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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Quite new and a lot of my messages are left on read not deleted. (Deleted I’ll take as a clear message they are not interested). Does this mean they might be interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless they reply then never take anything as ‘they might be interested’

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Quite new and a lot of my messages are left on read not deleted. (Deleted I’ll take as a clear message they are not interested). Does this mean they might be interested? "

Maybe just that they haven’t had time to read it. 99% of the times I log on I just look on the forums. So if they’re on line doesn’t mean they’ve seen it x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Depends… all my unread are people that clearly haven’t read my profile so I’m not bothering reading. I’m sure some others have different ways of working their inbox..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry I meant they have read the messages but not deleted them: I am just trying to understand the a little more, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘A watched pot never boils’ - don’t overthink it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair point, just would assume it would be deleted if they was not interested full stop, cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha not overthinking it, more curious cheers mate

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Haha not overthinking it, more curious cheers mate "

If you click on reply and quote rather than reply on forum we’ll know who you’re responding too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha not overthinking it, more curious cheers mate

If you click on reply and quote rather than reply on forum we’ll know who you’re responding too x"

What a virgin I am haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best atvice I can give is when you send a message delete the sent messages so you don’t know what’s happening to the messages

Could be a number off reasons

Could be a polite no intrested but they don’t want to say no in case they get abuse throwing at them yes this happens a lot one minute your the most beautiful thing on fab the next minutes your a nasty 4 latter word

Or in could be they Geting high volume off messages and it’s been boged down

Honestly just delete the sent messages if they reply they reply if not then it wasn’t meant to be

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Haha not overthinking it, more curious cheers mate

If you click on reply and quote rather than reply on forum we’ll know who you’re responding too x

What a virgin I am haha"

Haha everyone does it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best atvice I can give is when you send a message delete the sent messages so you don’t know what’s happening to the messages

Could be a number off reasons

Could be a polite no intrested but they don’t want to say no in case they get abuse throwing at them yes this happens a lot one minute your the most beautiful thing on fab the next minutes your a nasty 4 latter word

Or in could be they Geting high volume off messages and it’s been boged down

Honestly just delete the sent messages if they reply they reply if not then it wasn’t meant to be

"

That is good advice to be fair, only issue with that is I’ll forget who I have messaged and then maybe message them again and don’t want to be one of those guys. Def not one for abuse that’s just ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best atvice I can give is when you send a message delete the sent messages so you don’t know what’s happening to the messages

Could be a number off reasons

Could be a polite no intrested but they don’t want to say no in case they get abuse throwing at them yes this happens a lot one minute your the most beautiful thing on fab the next minutes your a nasty 4 latter word

Or in could be they Geting high volume off messages and it’s been boged down

Honestly just delete the sent messages if they reply they reply if not then it wasn’t meant to be

That is good advice to be fair, only issue with that is I’ll forget who I have messaged and then maybe message them again and don’t want to be one of those guys. Def not one for abuse that’s just ridiculous "

It tells you at the top off the profile when you last sent them a message

Also if you go to send one and you sent them a message before and they not replied

You will be hit with a warring box telling you

You have all ready messages this person and they didn’t reply

Do you can always just back out if it comes up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best atvice I can give is when you send a message delete the sent messages so you don’t know what’s happening to the messages

Could be a number off reasons

Could be a polite no intrested but they don’t want to say no in case they get abuse throwing at them yes this happens a lot one minute your the most beautiful thing on fab the next minutes your a nasty 4 latter word

Or in could be they Geting high volume off messages and it’s been boged down

Honestly just delete the sent messages if they reply they reply if not then it wasn’t meant to be

That is good advice to be fair, only issue with that is I’ll forget who I have messaged and then maybe message them again and don’t want to be one of those guys. Def not one for abuse that’s just ridiculous

It tells you at the top off the profile when you last sent them a message

Also if you go to send one and you sent them a message before and they not replied

You will be hit with a warring box telling you

You have all ready messages this person and they didn’t reply

Do you can always just back out if it comes up "

Thanks good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best atvice I can give is when you send a message delete the sent messages so you don’t know what’s happening to the messages

Could be a number off reasons

Could be a polite no intrested but they don’t want to say no in case they get abuse throwing at them yes this happens a lot one minute your the most beautiful thing on fab the next minutes your a nasty 4 latter word

Or in could be they Geting high volume off messages and it’s been boged down

Honestly just delete the sent messages if they reply they reply if not then it wasn’t meant to be

That is good advice to be fair, only issue with that is I’ll forget who I have messaged and then maybe message them again and don’t want to be one of those guys. Def not one for abuse that’s just ridiculous

It tells you at the top off the profile when you last sent them a message

Also if you go to send one and you sent them a message before and they not replied

You will be hit with a warring box telling you

You have all ready messages this person and they didn’t reply

Do you can always just back out if it comes up

Thanks good advice "

Your welcome

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'll tell you EXACTLY 100% what it means. No one else can tell you different.

It means that :- a) you sent a message.

b) they read it and didn't delete it.

Thinking about more than that is a waste of your life.

If they want to reply they will. If they do bulk delete next day, next week , next year ...... they will. If they leave it there until the internet is laughed at as an archaic form of communication - they will.

So ....... DONT think about it.

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