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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you feel grumpy/irritable/sad and you have no idea why?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Wank.

You're welcome.

(That's actually true btw)

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Erm impact play

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wank.

You're welcome.

(That's actually true btw)"

Not sure I can summon the enthusiasm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erm impact play "

Could well be possible, is there such a thing as gentle impact play

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma


"When you feel grumpy/irritable/sad and you have no idea why? "

Phone my brother, he is such a miserable bastard he makes me feel like I'm on top of the world as soon as he answers the phone

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Erm impact play

Could well be possible, is there such a thing as gentle impact play "

Yes!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you feel grumpy/irritable/sad and you have no idea why?

Phone my brother, he is such a miserable bastard he makes me feel like I'm on top of the world as soon as he answers the phone "

That made me laugh, thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erm impact play

Could well be possible, is there such a thing as gentle impact play

Yes!!!! "

Message me with tips , I’m not sure I’m physically able to go too mad still, much as I want to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you feel grumpy/irritable/sad and you have no idea why?

Phone my brother, he is such a miserable bastard he makes me feel like I'm on top of the world as soon as he answers the phone "

I suppose I could phone my ex, that’ll have the same effect

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Wank.

You're welcome.

(That's actually true btw)"

I have to agree….a few orgasms can make things feel a whole lot better!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Wank

Long soak in the bath

Turn music up loud - usually sing along terribly

Eat chocolate

Possibly another wank after that

Xx

Sending boobie hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wank

Long soak in the bath

Turn music up loud - usually sing along terribly

Eat chocolate

Possibly another wank after that

Xx

Sending boobie hugs xx"

Ooh, bath maybe!

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally spend the day wanting to tell the world to fuck off (but actually don’t do it) then tell myself tomorrow is a new day and a new start.

I felt like yesterday OP

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

I come into the forums, have opinions that people will disagree with.

Helps them feel better

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I come into the forums, have opinions that people will disagree with.

Helps them feel better "

For someone no longer here you're here a lot.

Op, why not log off and watch a film? Have a nap or go for a run, something to take your mind off it. Obviously accept that's how you're feeling but don't dwell on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I generally spend the day wanting to tell the world to fuck off (but actually don’t do it) then tell myself tomorrow is a new day and a new start.

I felt like yesterday OP "

Hope you’re feeling better today?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I come into the forums, have opinions that people will disagree with.

Helps them feel better "

You’re very good at it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I come into the forums, have opinions that people will disagree with.

Helps them feel better

For someone no longer here you're here a lot.

Op, why not log off and watch a film? Have a nap or go for a run, something to take your mind off it. Obviously accept that's how you're feeling but don't dwell on it."

Good ideas too. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Binge watch some comedy series. I'm working my way through "how I met your mother"

Although I highly recommend Still Game too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple things help me mainly - either long walks in parks/ nature, or music that reminds me of good times/ uplifting. Last resort is comfort eating, it does sometimes work!

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"I come into the forums, have opinions that people will disagree with.

Helps them feel better

You’re very good at it "

I know, its a tough job but someone has to do.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'm never Grumpy

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A long walk with a favourite podcast, generally makes me feel a bit better. I have been feeling low for a few months and ended up staying in bed for a day. By the time it got to bed time I felt I had wasted a days holiday, rather than have a good rest.

So I try to go for a walk every day, just to get out and feel I’ve had some benefit from getting up that day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Retail therapy!

Treat yourself to some new kinky knickers.

I want photographic evidence you've done this

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"I come into the forums, have opinions that people will disagree with.

Helps them feel better

For someone no longer here you're here a lot.

Op, why not log off and watch a film? Have a nap or go for a run, something to take your mind off it. Obviously accept that's how you're feeling but don't dwell on it."

Yep not much longer though - maybe we will get to "Agree to Disagree in another life"

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Sing loudly and dance like no one is watching

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Try and work out the root cause of the feelings but also focus on me and try to indulge in myself and do something that makes me happy.

Reading, exercise, an indulgent bath, good food, chats with friends or a favourite film are all totally valid, as are other options.

