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First social attire?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One for the ladies...

When meeting up a first date/social, how do you balance your outfit to look appealing, sexy and alluring but not too OTT and too much?

Asking for a friend of course...

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Mix glam with casual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear jeans and a cleavage enhancing top. I then eat a packet of crisps so he can watch the crisps fall into my heaving bosom and salivate imagining the salty goodness that could be his if he played his cards right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm moving to Wales

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And buying a multi-packnof kettle chips

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Depends how social I plan to be.... but usually a boiler suit. One with p*ppers, cos, y'know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hoody and leggings.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Socials get jeans and a vest type attire.. just like meeting those I know. Sooooo not glam…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Socials get jeans and a vest type attire.. just like meeting those I know. Sooooo not glam… "

You are glam in your own special way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know someone who turned up with ice cream all down their dress

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I know someone who turned up with ice cream all down their dress "

Fucking hell… I forgot about that!!!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends on the time of day and location for me as to how I dress x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Socials get jeans and a vest type attire.. just like meeting those I know. Sooooo not glam…

You are glam in your own special way. "

Very special ()

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know someone who turned up with ice cream all down their dress "

That was probably me.

I'm currently sporting a vest top with spag bol down it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know someone who turned up with ice cream all down their dress

Fucking hell… I forgot about that!!! "

You had no shame

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I know someone who turned up with ice cream all down their dress

Fucking hell… I forgot about that!!!

You had no shame "

Was a waste of quality magnums…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know someone who turned up with ice cream all down their dress

Fucking hell… I forgot about that!!!

You had no shame

Was a waste of quality magnums… "

It wasn’t on your magnums it was on your dress

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I know someone who turned up with ice cream all down their dress

Fucking hell… I forgot about that!!!

You had no shame

Was a waste of quality magnums…

It wasn’t on your magnums it was on your dress "

Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First social meet?? What's one of them when there at home? Ang on this is for the ladies oops

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like to go all out and dress as an 18th century Admiral in the Hellenic Navy. (Waxed walrus moustache optional).

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I like to go all out and dress as an 18th century Admiral in the Hellenic Navy. (Waxed walrus moustache optional)."

Social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a social in my pyjamas once, he didn't come back so maybe don't do that! However, I was super comfy so no regrets.

Otherwise, it really depends on where and what the social is.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I like to go all out and dress as an 18th century Admiral in the Hellenic Navy. (Waxed walrus moustache optional).

Social? "

As soon as my ceremonial sword comes back from the swordsmith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like wearing shirts with proper buttons down the front... somehow it makes me feel sexier

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

At the moment shorts ant t or a dress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last social was Leggings and a black figure hugging top, heeled boots and a spray of Alien Goddess perfume...it worked

Either leggins or now Autumm is coming it will be thick tights, skirt knee high boots and a turtleneck jumper.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last social was Leggings and a black figure hugging top, heeled boots and a spray of Alien Goddess perfume...it worked

Either leggins or now Autumm is coming it will be thick tights, skirt knee high boots and a turtleneck jumper. "

If Carlsberg did perfect outfits...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A bugger to plan with Blighty's weather!!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I go for whatever I feel comfortable in for what we have planned. Whether that's a dress with stockings and sexy shoes, or jeans, jumper and trainers.

Always something special underneath though. But that's for me unless I decide to share it.

I'm considering a bodystocking and corset under jeans and a jumper for my next one. Depends how I feel on the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to remember what is their weakness and adjust my outfit to fit that

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I always try to remember what is their weakness and adjust my outfit to fit that "

Does that mean you'd come dressed as a custard cream?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something casual normally but tend to “forget” my knickers…….

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Something casual normally but tend to “forget” my knickers……. "

Don't you just hate it when that happens...?!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

up a bit, right a bit...that's the spot

I dress according to the venue and activity, same as I would for going anywhere not associated with a Fab social...coffee would be smart casual, evening drinks/dinner a bit dressier, but I once had a walking social so wore leggings and walking boots.

OP, were you hoping that us ladies were all going to make your fantasy a reality and say we turn up at Costa in a flasher mac with nothing underneath?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I dress according to the venue and activity, same as I would for going anywhere not associated with a Fab social...coffee would be smart casual, evening drinks/dinner a bit dressier, but I once had a walking social so wore leggings and walking boots.

OP, were you hoping that us ladies were all going to make your fantasy a reality and say we turn up at Costa in a flasher mac with nothing underneath? "

Lily! How could you possibly say what we were all thinking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dress according to the venue and activity, same as I would for going anywhere not associated with a Fab social...coffee would be smart casual, evening drinks/dinner a bit dressier, but I once had a walking social so wore leggings and walking boots.

OP, were you hoping that us ladies were all going to make your fantasy a reality and say we turn up at Costa in a flasher mac with nothing underneath? "

Hey, leave the flasher Mac to me, jeez, what happened to flashers from the 80's they were rife!!!!

And no, my fantasies are far more normal

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

up a bit, right a bit...that's the spot


"I dress according to the venue and activity, same as I would for going anywhere not associated with a Fab social...coffee would be smart casual, evening drinks/dinner a bit dressier, but I once had a walking social so wore leggings and walking boots.

OP, were you hoping that us ladies were all going to make your fantasy a reality and say we turn up at Costa in a flasher mac with nothing underneath?

Lily! How could you possibly say what we were all thinking? "

Oops, I think someone stole my brain to typing finger filter again...they'll nick anything that's not nailed down round here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bless ya x

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