FabSwingers.com forum: First messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you send out as a first message to profiles that catch your fancy?

Do you find yourself typing something then cringing at how bad it sounds when you read it back?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We would focus on why we think we might be compatible.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

It really all depends on what I read on their profile or status and saw in their photos as I try to make each message unique and focused on them.

Apart from that, I'd usually introduce myself (very quickly, as I don't want to repeat my profile which is there to read if they are at all interested) and say what I think I could offer.

I don't send too many though tbh, and recieve much less replies, so I have no idea if it works. I'm just happy I do get some replies.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Either something funny or making fun of them in a light hearted way

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I haven't sent a first contact message in 18 months but when I did it was always tailored to something in their profile that stood out. That might not necessarily be the most obvious thing but it showed I had read and understood the profile.

These days my free time is limited so I don't want to waste people's time by starting lots of new conversations.

I put all my effort into my profile and forum posts and all conversations during those 18 months have been initiated by others who appreciate that.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I copy and paste "How"s you? Wanna fuck?" and send a friend request. Works every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I copy and paste "How"s you? Wanna fuck?" and send a friend request. Works every time.

I haven't sent one

In box is busy enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you send out as a first message to profiles that catch your fancy?

Do you find yourself typing something then cringing at how bad it sounds when you read it back?

If it’s making you cringe why would you send it.

Hey babe, have we got a kharmic chi love thang going on cause every time I look at your photos I get a swelling in my pants that I can’t keep down even with a vice, you know whatta I’m sayin’ ?!

Al the best to you both and kind regards Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello I am natalie my knickers are all ready at my ankles come blast me ha ha I need my bed in that odd sort off mood

Emmm on a serious note

Hello I am natalie I am nice awwsome person I was looking over your profile and I liked ( insert text about they profile)

Also had a little look at you pics very ( insert compliment about them )

I thought (insert pic date ) was good loved the dress shoes or what ever in the pic

Anyway I not take up to much more off your time

Just wondering if you would like to chat a little can be about anything like make up clothes or hobbies and see how things go

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

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I read their profile and ask about a shared interest or a picture that I particularly liked

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