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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport

How do you tell a chap at work to spray his armpits . Nice chap but weather not helping his pits what do you say without offending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say mate do you need to borrow my deodorant you smelly git

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, no filter me. Im like roy walker used to be on catchphrase " just say what you see " makes me very popular in work

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"You say mate do you need to borrow my deodorant you smelly git "
front him with itb

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Just waft a bunch of lavender foppish style under yer nose when you speak to him saying

“Gadzooks, tis a hideous aroma in the aire this day, wouldn’t you say my dear fellow?”

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Just waft a bunch of lavender foppish style under yer nose when you speak to him saying

“Gadzooks, tis a hideous aroma in the aire this day, wouldn’t you say my dear fellow?”"
Gadzooks thank you dear chap

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Haha…. Get one of the nice women or someone in HSE to do it, it’s actually their job.

Then Buy him lynx 48 hr sports , white can, it’s impossible to sweat with that on and you need wire wool in the shower to get it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say it privately, polite but direct. In the long run you're doing him a favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Who it’s hot today I’m kicking up a tight sweat” spray some deodorant and say “here you go mate”

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Take him to one side and tell him politely that just in case he is not aware the heat is causing a bad case of BO and that he might want to carry a can of deodorant with him.

It better to be open and honest with him rather than dropping subtle hints which may or may not hit the mark and cause more embarrassment.

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Say it privately, polite but direct. In the long run you're doing him a favour."

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"“Who it’s hot today I’m kicking up a tight sweat” spray some deodorant and say “here you go mate”"

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Take him to one side and tell him politely that just in case he is not aware the heat is causing a bad case of BO and that he might want to carry a can of deodorant with him.

It better to be open and honest with him rather than dropping subtle hints which may or may not hit the mark and cause more embarrassment. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably needs to change to a different deodorant or better still an anti persperant. So you could simply discuss that you have discovered a marvelous one that the lady's appear to like

Then he might toddle off and purchase one for himself. .

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It's a tricky one, which needs handling sensitively.

Depending on how well you know him you could say something along the lines of "There's no easy way to say this mate but you're a bit stinky today.Must be this hot weather! Have you tried blah blah deoderant, that's what I use and it's pretty good"

If that doesnt work you can follow it up with "Here's that deoderant I told you about, it's on buy one get one free at the moment".

Good luck OP!

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Is this tread serious......in this day and age x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Choose between saying nothing and putting up with it or speaking to him privately.

What's his home situation, is he fully well?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also this is a job for your boss rather than his colleagues I reckon

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Had it done to me once. Unfairly I thought?

At the time I was helping to look after my mum with dementia and a few loads of washing were not done properly. It was humiliating so in all fairness handle it kindly.

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"It's a tricky one, which needs handling sensitively.

Depending on how well you know him you could say something along the lines of "There's no easy way to say this mate but you're a bit stinky today.Must be this hot weather! Have you tried blah blah deoderant, that's what I use and it's pretty good"

If that doesnt work you can follow it up with "Here's that deoderant I told you about, it's on buy one get one free at the moment".

Good luck OP!"

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Is this tread serious......in this day and age x"
it is

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Choose between saying nothing and putting up with it or speaking to him privately.

What's his home situation, is he fully well?"
fit and healthy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Had it done to me once. Unfairly I thought?

At the time I was helping to look after my mum with dementia and a few loads of washing were not done properly. It was humiliating so in all fairness handle it kindly."

Yep I'd find out his home circumstances first

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Had it done to me once. Unfairly I thought?

At the time I was helping to look after my mum with dementia and a few loads of washing were not done properly. It was humiliating so in all fairness handle it kindly."
would never be nasty not in my nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worked with a girl years ago who had this problem and one day one of the other girls said something to the supervisor. We found out that the girl said it was a medical condition and that she did use deodorant. Cue a lot of embarrassment x

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"I worked with a girl years ago who had this problem and one day one of the other girls said something to the supervisor. We found out that the girl said it was a medical condition and that she did use deodorant. Cue a lot of embarrassment x"
Yes I Get that adwell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had this in an office I used to work in.

