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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see a lot of profiles saying single line message will be deleted, so what does a woman expect in a message???

As I have sent long messages, short messages to all get deleted so what is the point in putting in the effort, winks are a good way to start I think and if the wink was mutual then it would give the other person a chance to send a nice long message back knowing it would be greeted ,

What are your thoughts??

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

For many people, they check out the profile of the sender. If that profile doesn't interest them, they usually don't reply.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

It might not have anything to do with your messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It might not have anything to do with your messages "

100%%%

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Why do some people open a thread and respond to one person, but not the other ? That's just how it is, similar personal choices and reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, advice I've seen and taken

1) something that shows you've read their profile

2) something witty try and tie it in with the no 1

3) ask a question, it's easier to respond to a question.

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Tried all the above also long and short messages. I just say hello attach a pic and let them know if they are interested I will respond with more detail. But at the end of the day it's all down to the person who is responding and the quantity of messages they have in their inbox

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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"For many people, they check out the profile of the sender. If that profile doesn't interest them, they usually don't reply."

Absolutely spot on.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Men outnumber women enormously on this site. Women can get several messages an hour. Most of them are total crap - one-liners and/or cock photos. The odd decent message can be easily missed and deleted in a sea of shit messages.

If she replied saying no, you would then immediately get through a future block on single men in the future. The more men she says no to, the more the blanket block becomes pointless.

Sorry your messages are getting lost, but on this site you are entitled to absolutely nothing from the people you write to. They don't know you. They are not here for you. They owe you nothing. Just live with it.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Expect nothing

Don't be a twat

Offer cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What are your thoughts??"

My thoughts are filthy. By the time I’ve looked through their photos, I’ve fucked them in mind at lest 3 times, so I’ve finished with them and I move on to the next. No need to send them a message, Quantity over quality

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

One line isn't so bad, it's the one word that baffles me...

Heyyyy! Just no.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"OP, advice I've seen and taken

1) something that shows you've read their profile

2) something witty try and tie it in with the no 1

3) ask a question, it's easier to respond to a question."

Top advice right there

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"OP, advice I've seen and taken

1) something that shows you've read their profile

2) something witty try and tie it in with the no 1

3) ask a question, it's easier to respond to a question.

"

Yes.

There's no guarantee, if they're not interested they're not interested, but that's how you start

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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"I see a lot of profiles saying single line message will be deleted, so what does a woman expect in a message???

As I have sent long messages, short messages to all get deleted so what is the point in putting in the effort, winks are a good way to start I think and if the wink was mutual then it would give the other person a chance to send a nice long message back knowing it would be greeted ,

What are your thoughts??"

You are aware that there has to be attraction??

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