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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi folks, just looking for a few pointers on my profile, I’ve not had any meets so far from being here and wondered if it’s my profile that puts folk off?

I’m respectful in messages and don’t bombard with dick pics or demands

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By *limfitladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

listening attentively.. for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no expert but your profile says very little about you. Show off your personality and give the ladies a sense of who you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s quite brief and the first sentence takes info already available and puts it in again.

Maybe expand on what you offer to people. Why would they want to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm no expert but your profile says very little about you. Show off your personality and give the ladies a sense of who you. "

Cool was never sure if I should put too much on where people would switch off reading it or not

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I won't go down the usual shop window advice route but don't make your profile a tick list of ideas from others. Make it unique to you.

After all... There can be only one

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Op your profile says very little about you or your expectations… and both pictures are very similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't have to be war n peace but enough to give someone something to find interesting about you.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

As a couple we'd probably pass your profile by.. the pics are both similar and doesn't look like a lot of effort.. and like a thousand other single guy profile..agree that you don't give much info we find the best profile are written not so much about just selling themselves..sorry if it sounds harsh just constructive criticism

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks, just looking for a few pointers on my profile, I’ve not had any meets so far from being here and wondered if it’s my profile that puts folk off?

I’m respectful in messages and don’t bombard with dick pics or demands "

Your 6ft5 so you should of had a meet by now

Are you hung though?

Are you professional?

Are you gym fit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Updated my bio a bit there, in terms of pictures I’ve never been sure what to put up there so left some private.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for The feedback, it’s not harsh it’s what I’m needing to update it, not sure what other pics to put on but I’ll have a think and get them updated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m in the gym working off a bit of lockdown weight, reasonably hung

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Does your profile reflect you? Are you happy with it? Would you meet you?

Be able to answer yes to all three and you’ve got the profile you want.

Most people look for a decent bio, what you want and what can you offer. Show your personality.

Pics should be varied to give someone a flavour of you.

If you don’t stand out then you’re one of 50,000 other guys hoping to get noticed.

So ask them three questions again and keep going until you can honestly say yes.

Good luck

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m in the gym working off a bit of lockdown weight, reasonably hung "

Don't worry about being too much gym fit. Most women I know actually prefer a softer body. Being comfortable and confident in your own skin is more important.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone made a few changes hope it’s looking a little better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m in the gym working off a bit of lockdown weight, reasonably hung

Don't worry about being too much gym fit. Most women I know actually prefer a softer body. Being comfortable and confident in your own skin is more important. "

I think 90% of profiles I come across do mention "needs to be athletic/gym fit as we keep ourselves in shape" and there is nowt wrong that but it is very common in profiles as well as must be hung ,vvwe ,over 8 inch etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need better pics

Men have to make an effort to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many on here I guess could support any pov if we looked enough. But I bow to your insight as I don't look at women on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What sort of pics do you recommend?

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London


"Hi folks, just looking for a few pointers on my profile, I’ve not had any meets so far from being here and wondered if it’s my profile that puts folk off?

I’m respectful in messages and don’t bombard with dick pics or demands "

Best pointer I can give you: buy yourself a pair of tits and a summer dress or get yourself a swinging gf

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Hi folks, just looking for a few pointers on my profile, I’ve not had any meets so far from being here and wondered if it’s my profile that puts folk off?

I’m respectful in messages and don’t bombard with dick pics or demands "

Look if you are serious about meeting you not far for CJS in Glasgow check it out in club reviews on home page.

I do not believe there the much wrong with profile may be you first message it's a Big pond with lot of male fish..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks! I’ve registered my interest for the 25th sept

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Thanks! I’ve registered my interest for the 25th sept "

Nice club very female-friendly do not drink too much and remember You Are Not Guaranteed Sex and see if one of the staff will verify you in person always good for your profile.

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