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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve made no bones about the fact that I’m a bit under the weather at the moment and not at my shiny jovial best, which has led to a conversation with a good friend. My good friend thinks that I should go and meet people, however I don’t believe that many on fab would meet someone that’s less than happy.

My question therefore is, would you meet someone to help cheer them up? Is it a dealbreaker for you if a person is in a lower mood?

Thoughts folks…

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"I’ve made no bones about the fact that I’m a bit under the weather at the moment and not at my shiny jovial best, which has led to a conversation with a good friend. My good friend thinks that I should go and meet people, however I don’t believe that many on fab would meet someone that’s less than happy.

My question therefore is, would you meet someone to help cheer them up? Is it a dealbreaker for you if a person is in a lower mood?

Thoughts folks…"

Meet to help cheer someone up, of course!

If you’re using ‘cheer someone up’ to mean ‘pityfuck’ then no; been on the receiving end of too many of those and trust me, they do NOT cheer you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve chatted in the past Tea man and if I was local to you I’d happily meet up

Fir a coffee or a pint, you’re a great guy abd I think we could definitely chew the fat over a few brews

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I’ve made no bones about the fact that I’m a bit under the weather at the moment and not at my shiny jovial best, which has led to a conversation with a good friend. My good friend thinks that I should go and meet people, however I don’t believe that many on fab would meet someone that’s less than happy.

My question therefore is, would you meet someone to help cheer them up? Is it a dealbreaker for you if a person is in a lower mood?

Thoughts folks…

Meet to help cheer someone up, of course!

If you’re using ‘cheer someone up’ to mean ‘pityfuck’ then no; been on the receiving end of too many of those and trust me, they do NOT cheer you up "

Absolutely not a pity fuck!

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I would 100% meet someone to help cheer them up. No one is always happy all the time OP so I hope you start feeling ok soon.but yes,I think there’s a lot of people on here who would meet someone they like to help cheer them up over a coffee etc

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"I’ve made no bones about the fact that I’m a bit under the weather at the moment and not at my shiny jovial best, which has led to a conversation with a good friend. My good friend thinks that I should go and meet people, however I don’t believe that many on fab would meet someone that’s less than happy.

My question therefore is, would you meet someone to help cheer them up? Is it a dealbreaker for you if a person is in a lower mood?

Thoughts folks…

Meet to help cheer someone up, of course!

If you’re using ‘cheer someone up’ to mean ‘pityfuck’ then no; been on the receiving end of too many of those and trust me, they do NOT cheer you up

Absolutely not a pity fuck!

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Sorry, it wasn’t intended to insinuate you were; just clarifying for others!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I’ve made no bones about the fact that I’m a bit under the weather at the moment and not at my shiny jovial best, which has led to a conversation with a good friend. My good friend thinks that I should go and meet people, however I don’t believe that many on fab would meet someone that’s less than happy.

My question therefore is, would you meet someone to help cheer them up? Is it a dealbreaker for you if a person is in a lower mood?

Thoughts folks…"

Yes, but I wouldn’t see it as a pity party to cheer someone up, it would just be a natural result of hanging out with people.

If you want a therapy session to determine why your mood is the way it is, you'd be better off paying for one.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Well I am in a similar situation so the answer is, of course I would meet.

I've actually just tried something like this on the back of someone's Facebook post but it didn't come to anything.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes definitely, they're a friend (or friend in the making) and just spending time with them could work wonders (as long as I had the capacity to be there for someone in that way).

In terms of sex, I'd probably be a bit cautious, it depends on why they are upset really and what my relationship is like with them.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Somebody I didn't know? No, I don't think I would if I'm being honest.

Someone that I know and like? Absolutely, I'd offer to go for a coffee/walk/or some other fun activity with them, to either give them a chance to talk if they want to, or to give them something different for their thoughts to focus on.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yeah I'll chat and meet anyone for a cuppa social and many have turned into therapy chats about whatever random stuff is in our minds, it's good to open up to non judgemental strangers, takes the pressure off

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yeah I'll chat and meet anyone for a cuppa social and many have turned into therapy chats about whatever random stuff is in our minds, it's good to open up to non judgemental strangers, takes the pressure off "

Yes, this ^^

Some things I find I simply can’t talk about with friends or family.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I would definitely meet up, I look a lot different as a guy though. I’m going through the mill at the moment as well so as long as they’re willing to listen to my problems as well.

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