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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

I don't really know why I'm bothering to complain but I guess today it has just narked me. Having had a previous meet complain that he only wanted to meet again to get his dick wet as I was rank was precisely how he made me feel in the first place and so I never felt inclined to meet him again or answer his messages. Came in under a minute and then left. It's the sense of entitlement that gets me. I'm rambling because I'm cross but anyway thanks for all the supportive messages saying how a titbox like that can ruin it for the rest of you. They don't. They only ruin it for themselves. Here endeth the rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a cheeky twat! Wtf is wrong with people? Delete, block, gone. You do not deserve that....Plenty of guys would love a chance to get to know you better for sure x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

So sorry that man talked about you that way. You are worth so much more than that. What a low life he must be.

You deserve respect and care.

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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Thank you ladies

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Wow sounds like a charmer

Are you ok xxx

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"What a cheeky twat! Wtf is wrong with people? Delete, block, gone. You do not deserve that....Plenty of guys would love a chance to get to know you better for sure x"

This!

Sorry to hear how you have been treated, it's disgusting and nit acceptable at all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you obviously excite him to the point he can’t hold back for more than a minute and wants another fantastic experience with you.

What a loser.

Rant away then find a real man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a cheeky twat! Wtf is wrong with people? Delete, block, gone. You do not deserve that....Plenty of guys would love a chance to get to know you better for sure x"

This 100% ^^^^

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I'm just going to go and sit in the corner, rhythmically bouncing my face off the table...

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I'm just going to go and sit in the corner, rhythmically bouncing my face off the table..."

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF?! Can't face his own shortcomings so projects onto you. Shameful. I'm sorry you've had to deal with it.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

He knew he was a shit shag, so he tried to make himself feel better by trying to imply you were as pathetic as he was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a complete twunt.

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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Wow sounds like a charmer

Are you ok xxx"

I am. It is just a bit demoralising. Any hole is a goal for someone like that and I rather wish I hadn't let him near mine.

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By *ibonacciMan
over a year ago

hidden location

While this may not make you feel any better, it also happens to guys too.

I've had something similar happen to me twice. The first time was many years ago where the lady came and then announced that was it, I could go now, and leterally kicked me out of her house!

The second time was about 4 years ago where the lady rode me until she came and then stopped, got off and announced that I could "Fuck off and sort myself out!" My horny head thought this was some kind of dominance thinking playing out, but nope, she meant it.

But my sympathy as yours sounds worse and I'm sure you felt furious and frustrated afterwards.

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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"While this may not make you feel any better, it also happens to guys too.

I've had something similar happen to me twice. The first time was many years ago where the lady came and then announced that was it, I could go now, and leterally kicked me out of her house!

The second time was about 4 years ago where the lady rode me until she came and then stopped, got off and announced that I could "Fuck off and sort myself out!" My horny head thought this was some kind of dominance thinking playing out, but nope, she meant it.

But my sympathy as yours sounds worse and I'm sure you felt furious and frustrated afterwards. "

How shocking for you. Makes you feel used and no-one needs that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww big hugs sorry that happened to you op xx

What a fuckboy he is

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Wow sounds like a charmer

Are you ok xxx

I am. It is just a bit demoralising. Any hole is a goal for someone like that and I rather wish I hadn't let him near mine."

Your better than that sweety x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"While this may not make you feel any better, it also happens to guys too.

I've had something similar happen to me twice. The first time was many years ago where the lady came and then announced that was it, I could go now, and leterally kicked me out of her house!

The second time was about 4 years ago where the lady rode me until she came and then stopped, got off and announced that I could "Fuck off and sort myself out!" My horny head thought this was some kind of dominance thinking playing out, but nope, she meant it.

But my sympathy as yours sounds worse and I'm sure you felt furious and frustrated afterwards. "

Awwww xxx

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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Wow sounds like a charmer

Are you ok xxx

I am. It is just a bit demoralising. Any hole is a goal for someone like that and I rather wish I hadn't let him near mine.

Your better than that sweety x"

Hey thanks

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Not only does he sound like a total Bell end , but also a shit shag , move on and don’t let him get you down

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By *oozleMan
over a year ago

high wycombe

Some people just aren’t worth the time of day, I’m so sorry you had such an experience. Thankfully it’s over with, you can block him and find someone worth the time of day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really know why I'm bothering to complain but I guess today it has just narked me. Having had a previous meet complain that he only wanted to meet again to get his dick wet as I was rank was precisely how he made me feel in the first place and so I never felt inclined to meet him again or answer his messages. Came in under a minute and then left. It's the sense of entitlement that gets me. I'm rambling because I'm cross but anyway thanks for all the supportive messages saying how a titbox like that can ruin it for the rest of you. They don't. They only ruin it for themselves. Here endeth the rant."

It's not actually very nice to come on here and complain a man came in under a minute and left. We only have your side of the story. You are being just as rude as him by making this post.

