FabSwingers.com forum: Female hunters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you know that feeling when you see someone you like, your vision narrows to a single point and the rest of the world blurs out.

A fleeting subconscious or strongly conscious thought 'I want him' ....

Id be interested to hear from woman who act on this and who go for who they like.

And from men, whats it like when a woman comes on to you? Do you like it or does it put you on the back foot or make you uncomfortable?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Absolutely puts me off because I assume it’s a trick/scam/joke

I’ll just leg it if a girl tries it on with me because she’s obviously got terrible taste in men too

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I’ve not got very much experience of having a woman make a move on me first… but I’d love it!

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

I stopped trying years ago... I terrify them

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I love it when a woman comes on to me. It's like an invitation to play a game. I'm flattered, and it may come to nothing, but i like the excitement of not knowing where it might lead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go after who I want. But I’m pretty crap at reading signs as to whether they’re actually interested or not so often doesn’t come to anything

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

If contacted on here by female. As others have said. I think scam etc. Yes may message with them, but also checking profile verifications. See if can get any info from them.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I've always loved to hunt...quite a few men are taken aback by a direct woman though

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've no issue making the first move on here if I see a profile I like .Worst they can do is ignore my message and be not interested.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I embrace it, this notion that men should always make the first move is outdated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive not had anyone on fab approach me, but on other sites I have. Not a problem, quite a turn on, especially when they don't back out of a social.

In person it happens quite a bit. In the work place is awkward, in a shop or while out and about is nice to catch someone eyeing me up.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I like it when I'm approached, it's refreshing from what usually is the norm of a guy having to make the first move

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I'd be stunned if a woman approached me - and then highly amused

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do you know that feeling when you see someone you like, your vision narrows to a single point and the rest of the world blurs out.

A fleeting subconscious or strongly conscious thought 'I want him' ....

Id be interested to hear from woman who act on this and who go for who they like.

And from men, whats it like when a woman comes on to you? Do you like it or does it put you on the back foot or make you uncomfortable?

If I ever initiate then it is only in an environment where I know that I am safe to do it and that I will not be judged so predominantly in FemDom environment.

I have sent messages via FS to profiles that seemed interesting but not in any kind of "hunting" mode, just to show interest. Some responded and some blocked me.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t hunt in the sense of fancying anyone from just photos and a bio. But I’ll get to know those I think would be my kind of human on a friendly level. We wanted equality so we should make equal effort in getting to know folk.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It’s nice; flattering. Making others feel good is quite a gift

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you know that feeling when you see someone you like, your vision narrows to a single point and the rest of the world blurs out.

A fleeting subconscious or strongly conscious thought 'I want him' ....

Id be interested to hear from woman who act on this and who go for who they like.

And from men, whats it like when a woman comes on to you? Do you like it or does it put you on the back foot or make you uncomfortable?

If I ever initiate then it is only in an environment where I know that I am safe to do it and that I will not be judged so predominantly in FemDom environment.

I have sent messages via FS to profiles that seemed interesting but not in any kind of "hunting" mode, just to show interest. Some responded and some blocked me."

Interesting you say a FemDom environment as people say Women rule the roost here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s nice; flattering. Making others feel good is quite a gift

Well thats how I see it, (not as if im giving a gift) but im open about showing admiration lets say and I do think its nice to compliment!

However it can get varying reactions as seen from the responses above

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do you know that feeling when you see someone you like, your vision narrows to a single point and the rest of the world blurs out.

A fleeting subconscious or strongly conscious thought 'I want him' ....

Id be interested to hear from woman who act on this and who go for who they like.

And from men, whats it like when a woman comes on to you? Do you like it or does it put you on the back foot or make you uncomfortable?

If I ever initiate then it is only in an environment where I know that I am safe to do it and that I will not be judged so predominantly in FemDom environment.

I have sent messages via FS to profiles that seemed interesting but not in any kind of "hunting" mode, just to show interest. Some responded and some blocked me.

Interesting you say a FemDom environment as people say Women rule the roost here!

Not that I noticed that so particularly

I do feel a bit more free to write first on this platform but not because I know that I will not be judged but more because I know that there is less chance of being judged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's worked out pretty well for me, considering my age and how I look

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By *teve 69Man
over a year ago

leicester

It’s a shame but it’s never happen

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"It's worked out pretty well for me, considering my age and how I look

You poor old git. Lol

And there's nothing wrong with the way you look. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's worked out pretty well for me, considering my age and how I look

eh you look happy and gorgeous - thats attractive at any age!