A bit of TLC is never bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sing loudly and dance like no one is watching "

I do that most days

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Drive somewhere quiet in the countryside, and go for a walk on my own. The birds and assorted animals usually help me out my troubles in perspective.

Failing that, like Posh said, knock one out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seek solace in the familiar. A favourite food, a favourite film or book. Go to a favourite familiar place if it's no bother. Root yourself a little.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of lovely ideas, thank you

Just owning that emotion by writing the thread has helped.

You’re a lovely bunch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ice cream.....hot bath.....and some great music! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some suggestions already made can sometimes work but the best thing is to draw a recent memory where something did make you happy or laugh uncontrollably and let that shine through!

Also look at yourself in the mirror, you’re very fit and attractive and there’s a lot of people that would love to be in your company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady wank

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By *iltopbearMan
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Sing loudly and dance like no one is watching "

One of the things I do, or just listen to some Thrash Metal.

Angry music to blast away the misery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go work out, listen to some great music or cuddle with my dog.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I usually eat, though not consciously. It's pathetic.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Take the fog for a walk and throw his ball for him. The sheer joy in his face lifts me. (mark)

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Dog gets dragged out for a walk!

Or start perving on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you feel grumpy/irritable/sad and you have no idea why?

Phone my brother, he is such a miserable bastard he makes me feel like I'm on top of the world as soon as he answers the phone "

Lol..I have one of those too

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"When you feel grumpy/irritable/sad and you have no idea why? "

Wank then a nap ...I've just taken to my bed and looking for inspiration . I'm in a grumpy mood too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually eat, though not consciously. It's pathetic."

Be kind to yourself, it’s not pathetic .we all have coping mechanisms.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you feel grumpy/irritable/sad and you have no idea why?

Wank then a nap ...I've just taken to my bed and looking for inspiration . I'm in a grumpy mood too "

Hope you feel better soon

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Bang in some tunes that a familiar with happier times

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By *inxy300Woman
over a year ago

nottinghamshire


"When you feel grumpy/irritable/sad and you have no idea why?

Phone my brother, he is such a miserable bastard he makes me feel like I'm on top of the world as soon as he answers the phone

That made me laugh, thanks "
me too

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

Walk the dog in the glorious countryside for a few hows and then call in the pub for a pint or six

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you feel grumpy/irritable/sad and you have no idea why? "

I pop round to the local Boulangerie and spend 5 mins choosing a delicious cake, walk back home and sit and eat every delicious mouthful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you feel grumpy/irritable/sad and you have no idea why?

I pop round to the local Boulangerie and spend 5 mins choosing a delicious cake, walk back home and sit and eat every delicious mouthful."

If I was in France I might be tempted by a Mille Feuille, but I’m not massively keen on cake.

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By *ichelle and DaveCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Wank.

You're welcome.

(That's actually true btw)"

Wow, thought that was just me!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Log on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just roll with it and allow myself to feel how I feel whilst doing things that might help with how I'm feeling. I'll go for a walk, make myself something nice to eat, exercise and not put pressure on myself to get unimportant stuff done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wank.

You're welcome.

(That's actually true btw)"

I second that

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Run.

I hate running, but it sorts my mind out and when I'm in that mood I seem to be able to go much further.

I end up sweaty as fuck and feel like I'm about to die, but my mind is clear and I feel calm again.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Eat cake

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I used to go to see my mum for a cup of tea and a chat, but she's gone now.

Now I go to see my sister for a shopping trip, or just let it run its course.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"When you feel grumpy/irritable/sad and you have no idea why?

I pop round to the local Boulangerie and spend 5 mins choosing a delicious cake, walk back home and sit and eat every delicious mouthful.

If I was in France I might be tempted by a Mille Feuille, but I’m not massively keen on cake. "

Should have read comments first....

Cuddle one of the cats

Go and see my neighbour for coffee

Walk down to the beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally spend the day wanting to tell the world to fuck off (but actually don’t do it) then tell myself tomorrow is a new day and a new start.

I felt like yesterday OP

Hope you’re feeling better today?"

Much better. Thank you. Yesterday has gone and I never let it ruin the next day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all, lots of lovely ideas.

I’ve started doing my nails, and chilled out on the sofa for a bit, which helped

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