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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Are you considerate of others when/if a situation arises or do you just think of what's best for yourself?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Too considerate for my own good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends on the situation.

I'm no saint so I can usually judge when it's appropriate to consider my own needs first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always considerate of others feelings unless I feel like games or me is being played then I can be quite blunt

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Charity, whatever it may amount to, begins at home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually considerate of others to the detriment of me

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I put everybody b4 me .always try help people out even strangers just my nature x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and always put others first, wether that’s me writing in here or in life in general. I think if others usually before myself. I think that’s because I’m

Usually happy with the choice I’ve made anyway

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Are you considerate of others when/if a situation arises or do you just think of what's best for yourself? "

try to be

best if the result is win/win when possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the situation.

I will always try and see things from the other side. I’m a believer in the necessity to fill your own cup first, before you give to others, so it depends on that really (still a work in progress, but hurting yourself doesn’t benefit anyone).

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I always consider other people's feelings over my own.

Think I need to change....

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

As much as possible, they'll always the the odd time when they'll be something that's overlooked or not considered but I always look to consider others as I've expect them to consider me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I always consider other people's feelings over my own.

Think I need to change...."

It's possible to consider and take other people's feelings into account without ignoring your own.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I always consider other people's feelings over my own.

Think I need to change....

It's possible to consider and take other people's feelings into account without ignoring your own. "

I know. I just never do, maybe it's time I did x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I always consider other people's feelings over my own.

Think I need to change....

It's possible to consider and take other people's feelings into account without ignoring your own.

I know. I just never do, maybe it's time I did x"

It can be a hard habit to break

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I always consider other people's feelings over my own.

Think I need to change....

It's possible to consider and take other people's feelings into account without ignoring your own.

I know. I just never do, maybe it's time I did x

It can be a hard habit to break "

For my own good , I think I need to give it a go x

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Far to considerate for my own good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way too empathic for my own good which is why I let the last person i was with take the piss for too long. Constantly making excuses for their behaviour and trying to fix things.

Best place for ppl to be is stand up for yourself and look out for yourself but also try and be reasonable towards other ppl, their needs and situations. Hard to find that balance though

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I always consider other people's feelings over my own.

Think I need to change....

It's possible to consider and take other people's feelings into account without ignoring your own.

I know. I just never do, maybe it's time I did x

It can be a hard habit to break

For my own good , I think I need to give it a go x"

Are you not being considered or are you not making your feelings known?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always considerate of others feelings unless I feel like games or me is being played then I can be quite blunt "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to but usually get hurt xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always put others before myself, which usually turns out bad for me

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I always consider other people's feelings over my own.

Think I need to change....

It's possible to consider and take other people's feelings into account without ignoring your own.

I know. I just never do, maybe it's time I did x

It can be a hard habit to break

For my own good , I think I need to give it a go x

Are you not being considered or are you not making your feelings known? "

I'll go with the not being considered x

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By *rewersprojectMan
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Charity, whatever it may amount to, begins at home!"

And that's usually where it ends, too, in my house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to think 50/50,

I think rationally, real, with sense & somewhat engineered.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Tend to always think of others over myself, which in the long run isn't good as it gets me hurt sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tend to always think of others over myself, which in the long run isn't good as it gets me hurt sometimes "

Same xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Tend to always think of others over myself, which in the long run isn't good as it gets me hurt sometimes "

This for me too. Love you

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Myself first, I cannot help others If I am compromised, If I burn out I'm letting a lot of people down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always consider other people's feelings over my own.

Think I need to change....

It's possible to consider and take other people's feelings into account without ignoring your own. "

Absolutely this.

And you can be considerate with others, without putting your needs below theirs.

It’s about how you react and speak I think.

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By *arkhorse12345Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Of course considerate to others with golden boundary rule - never make someone else's problem yours

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Are you considerate of others when/if a situation arises or do you just think of what's best for yourself? "

I think I consider others more than myself all the time.

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By *ewiscypherMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"I always consider other people's feelings over my own.

Think I need to change....

It's possible to consider and take other people's feelings into account without ignoring your own.

Absolutely this.

And you can be considerate with others, without putting your needs below theirs.

It’s about how you react and speak I think. "

I spend my working life in negotiation, if you don't consider what the other person wants, you are unlikely to get what you want, and even if you do it won't be for long..speaking as an only child its an ability I've had to develop , it didn't come naturally, but its a better way to be as a person.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Considerate and altruistic, often affects me negatively but at least I can live with my self

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Myself first, I cannot help others If I am compromised, If I burn out I'm letting a lot of people down "

I very much agree

A case in point is my parents. If I go down so do they, it means me having to say no to some things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is only so much you can do for others. But there is plenty you can do for yourself.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I will always offer help, if it's taken or accepted is another thing

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