Some men say they like confident assertive women, but i was thinking ( and posts above confirm) that a woman actually initiating the come on doesnt often sit well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am more than happy for a woman to make it known that she has hunted me down like a wild elephant only for my ivory and then discarded for the vultures to strip the rest of rotting corpse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am more than happy for a woman to make it known that she has hunted me down like a wild elephant only for my ivory and then discarded for the vultures to strip the rest of rotting corpse "

lol

Think of it more like a friendly wrestle where she thinks she has the upper hand but you are letting her win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am more than happy for a woman to make it known that she has hunted me down like a wild elephant only for my ivory and then discarded for the vultures to strip the rest of rotting corpse

lol

Think of it more like a friendly wrestle where she thinks she has the upper hand but you are letting her win

Well if you put it like that, bring it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like a story a fabber has written, or a post on one of the forums, I'll always message to let them know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issues of if I fancy them. Tho shit will escalate as prey turns into predator.

I'm less great at letting ppl down gently if they are not for me... Something to learn !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more than happy to be messaged first.

Maybe you hurt the ego of the 'Alpha' male. Any called big daddy Dom or similar??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty rubbish at making the first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty rubbish at making the first move

I'm not sure I believe that .....

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By *onegal82Man
over a year ago

letterkenny/Belfast

I feel if ladies see something they like they should go for it. And that's on here and life. Whst u got to lose. Pretty likely they will like u back qnd if not u aint loosing anything. So just go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men aren't secure or confident enough to cope with a confident woman making the first move. Bring it on I say!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm pretty rubbish at making the first move

You're probably too busy fighting the men off.

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By *r_magic_tongueMan
over a year ago

Hull

In my experience on here, it's very rare that a lady will make the 1st move. That's why, when it happens, it can be a massive buzz. You do have to check they're genuine though, as have had a few fakes contact me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy to be “hunted”, it’s flattering and I like confident women but I think a lot of men are intimidated by them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very happy to be hunted by anyone.

But it's generally with someone holding a gun

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes I hunt for what I want, taking my time to find someone who sparks a curiosity in me and then adding to the compatability, knowing that at any one time this path may be brought to a halt and the reward when you find someone who you can spend time with and the hours just roll away is immense

I find my confidence and direct path is also a great filter and I get approached less often which gives me time to hunt

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I enjoy C hunting and also don’t understand women not hunting more. Why wade through 95% of your rubbish in messages when you can just go looking for exactly who you want

We both enjoy receiving messages from a woman now. Confidence is a sexy trait…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a huntress, a woman that has the confidence and approach to snare her man. I’m the same so if I’m in the mood to be chased and draw out the flirting I’ll play the game.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

As every single conversation I've had on here since the beginning of 2020 has been initiated by women it does happen.

As to whether or not it makes me uncomfortable that would depend on the approach.

If it's obvious they haven't read my profile the conversation won't last very long.

If they aren't capable of holding a non sexual conversation and just want to blow smoke, once again the conversation won't last long.

If they give the impression they are hunting and are used to getting what they want then yes you guessed it, the conversation won't last very long.

Approach as an equal who is genuinely interested in me and not just what they think I can do for them and there might be a different outcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's worked out pretty well for me, considering my age and how I look

eh you look happy and gorgeous - thats attractive at any age!

Some men say they like confident assertive women, but i was thinking ( and posts above confirm) that a woman actually initiating the come on doesnt often sit well. "

I like younger guys, they don't seem to mind at all

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Only time women hunt me is usually with a spear or a knife

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm not sure why but I don't like the term or thought of "hunting" someone in the slightest. That aside, I do message people first if I'm interested in them but I don't want to feel like I'm actively having to pursue them, I prefer a more balanced approach where we're both as interested as the other. I just happened to be the one who made that first step.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Do you know that feeling when you see someone you like, your vision narrows to a single point and the rest of the world blurs out.

A fleeting subconscious or strongly conscious thought 'I want him' ....

Id be interested to hear from woman who act on this and who go for who they like.

And from men, whats it like when a woman comes on to you? Do you like it or does it put you on the back foot or make you uncomfortable?

Well my wife certainly acts on that feeling with other women but not men but only in a party / club situation. If I hear the phrase "I'd climb her like a fucking tree" I know whats about to happen and just get out her way lol.

