone's 'loss' if they don't like or fancy me. Lucky escape maybe ! " I agree. We’ve all been turned down, it just means we’re not their type? | |||
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"I just don't message first, can't be rejected if I don't know " Snap | |||
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"I just don't message first, can't be rejected if I don't know Snap " Hmmmmmmm | |||
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"I just don't message first, can't be rejected if I don't know Snap " Ah right that’s why! | |||
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"I just don't message first, can't be rejected if I don't know " You've always got me to fall back on. | |||
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem " | |||
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"I got told my face doesn’t match my body. That felt great " You'll do for me. Given the chance. | |||
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem " Excellent response | |||
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"I got told my face doesn’t match my body. That felt great " You’re sexy as fuck. They were a dick | |||
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"I got told my face doesn’t match my body. That felt great " Assholes. You are gorgeous x | |||
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"I got told my face doesn’t match my body. That felt great You’re sexy as fuck. They were a dick " Snap | |||
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"You’re the 16 people who’ve verified you’s type I guess" Lol | |||
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"I got told my face doesn’t match my body. That felt great " Did your fist match their face? | |||
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"I got told my face doesn’t match my body. That felt great " Shame that some people take their own insecurities out on other people by trying to push them down to prop themselves up | |||
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!! typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha " It was meant to be lighthearted. Nothing more | |||
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!! typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha " Not all the women lol | |||
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!! typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha " Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot | |||
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!! typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot " 100% | |||
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!! typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot " …Kinda made me giggle hats off to you … | |||
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!! typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot " Or man spits dummy out and starts crying like your exact post | |||
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"Dave " Stop making me ch0keee, I’m trying to drink teaaaaa | |||
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!! typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot " This ^^ So much this! | |||
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"Dave Stop making me ch0keee, I’m trying to drink teaaaaa " | |||
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!! typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot " | |||
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!! typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot …Kinda made me giggle hats off to you … " | |||
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"If you’re below an 8 or don’t have big tartars then the chances are I’ll still respond with FAF " Go on then | |||
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"If you’re below an 8 or don’t have big tartars then the chances are I’ll still respond with FAF " An 8? Guys have 2 ratings 0 or 1 Would or wouldn’t fuck Our tiny men brains can’t process much more above 0 or 1 | |||
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"If you’re below an 8 or don’t have big tartars then the chances are I’ll still respond with FAF An 8? Guys have 2 ratings 0 or 1 Would or wouldn’t fuck Our tiny men brains can’t process much more above 0 or 1" #notallmen | |||
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"If you’re below an 8 or don’t have big tartars then the chances are I’ll still respond with FAF Go on then" Yes, I FAF | |||
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"If you’re below an 8 or don’t have big tartars then the chances are I’ll still respond with FAF " I'm only 7.85 | |||
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"If you’re below an 8 or don’t have big tartars then the chances are I’ll still respond with FAF I'm only 7.85 " I’ll still respond with FAF | |||
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"If you’re below an 8 or don’t have big tartars then the chances are I’ll still respond with FAF I'm only 7.85 I’ll still respond with FAF " Fun and frolics? | |||
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"… is a message I (and we guys) get a lot. So whose type am I then, ladies? For the vain post #sorrynotsorry Think yourself lucky mate. So of us just get laughed at. " Most of us get no reply at all! | |||
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"I'm no-one's type" Same here buddy | |||
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"If you’re below an 8 or don’t have big tartars then the chances are I’ll still respond with FAF I'm only 7.85 I’ll still respond with FAF Fun and frolics? " Fornicate a f(ph)allus | |||
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!! typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot …Kinda made me giggle hats off to you … " bravo round of applause well said | |||
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"If you’re below an 8 or don’t have big tartars then the chances are I’ll still respond with FAF I'm only 7.85 I’ll still respond with FAF Fun and frolics? Fornicate a f(ph)allus " Feel a fanny | |||
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!! typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot " haha exactly!!! | |||
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"I just don't message first, can't be rejected if I don't know Snap Hmmmmmmm " It's true! Unless it's a forum thing then I very rarely message a person first | |||
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem " Absolutely | |||
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