Some men do cum quickly on occasion.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

What a twat!

Block him if you haven't already x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have full rights to complain. That's like expecting champagne and getting flat lemonade.

Hopefully he knows with that crap performance you would never meet him again anyway.

Let him feel bad about himself as that should be enough punishment for his selfish ways xx

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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I don't really know why I'm bothering to complain but I guess today it has just narked me. Having had a previous meet complain that he only wanted to meet again to get his dick wet as I was rank was precisely how he made me feel in the first place and so I never felt inclined to meet him again or answer his messages. Came in under a minute and then left. It's the sense of entitlement that gets me. I'm rambling because I'm cross but anyway thanks for all the supportive messages saying how a titbox like that can ruin it for the rest of you. They don't. They only ruin it for themselves. Here endeth the rant.

It's not actually very nice to come on here and complain a man came in under a minute and left. We only have your side of the story. You are being just as rude as him by making this post.

Some men do cum quickly on occasion.

"

I am forgiving of that with someone I know well and would never judge this person on that alone. I occasionally get abusive messages from people I don't know. But this felt different because I had met him and I had given him access to my body. His abuse made me shudder and I guess I felt the need for comfort. What at base this all highlights is the imbalance created by women being outnumbered here by men. It creates frustration. In some people this bubbles up and they become abusive. In most cases thankfully not and I have made many enjoyable connections along the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a delightful human being he is. If i were you id take great pride in using that block button

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

What a charmer

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Did you leave him a veri?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I don't really know why I'm bothering to complain but I guess today it has just narked me. Having had a previous meet complain that he only wanted to meet again to get his dick wet as I was rank was precisely how he made me feel in the first place and so I never felt inclined to meet him again or answer his messages. Came in under a minute and then left. It's the sense of entitlement that gets me. I'm rambling because I'm cross but anyway thanks for all the supportive messages saying how a titbox like that can ruin it for the rest of you. They don't. They only ruin it for themselves. Here endeth the rant."
block ..move on ... there's loads of nice guys out there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep the screen shot of the message then report n block ... this is the reason women are starting to show others in the scene what the men are like ..ie with screen shots .... i dont get involed but i know quite a few who do in clubs and socials phones come out and info shared all out side of fab and i can see why

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth


"I don't really know why I'm bothering to complain but I guess today it has just narked me. Having had a previous meet complain that he only wanted to meet again to get his dick wet as I was rank was precisely how he made me feel in the first place and so I never felt inclined to meet him again or answer his messages. Came in under a minute and then left. It's the sense of entitlement that gets me. I'm rambling because I'm cross but anyway thanks for all the supportive messages saying how a titbox like that can ruin it for the rest of you. They don't. They only ruin it for themselves. Here endeth the rant."

That's disgusting and a vile way for him to behave. Sorry you've had this experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really know why I'm bothering to complain but I guess today it has just narked me. Having had a previous meet complain that he only wanted to meet again to get his dick wet as I was rank was precisely how he made me feel in the first place and so I never felt inclined to meet him again or answer his messages. Came in under a minute and then left. It's the sense of entitlement that gets me. I'm rambling because I'm cross but anyway thanks for all the supportive messages saying how a titbox like that can ruin it for the rest of you. They don't. They only ruin it for themselves. Here endeth the rant."

My mate Eric met a woman once and she also came in just under a minute.

Eric was incredulous.

She never stopped bleating on about it.

Sorry to hear you’ve had a terrible experience. Don’t let it affect your appetite to consider meeting other men - there are plenty out there who will look after you in more appropriate a fashion

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"keep the screen shot of the message then report n block ... this is the reason women are starting to show others in the scene what the men are like ..ie with screen shots .... i dont get involed but i know quite a few who do in clubs and socials phones come out and info shared all out side of fab and i can see why"

I don’t think you can report/block someone for having a lack of integrity. Or rather, you can report whatever you like, but I wouldn’t expect anyone to do anything about it, since it’s none of their (mods) business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just to add i said men but what i meant was few men...... there are 1,000 of decent guys on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"keep the screen shot of the message then report n block ... this is the reason women are starting to show others in the scene what the men are like ..ie with screen shots .... i dont get involed but i know quite a few who do in clubs and socials phones come out and info shared all out side of fab and i can see why

I don’t think you can report/block someone for having a lack of integrity. Or rather, you can report whatever you like, but I wouldn’t expect anyone to do anything about it, since it’s none of their (mods) business. "

you report abuseive messages to admin people been doing it for years on fab nothing to do with the mods unless in open forum

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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"What a delightful human being he is. If i were you id take great pride in using that block button "

Haha he blocked me before I had chance to block him which I'll admit pissed me off. I'm just being childish. Don't the French have that thing l'espirit d' escalier or the wit of the stairwell where after an insult it is only after you have flounced off down the stairs that you've thought of the perfect retort? Wanted to wet his dick he said. Here's some paraffin and a lighter. Knock yourself out.

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