The guy in question was really nice and we’d all worked together for years so knew each other really well. He just started to pong for some strange reason. It got to the point where people who sat near him were putting air fresheners under their desk.

Someone eventually made an official complaint saying they could not work with him smelling.

Our boss decided to have a quiet friendly word. This did not go down very well and the guy went mental.

He had a chat with me about it as he was fairly upset and said he showers everyday.

I suggested he see his GP.

Problem solved. It turned out he had some sort of medical condition that was causing it.

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"We had this in an office I used to work in.

The guy in question was really nice and we’d all worked together for years so knew each other really well. He just started to pong for some strange reason. It got to the point where people who sat near him were putting air fresheners under their desk.

Someone eventually made an official complaint saying they could not work with him smelling.

Our boss decided to have a quiet friendly word. This did not go down very well and the guy went mental.

He had a chat with me about it as he was fairly upset and said he showers everyday.

I suggested he see his GP.

Problem solved. It turned out he had some sort of medical condition that was causing it. "
Yes as you say don't jump to conclusions

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I work in a office and a few years ago a can of deodorant was left on the person’s desk whilst he was at lunch so he had no idea who left it there but may well have guess it was the person sitting next to him.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"Haha…. Get someone in HSE to do it, it’s actually their job.

"

This or speak to a manager about

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Haha…. Get someone in HSE to do it, it’s actually their job.

This or speak to a manager about"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if smelling of bo is his lifestyle choice and your unintentionally judging him for living his life how he wants to. got to remember your not allowed to judge anyone on anything anymore, so based on that I would leave him alone and probably show support to him by you stopping with the sprays and getting your stink on with him.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

It's a difficult situation. In my old workplace HR dealt with a situation with one lady. She had hormonal problems which caused it. More than once it was addressed. Then we found out she wasn't washing her clothes on a hot enough wash (to save energy) to clean the bacteria left in close. Once one of the ladies I worked with explained that the odor was her clothes she changed her washing powder and started using a hotter wash. Problem solved

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"It's a difficult situation. In my old workplace HR dealt with a situation with one lady. She had hormonal problems which caused it. More than once it was addressed. Then we found out she wasn't washing her clothes on a hot enough wash (to save energy) to clean the bacteria left in close. Once one of the ladies I worked with explained that the odor was her clothes she changed her washing powder and started using a hotter wash. Problem solved "

*Clothes not close

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"It's a difficult situation. In my old workplace HR dealt with a situation with one lady. She had hormonal problems which caused it. More than once it was addressed. Then we found out she wasn't washing her clothes on a hot enough wash (to save energy) to clean the bacteria left in close. Once one of the ladies I worked with explained that the odor was her clothes she changed her washing powder and started using a hotter wash. Problem solved

*Clothes not close "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy him some deodorant and leave it on his desk.

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By *ukeM8519Man
over a year ago

Sligo

Do you think it’s sweat from not washing for days or do you think the poor fella is showering every morning and just sweats really bad at work?

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Get a peg and clip it onto your nose or wear a face mask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You say mate do you need to borrow my deodorant you smelly git "

Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rewrite this post on bookface and tag him

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Do you think it’s sweat from not washing for days or do you think the poor fella is showering every morning and just sweats really bad at work?

"
in fitness the latter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd want to know if it was me. You could fob it off to your manager and let him deal with it

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By *areToShareCouple
over a year ago

Bingham


"Also this is a job for your boss rather than his colleagues I reckon"

It certainly is not! The guy has a right to not use deodorant..he may have allergies or simply not wish to put chemicals on his body.

A case 18 months ago at work was similar...the guy in question was offended at being told by a HR colleague that he had an offensive aroma..4 months off work due to anxiety and a £24,000 cheque off his employer thanks to his lawyer!

In this world of snowflakes you have to remember, people choose to be offended now.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"I worked with a girl years ago who had this problem and one day one of the other girls said something to the supervisor. We found out that the girl said it was a medical condition and that she did use deodorant. Cue a lot of embarrassment x"

Exactly - a lifelong friend has a condition like that.

Some people absolutely can’t help it. He gets out the shower at it’s there.

Probably the fittest, healthiest guy I know, too.

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