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By *bw44DD OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Afternoon everyone,

I was just wondering if it’s just me being mardy or if anyone else gets annoyed when other members send you a friend request without ever sending you a message or speaking to you.

I just find it so strange, why would you send someone a friend request without ever speaking to them?

If it’s just me then I apologise Not much annoys me but this really irritates me

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Happens all the time, I just bulk delete. I'm only friends with people who I'm considering having a social with and meeting in real life

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

It is annoying yes .

Even me , a man , gets them haha..

Had 1 the other day . Not a clue who they were so just deleted it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll go step further. At the group social a guy comes up, blurts out couple of sentences, barges in my personal space whilst I'm busy chatting to other men... then gets his phone out within a minute and asks to add me as a friend. We never even spoke on fab

No fuck thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of random friends requests...I just go through them and delete the ones I'm not interested in and message the others to check out what they are like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ignore them. If I delete them, they can send another.

I don't let it wind me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t even check it. Which works mostly, except when someone I talk to adds me and doesn’t tell me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother us, we generally just ignore that section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wait til they're offline, accept, look at their friends pics then block

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Happens a lot. We just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll go step further. At the group social a guy comes up, blurts out couple of sentences, barges in my personal space whilst I'm busy chatting to other men... then gets his phone out within a minute and asks to add me as a friend. We never even spoke on fab

No fuck thanks."

Sorry about that...My politeness goes our the window after I've taken magic mushrooms

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I never accept requests if I not spoken to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll go step further. At the group social a guy comes up, blurts out couple of sentences, barges in my personal space whilst I'm busy chatting to other men... then gets his phone out within a minute and asks to add me as a friend. We never even spoke on fab

No fuck thanks.

Sorry about that...My politeness goes our the window after I've taken magic mushrooms "

Again.. who are you?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I just ignore them. If I delete them, they can send another.

I don't let it wind me up "

This with an evil laugh

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I just ignore them, don’t even bother deleting then they can’t send you another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just ignore them. If I delete them, they can send another.

I don't let it wind me up "

This is how I deal with them too.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wait til they're offline, accept, look at their friends pics then block "

Same. I don't block though lol. I don't delete them either so its 30 days before they can send another and by then they’ve forgotten

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I just presume they want to see more pictures...nothing that would come even close to annoying me.

I don't delete them any more though...they can't send another if you just ignore the request, but they can (and many will) if you delete them.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

As i state in my profile they get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also removed all friends only pics and videos, so there’s no point in adding me now

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Friends are just that…people we are chatting to or met.

They remain where they are as others have said, they can’t send another…we’ve never accepted a random request.

Except at 3 in the morning from the wanking dead…we always accept them

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As i state in my profile they get blocked. "

I didn’t xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also removed all friends only pics and videos, so there’s no point in adding me now "
not everyone wants to use their hotlist for stalking tho ...

*Send friend request*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have hundreds of friend requests sitting there and there they shall remain. Every time I log in I have more friend requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I’d get friend requests ????????

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Chancers just hoping to see your friends only pictures. We get at least 10 a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll go step further. At the group social a guy comes up, blurts out couple of sentences, barges in my personal space whilst I'm busy chatting to other men... then gets his phone out within a minute and asks to add me as a friend. We never even spoke on fab

No fuck thanks.

Sorry about that...My politeness goes our the window after I've taken magic mushrooms

Again.. who are you? "

Not that guy that barged in

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never look x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never look x"

Please do lol xxx

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"I just wait til they're offline, accept, look at their friends pics then block "

I do the same but just delete

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By *thLincsCpleCouple
over a year ago

Barton upon Humber

Our block list is full of people that have sent Friend Invites without any messages, just proves they haven’t bothered to read our profile. Not worth getting annoyed with everything that upsets you on ‘Fab’, it would drive you bonkers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends requests full stop would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this alot but i think it’s because my photos are private and people are nosey buggers

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Anything sent on here must be met with a pro-active response to open and read.. if it’s going to offend don’t do it….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I've not met them I just ignore the request.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1


"Afternoon everyone,

I was just wondering if it’s just me being mardy or if anyone else gets annoyed when other members send you a friend request without ever sending you a message or speaking to you.

I just find it so strange, why would you send someone a friend request without ever speaking to them?

If it’s just me then I apologise Not much annoys me but this really irritates me "

I just delete. Put it in our profile that we will just delete

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