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4play over sex

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By *entlemenpip OP   Man
over a year ago

not far

This is a question for the ladies more than guys (but I be surprised if a few guys agree)

So I have a true love of 4 play on a woman to the point where I'd be happy to no have sex but just tease and play with her for hours with the goal for her to orgasm several time (yes it's a kink don't shame)

So ladies would you meet with a guy who does this?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No, I'd get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. My best relationship was with someone who had ed so foreplay was our main pleasure

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By *entlemenpip OP   Man
over a year ago

not far


"No, I'd get bored."

How so

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By *n4MotionMan
over a year ago

Essex


"This is a question for the ladies more than guys (but I be surprised if a few guys agree)

So I have a true love of 4 play on a woman to the point where I'd be happy to no have sex but just tease and play with her for hours with the goal for her to orgasm several time (yes it's a kink don't shame)

So ladies would you meet with a guy who does this? "

Im with you on this love to please a woman find them spots that make her shudder happy to just do this all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet a couple about 5 to 6 years ago and that’s all the woman hafe was in to

All she wanted was to sit and get oral as she watched hubby bang away

Was a fun night never the less

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Mr is a complete giver, and would be more than happy to please me all night! But that doesn’t sit well with me, as I’m not the lay back and receive type, I love to give too! So we definitely mix it up

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't just have the starter, when I'm hungry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as I love foreplay it doesn’t complete everything for me. There has to be much more than that for a ‘fulfilling’ meet

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It wouldn't be my thing at all. I prefer mutual pleasure on a meet. And foreplay for me is just the beginning. Plus it would get boring as well I would think after a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hope for hours of both foreplay and full intercourse

Personally I need both

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This is a question for the ladies more than guys (but I be surprised if a few guys agree)

So I have a true love of 4 play on a woman to the point where I'd be happy to no have sex but just tease and play with her for hours with the goal for her to orgasm several time (yes it's a kink don't shame)

So ladies would you meet with a guy who does this? "

I'd replace "foreplay on" with "foreplay with" for it to appeal to me. We're soft swing anyway so yes, foreplay only very much appeals to me. I want it to be reciprocal though.

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London

I think foreplay is the wrong word- it can be the main course for women who orgasm primarily by oral. I am also sensual literally everywhere so it is a real pleasure to have time taken over my body Vs men who are too focused on getting in there. I love it all but above all I love reciprocity. Too much one way or the other isn’t mutual and does eventually get boring x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes but I practice in the art of tantra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want it all

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nooooo. Definitely not

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Erm maybe. If he was at least mediocre at it, why not? Dicking isn't all there is to sex (although I do appreciate it a lot).

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By *entlemenpip OP   Man
over a year ago

not far

Some people seem to think I ment it was a one way street not my intention I enjoy being pleasured as much as the next person

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We don’t consider it foreplay, its just sensory fun. If it leads to penile intercourse great, if its other types of penetration great.

As long as people know upfront whats likely to happen its all good.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I do love foreplay, I’ve had a few partners who couldn’t actually get an erection due to medical issues but kissing, fingering, oral, toys, anything else we could think of always made for a good session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I adore foreplay but and some point I’m going to want to be fucked - excuse the bluntness x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a bad kink to have. I have met a few women over the years that love receiving oral and did not like returning the favour or not into giving oral to guys. Just was with someone recently that thought she was being greedy, felt horrible about it and explained that there were guys out there that are more turned on giving rather than receiving. She relaxed and it was the best few hours I have had in quite some time.

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