As for women coming onto me. Love it when I know it's happening but fact is, I'm oblivious to it most of the time unless it's whilst on an actual meet for example. Outside of that I just assume a lady is being friendly or chatty with me. It's only my wife who points out otherwise later lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm oblivious to it most of the time unless it's whilst on an actual meet for example. Outside of that I just assume a lady is being friendly or chatty with me.

yeah, Ive heard this before. and Ive found myself at times being very blunt to convey my interest lol!

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

A good number of my relationships were the result of being "hunted" or at least the woman making the first moves. Including my marriage.

I must look like prey!

Or I'm so crap at picking up signals women get fed up, and just tell me they fancy me!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

A little bit of what you fancy does you good. I wouldn't be put of by a woman hunting me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that feeling. But what would you like to hear ?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm not built to run fast and I'm not exactly stealth-like, so if you hunt me, it won't be difficult.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"I enjoy C hunting and also don’t understand women not hunting more. Why wade through 95% of your rubbish in messages when you can just go looking for exactly who you want

We both enjoy receiving messages from a woman now. Confidence is a sexy trait…

Exactly this ... I learnt to avoid the influx of messages from random hookups and block everyone... so I connect with what already matches what I want... no bad reaction to date

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know that feeling. But what would you like to hear ?

Just that Im not an anomaly lol!!!

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

I've experienced it. It takes me aback a bit but I like it.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If they are what I'm looking for and I them, then I have no hesitation to send them a message. The worst that can happen is the message is deleted...the best that can happen is we meet and see what happens x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I'm not sure why but I don't like the term or thought of "hunting" someone in the slightest. That aside, I do message people first if I'm interested in them but I don't want to feel like I'm actively having to pursue them, I prefer a more balanced approach where we're both as interested as the other. I just happened to be the one who made that first step.

You beat me to it, Meli! I don't think of it in terms of hunting. If I like someone and I think we may be compatible then I will let them know, for sure. I don't go in for game playing.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know that feeling. But what would you like to hear ?

Just that Im not an anomaly lol!!! "

If strong, outspoken and decisive women are meant to be anomaly then ill happily join that march.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very direct and have zero issue with making the first move.

I can also handle rejection though which helps.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Incredibly lazy so this is great and to be fair when ladies have in the past been so flattered they have always got a very positive response.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yes I’m a hunter

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Im a direct person, confident and unafraid to go after what I want in any aspect of my life, I don’t change from that mindset when it comes to the opposite/same sex- like everything your never going to be everyone’s cup of tea but there’s nothing worse than not putting yourself out there and missing a potential opportunity through nothing other than irrational thoughts or fears xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I could be wrong, but I think you huntresses myst be using Nerf darts because I'm not feeling a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm rubbish at reading a womans intentions unless they make it blatantly obvious. I'm not a confident person generally so just presume they are being nice to me.

Having said that, I do like it when it happens even if it does hit me for six for a bit

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I’m rubbish at all sorts of social cues so unless someone directly says something I usually miss the signs

It’s nice being in my little bubble but I sometimes wonder if I missed something nice

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I could be wrong, but I think you huntresses must be using Nerf darts because I'm not feeling a thing.

Pretty sure one or must have come for you maybe had the aim of a stormtrooper.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I could be wrong, but I think you huntresses must be using Nerf darts because I'm not feeling a thing.

Pretty sure one or must have come for you maybe had the aim of a stormtrooper.

Then they need more training.

My weapon is always available.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You beat me to it, Meli! I don't think of it in terms of hunting. If I like someone and I think we may be compatible then I will let them know, for sure. I don't go in for game playing.

Mrs TMN x"

ah i was just being lighthearted in my 'wrestling' comments above.

I dont go in for game playing either. Im very direct and decisive.

But i have experienced this narrowed vision, full focus interest on a number of occasions in real life, its quite powerful.

(How I act on it is respectful in terms of showing an interest in the person and seeing if its mutual)

I was curious to see if its common among women, and how men feel about it

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Absolutely puts me off because I assume it’s a trick/scam/joke

I’ll just leg it if a girl tries it on with me because she’s obviously got terrible taste in men too "

^^^^ This, 1000%

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

A woman who has the sexual confidence in herself to come onto a guy and make the first moves is a huge turn on and a rare treat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always loved to hunt...quite a few men are taken aback by a direct woman though

Same

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